my alpha is 46. i’ve known him for a little over 11 years. His sexual stamina is clearly winding down. He used to fuck me (in addition to his longtime gf) an average of 10 times a month now he only fucks me once or twice a month and its been going on for a year now. I now alphas are men of great power but do they go through manopause?
Well, it may not be something silly like “manopause” and actually be something medically more significant. Sudden reduced sexual stamina or drive can be an indicator of disease or hormone imbalances. He should probably see a doctor.
One of my favorite accounts on Twitter is Master David (@davidtentwoone). He is a wise and luxurious executive Alpha who doles out truth bombs to eager boys desperate for direction.
Hello Sam. I asked you a while ago about the blunt approach. I’d like to share my experience using this technique. I’ve tried it on five different men. I got to suck off four! It really is an art. Be polite, ensure privacy, don’t be a creep, and be ready to deal with rejection. It works! it simply works! Most men are sexually frustrated and they’d rather have a fag suck them off than jerk off! I’m still working on my technique. Thanks for your words of encouragement!
This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION from April (I think).
HAHAHA that is fucking AWESOME!!! Congratulations!
See? I know what I’m talking about!!
As I’ve said here a few times before, I have had around a 60% success rate on this approach over the years. Your batting average is higher than that (you bitch LOL) so keep going! I’m not surprised about the success, though. Your approach (as described) is a perfect replica of my method, and I know it works!
I’m so proud of you, my brother! Keep me informed!
how do you feel about trans people? also can a fag be trans?
Yes, there are trans faggots. In fact, one of Master Nick’s beloved faggots is preparing to transition even as we speak (I just spoke with this particular faggot the other day about it). It is really special if a transitioning faggot has an Owner like Master Nick to support it during the difficult emotional process of transitioning, and I’m happy that my faggot brother has that. Sadly, not every faggot can say the same about their owners or even their families.
sam thank you so much for creating this site. I am an older gay person that has been quite confused of what I really am. I managed to create a stable and happy gay relationship, but with time realising that the sex side has been somehow not interesting. the more I was reading the more I felt the need to submit to dominant men. However my husband has no interest in playing a dominant role, so I often submit to escort services. the more I read your site and the more I believe that in my sexual life I am basically a faggot. I wonder if among your reader there are many that are struggling like me. On one side I need and want to hold on to my wonderful relation, but on the other side, it is getting more and more frustrating not to be able to really be and act as the faggot I really am. keep on with your real good work.
Thanks for writing! Yes, I’ve absolutely met many faggots (and some Alphas) in circumstances similar to yours. It’s heartbreaking that you cannot fully express your needs with your partner, but honestly, it’s unreasonable to expect that one person can be the entirety of another person’s life. This is especially true for Alphas and faggots on the most extreme ends of the Hierarchical spectrum.
Since you’re an older couple, perhaps the sex has taken a backseat to companionship. Maybe your partner wouldn’t mind you going into a service relationship with an Alpha. Have you discussed this? As always, it’s best to clear the air in situations like this.
If your partner refuses to accept this reality within you, I’m not sure about your next step. Are you at the point where you can simply accept keeping the security of the relationship and put aside your desire to serve? Or do you break it up in order to chase this dream? I can’t be the one to tell you that.
Just start with the conversation and see where it leads, brother.
This is being answered by one of the great background Alphas of this site, Master Jim.
Yes there is hope. I am assuming you might be 63 based on your screen name or 58 if you were born in 63? Recently I was in Puerto Vallarta and was serviced by an “older” ( and “old” is relevant anyway, by the way) faggot who was eager, good at doing its job, obedient, and not at all hesitant to obey. And while I love a beautiful faggy little twink or bubble-assed jock pussy as much as anyone, the fact is I’m still thinking about the hot, brief experience with this “older” faggot and wished I had made more use of him while I was there. To be honest, the younger and better looking a fag is the more difficult they tend to be. I’m constantly hit up by ‘bottoms” who proceed to “tell” me what “they” want me to do to them. Older fags have a better understanding of what the word “obey” means. One thing that is a huge turn off is a fag who hesitates when it’s given a task. If you’re on the floor and I say “lick my feet,” it’s not a question, or a debate. You don’t even need to ask how I want it done. You just do it. You’ll be given further direction if need be. I suspect that you know how to do your job and you know what is expected, that you don’t hesitate or whine, or tell men what they’re job is, and that is a valuable quality. I’m older, 57, and people, gay and straight, male and female, have been and will always be judged and dismissed based on age. And now the young men in their 20s are all on the “gym and substance use” bandwagon which didn’t used to be the case. A 50 year old is never going to look like a 25 year old who’s on test and deca. So we all use whatever talents we have, including the ability to expand our thinking of what “hot” is. Personally as long you’re not obese, but just an average looking middle aged fag in decent shape with the right attitude, and you take care of yourself, keep yourself well groomed and presentable, you should still be in demand. But you have to understand that a 20 year old muscle boy is not going to want you unless you pay. They know what’s up now. So you may have to adjust your standards and expectations as well. Thats life. I would also add, being a San Franciscan for many decades, I know that in the fetish world for instance, you see all ages and body types because those folks understand that age and body type is not the end-all be-all but the correct attitude is everything. Good luck. A skilled, obedient faggot should always be in demand.
