Hey Sam, After a while of reading and following your blog, I have begun to chat with an Alpha in my town. Ive got all sorts of emotions and excitement. Your blog has really helped me! What would you tell a first time fag to get over their fears and embrace the service?
Congratulations on this new service opportunity! Exciting!
One of the best tricks I’ve ever learned to overcome fear when submitting to a new Alpha is to truly surrender to him. Essentially, when you meet him the first time, kneel and kiss his feet and essentially supplicate him for mercy (in a sense). Truly become a weaker vessel for his use and control. This act has the effect of touching the Alpha’s heart and helping him understand that you look to him for guidance rather than relying on your own knowledge. I hope I’m explaining this adequately.
The foot kiss greeting is one of my go-to tricks that almost never fails. Alphas love that because it shows instant honor and respect, and the act is so submissive that it immediately triggers their dominant instinct. It will also relax you as it causes you to feel comfortable in your proper role in his presence. I liken it to being a musician going out in front of a live audience … they’re nervous until they start playing the first notes of a song, and then the nerves disappear.
Just don’t fret too much, brother. This is what you were born to do. Your brain and body will respond accordingly if you allow yourself the chance to experience it! GO FOR IT!
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