My alpha will become a dad soon, what should I do?
Buy him a cigar and praise him for being such a virile Alpha.
My alpha will become a dad soon, what should I do?
Buy him a cigar and praise him for being such a virile Alpha.
I have a girl who has been “helping” me. We are both 22. She is very pretty and has lots of guy friends. She has told them she is a virgin, but she is willing to blow them. But she doesnt want them watching. So they sit and she blindfolds them. and then she kneels next to me and seems to get off on watching me suck them. Some of the men are our age, one is 33, two are men in their 40s. She is like a master friend to me, as she will say she has a new cock for me, and I come running. Is this okay?
Interesting. Has any straight Man ever seen a clip from BaitBus?? They never seem to be suspicious of this possibility whenever a girl asks to put a blindfold on them.
As it stands, she makes a pretty good wingperson for you! It sounds like she’s keeping you well fed! As long as these guys don’t find out what’s really happening, I see nothing wrong with it.
Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock 😉
Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.
#1 – Be able to host
#2 – Break your gag reflex by practicing with a banana or a dildo.
#3 – Never use your hands, unless told to
#4 – Look him in the eyes when his cock is down your throat.
#5 – Learn to listen and observe non-verbal cues that tell you how to suck him better
#6 – Pay attention to his balls as well.
#7 – Buy some knees pads so you don’t need to take a break
#8 – When he is cumming, keep sucking him all the way through until his orgasm ends.
#9 – Always swallow, unless he decides to blow it some other way, in which case, let him.
#10 – Keep his cock in your mouth after he has come, and let it get soft while he comes down from his orgasm. He might fall asleep with his cock in your mouth, let him.
#11 – When he is done cumming, your are done. Never expect him to reciprocate in any way.
#12 – Strive to make your mouth a replacement for masturbation. Many guys would much rather cum down your throat than jerk off.
#13 – Try to make note of when he usually contacts you. And the frequency of when he does, so you can make sure you are available when he wants to use you. When his balls are full, he’s not interested in what else you have going on in your life.
#14 – If he touches his nipples while you are sucking him, you should reach up and offer to work them with your hands for him.
#15 – If he lifts his legs back while you are sucking him, that often means he would like to get rimmed as well, and your should do that for him.
#16 – When you are rimming him, don’t stop until he is finished enjoying it, which can be over an hour sometimes. Get used to that.
#17 – Never touch your cock when you are sucking him, unless he tells you to.
#18 – Always provide amyl (poppers) if they enjoy using them. Allow him to use the poppers as much as he likes, and never use them yourself unless he puts the bottle under your nose. Never reach for them and never ask for them. There is nothing worse than a cock sucker that constantly stops sucking to sniff more poppers. Let him decide how much you get, and when.
#19 – Always provide porn from him to enjoy, and get the kind of porn he likes to watch.
#20 – When he is not using you, do not hassle him or bug him. At the very most, you can periodically let him know your availability, but never expect him to respond unless he wants to, when he wants to. And when he doesn’t feel like using your mouth, leave him alone to enjoy the rest of his life.
Here is Trumpism.
Desperate people in desperate situations make desperate decisions. What would any of us do to reach safety and freedom?
This father and daughter were afraid. They had nowhere to go. They were turned away at a port of entry, but they couldn’t go back. So they took a chance, and lost.
And America lost, too.
My alpha straight friend and I have been in pretty flirty situations, but we’ve never done anything. Is there anything I can show him or tell him to persuade him to fuck me?
One of the easiest ways to get intimate in a sexual way is to submit to his feet. Offer him a foot massage, kiss them, offer to give him a pedicure. This often triggers an Alpha’s natural dominance.
Another option is to kneel before him and sincerely explain to him that you want to be his faggot, that you want to serve him.
Must be brave and bold to break this cycle of joking that kills the potential of service.
Being the only white fag in a Muslim area is such a blessing. I used to hate Muslims, their brown skin, beards. But I realised being a racist fag will starve my hole of cum. So I went out and found myself a Muslim man at the gym, 40, bodybuilder, and a massive stud. He has 16 kids his wife doesn’t know about with white girls🤣. He was so amazing and dominant. If racists sucked Muslim cock they won’t be racist anymore.
Wow, you served a VIRILE Muslim Alpha! I’m glad you took the risk!
I met a guy who told me he likes to fuck girls but get fucked by guys, is this something you’ve encountered before?