Hi Fag, I’m a 19 year old Dom from the UK, who owns a item long term, ive been interested in expanding my stables of items/slaves/pigs or whatever the runt wants to be called for a while now, but was told of an interesting concept. The slave I own currently, tells me that there are slave markets even to this day, where alphas like myself go to/get invited to bid on new items and ‘buy’ a slave. I was wondering if you knew any truth to this, and if so if there are any benefits from sourcing slaves this way, as opposed to the traditional ‘prey’ approach.
Master, thank you for writing to me!
What an extraordinary Alpha Master you are! At just 19 years old you’re already owning faggots and are eager to expand your stable of owned faggots! Amazing! I would very much like to hear more about your story Master if possible! You can write to me at fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com … I’d love to get you on my podcast so we can discuss this in-depth!
Now, to your question: Yes, Master, there are definitely faggot auctions happening around the world. They remain one of the great underground secrets of affluent Alphas. As you know, Alpha Packs are a real phenomenon. What happens within an Alpha Pack is known only to other Alphas; inferiors are not privy to that information. This is how Alphas have conducted their business since the dawn of time because it consolidates power and protects the less acceptable desires of Alpha Males from becoming public knowledge.
Faggot auctions are definitely something Alphas would prefer to keep on the “down low.”
I know of faggot auctions in California, Texas, and New York. California Alpha (one of the Alphas chronicled on this site) has been involved in cross-country faggot auctions where he has sold some of his faggots to Alphas in New York for hefty prices. Slave Tim (also on this site) has been to faggot auctions with his Owner involving a smaller Alpha Pack where they live. So yes, faggot auctions are alive and well in 2021, Master.
You ask a very good follow-up question regarding the better approach to faggot acquisition, and it really speaks to your advanced understanding and appreciation for faggot ownership, Master. I’ve actually placed a message to Master Jace (California Alpha) to get his perspective, and will update this once he responds.
From my perspective, the hunter/prey method is ultimately going to result in longer-lasting faggot control and ownership, and likely more satisfaction for the Alpha as well. The difference can be summed up this way: which fish tastes better, the kind you buy at the store or the ones you caught, filleted, and cooked yourself?
As an experienced Master, I suspect you chose the latter option. Every Alpha would. The hunting, capturing, and breaking of a faggot satisfies a deep need in both the Master and the faggot and creates a lifelong bond deeper than the mere exchange of cash and location. A faggot bought and sold like property at an auction has no particular allegiance to its new Master, but the faggot transformed by training into the personal property of a Man is completely allied and loyal to that Man.
Having said that, it’s clear that auctions work as well, or Alphas wouldn’t keep doing it. And perhaps for some Alphas the auction method is an easier way to acquire new faggot servants. As a 19-year-old Master, I’m sure the hunter/prey method is easier right now. But I’m sure it must be nice to know that there are these other exclusive options available for elite Alphas like you!
Hey! I’m a very young fag and I have been reading your blog. I love them and feel a very deep connection with the things I see. I just have a slight problem. I can’t buy a chastity cage (since I’m underage) and I find it very hard to stop myself from masturbating. I have thought of finding an alpha but I live in a very homophobic town and I am afraid of asking an Alpha to serve Him, as He might out me. I also struggle with finding alphas around me (in my school). Once again love your work, you’ve helped me find my true self.
Little brother, I appreciate you reaching out to me. I’m glad my site has been a help to you!
First of all, don’t worry about chastity cages and masturbation right now. You’re young, and you shouldn’t necessarily be stopping masturbation right now because that helps you to develop what you really want to find in your sexual life. Chastity is for the future.
Believe me, there are definitely Alphas around you in school. There are Alphas in every high school and college in the world. It’s not always easy to make offers in the pressurized environment of high school, but it can be done. Remember, these young Alphas are testosterone factories at that age, and worship and attention are very powerful tools of manipulation on Alphas.
So be complimentary, thoughtful, friendly. Offer to do simple tasks for them. You could serve as a homework faggot, for example. Or you could buy them something for their car (if they have one) or you could offer to clean it. Start showing up at sporting games and making yourself known to the players by being friendly and complimentary. Alpha packs on teams definitely talk to each other, and they’ll notice the little faggot in the stands who has a crush on them.
But most of all, don’t be in a rush. You have a lifetime ahead of you! Just take little steps forward while you keep learning about yourself and what you want. It’ll come, I promise.
I’m 19 and live in a dorm. I brought my gf back last weekend and my roommate was napping. After some kissing and playing with her clit I got her to let me fuck her right there. I was turned away fucking but my gf says she clearly saw him jacking off under his blanket. I’ve always suspected he was gay. I walk around my underwear or towel. I sneak up behind him in his desk chair and talk real close. We have about 4 more weeks til summer. I want to see if I can get him to suck my dick. He doesn’t like me so I think it would be funny if he would. He’s uptight so he’ll say no at first. How can I wear him down?
