I’ve been talking to a boy that was very surprised that “I’m so nice to stangers on the internet even though I’m an Alpha”. I just showed him basic decency and talked to him. I didn’t do anything else. But him praising me for not being an asshole reminded me of a few other boys that I came in contact with. Those boys said the same thing. And it got me thinking…
I think it became acceptable to think that an Alpha, a Dom or a Top is also an asshole. At some point people starting putting confidence, power, strength, assertiveness or just plain masculinity with being an asshole in the same pot. And these are all different things. Maybe that’s why there are subs out there sending $25 through PayPal to an idiot with dirty socks and thinking they’ve served an Alpha. Maybe that’s why so many of you see your bullies as your Alphas. Maybe that’s why vanilla gay couples feel that the “Top or Bottom?” question is intrusive and innapropriate, because they are still ashamed of the way they have sex.
Some of you may not be ready to hear this, but : YOUR BULLY IS NOT YOUR SUPERIOR. A true Alpha is not an asshole. Yes, he may have qualities you lack as a sub. Yes, he may be more masculine, more assertive, more dominant or have a bigger dick. Yes, he may want to degrade you or humiliate you, he may slap you or piss in your face. But an Alpha doesn’t do this because he hates you, he doesn’t do this because he hates himself. He does this for completely different reasons, none of them being hate. If he hates you, you need to run away from him. If he hates himself, he’s too weak for you.
I may never completely understand the submissive mindset, because I’m just not wired like that. But I do know one thing : there are enough Alphas worthy of service in this world and if the man you’re reaching out to is being an asshole – he’s not one. Move on. Serve a man that deserves and appreciates you as an inferior.
A sub’s job and purpose is to improve the life of Alphas. If you’re serving an asshole, you’re not serving an Alpha. You’re serving a bully. Period!
Even with my advanced degree in Clinical Psychology, I couldn’t have said this better.
They aren’t humble the way a faggot might be, but there are Alphas who understand that they should treat inferior people with respect and dignity. These are the Alphas who are easy to love.
Yes, I generally agree with that statement, particularly if someone has been cunted. When someone is cunted, there is an extreme shift in outlook that is,in my opinion, permanent.
Once a Man has been fucked, I don’t know how easy it would be to return to a “normal” life of having sex with females. He will always crave the experience of getting fucked, and will likely still seek it out.
So yes, I do think there’s no going back after getting fucked.
This is a big problem, Sir, particularly with exceptional Alphas. It’s easy to understand. A faggot puts a lot of effort into serving his Alpha properly. It’s very difficult to maintain control of one’s emotions under such circumstances.
I think much of this is trial and error, Sir. I guarantee you that there are faggots out there willing to serve you properly and not involve their emotions. Just continue to lay the ground rules to them and enforce them as best as you can.
I suppose you could just look at it this way: these failed faggots are still serving you (until they flake out), so you’re receiving pleasure and worship. It’s rough going through multiple faggots, but there aren’t many easy answers, Sir.
Plenty of Alphas refuse fag service. It doesn’t mean they are less Alpha. It simply means that they are humble and don’t want people serving them.
However, he is being generous by allowing you to cook for him. Like your last line said, be grateful for this privilege. Remember, this isn’t about your wants, but his.
A faggot is a servant of Men. A faggot’s only concern is the satisfaction of Men, and not its own desires.
A gay bottom is still an autonomous Man, but he simply prefers the bottom position sexually. Gay bottoms do seek their own pleasure during sex, and they are not servants of Men, but generally equal with their Male counterparts.
Sir, I think it’s nice that you’re considering this issue so closely. However, I do think you’re overthinking this.
Just remember this: you are Alpha. You are part of an elite class of Men who were born to rule the world and own everything in it. Who can judge you or second guess you? NOBODY.
This faggot wants to serve you. He wants to give you everything you demand or want. And you want this faggot to do these things for you. So it’s simple – take control of this faggot and make him yours. Allow him to serve you.
