It means that we can see a person’s true feelings and motivations by looking into their eyes. 

I’m glad to help, my brother. You know, if he’s telling you things like that, then perhaps he senses that you’re a faggot and he’s hinting at something. I’m just guessing here. It might be worth it to submit to him in a general and see how he responds. 

Anyway, thank you for the follow up. Regardless of what you decide, I hope it goes well.

I’ve said it approximately five million times, but I guess another time won’t hurt. Straight Men use faggots as a form of dominance. Men crave worship, and seeing a faggot servicing him gives him the worship his ego craves. It isn’t about sexual attraction. When a straight Man gets hard and uses a faggot, it’s because the Man is turned on by the worshipful service he receives from the faggot, not the faggot itself.

Very nice, brother!

Ever thought about washing your cock? I’m just kidding!

Many Men have very strong scents around their cock and balls. It’s usually indicative of increased testosterone production and a high sex drive. 

And yes, faggots can absolutely sense this. The pheromones emitted from this part of the Male body drives faggots wild and induces submissiveness. Fags get a whiff of this smell and come running, ready to serve.

That’s a tough one. 

First of all, congratulations on pulling yourself out of that lifestyle! It can be a very scary and dangerous world while serving as a prostitute. I’m very glad you were able to overcome the lure of drugs and easy money! It takes a lot of inner strength.

As far as telling your boyfriend – look, at some point you’ll need to be honest and open with him. You need to TRUST him. I’m always confounded by people who are in relationships with people that they love, but they refuse to be honest about important things. Your boyfriend loves YOU. And if he truly loves you, then he will listen with an open heart and forgive you for any troubling moments. 

Being in a relationship isn’t only about fucking like rabbits or goofing around. It’s also about being honest and sharing difficult times and forgiving one another. If your boyfriend can’t do that, then you need to move on. But at least you’ll be free of carrying around any guilt or shame.

Very good observation. Yes, that is one of the defining characteristics of a true faggot – the willingness to leave whatever they’re doing in order to service their Owners. There were many times I would receive a call or message from an Alpha, and I would leave a party/bar/wherever in order to serve. It’s a powerful motivator to put an Alpha’s needs ahead of our own.

I never have. In fact, I’ve never heard of it. But I looked it up, and it’s intriguing. Thank you!

Like I’ve said, Sir, it’s highly unlikely that you would ever get an STD from oral sex with a fag. But your plan is probably a good one, just to make sure. Your concern is also quite valid – faggots are insatiable cock whores. But I assure you that there are loyal faggots out there eager to only serve one Man. Perhaps finding an older faggot might be the answer, since older faggots usually have less time and a reduced sex drive. I hope that helps, Sir.

Your friend is at fault because he’s “too nice”? That seems like an unfair thing to say, don’t you think?

If you start serving him, the friendship will be lost. Friendship and service are not compatible unless you become a Dom/sub couple. And I’m not sure your friend sounds particularly dominant, either. He may not be the type of Man to get into owning you. But I don’t know him.

If you’re willing to risk the friendship, then I say go for it. Regardless, you need to change your attitude about him. He isn’t doing anything except treating you with love and affection. He isn’t behaving like anything other than a very good Man. You’re just too blind to see it.

Why are you disgusted? Men have the feet of a god, powerful and strong. You should feel privileged that he allowed you to worship him that way! 

It’s possible if the faggot has an infection in its mouth (gonorrhea, herpes and syphilis can be transmitted this way), but you would be able to see the infection on or in its mouth. It is relatively rare that STD’s are orally transmitted from a faggot to a Man. In oral encounters, the faggot is in much more danger than the Man.

No, it isn’t weird. People are often fascinated by things that are different from their own experiences.

Violent throatfucking can do that. The human throat can only handle so much punishment. Make sure you keep your mouth very clean in case you get a tear in your mouth … infections can hurt your opportunities for service. 

Wow, that’s wonderful! I’m sure you have brightened up his world, while also gaining benefits yourself. Many young Men dismiss the value of older Men … I’m glad you’re smarter than that! Congratulations!