Sir, thank you for writing to me!
Let’s clear it up: this roommate is either a faggot or a beta cuck. Either way, your cock belongs down its throat. As Alpha, all inferior males should be forced into service to your needs and submit to you.
Both faggots and beta cucks view you in similar terms. Namely, you are a sexually-potent Alpha Male who humiliates them with your sexual power. They recognize you as superior. Serving you sexually fulfills them and/or their place in Hierarchy.
With that established, what should you do, Sir? Since we are unsure of the sub roommate’s actual Hierarchical orientation, the best way to start is to simply drop your towel after a shower and tell this roommate to kneel and service you. Faggots will drop immediately. Betas might resist at first, but don’t let that throw you, Sir. Walk closer to the beta and try putting your hand on its head in order to force it to happen.
It might feel awkward, Sir, but believe me … as Alpha, you are capable of getting most inferior Men to submit to you. After all, inferior males exist to serve you. So now is the time when you take this faggot and make it your property!
Please keep me informed of your progress and feel free to ask me anything at fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com. Thank you, Sir!
Hello, big boy. i’m a dom obviously and here is my situation i have a friend i’ve known for years, and years ago i was the first guy he came out to. He trusts me and was his first crush, obviously back then i was lot dumber and should have taken the chance. But now since we still talk to each other and he dated alot (he’s a dom btw) but now every time I think about him or meet him I get a raging boner that says I should just fuck him right here. And turn him into my own little cock slut, he offered to suck me plenty of times but i’m looking for more than a half asses blowjob. So should I be blunt with him and tell him that I want him to be my own bitch and fuck his tight ass like there was no tomorrow?
Thank you for writing to me, Sir!
Yes, you probably made a tactical mistake by not acting in the first place. Alphas should never pass on any opportunity to take control of something, even if it isn’t going to lead anywhere particularly special. Taking those opportunities as they arise trains the Alpha to always seek control and power over people and situations.
However, I would say that everything is not lost, Sir. I’m sure your “friend” is still carrying a flame for you after all of these years. Why do I say that? Because our early crushes never really go away, they live on inside us as ideals. You were his ideal Alpha, and likely you still are.
I’m curious as to why you refer to him as a “Dom” Sir. If he is dominant with faggots, he will likely still submit to you if you force the issue. There is a clear Hierarchy even among Alphas, and you would be acting as the Apex Alpha. Now it’s just a matter of you taking control of the situation, Sir.
I think you should make him kneel before you and admit to you what he truly wants. This technique of verbal confession forces the submissive to admit the truth with its rational mind (as opposed to sexual impulse). It forces the submissive to OWN IT so that you can OWN HIM.
I hope it goes well, Sir! Please let me know of your progress here or at fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com! Thank you, Sir!
One of the unexpected and unintended results of this site over the years has been the discovery of faggot worship and service by straight Alphas. I’ve served many straight Alphas during my two-plus decades as a full-time faggot, so I’ve always known that straight Alphas can and do love faggot service. I haven’t been shy about discussing this fact, much to the dismay of some readers.
Yet despite their complaints that “straight guys who use faggots aren’t straight” more and more perfectly straight Alphas are reading the experiences I’ve reported here and have gone on to experience fag worship for themselves, and they love it.
The latest to realize the possibilities of true worship is a 22-year-old Alpha named Mack. He wrote this to me last night:
Hey there faggot. My name is Mack, I’m 22 and I just recently came across your website, I’ve only recently considered the idea of owning or using men and I never would have been comfortable with anything to do with this shit unless it was for your website so I wanna say thanks for that. I’m an alpha, I crave to be worshipped and serviced, and I guess my question is where is the best place to find eager faggots who are looking to serve a real young alpha in any way I want?
God, I love the bluntness of straight Alphas! This was my response:
Thank you very much for writing! I’m excited to hear of your decision to pursue the true worship of faggots! It’s what natural Alphas like you deserve!
If you’re going to a gym right now, i guarantee you there are faggots watching you from afar and hoping you’ll notice. That is probably the best social setting to find faggots right now.
You have apps like Grindr or Recon that work. I recommend Fetlife as well.
But ultimately you have the right to take and subjugate and faggot or sub male you meet in your day-to-day life, Sir. I think you’ll be surprised how easily males will submit to your power if you flex it.
Just remember – this is the naturals order of things. You were born for this kind of power, and faggots are born to submit to you. It will all fall into place once you take hold of your Alphahood.
I hope this helps, Sir! Don’t hesitate to reach out with questions or experiences you might have, Sir!
This thread features the story of Achim, a 55-year-old German faggot who has spent many years in service to straight Alphas. CLICK HERE to read the posts in this thread in chronological order!