If you decide that this faggot is your boyfriend, there is nothing shameful or “less masculine” about that. The faggot will still be serving you, and you will still be pleased. You’ll still be Alpha, and the faggot will still be your property. It will simply be happening inside the confines of a mutually beneficial and exclusive relationship.
I commend you for thinking so seriously about this, Sir! Your faggot is very fortunate to serve a great Alpha like you!
That is an incredible feeling! It makes you feel gently appreciated. Such actions by Men encourage cocksuckers to work harder and to be more available to use.
I must admit that, for me, I like when a Man grabs my head and face fucks me even better. There is something about the greed, the aggression, the control that turns me on.
You can’t escape it – this is why you exist. But you need to handle priorities, too. Set aside time for dick sucking, but coordinate it with necessary pursuits like a job, paying bills, cleaning, etc. However, I admire your hunger and determination to service cock!
Anybody who goes to a gloryhole thinking a FEMALE will be on the other side needs to get their brain examined by a professional. I’d wager that 100% of all gloryholes are built and serviced by faggots or gay bottoms.
So I guess my point in saying this is to tell you that you are NOT wrong at all for keeping your identity secret. You’re servicing this guy in a GLORYHOLE; the entire point of it is to keep your identity secret.
Anyway, don’t bother telling this guy anything. You’re providing a discreet service to him. And since you did a good job of servicing him, I’m sure he will come back. Just continue to do what you’re doing. Nice work, brother!
Your situation might be a little different given that you’re dealing with the scars of a childhood molestation. I wonder if there is some sort of therapy that can help you come to grips with this trauma.
But yeah, you need to be firm with these guys who want to touch you or try to please you. All they are doing is causing you to relive painful memories and deal with uncomfortable emotions.
Lovely memory! Yes, accepting the truth about ourselves and living it makes a world of difference in our demeanor. This little fag understood what he was born to be, embraced it, and he was happier because of it. I wish more fags would follow this little fag’s example.
You really need to push back on this guy. Get really sexual with him, tell him how tight boipussy is and that he shouldn’t knock it until he tries it. Tell him fags suck dick better than girls. Let’s see how he likes it.
He does this because he’s Alpha, and all Alphas have a need to dominate and breed others. They especially love using fags like you because you’re very submissive, and also because they love to see another “male” submit to their power.
And as far as “risking it all,” why do people gamble with money they cannot afford to lose? For many Men, that risk makes it even more exciting.
I hope your educated father comes to his senses. Contacting the police (especially when you’re doing nothing wrong) could absolutely ruin your life. Your father needs to remember love first.
I know you said I didn’t need to publish this, but I had to reach out to you. My thoughts are with you, little brother!
If this is harming you in some way (physically or emotionally), then you should talk to him about this. If he’s unwilling to understand and comply, then it might be time to leave him.
Ultimately, a faggot is still a human being. There can be a place for abusive practices, but they should be consensual as much as possible.
I’m a faggot. I’m probably not going to find many Male bodies unattractive. Like most faggots, I think muscle is exciting to feel and watch. But I do think guys who can’t put their arms down or open their legs without the jaws of life have probably gone too far.
It definitely does affect me subconsciously, Sir. In college I knew these two weightlifting friends. The guy I initially got to know was definitely Alpha, and I was interested in serving him. Then one day we were at a coffee shop eating sandwiches when his lifting buddy showed up. Even though they were both Alpha, this buddy was electrifying. His gaze was so confident and piercing; his power was undeniable.
Almost instantly I forgot about serving the first Alpha and focused my attentions on the second. It was just natural instinct. It took about three or four months to get to serve him (just blowjobs), but it was worth it. Later he told me that he knew I wanted his dick from the moment he sat down at the coffee shop. SUCH AN ALPHA!