Very good experience, my brother! Thank you for sharing! I think it’s wonderful that you’re providing this service for him. Many Men (particularly Alphas) feel insecure as they age. They feel they’ve lost a few steps, or aren’t as attractive anymore. Service like yours allows them to feel young and desired again. I’m very proud of you!

I presume there will come a day when I will be too old to appeal to Alphas sexually, but I could serve domestically. There is also the gloryhole option. I really have no idea what the future holds.

Very good suggestions, Sir. Thank you.

Extended eye contact, overly-enthusiastic smiling, hovering, offering to do things for the Alpha, stuff like that.

Thank you, Sir! I think many Men progress the way you have, slowly incorporating the use of fags over time. I think that’s wise, because this gives the Man time to figure out his likes/dislikes and how it fits into the overall plan of his life. 

It’s also very true that a Man is able to spot faggots easier as he gains more experience. Fags aren’t typically very shy about their needs to serve a Man, but a lot of Men overlook the signs. I’m glad you are becoming more adept at noticing this, Sir.

Thank you again for sharing your experience!

You know, rather than carry on an anonymous conversation with me on my blog, it might make more sense to contact me either on Kik (normalsubmissive) or email (fagsworshipstraights@yahoo.com). 

I’m glad to hear this! It sounds like you got along well! Nice work, brother!

I’m so sorry that happened. Don’t feel bad – this kind of thing can occasionally happen. This person is obviously a moron who doesn’t understand the workings of the human body. You’re better off without him.

That would be a very good idea, brother! There are always avenues for service! Stay useful!

No Alpha should expect total surrender from a faggot on Day #1. There needs to be a period of time in which both the Alpha and the fag come to understand limitations, needs, demands, and desires. They must come to some level of appreciation and respect (yes, respect) first. None of that can happen on the first day, and any Alpha that demands such surrender so quickly might be someone to reconsider as an Owner.

Thank you very much for this perspective, Sir! It is very true – a Man will probably never be worshiped as well by anyone as he is by a faggot. Men are almost universally stunned by how much faggots adore their masculinity and their cocks. When a Man wants to be worshiped – and many of them crave it – they need to find a faggot.

Thank you again, Sir! 

No, not really.

He isn’t really a faggot, Sir. He’s a time waster. There are a lot of those out there, unfortunately, making it more difficult for true faggots to actually serve.

I appreciate your concern, Sir, and thank you for your advice. I assure you I’ve been gay since as far back as I can remember. It had nothing to do with feelings of inadequacy with women. I simply am not attracted to women at all. I worship Men, Sir.

I’m very glad that you are finding success with women and enjoying all of the pussy you can handle, Sir!

It might turn you on to see a faggot’s hard dick, Sir, but that doesn’t mean the faggot necessarily likes it. Unlike your cock, my “dick” (it barely qualifies) is nothing but a distraction and serves no purpose, Sir. 

Not impossible, Sir. I absolutely love serving as a domestic faggot, and I know that other faggots agree with me. Eventually the faggot will want to service your cock (of course), but you’ll just need to be firm with it.

It certainly does with some Alphas. Age will take away prized physical features if one gives up. Life sometimes beats people down and alters their personality and outlook. Some Alphas were the kings of their high school or college, but twenty years later they’re morbidly obese, balding, divorced, broke, or whatever else. This is why it is so important for Alphas to appreciate what Nature has given to them, and not take it for granted. 

I’ve never found definitive proof that event ever happened. It’s an interesting rock legend, though.

I am sure Hendrix was Alpha, but I always pegged Morrison as a potential Alpha. Drugs really destroyed both of them, so it’s impossible to say. If Morrison did that, it was probably more of a worshipful gesture.

the-silent-alpha:

After getting a few messages from confused subs I think I should share my view on the matter.

Not every Dom is an Alpha.
And yes, the way one looks matters here.

If you’re fat, ugly, poor, uneducated and have a small dick – you’re not an Alpha. You can have a dominant personality, you can absolutely be a Dom and you’ll find subs that will want to serve you. But you’re no Alpha.
An Alpha stands out. Attitude is very important, of course, but it’s not enough. The Alpha is succesful in what he does. He takes care of himself. He turns heads on the street. He is educated, smart, independent and has good taste. He has stamina and his fuck is not easy to forget. He is goodlooking. He is charming. And no, his dick cannot be small.