Several days ago I received a question from Achim, a 55-year-old German faggot who had spent years serving straight Alphas and was having a problem with his current Alpha. The 28-year-old Alpha had become unresponsive, and Achim didn’t know what to do.
I had a sneaking suspicion that the Alpha was getting cold feet and trying to ghost the faithful faggot, so I carefully advised him to stop putting energy into chasing this Alpha down. I just hoped I was wrong.
Well, I received this wonderful message from him today:
Hi Sam, I want to tell you that you were absolutely right! The Alpha (if he was one) has indeed blocked me and hid from me. Your advice not to put any energy into it was right! And also your prognosis was right: I met another straight Alpha. He is 23 years young; so also very young. But He knows what He wants. He has no experience with fags so far, but He is self-confident enough to admit that. Today i went to him for the first time to clean his apartment. He wants me to do the housekeeping regularly at His place, which i do with pleasure. He is dominant, but at the same time respectful and friendly. He takes what belongs to Him without breaking anything. I think I fell in love with him right away. He also looks very attractive. I hope he will cunt me one day. Greetings fag Achim
AWESOME!
What I truly love about Achim’s example here is that, instead of moping over a lost Alpha, he got right back up and submitted to another, more appreciative Alpha! THIS is the attitude faggots need to have! Never give up pursuing what truly fulfills you no matter how old you are!
Hello, sam, i’m a 20 years old master, and as the title says, there is a sub in my dms who keep asking me to be his master and begging to be drained, firstly he lied about his age which is 16 years old. He wants to be taught how to be a fag but i’m not an idiot nor a pedophile, since i asked some of my buddies i concluded that even staying as friends with him is morally wrong. Since i know the « friendship » for the sub will turn into something else. Did I do the right thing? Should I have accepted the sub even though he’s younger than me?
Sir, thank you for writing to me! I definitely think you did the right thing by pulling back from this underage faggot. I know your instincts probably tell you to take this faggot and shape it into something you’d like to own, but it’s best to wait until the faggot can legally give itself to you. Besides, I’m sure a young Alpha like you is not hurting for faggots, so why take the risk? I’m proud of you for your wisdom and maturity, Sir!
Hi Sam, thanks for your fantastic and helpful blog! i am a 55 years old german fag; have been a fag my whole life but unfortunately didn’t serve Alphas the whole time. Since november 2019 i served a straight Alpha early 40s for about 3 years. i did his chores, housecleaning, dishes, shopping and stuff like this. once in a while when his gf was on holidays i was lucky to suck his perfect dick – i loved it! He was in a way abusive, slapped my face, spit into my mouth, called me names and stuff like this – but i loved this too. The more he degraded me, the more i submitted and loved to work for him. Unfortunately he quit my service, because he moved together with his gf and didn’t want his chick to know. So i started to search for another Alpha; but this very difficult, because of my age and of covid. In addition, i live in a very rural area and there are not many contact opportunities here. Nevertheless, i have now met a young straight Alpha. He is 28 years old and it scares me a bit that he is so young. He has no experience so far in dealing with faggots. He is really shy and hesitant, which irritates me. i have to constantly push so that he comes forward and says what He wants. He often asks what i want and doesn’t know exactly how far He can go with me. Then He doesn’t get in touch for a long time or cancels appointments. i think He is afraid of his own courage and it hurts me very much to see that He, a nature Alpha, is so withdrawn because society has drilled into him to be “nice”. It looks to me like He\’s not allowing himself to be what He is by nature: a leader and command-giver, born to enjoy life and use losers like me to do so. Now He has stood me up several times in a row and is also slow to respond to my text messages; sometimes He doesn’t answer at all. i don’t know what to do. Should I look for another Alpha? Or should i continue to stick with Him? i’m uncomfortable pushing Him like this and sort of taking the lead. i feel like i’m not entitled to that. i have already suggested to Him that i do only little for him at first, e.g. just do the shopping and then leave it outside His door – that way He doesn’t have to interact with me much. But He has not responded to this suggestion. Do you have any idea how i should proceed? What behavior of mine is appropriate? Thank you in advance. Greetings fag Achim
Brother, thank you for writing to me! Yes, this can be a very frustrating situation, mainly because you don’t know the real reason for his behavior (it could be a host of things). But, ultimately, you need to leave him to find the truth for himself. Alphahood cannot be forced or coerced; it’s either there, going to be there eventually, or will never get there. As faggots, we might be able to make suggestions if the Alpha is receptive to talking about it. This Alpha doesn’t seem like he is, so I would move on. Believe me, there are other Alphas who are definitely ready to use you!
Hi Sam. My Alpha has been brutally throat fucking me for 2 weeks now. Hes usually calm and passionate but I’ve sensed a change in him. He doesnt talk to me anymore and like I said, hes ramped up the domination and even though i love it, I worry about him. This is not his norm. I will take his dick as deep as he wants it, but I’m so worried! I’m here to be his hole but hes so reserved about his emotions. Most Men are like this right? Will he ever tell me whats wrong? Should i just keep submitting to him cause thats what he needs right now? I really need advice. Thanks
This is always a tricky part of the job as a faggot. Like you indicated, many Alphas hide how they’re feeling and respond to situations in unexpected ways. We often must react to those mood swings without making them worse. Honestly, all Men want from faggots in those moments are complication-free sexual releases. We can be that for them if we remember our place.