I do come back to confidence. Yes, there are confident Men who are not Alphas, but it’s a different kind of confidence. Alphas look through people, into people, and they can spot submissive people who are intimidated by their confidence. Alphas enjoy that reaction very much. Regular Men do not approach others in such a predatory manner.
There are approximately 3.5 billion Men on the planet. There are tens of millions (or more) of gay Men out there. You CAN meet gay guys if you put yourself out there.
But just keep this in mind – a relationship isn’t going to make you a complete person. You do that in your own time BY YOURSELF. Humans are meant to be alone sometimes, and these can be valuable periods of self-reflection. Don’t be afraid of being alone … be afraid of being in a bad relationship.
Just don’t be afraid of stretching in whatever direction your heart wants to go. Be open and free. Be giving. Love will find you when you’re ready.
I believe it is. First the person must realize they are gay. Then they need to come to terms with that reality and how it fits into their life. Then they must assess their relationships, and determine who can be supportive and positive. Then they need to try and come out to those people.
Of course it is! Real life love involves all of the messiness and ugliness of human existence – the bad moods, nasty shits, ex-lovers, crying kids, and a million other things. Hollywood might touch on some of that, but no romance on the silver screen can ever touch real-life romance.
I would say that any Man who shows a rabid interest in a faggot’s cock or asks to suck it is probably not totally straight. It also doesn’t mean they’re faggots. Men are generally fascinated by huge dicks just because huge dicks ARE fascinating. So I wouldn’t judge these Men too harshly.
However, as a faggot myself I totally understand your predicament. It’s very uncomfortable for faggots to have attention paid to our useless equipment. For me, it’s mostly been grounds to discontinue service. Maybe you feel the same way.
He might be gay. He also just might have a serious, non-sexual interest in the male form (there are heterosexual artists who specialize in this). However, the lack of a girlfriend strongly suggests that your little brother is gay.
Calm down. The chances that you’ve acquired something from this encounter are relatively slim. After 14 days. go get an HIV test. If you’d like, see your doctor about getting full bloodwork done for things like Hep C and other pathogens. I’m sure you’re alright.
But let this be a warning to all of you young fags and bottoms out there. Yes, it’s hot to be bred by some anonymous guy, but remember: THE REST OF YOUR LIFE CAN CHANGE IN A HEARTBEAT. What is the point of enjoying that momentary rush, only to worry for weeks, or perhaps for the rest of your life?
A bareback experience doesn’t usually just fall from the sky. It takes two people giving consent for it to happen. Protect yourself and your body!
Over the past few years, I have served a wonderful Sir as his meal prep boy. As I understand it, this is a somewhat novel expression of dominant-submissive (Dom-sub) power dynamics. I have looked around online for others in similar submissive positions, but I have come up empty-handed. I have found much enjoyment from serving in this way, and I would like to let others know about my experience.
Much like other forms of submission, a meal prep boy performs a service for his Dominant. Just as the name implies, a meal prep boy performs all the tasks related to preparing weekly meals for his Sir. This involves all the steps related to meal prepping, including procurement of groceries, cooking, and cleanup. The task may seem arduous, but all worthwhile forms of submission involve the submissive willing giving his energy to the Dominant. And with meal prep, there are lasting benefits for both the sub and the Dom.
Being a meal prep boy comes with an important responsibility: the nutrition of your Dom. You are fueling his body’s growth directly through your cooking. Seeing the results of your cooking through the growth of your Dom is exhilarating and encouraging. Of course, the ability to help your Dom grow comes with the responsibility to ensure his nutritional needs are met. This means accounting for all the macros and micros needed for muscle growth as well as any other concerns specific to your Dom (allergies, special diet, taste preference, etc.). All of this requires careful though to plan out tasty meals week after week, and of course the willpower to execute on these ideas.