I’ve heard of guys TRYING to pull that off. It doesn’t work. In my opinion, you can’t take a dick up your ass and then keep up the straight pretense for very long.
There’s fags. Then there’s you, a superfag. Here to save all fags from total damnation and extinction. You deserve a Cape and latex outfit with exposed holes.
But what color should we make the color? Fucshia?
My first notion that I had an attraction for, and a need to help men came first to me as a passivity and a total absence of a competitive nature altogether. It wasnt sexual at all. Alphas seem to love competition, and challenges. Thats how I knew I wasnt one.
Very astute observation, brother!
How come (most?) gays have a history of being raped or sexually abused? You do. Three of my four gay friends do. Several of my online gay friends do too!
Man-on-Man sex is often very brutal and unforgiving. I do tend to think all homosexual sex is partially a fight for dominance. And when you have the strong Male sex drive, coupled with the unrestrained nature of that drive, many extreme outcomes may occur. Rape is one of the most extreme, for sure.
I sent you a message a few weeks ago about my straight Alpha best friend, whom you told me to show him those links. I did, we had some good talks. He told me he does want to fuck me but “something” is stopping him. After a few days he got upset and now he wants to completely stop the sub/dom relationship and just remain regular friends. Feels like he’s in some sort of denial struggle with himself. I feel shitty about it though, but thanks for trying to help, just wanted to update you!
Thank you for the update, my brother! I tried and tried to find your original ask, but I couldn’t find it! I definitely remember you, though!
Yeah, your best friend is really struggling with this. Something you said or something he read pinged him, but boy that overreaction against it is very telling. He might need some time to let it marinate. I would keep things light and warm and open between you. Give him some space to assimilate these thoughts. He might be back.
What is it called when a male sucks out the cum out of another’s hole?
U totally stopped jerking off more than 1.5 year, but do u cum eventually? I mean alone or while being fucked? How does it work for u? Don’t u get blue balls sometimes?
Yes, it’s true – I purposely stopped masturbating 1.5 years ago. I haven’t cum either – no wet dreams, nothing. Curious, isn’t it? And no, I don’t get blue balls. You have to work yourself up to a point close to climax to have blue balls. I avoid that.
I have a comment about about a guy being submissive for a woman. Most submissive straight men would prefer to submit to other men but are afraid of the sexual aspects of that. They want to be submissive to superior men but don’t want to loose their man hood at the same time. If they loose that they loose female respect. So they would rather submit to women. And most women do that for money. But once they get past that fear they learn to submit to a real man.
Great point, Sir!!
To what extent do you think a probably curious/bi guy would take “playing around” when going back and forth about messing around with a guy? A friend of mine and I were going back and forth about how he knew I worshipped his feet a few time when we were teens and how he’s open to new things now, that he likes to be dominant in bed, i said a few things about how I’d be open to taking care of his needs etc. But later on when I asked him if he was serious, he was said he was just playing, like you know how str8 guys playing around doing gay things. I ended coming out to him in that exchange and he said sorry, “you know how I am…I was just playing around.” But the exchange seemed so serious. Like he literally told me he “let me go down on him like the old days” and that it’s “kinda hot to know” I found his feet hot back when we were young. Idk I feel stupid now and “exposed.” Do you think he was kidding or is he scared?
Honestly, whenever I’ve been confronted by straight guys constantly teasing me about having sex, I always assume that they’re having repressed fantasies about actually doing it. Straight guys goof around about gay sex a lot, yes, but part of that comes from the Male urge for taboo and dirty sex. They’re always considering options for sex, and some options stick with certain Men. Like fucking a dude up the ass, or having that dude suck his dick.
Since I go in with that assumption, that gives me the courage to simply throw an offer of service back in their face. In that moment, they are faced with committing to the acts they joked about again and again, or backing down.
Your friend backed down. At least for now.
I think you should offer him a foot massage. This seems to be something important to him; it seems to turn him on. Offering a foot massage and throwing in kisses and other worshipful gestures might trigger his natural dominance.
Why is it more socially acceptable for women to be bisexual versus men? Do mind sharing on this topic, I dont believe I’m completely gay because of how I feel about women. I dont think you are an avid promoter for the acceptance of bisexual males. Which is your choice and you’re entitled to that. I would like to know why is that so hard to believe that a male can love men and women and not be lying about that. Also, I could be wrong about you feeling this way but still would like your opinion 🙂
It’s very simple – Men operate within a Hierarchy of dominance from which females are generally excluded. Concepts like respect, honor, and valor all factor highly in the lives of most Men.