I’m unsure how to best advise you to move forward here. You need to be very submissive and nonconfrontational with your Alpha. Maybe if you kiss his feet and tell him that you’re concerned that he is upset about something he might be triggered into opening up to you. I don’t know.
A lot of the time faggots simply help an Alpha by being the object of his rage. Maybe he has a girlfriend/wife that is upsetting him … maybe the job is too much pressure … we cannot know and perhaps aren’t meant to know. Maybe your function in his life is as a form of punching bag rather than a counselor.
Just be grateful that he is expressing his true self with you at all! That’s most of the battle!
Stereotypes are easy. They are the shorthand of life, allowing us to make quick assessments of people and situations without expending any brainpower. However, stereotypes can be horribly detrimental, as we’ve continued to witness in many cultures around the world still ravaged by racism.
Stereotypes are most prevalent in Hierarchical situations within the Dom/sub and BDSM communities. Alphas are often expected to be muscular, well-hung, and exceptionally good looking, while faggots are typically identified by scrawny or out-of-shape physiques, pale skin, tiny dicks, and less-than-photographic looks.
But, as in society at large, these stereotypes are detrimental and wrong many more times than we imagine.
For example, take the following experience from a faggot reader who wrote about its service to an Alpha, and how their looks flip the script on stereotypical expectations.
The article about an Alpha sometimes not being able to recognize a Fag who wants to serve him sparked something in me, something I have always wondered about in regard to my situation. I put this and our photos in a folder marked “POST ???” bc even after all this time I am still on the cusp between “embarrassment” and “pride” in being totally honest about the Fag that I am and who and how I serve. I am extremely masculine, buff, and spent several years as an amateur MMA fighter. All of this came from a genuine interest, not as a desire to compensate for the fact that I was a Fag which NO ONE ever suspected. But IF you saw me and the Alpha I serve side by side you would prolly get it wrong. I will no go into the deets on how we met or how it came about (unless anyone is interested) but MY ALPHA TURNED OUT TO BE A SMALL SKINNY COLLEGE BOY HALF MY SIZE WITH INNOCENT SCHOOLBOY LOOKS. WHO is MORE of a man than I will ever be bc he is a REAL MAN and I am a FAG. I have served him for years now, all the way thru and beyond Grad School. I do everything he tells me to from cleaning his bathroom to doing his laundry to paying whatever bills he needs paid or providing cash to take out whatever girl he wants. He beats the shit out of me pretty regularly, he enjoys wailing on me with punches, all of which I can take. He says he enjoys it it makes him laugh, and it also relieves stress he says. He will put me against the wall and just punch my lights out sometimes. (he even did this once in public but that’s another story) He also humiliates me a lot he does degrading things. Like sit on my face and fart, which also makes him laugh. Or spit in my mouth. He says he has to do these things to keep my head in the right place, that the honor of serving him should never be taken for granted and a Fag has to be constantly reminded of that. And as a Fag I believe he has a point. HE is the man I am the FAG. Occasionally he will allow me some physical worship, if he drops me with punches he sometimes allows me to lick his feet. And he will sometimes pull his pants n shorts down when he face sits me and allow me to sniff his ass. He will allow me to see him naked sometimes as he dresses. (he WILL slap me around right after for looking, again to keep my head in the right place) And on a few occasions he has even sent me a photo for my Birthday. I am ADDICTED to serving this Alphaboy there is NOTHING he could do to me that I would NOT consider a gift. But everything I see and read seems to tell me that I am in some way weird or odd when I see the Alphas other Fags serve. I guess my question is, HOW unusual is it that the Alpha is the sweet looking small one and the Fag is the one who to all outward appearances looks like HE should be the Alpha?? Am I alone?? Are there others in the same situation??
Let me answer the reader directly – no, you are not alone. I’ve run across multiple situations like this one. In almost all cases that I managed to keep track of, the bond between Alphas and faggots with “body disparity” seem to be even stronger because their extreme differences make the dynamic even more exciting and unusual. That might be why you have been serving this Alpha for as long as you have!
I get this complaint occasionally, and I’m keenly aware of how this site exacerbates the problem. I am a faggot who runs a gay sex site. Part of what I do here is provide images and video that highlight Hierarchical dynamics and play, and like any faggot would, I often choose examples of muscular Alphas using skinny, defenseless faggots. My images of Alphas on the site mostly have huge dicks and manly, model-ready faces. I’m actually feeding into the stereotype that causes problems like the one this reader expresses above. I’m aware of this.
But let me state for the record that I do not believe Alphas and faggots fit a mold. As I’ve said many times, we are born with these roles already a part of our genetics, and the outward shell often has little to do with the Hierarchical person in our heart. That’s the way it’s always been, and that’s the truth I will continue to imperfectly pursue.