Doms come in all kinds of shapes and sizes. Alphas are better than most by definition.

Being an Alpha is pretty much like being a King. If you have to tell people you are one, you’re probably not.

An interesting perspective on the subject from an Alpha. While I fundamentally disagree with the part about penis size, the rest of it is forcefully argued.

Nice experience. It’s critical to remember that outward appearances do not define the Man. How many fags would’ve looked past this obvious Alpha, dismissing him as “too short” or “too skinny”? I bet a lot of them would. 

Because you paid attention, you were able to service this Alpha. I’m glad to hear that!

It works ALL THE TIME.

Very good job, my brother! Yes, that is eye-opening. I think fags that whine about not having an Alpha to serve should examine their own behaviors and attitudes first.

Not weird. More like annoyed.

Why don’t you tell him THIS. I’m sure he’d love to beat the fuck out of you.

Your Alpha is acting this way because he values your service. SHAME ON HIM, RIGHT? He wasn’t able to READ YOUR MIND and discover VIA TELEPATHY that you’re a degradation faggot. He made the CRITICAL MISTAKE of treating you like a human being that he values as his possession.

I’m so very sorry this Alpha OFFENDED you with his caring demeanor. Why don’t you go down to the bathhouse and find a sadistic, abusive Master to make you feel like a real piece of trash, and let this Alpha find a true servant who (a) can serve without worrying only about themselves, and (b) can appreciate a deep, multifaceted Alpha who isn’t afraid to express his feelings.

Goddamn.   

Like … DUHHHHH.

I’m flattered that you continue to follow me, brother.

Before I answer your question, I’d like to say that I’m saddened somewhat by the fact that you’ve spent all of this time in hiding. It seems like you’ve barely explored your interests in life. Sex and romance are beautiful and personal expressions that everyone should experience to the full. Don’t spend your life in hiding.

I haven’t been serving because of overwhelming obligations to work and other personal situations. I tried to juggle service with all of that, and it caused nothing but problems. So I put service on hold for now.

Service brings me joy. My Syrian friend brings me endless amounts of joy. My family and friends bring me joy. Being helpful to others brings me joy. Simple pleasures.

Oh my, Sir. 

I have never encountered this before, Sir. Some fags feel a sense of self loathing and like to be punished and degraded, but I can’t be sure that this is the same thing. It sounds like he is really hurting, but I don’t understand why. You’re reaching out to him and trying to support him. It isn’t like you rejected him. I would try to keep reaching out and see if his condition improves. If not, he might need professional help.

I’m very proud of you for how you’ve handled this, Sir. It is trouble you didn’t want, but you are giving up yourself to help your friend. Your actions are very commendable, Sir. Thank you.

That’s very amusing, but it’s nearly an impossibility. Pussy disgusts me, I despise receiving oral sex, and there is no way I could ever fuck something. I wouldn’t make a very good Alpha.

He’s been doing very well, thank you for asking. He suffers a bit from PTSD after the hell he went through, but he is slowly recovering. A safe environment, lush, welcoming weather, and constant access to simple pleasures like water, electricity, and internet have changed his life and his outlook. Everything is different now, better. He is the most remarkable person I’ve ever met in my life, and I love him with all of my heart.

We will be meeting very soon. If work will cooperate, I will be flying out to meet him. And I will spend the entire time hugging and kissing him and crying until I have no tears left in my body.  

I haven’t sent any messages to either one in many months. I’m allowing Texas Alpha to go on with his life after the fag situation blew up in his face and he cut off everybody. As for California Alpha, he seemed to be less interested in talking over time, and I felt like I was pulling teeth, so I stopped texting him. I miss both for different reasons, but I particularly miss Texas Alpha (and his adorable fag).

I’ve never asked little Guillaume for a picture, but that’s never a priority for me. His Masters describe him as “sunny” and “radiant” and “joyful.” His Masters are straight, so I’m sure Guillaume is quite attractive.