Meal prepping as a role in a kink relationship requires a level of mental effort and physical care not typically associated with other expressions of kink. As a sub, you will have to think and plan far beyond the mental requirements of a pain pig or other more passive forms of submission. Nevertheless, the rewards, in my opinion, are far greater. Besides the previously stated manifestation of your work in the form of bigger muscles, meal prepping is a useful skill on its own. It promotes thoughtful planning, nutritional learning, and hands-on cooking experience. It’s like taking a cooking course where the instructor is a sexy bodybuilder. And of course, all the world of kink is open to the sub when their meal prep duties are done. Coupled with, say, a growth regimen for the sub, you and your Dom can grow together: physically, emotionally, and sexually.
Meal prepping can be one of many hats worn by a boy, or his sole, sacred duty. It takes positive effort from the submissive, but the rewards for you and your Dom are profound.
This. Is. Amazing.
Sounds like something every Alpha should have. Boys in Vegas feel free to apply.
My goodness, what an incredible post, @mealprepboy! Weightlifters and bodybuilders absolutely need this vital service. Thank you for sharing this wonderful advice with the rest of us!
Your reaction to the beating is very interesting, and something I’ve heard from faggots who love physical violence. It’s the same with Alphas. I think this kind of scenario reverts us to our animal side, where aggression is not only pleasurable but also necessary.
Yes it is possible. Alphas aren’t so concerned with a faggot’s appearance. If you’re clean, presentable, and submissive, they are likely to use you.
But I also always tell people that they should adjust their expectations. If we are not model-pretty, then we shouldn’t expect to fuck models. I’d love to suck Chris Evans, but we live in two separate planes of existence and it isn’t ever going to happen. And that’s okay. Work within your own realm, and you will find greater success.
It’s always a bad idea to judge any Man based on his profession. This is especially true of Alphas, who sometimes pursue interests and professions that seem at odds with their Alpha nature.
Like cock size, an Alpha’s profession doesn’t define his Alphahood.
I’m very glad that you’re serving such a powerful Alpha!
No, fuck boys are shallow guys who are only into sexual encounters. They’re usually good looking guys, which is how they lure girls into bed. Then, of course, they dump the girls and break their hearts.
You are absolutely right about cock size. I too have served Men with large dicks who were not Alphas, and I’ve served Alphas with average dicks. The only thing that remained consistent is the fact that Alphas are born with their Alpha tendencies already established. They didn’t need to hit puberty and get a big dick to realize they were Alpha – they just were Alphas. Like you said, “you know it when you see it.” Thank you very much for your insight!
Gosh, what a tough question. I don’t know if I’ve ever encountered an Alpha that I didn’t find attractive. Of course, I have a pretty broad taste in Men.
Men are definitely guilty of a double standard with this issue. They want to have sex with as many women as they can, but the girls they date (or marry) should be as pure as freshly-fallen snow. It really is an unfair expectation, especially in this day and age.
I also think Men view sluts like they view cum rags; they’re useful in the moment, but afterward they want nothing to do with it anymore.
If you want to be respected and cared for by other Men, then you need to stop “hooking up” with guys and get serious. I’m not even sure how you can have your heart broken by a fuck boy hook up.
That’s a very interesting perspective, something I haven’t considered before.
Personally, I think the discrepancy arises from the nature of women versus Men. A straight Alpha must constantly fight a female’s lesser, more particular sex drive, so using faggots (who are always willing) makes things easier.
But gay Alphas have an ocean of faggots willing to serve them, so why would they seek out female attention when they can get what they want already?
Hello, I am a faggot from India. I have a alpha master but he keeps me very thirsty(sexually). He visits me once or twice a month and give me very little time (1-2 hours to one night). He is not straight.he likes to fuck guys who look manly or hunk.
What can I do so he will fuck me or use me mor
This is a problem because it’s obvious this Alpha has a rotation of faggots and other males he uses. The good news is that you are part of that rotation, which is, in a way, a compliment for you.
Perhaps there are ways to make yourself more valuable to him. Can you offer laundry service? Can you cook? Can you offer cleaning services? These are just a few ways you can possibly get deeper into his life. Go the extra mile to differentiate yourself from the other faggots serving him.