For the record, this faggot sent pics of both itself and its Alpha:
Hello Sammy, I am 24 and have been seeing an alpha for about a year and he recently got mad at me for pulling my pussy off his cock while he was fucking me. I was caged and it was an accident reflex and i meant no disrespect towards him, but he was upset and felt a certain way about it. As a punishment he wants to fist me and make me gape, which I have never done before and scared. I’m very tight and I know it’s going to hurt. His thinking is that it will teach me to be humble. He said I have 3 days to respond and I’m not sure what to do. Should I allow him to fist me to make up for what I did? Thank you for caring about fags!
Fisting seems like a bit of an overreaction to me, but I’m not an Alpha. It wasn’t like you pulled off his dick in order to stop sex. You were just adjusting yourself (as far as I understand it) and he came out of you just momentarily and accidentally. And what a weird punishment anyway. I kinda think he had this in his mind and this is how he wants to make you do it.
But listen – you don’t have to do it. Ultimately a faggot has a right to determine what happens to its body. I mean, if he wanted to punish you by sticking a red-hot poker in your eyeball, do you have to agree to it simply because you’re a faggot?? OF COURSE NOT. And here’s the other side of it – Alphas have a responsibility to discipline reasonably. He shouldn’t use his position to scar his faggots physically or psychologically.
I would throw yourself on his mercy and tell him you cannot do this because you’re scared and you don’t want to be hurt. If he dismisses you, then he is not the right Alpha for you. Don’t worry – a quality faggot like you will find another, better owner!
Sir Max is an Alpha writer who regularly contributes to sadosam.com and is a frequent commentator here. CLICK HERE for any of his related content in chronological order!
One of the great Alpha presences on this site over the years has been the calm, steady voice of Sir Max. Unlike many of the Alpha featured here, Sir Max is a writer and a deep thinker on Hierarchical issues. I consider him to be a mentor and guide as I plumb the depths of Hierarchical theory, especially as it relates to Alphahood (with which I have little experience aside from serving it).
Sir Max, inspired by a recent questions from readers (CLICK HERE), was moved to clarify a few things about how faggots might know whether or not an Alpha might be willing to take them. This is a critical issue that many faggots struggle to understand. The following is his piece unedited:
Faggots are often baffled by Alphas who do not treat them like the fags they are. You want to get on your knees and kiss his feet, and he treats you like he treats everyone else. If he would just take command of you like he deserves, the world would be better.
So why won’t he?
An Alpha won’t treat you like a fag for three reasons: 1) He doesn’t realize you are a fag, 2) He has determined you are not ready to accept being treated like a fag, 3) He has determined you are not ready to be treated like a fag.
Alphas can tell when someone is a fag, but that skill is not always exercised. If the Alpha has used, or currently uses fags, he will be more likely to zero in on you. Not all Alphas are constantly looking for fags, so you may have to take steps so he will see your offer. If you do not present as an obvious fag, you may be good enough at hiding that the Alpha needs more signals to notice Regardless of why your faggotry may not be how he thinks of you. So he will treat you like he does anyone else.
Another reason is he may not think you are ready to accept being treated like a fag. He may think you are owned and your owner does not share. The man may think you haven’t realized your true place. He might want to guide you to submission. There are many reasons why a man may not choose to use you. Perhaps he’s waiting for you to show signs of submission to him. . As a fag, it is your job to offer and put yourself in situations where the Alpha can take control. Let the Alpha know you are willing so he does not waste the energy evaluating your potential.
It may seem confusing, but it is the Alpha’s choice how he acts. It is your responsibility, as the fag, to offer your services. This can be a wide range of unrequested duties; from fetching his coffee to completing hard manual labor for him. During these times, the Alpha might thank you, repay you, or otherwise treat you like someone of his own level. That is the Alpha conforming to the general social norms, and you will especially see this in a work environment. Keep your goals and his wishes in mind.
Continue to serve the Alpha, let him act as he chooses. Tell him “thank you” is not necessary. . Follow his lead, and make whatever efforts you can to improve his situation. Keep in mind, these efforts don’t always have to be something he sees either. Volunteer for a bad shift so he can go out, roll his trash down to the curb.
If an Alpha treats you like everyone else, that is his choice. Accept and respect his wishes. However, let the Alpha know of your faggotry in whatever ways you can.
These are some critical points to keep in mind. I have definitely been guilty of ignoring some of these tips from time to time.
First and foremost, we must remember that Alphas are on a voyage of discovery of a similar-yet-different type as faggots. They are discovering Alphahood and the power it grants them as faggots are discovering that their place is on their knees. We can’t expect every Alpha we meet to be in the same place we are Hierarchically. Each one of us discovers it and embraces it in different ways and at different times.
The best thing we can do is what Sir Max suggests here – groom ourselves and prepare to be useful to Men. The rest of the process Nature will work out in due time.