I do think Guillaume would be quite embarrassed by this question, but I’m going to send it to him anyway just because I love him and love talking to him.

It looks like you’re owned now, brother! I would say you’re pretty lucky!

LOL yes, Sir. Thank you for that!

I mean, I guess there isn’t much of a difference technically other than one is dressed in more feminine clothes. 

(continued) I only played once. Only one game and I did well. There was even a story in the high school paper that I made my dream come true. I won’t kill myself, sorry about saying I wanted to die, but it’s hard enough being gay in high school and being normal. The coach made me take off my pads there on the field. I was so embarrassed. Friends are supposed to support each other and they bailed on me. I don’t know what to do. I lived for this chance, I love football. I just had to tell someone, thanks.

I’m sorry this happened to you. I’m not sure if you’re implying that they turned against you because you’re gay, but that’s how I’m taking it. But if that is the reason, then FUCK THEM. You obviously earned a spot with your hard work and determination. Their idiotic prejudice blinds them to the truth about team sports – it’s about winning. 

Continue to train and grow stronger. Show them the power you have inside. And remember, there’s always college football waiting. Wouldn’t it be something if they saw you starring on a college football team?

Just keep in mind that you are not defined by this situation. You can be anything you want to be. Small people with small minds cannot stop you, and cannot tear you down.

Hello,
Thank you for your advice i read your blog daily. In my yourh i was a gay Alpha. I used fags to please me. However in my older age I have become a Gloryhole fag. I love cock and cum while pleasing the men that need my service. Is it possible i was a true Alpha that turned into a fag?

This is incredibly rare. I’m not really sure what to make of this. Our tastes can change over time, but this is a pretty radical shift. Just keep pursuing what makes you happy, and stop worrying about labels.

I completely agree.

You will need to overcome your shyness somehow, because Alphas aren’t going to randomly show up at your door. You might be better off sticking to Craigslist, Grindr, Recon, and other sites like those.  

It’s usually caused by diet. A high fruit diet will cause the semen to sweeten. There can be metabolic changes that cause this too, but mainly it’s due to diet.

You go up to him and confess to him that you want to serve him. Have something ready that he can read if he’s confused by this.

Thank you, Sir. I think you really captured the difference between a faggot’s attitude and the attitude of females. For a faggot, sucking dick is the fulfillment of their purpose and everything it wants. Women, however, suck dick with a different end result in mind.

Thank you, Sir.

I’ve leaked precum, but I’ve never had a full blown orgasm. First of all, I never touch myself while getting fucked. But also, I’m so focused on pleasing the Man that I tend to forget myself, if that makes any sense.

I’m sure there are celebrities who use fags. They must be careful about how they do it, obviously, because no celebrity wants that portion of their life exposed. If the allegations are true, then I guess Usher gets his dick sucked by fags. I could see Bieber doing it. Same with James Franco. But it’s all speculation, clearly. 

Even though I’ve experienced some Alphas that I might consider to be dominant artists, ultimately it is simply about pure instinct, not art.

I’m heartbroken to hear this, my little brother. So awful.

Your family is disgusting and completely wrong. You don’t need them. In fact, you’re better off without that kind of hate in your life.

Yes, you will need to suspend your studies for now and get yourself established. Once that happens, you can return to your studies by receiving financial assistance. Many people work full time jobs and take classes at night in order to receive their degrees. You can do it too. 

This is not the end for you, but rather, the beginning. You’re now free of the hateful people in your life, and you can focus on positive goals and positive relationships. You will need to work hard, but ultimately you will be victorious. I have faith in you! 

My little brother, I’m so very glad you opened up to him and told him your feelings. That wasn’t exactly what I recommended LOL but you obviously have an AMAZING Alpha who truly wants to know your feelings while serving him. I’m so happy! Relish every moment you have with this incredible Alpha, and give him everything!

Thank you Sir. It can be a problem with gays when someone like you doesn’t match up with the preconceived ideas common in that community. It’s very frustrating. 

First of all, there are many fags who would love to serve a Man like you, Sir. You’ve already experienced the joys of being worshiped like a god with your last boyfriend, and I promise there are plenty of others ready to give you the worship you deserve, Sir.