Very nice! This is the exact kind of behavior I encourage in all Alphas. TAKE WHAT IS YOURS. There isn’t any reason to play any games. Faggots want to be taken like this!
Congratulations on this experience, my brother! Hopefully this is something upon which you can build a service arrangement!
And, of course, as a Man you aren’t able to wait until the faggot returns from vacation. I would suggest finding some faggot on Craigslist or Grindr in order to temporarily satisfy your lusts, Sir. Men should not be denied.
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Be careful not to project your own feelings on the life your uncle lived. Some people have the “gift of singlehood” and prefer to be single and alone. Perhaps your uncle wasn’t sad about living alone. I personally love being single.
But if that kind of life isn’t for you, then start making changes. Coming out of the closet would be a great start. Mingle with people. Make yourself available and appealing to date.
You have the power to make any kind of life you want. Don’t waste any more precious time. Your life is happening RIGHT NOW. Get involved with it and turn it into something you can cherish when you’re older.
I understand why a faggot might give money to a “gym rat” who looks hot, but a lot of these so-called “Alphas” are not even close to the real thing when you scratch below the surface. Many of them look like trailer park trash, they’re out of shape, and obviously not living “the good life” as they claim. A lazy ass showing off his fat feet online insults every true Alpha when he tries to claim that title for himself.
Alphas aren’t completely fearless or impervious to pain or humiliation. He’s scared because he probably figures that his wife will destroy his life if she finds out. Very few women are as confident and secure as this amazing wife.
Your Alpha is taking extraordinary steps to maintain a situation with you. Don’t second guess it … just serve him properly.
Yes, absolutely. Like you said, it isn’t romantic. Rather, it’s more like an acknowledgement of position. I’ve looked up into a Man’s eyes and I could almost see his ego being fueled by the act. It is very powerful, non-verbal communication between a faggot and a Man.
“In his just-released What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire journalist Daniel Bergner suggests that when it comes to acknowledging just how much women lust, we’ve passed the point of no return. Bergner profiles the work of a series of sexologists, all of whom have, after a series of fascinating studies with animal and human subjects, come to what is essentially the same conclusion. Women want sex just as much as men do, and this drive is "not, for the most part, sparked or sustained by emotional intimacy and safety.” When it comes to the craving for sexual variety, the research Bergner assembles suggests that women may be “even less well-suited for monogamy than men."
"Bergner’s work puts what may be the last nail in the coffin of the old consensus that women use sex as a means to get something else they really want, such as enduring monogamous emotional intimacy and the goods and safety that come in marriage with a protector and provider. In her review, Salon’s normally hyperbole-averse Tracy Clark-Flory was beside herself: "This book should be read by every woman on earth,” she writes; “the implications are huge.”“
Okay. Scholarly publications can paint any kind of picture they like about female sexuality. They can try to convince people that women are ravenous sex fiends who are even more promiscuous than Men. But what does actual human experience tell us about the female sex drive (as opposed to polling)? I think we know the answer.
First of all, I commend you for having such an open mind. Many women do not understand the needs of their Men or have the open mind and self confidence to allow this in their marriage … but you do! You truly are a wonder!
Feminism grew out of a belief that all humans are equal and the same. With just a quick glance at the world we can see this is absolute bullshit. Men are not equal. Women are not equal. And Men and women are certainly not equal. Nor should they be in terms of society or socially. Men and women have unique characteristics and advantages. To wipe away those unique qualities in favor of a homogeneous society is, in my opinion, dangerous and misguided.
But many feminists are nursing anger and frustration over these natural differences. They hate the position Men have in society, and resent the fact that they are, in some ways, shut out of the things Men can do.
But smart women like you accept the natural order. You understand that the natural order doesn’t take away your unique qualities, but rather it enhances these things about you.
No doubt your submissive and thoughtful view of your Alpha husband’s needs has caused your marriage to blossom. It was probably why this Superior Man wanted to have you by his side. I am very proud of how you’ve handled everything.