When I was younger I used to fuck around a lot which often included being submissive. I was never truly an Alpha’s fag, but that idea always turned me on. But for the last four years I’ve been in a relationship that’s been monogamous so far but he’s not against opening it up. He’s great and knows that I like being called a faggot and being submissive, but he’s not really an Alpha, so recently I’ve been feeling a much stronger urge to lean into my faggotry and serve Alphas, but I don’t know if I can do both that and stay with my boyfriend. Half of me wants to be a total faggot, but the other half of me is too scared to lose my boyfriend and my current life in general. Do you have any advice for my situation?
I’ve always been of the opinion that service to an Alpha is too consuming and will eventually destroy the relationship if you attempt to do both. I’ve never seen or experienced a successful execution of service to both an Alpha and a stable relationship. Maybe you’ll be the first, but I’m not optimistic about your chances.
Hi Sam! It’s me, Sam again. Lately, I’ve been trying to serve men the best way I can, but I think I’m having trouble with that. Every time I approach someone to serve, in any way, I do the job, he gets happy and I get too, but when the time passes I get really ashamed of myself, of all I’ve been doing. So I hide, I try to forget about it, I try to pretend I’m a real man but the need of serving calls me back. How do I stop feeling ashamed and embrace my place in the hierarchy? I just want to be a full time faggot who serves men not just for a night, but for a lifetime. Thanks for your time!
Hi brother. Yours is a problem with mindset. Use meditation to boost your appreciation of your service opportunities after you’ve finished with a session. Think to yourself how awesome it was that you got to serve a great Man. Really mull it over and let it sink into your heart. It is a tremendous privilege to be able to serve at all!
hi sam. does the blunt approach work? like saying to a man hey i would love to suck your cock, does that ever work? a fag brother of mine told me he’s had quite a bit of success with it he said the trick is to do it in private where the man wouldn’t feel threatened or embarrassed. your thoughts?
Brother, yes your fag friend is totally right! The blunt approach does work! As I’ve said many times on this site, I’ve had somewhere in the neighborhood of a 60% success rate using the blunt approach. This is one of the most feared and most ignored methods of Alpha prospecting. Faggots foolishly talk themselves out of it.
I would add this to your friend’s advice: not only get them alone or in a private place, but you also want to approach them in a submissive yet nonchalant manner. They need to feel COMFORTABLE. A drooling, panting, nervous faggot will make the Alpha uncomfortable and he will reject the offer. Sound like a buddy offering thoughtful help.
Hi Sam, longtime reader here. A couple years ago in college through one of my roommates, I met this beautiful potential Alpha. 6’4″, straight with girlfriend, sweet, masculine, chiseled jaw, and fucking BUILT. Seriously, you can literally smell the testosterone coming from him. I feel like my life has changed, as all I want to do is submit to him and serve him like the God he truly is. I want to bask in his scent. I want him to use those huge arms to crush and destroy me. I want to make him dinner, clean his apartment, grab him a beer, and service him until he’s satisfied. He likes to eat meat and go shooting at the range. He’s a little dumb, but that’s where the sweetness comes from.
So he’s been a friend of a friend all these years and unfortunately, I had a falling out with the mentioned old college roommate (he and the Alpha are best friends). Old college roomie is leaving the state for grad school soon and I think I can take advantage of this opportunity. Me and the Alpha have never been “friends” since we only see each other at parties or when he visited the roomie. But he likes me and I’ve got his number so at least I’m not starting from nothing. We have a big size difference (I’m a short slim guy) and I think he likes to play on it. Every time hes hugged me he holds me very warm and caressingly, not like a friendly hug but a romantic hug. That’s all just fun and games though.
I very vividly remember one time the three of us (me, old roomie, Alpha) were hanging at old roomie\’s place and the Alpha was leaving but I was staying the night. He got up and announced his leaving while I was lying on old roomie’s bed. I reached out my arms to motion that I wanted to hug him goodbye and HE FUCKING LIED ON TOP OF ME MISSIONARY STYLE, WITH ALL HIS WEIGHT, AND AFTER 3 OR SO SECONDS HE JOKINGLY HUMPED ME REALLY QUICK. I am so happy I didnt moan or something and was able to play it off cool, but my god. I will never forget that moment. I think it was 5 humps/thrusts. All of his weight on me. Holding me missionary style. Life changing experience.
Another time we were both at a Halloween party with some mutual friends and he was getting super drunk. I think he was finishing an entire 30 rack by himself? What a Man. Anyway, further into the night I found him and asked him if he was having fun. He kinda just stared blankly at me, he was definitely wasted. Then he grabbed the back of my head, pulled me in and kissed my forehead. When he let me go, he still just had that blank expression on and I was a bit speechless but managed to blurt something out and left the room. Mind you he did this in a room full of people (who were probably also drunk lol).