I tend to think that most preconceptions can be overcome by personality. If a white person meets a black Man dressed in “thug” attire, the white person’s first impression is that the black Man is dangerous and not to be trusted. But what if that black Man then began speaking very intelligently and thoughtfully? The white person would be forced to admit that his preconceptions based on appearance were totally wrong. 

It’s the same with you, Sir. Fags see you and think you’re a submissive twink. But if you speak forcefully and command them as the leader you are, they will be forced to admit that you are Alpha. Let them know with your eye contact and body language and the words you use that they are owned by you. That you are superior to them.

I’m sorry that you are dealing with this prejudice, Sir. Hopefully you will own one or more fags soon and receive the worship you were born to have.

It’s okay to have deep affection for the Alpha you serve. It’s natural. I’ve never said a fag can’t have that affection for an Alpha. What I have cautioned against is falling in love with your Alpha. When that happens, the fag begins to lose sight of its purpose and starts expecting romance or an elevated relationship status. Jealousy rears its ugly head, and everything unravels.

This Alpha has been amazing for you, and I’m sure you have been amazing for him. Serve him with all of the joy you feel in your heart, and he will stand by you and protect you.

I’ve talked plenty about psycho Alphas, too. And they are definitely out there.

Unlike some others, I don’t believe a faggot should be subjected to violence or abuse. Any faggots who feel they are in danger or are being hurt beyond what they can handle need to leave immediately. A true Alpha doesn’t act like that to those who serve him.

Move?

I get a lot of questions like this one, and I’m sorry to say there isn’t a magic formula to solve this problem. Get on Grindr and see if there is anybody in the vicinity. Check the nearest cities. It isn’t going to be easy in your current circumstance unless you start trying something new. 

Normal in comparison to what? Going to a job every day to make money is itself abnormal, but we do it because it’s the nature of the world today.

Porn stars have a variety of reasons why they get into the industry. Some are trying to work their way through college. Some don’t have any skills to survive in the work force. Some want to use their porn work to subsidize a lavish lifestyle. It really depends on each person.

Porn work isn’t for everybody, and there are a lot of tragic stories that come from that industry. But I wouldn’t judge anybody harshly for their decision to perform in it.

It sounds to me like your Alpha has a mental problem. THAT’S how he gets turned on?? He can’t get turned on unless he sees a faggot locked in a cage sleeping in its own excrement? Sorry, but that isn’t normal.

You might be surprised at the Men around you who might be willing to own you. Might be time to look into it.

None of these guys really does anything for me. Randy Spears was really before my time, James Deen is okay I guess, Erik Everhard and Voo Doo, no thanks. I could get an interest in Johnny Sims if the mood strikes me … he’s pretty dominant.

I tend to like straight performers like Erick Lewis. I also really love Bruce Venture (thanks @pleasure-poke!).

You do see some females suck dick like a faggot in some porn, but of course they’re being paid for it and are desperate to make a name for themselves. I don’t think there are many women out there doing it just for the love of dick like faggots do. 

Maybe some Alphas can chime in below.

This made me laugh … thank you Sir.

I’m not really into orgy-like situations, so I don’t know how much of an interest I’d have in that type of scenario (almost certainly not a truck stop). But I am a very eager cocksucker, and that might tip the scales depending on the situation. 

Well, you should respect his limits. That doesn’t mean he won’t get curious over time if you continue to favor him, but there is no guarantee. Meanwhile, you might waste valuable time pursuing a dead end while getting more attached to him. I’d move on.

No, not all Alphas realize they are Alpha. For many, there is a gradual discovery process that sometimes takes many years. Often it is the work of fags like you that help them understand the truth about their existence. 

What kind of question is this?

Yes, let me lay out my schedule of activities day by day to some anonymous person on the internet. Are you for real?

I’m not a fan, and here’s why – it presupposes that CLOTHES define submission. Would wearing a dress or a pair of women’s panties mean that I’m somehow more submissive? Of course not.

If a Man uses a sissy, does he really receive the same power exchange as he does when he’s with a male? What does he get from dominating a sissy who has already willingly emasculated himself?