Right or wrong, homosexual Men and homosexual behavior is generally considered to be a “lesser” state of being along the scale of dominance in the Hierarchy. So when a Man engages in these behaviors, he steps outside the acceptable ranking system between Men.
Women do not have that. They are more emotional and tactile, and their sexuality is more fluid and open. There is very little of the “shame” Men feel when they trade downward in perceived dominance.
As for your other question, I’ve never said a Man can’t love both Men and women. But it needs to be understood that females are going to look at a situation much differently than a Man. Their feelings don’t turn on and off like a light. So if a Man is going to dabble in both sexes, he needs to keep that in mind.
Sam, please post a pic similar to who you were as a questioning young man. I am going through this now and I want to know the form of someone who has sort of blazed up ahead of me on this path. I imagine you look like porn star Nathan Gear.
No, I don’t think I look like Nathan Gear. Formative fag Sam looked a lot like Lane “Blake Mitchell” Rogers.
This is actually me (on the left – duh) at age 12 or 13 (?). That innocent smile is hiding all sorts of nastiness, believe me. I actually wrote a script about this year of my life. I describe it as “A Christmas Story, except about masturbation.” It’s pretty damned good. I have about a third of it novelized so far … it’s one of the billion projects I have on my plate.
I hope you understand how hard it is to share this picture!
Do you think there is something wrong with males who are submissive to dominant females? I realize you think that both are only roles but do you think they have something backward, or are confused?
I think there is something wrong with the idea of dominant females. So by extension, I think there is something wrong with males who feel the need to submit to an obvious facade.
Submission in males is a natural outcropping of the Hierarchy. Unlike women, Men really identify themselves by their dominance or lack thereof. So beta males naturally fall into submission. However, such submission should be used in service of true dominance, not play acting.
I find the idea of guys getting fucked to be perverse and physiologically wrong and yet, gay porn turns me on so much i feel ashamed and embarrassed! Do you think some guys were meant to be fucked?
Speaking as a faggot who was born to be fucked, I can unequivocally state that yes, some males are meant to be fucked.
Have you totally stopped jerking off?
Yes I haven’t made myself orgasm in more than 1.5 years now.
Hey, I have just moved into a new city and I’m attracting more bots than tops. What can I do to change that?
Go to places where actual human Males hang out and meet them face to face?
Hi, I got into a little trouble by venturing to a gay campground I found online. I have been curious, and thought I could just blend in at what I knew would be a wild revelry type thing. There were leather costumes, younger guys and muscle dads wearing the costumes. One man I met had a cigar and sunglasses and I was intimidated. He could feel it. Anyhow we had a few drinks, and the next thing I remember was sucking his cock. My first time. I loved it, left there after having lots of sex. Ruined.
LOL yeah, you need to watch out for those gay campgrounds! When you put a bunch of gay males in a semi-secluded place in the woods, all sorts of things will happen!
But I hope you don’t feel “ruined.” Hopefully, the right word is “enlightened.”
Hey Fag, I’ve been reading your blog for a few months and after learning about the hierarchy I have come to realize that I may be a gay alpha. I’ve always seen faggots as lesser than me but after reading your blog I’ve started noticing and identifying other alphas, betas, etc where ever I go. I have become more confident in who I am because I have accepted the power I’ve always known I’ve had but didn’t understand until now.
Thank you for writing to me, Sir!
Wow! What an amazing “a-ha!” moment you must’ve had when you discovered this information! From what you wrote, it sounds like it created a tectonic shift in your thinking, Sir!
Judging by what you said, it does indeed sound like you are a gay Alpha. Now that you’re paying closer attention to the differences between yourself and inferior Men, your appreciation for your position will only grow more powerful.
Now it probably makes more sense to you why faggots have always submitted to you so easily and worked so hard to please you. Use them freely now, Sir! They exist to serve you.
Just imagine how your life might transform, Sir! To live as a literal King, served by loyal faggots in any way you desire and respected by your fellow Alphas! You are part of an elite club, Sir, one reserved for gods! Relish, enjoy, and respect your powerful role always, Sir!