That fear of being labeled gay is a huge one. Another is simply the lack of natural sexual attraction. But once a straight Man experiences the skill of faggots and the excitement and power that comes from such a dominant/submissive arrangement, they are usually hooked.
Healthy Men don’t get tired of sex until they get into their fifties or later.Men are sexual machines, the engine that keeps the human race stocked. If sex were left up to women, the human race wouldn’t have reached a third generation.
Everybody one earth who works and plays on the internet should be concerned. Trump would love nothing more than to be able to throttle internet sites that oppose him, and that’s just one dangerous example of what could happen with this idea.
The internet is democracy defined. Trump is completely opposed to freedom and democracy. This is going to end up as one of the defining battles in this nation’s history. We cannot let corporate America or dictatorial monsters get control of the internet.
I know you didn’t, my friend. Nobody chooses to be gay.
Your comment about “no sexual fulfillment” struck me funny. Gay Men statistically have much more sex than straight Men. So either you’re too withdrawn to seek sexual fulfillment, or you just aren’t trying. I’m sure there are Men who would love to fuck you or be fucked by you.
But when we are depressed, we often fall into a void of self-pity and self-doubt. I’m not saying that is what is happening here, but it does sound that way on the surface.Those feelings you have are compounded by the reaction of your parents. I curse every parent who turns their back on their child when they are most vulnerable. I’m very sorry they did that to you.
You are obviously a sensitive and caring person. You are worthwhile to others. Your life has meaning. You have things to contribute to this world. You can find happiness and peace as a gay Man.
Don’t give up on yourself. If you can describe your feelings so succinctly as you did in your message, then you have the skills to reach out to others and make connections. Don’t be afraid. We are all simply moving through life and trying to make the best life we can with the cards we’re dealt. You can do it, too.
If you need to talk, you can write to me on Kik: normalsubmissive
You probably need to ease him into physical contact by offering him a massage of some sort (giving him a back massage while straddling him is a nice way to induce body contact). Offering him other services (like taking him out to eat, etc.) might help him look at you more like a servant and not his friend.
But keep in mind – he may not really want to do this, either. Guys often find things hot that they would probably never do in real life. Try a few things and see how he responds. But if he doesn’t respond, then you should really back off or you’re going to lose the friendship altogether.
Thank you for sharing this experience, my brother! As representatives of the best of Mankind, true Alphas should be disposed to show kindness and care to inferior people when the need arises. The so-called Alphas who are abusive and show little concern for their servants aren’t Men worth serving.
You are serving a great Alpha! He deserves to be worshiped!
My glory hole. And so it seems I am part designer and part architect. But, in truth, it is by default. The resounding credit goes to my friend, who listened intently to my story and my admission one night two years ago, and said without judgement. “We have to build it for you”. The top photo is what an arriving guest sees. The frame below, a beautiful penis has poked through for attention. I could make up details about who this was. My wonderful truth is that I don’t remember.
I don’t know if faggot service would stop these Men from harassing women. These kinds of Men are excited by the power aspect and they like to see how far they can push the limits. I’m not sure using faggots would change this intrinsic problem.
Besides, what faggot is going to service Charlie Rose?
I don’t think you should make a huge declaration to him that he owns you. He already understands that you’re his faggot because he’s using you. Don’t push too much on him.
If you’ve been following me for a while, then you should already know my answer to this question. Be brave and offer some service to an Alpha. Get on Craigslist and either look for Alphas or post an ad offering yourself. Get creative.
Yes, Sir, being dick drunk will cause faggots to go wild and almost lose their minds. You’ll notice that the behavior really took off once the faggot swallowed your cum. An Alpha’s cum contains powerful hormones that heighten the submissiveness of those who receive it. It’s likely that your potent cum drove the faggot crazy.
Like I said before, I hope you will give this enthusiastic faggot another chance, Sir.