I’d really rather not imagine the cock of Abraham Lincoln, thankyouverymuch.

Yes, absolutely. Sex is controlled by the Man. Penetration itself is an act of dominant aggression, not to mention rutting and planting his seed. Sex rejuvenates a Man’s sense of entitlement and his place in the hierarchy. 

I’m not sure how I’m supposed to answer this. I guess I probably would, simply because I really like a wide variety of Men. But there is no way to accurately answer that.

I’m not sure I would consider a jockstrap to be a “costume.” I’ve never liked the leather scene, and most “play” scenes don’t interest me. But, for whatever reason, I kinda think pup play is hot. I think it’s because the people involved are really trying to BE dogs. Also, pup play porn features pretty aggressive sex.

Ultimately I think every fag needs to decide the direction of their own life. There aren’t any set rules, here. Some fags build successful businesses and accomplish other great things, and also serve Men. Other fags have fewer ambitions, and want to devote themselves solely to the service of Men. Whatever works.

Yes, probably. A penis CAN enter the anus. I know there are some precious angels out there who think their asshole is different from everybody else’s asshole, but really, they’re basically the same.

Use a lot of lube. Get on top to adjust yourself. And RELAX.

Oh Sir, what a brave admission! Thank you for sharing this. When we are young, we often react in irrational ways because we are confused and under constant assault by new feelings and experiences. It can be especially tough for a young Man to handle being the object of gay lust. Sometimes young Men react the way you did, Sir. It’s pretty typical.

Sir, have you ever thought about finding this fag on social media? I bet this fag would be grateful to hear from you and understand who you are today.

I hope you do, Sir. But regardless, thank you for sharing your experience.

I’m sorry, Sir. I’m proud of you for your honest attempt to help him. Noble straight Men like you light our world with your integrity and kindness. I can see why your friend loves you so much.

I’m sure your friend needs some time. You gave him the opportunity to purge his emotions, and now he needs to reorganize his emotions. But don’t leave him alone too long. He’s probably terrified of losing you forever. A simple, friendly text can make a world of difference.

Thank you for your example, Sir. Our world is a better place because of Men like you.

Oh, I am so sorry. I know the confusion and terror and guilt you’re feeling right now. After I was raped, I remember collapsing in the bathroom, head on the toilet, and just sobbing uncontrollably. It’s a terrible experience.

At the time I didn’t have a friend as incredible as the straight friend who has been helping you. I’m very glad you confided in him! So many male rape victims do what I did and never speak about it. You are very brave to be able to tell your friend, and I’m proud of you. I’m also proud of this beautiful friend who obviously loves you very much.

I know things feel out of control right now, but I promise that you can control the outcome. This doesn’t need to be something that controls the rest of your life. Our lives are filled with experiences good and bad. This one was very bad, but like anything it can be pushed out of the way. Focus on positives in your life. A rape can’t destroy you or your self worth unless you allow it. Don’t let that event define your life.

My thoughts are with you and your friend. Please be strong and safe.

If you called him out about being gay, then he is probably shocked and embarrassed and more than a little afraid about losing you or other friends. 

Getting over a crush or a secret love can be very difficult. I probably pined for my first Alpha for two years, devastated that I lost the entire relationship. Your friend is scared of losing you. He’s probably terrified that his feelings are going to scare you away. I’ve felt that panic before, and it isn’t fun.

I don’t know how much time has passed, but you might want to reach out and try to have a normal conversation with him. That might not be easy for your friend, but it’s really the only way to salvage the friendship.

Masturbation is a good way to control your urge to serve. Conversely, avoiding masturbation will greatly enhance a fag’s need to serve. Perhaps while you’re focused on college you should masturbate more often.

Most non-submissive straight Men do respond to submission, but not necessarily in the same ways. Some Men are naturally very dominant and respond enthusiastically to submission. Other Men are much less dominant, and almost become embarrassed or apologetic when faced with submission. There is a wide spectrum of dominance in straight Men.

Be submissive with him. Offer to do chores for him (grass cutting, auto detailing, whatever) and see what kind of reaction you get. Be ready to tell him you are gay and willing to take care of whatever he needs.