I’m very beta like. I have this childhood friend who’s completely Alpha. Star quarterback, the whole 9. He always had his cool friends but spent intimate nights talking with me. He’s been dating this girl and it’s gotten really serious. He invited me over for drinks. He and I as I dont fit in with his crew. By 3AM we’re just talking and he puts his forehead to mind and grabs the back of my neck and says “I really love her and I’m going to marry her and I just need you to be ok with this”
I’m not sure why but I began to tear up and he continued to speak. “I know how you feel about me and I know you think you’re just not a decent enough person to have love but you are. You’re a great guy. I know you are in love with me. I know you’ve never been with anyone because you live off of this connection but I need you to try. I want you to find someone because I’m not going to have much time for this going forward. I love you man but you deserve more.” It broke me down.
I never mentioned to anyone how I felt about him and I thought I was hiding it pretty well. I never came on to him in any way. How could he see right through me like that? Do you think that because he knew how I felt and I never attempted to act on it that he respected me more? I just felt my world crumble when he told me this. I’ve been following you for years and I just want to thank you for being my escape from reality. I wish I would have tried more when I was younger. 29 now.
I crumbled a little bit just from reading this heartfelt post, my brother. I appreciate you sharing it with me!
First of all, can we just commend your friend for being a true best friend and a GREAT ALPHA? My goodness, I wish there were 100 million more Men just like him in this world!
When an Alpha shows us this kind of sympathy, consideration, and kindness, we just have no other option but to fall even deeper in love with them. It’s SO RARE to have Men like this in our lives that we almost want to cling even more tightly to them. Such a simple gesture of human kindness like this one can mean the absolute world to us. We never want to lose it.
You wondered how your friend knew about you – as I’ve said before, Alphas have a sixth sense for these things. They’re usually very visually-oriented and pick up on subtle physical cues quickly. It helps that they are always scanning those around them, positioning themselves socially in any situation. Just like certain flicks of a cat’s tail reveal a cat’s emotional temperature to anyone paying attention, Alphas can see the subtle clues we unintentionally drop to reveal the submissiveness and intentions of the males around them.
I’m very proud of you for managing your deep love and affection for this Alpha. By doing so, you likely saved the relationship and have given him a lifetime of good memories rather than painful ones.
But let’s be clear. This marvelous Alpha – your best friend – is giving you permission in the kindest possible way to let go of him a little bit so that you might find love for yourself. I bet he has dreams of someday going on a double date with you and a future boyfriend, or standing beside you at your wedding. This is all extremely positive for you.
Just be grateful that this incredible and stunning Alpha is in your life and wants to remain there! Continue to be a friend worthy of such true love, my brother!
I remember when I was going to leave my home country to the us. My uncle who was a priest told me to be a good boy. I was 17 at the time and always fantasised about being used by a gang of black men. Once I came to the US I quickly got into the gay scene. I met this beautiful black man named Abdullah, he was everything I wanted, big beard, aggressive, tall, muscular and has a massive dick! He took my virginity with his horse dick, I have been his whore for 18 years now. One time while my master was at Friday prayer I was smelling his used underwear, it was heaven for me, but like a drug I didn’t know how much time passed. He returned with 4 of his brothers, They saw me and started laughing. They said I needed a good fuck… They ripped my clothes off and made me worship their big black cocks. I could only suck one at a time, Abdul decided to use my hole and fucked me. I felt like a whore and I loved it! Thank you, America!
Sounds like a dream come true, brother!
I really like the alpha energy! It’s running through my hole body, especially after doing sports. After the gym one of my fags is coming to my place to lick my armpits, worshipping my pumped muscles and sucking my cock. The fags are increasing such energy and getting reward by my cum. I love it!
Sir, thank you for writing!
I’m glad that you are enjoying your privileged place at the top of the Hierarchy! It sounds like you are getting the worship and service you want and need, Sir! Enjoy your power!
Hey, so I just meeting this guy and I told him I was a virgin. And I don’t wanna top if I did want to loose my virginity. He kind of put my dick in him without my consent, and I was caught off guard. I was so in my head that I didnt notice I cummed inside him and I dont feel right at all about it. I dont know how to feel about this situation at the moment. Did I really loose my virginity and like that?
Technically speaking, you were raped. It probably doesn’t feel like much of a violation since you were the penetrating partner, but still … it was a violation.
I would consider you to still be a virgin. What happened to you was basically akin to receiving a blowjob, and a guy receiving a blowjob hasn’t lost his virginity.
Try to forget about it. You’re just fine. You’re still a virgin looking for a good person to whom to lose it. Find a good one, baby brother.