So now I’m thinking about the future, since him and I wont ever see each other or talk at all once my old roomie leaves the state in a couple of months. I think I\’m going to “accidentally” text him, play it off cool, and then invite him to my new apartment that I’ll be moving in soon. I’ll offer food and beer, and just talk and stuff since we’ve never hung out ourselves. I have to handle this very carefully. I’m so nervous I’m gonna fuck it up. I probably will. Or maybe he’s not even interested. But I have to do this. Fulfill my ultimate purpose in life to serve him, a living God and epitome of manliness. Theres also his girlfriend to think about, they’re kinda serious but no real future goals. I dont wanna be a homewrecker, but that wont stop me from offering myself to him, especially maybe some domestic service duties I can do.
What do you think of my experiences with him? I call him “The Beast”. I literally worship this giant, beautiful, unbelievable man. I’ll let you know how it goes in a couple of months. Do you think I have a shot?
Thanks for that epic question! LOL
I would say this guy IS Alpha, not a “potential” Alpha. And he does sound like the prototypical fraternity meathead Alpha type, too, which can definitely be to your advantage. Spoiler alert: frat guys love faggots. We are weaker and submissive and we allow them to flex their energy and power in fun and flirtatious ways. They can act as inappropriately as they want with us because they know we love it.
First of all, you’re going to need to stop hiding your gay/faggot truth in this situation. It’s time for you to stop being afraid and just embrace yourself. This is a timed thing and you can’t afford to miss an opportunity because you’re too afraid to act because things aren’t perfect.
I suggest you get him over to your place for some sporting event. Or, if you know where he works, you might be able to weasel your way into asking him to get a drink or two. This will need to be a full service offer, meaning you are going to be making food or buying everything. I would get a few drinks in him, and then maybe bring up the humping episode as a “hey, remember that time you …” kind of story. If he gets apologetic, you plainly say something like “Sir, you don’t need to apologize. That’s how faggots should be treated” or something similar. Make it nonchalant, like it’s no big deal. This will make him curious, rather than off-put.
If/when he asks questions, simply explain the natural order to him in plain, “no big deal” terms. The truth of Hierarchy is so powerful and so obvious when laid out that way logically to an Alpha that it becomes undeniable.
From there you just follow his cues and calmly assuage his fears. Once you get to that point, the rest of the manipulation is self explanatory.
Now, you could use my book in this situation, but I’m not sure if he’s much of a reader. This is something that you can cause to happen through skill and perseverance. But it CAN be done, though. Definitely think about what I’ve described and keep me posted. You really shouldn’t wait to lay the groundwork for this one. You gotta really find the right bait in order to land the biggest fish!
This thread follows Jamie, a faggot who began service to a straight Alpha named Dino that has lasted 15 years and led to marriage. CLICK HERE for all posts in this thread in chronological order!
After hearing about the surprise tropical vacation Master Dino gifted to his faggot wife Jamie, I was eager to find out what “final surprise” awaited Jamie when they returned home.
Jamie dutifully sent me a follow-up:
sam, i just had to tell you about the surprise waiting for me after our vacation. When we arrived I was organizing in my head just how to get my ManGod’s home back in order. Not that it was trashed but all my free time was taken while the Son of God lived with us, learned, and grew as a person, as well as an Alpha Male. Anyway, my AWESOME GOD had everything taken care of while we were away! I don’t know details but the place is IMMACULATE–WITH EVERYTHING EXACTLY WHERE IT BELONGS!
It was my emotional limit. After all the emotions of the last months, all the testosterone churning in my Men along with their naturally domineering personalities and Alpha NEED to pump/shoot cum into all available holes, my EVERYTHING was simply overloaded with joy and fulfillment and pride. i often think that there’s just no possible way for this Living Example of the perfect way Man and God can combine could make me worship and respect Him more than He already has. But, He does, and daily. And, that is an Alpha, isn’t it brother?
Anyway, i simply lost my humility for a moment and allowed unbridled ecstacy and pride of being HIS hole to overwhelm me and i imploded. i laid down at His–i have no more superlatives to bestow upon my Owner–feet and cried for what must have been an hour while i kissed His feet, caressed His furry legs, and murmured how magnificent, sexy, awesome, intelligent, omnipotent, powerful, passionate, etc…He is. How i would faithfully and slavishly i would honor, love, serve and service Him, all the while just feeling His overwhelming, comfortably smothering protective love washing over me. And in the middle of my faggot histrionics and lack of emotional control a calm came over me and i realized that my Daddy had said a comforting word or two before i crumpled at His feet and then He simply started doing some computer work for the office. Some might dare to say His seeming indifference was cold and uncaring but i KNOW my Daddy. That ‘indifference’ hid His brilliance. He knew that if i saw him calm and cool i would wonder why i wasn’t. i instantly realized, i just had a terrific time away, our life and home were in wonderful shape and i was feeling His masculine power and His love for His faggot permeate the room. On top of which i was lying at His feet almost incoherently worshiping Him (at His feet WHERE i BELONG) and this faggot shut the fuck up. my gratitude of His genius, and my total amazement and appreciation that such a ManGod could find anything He could actually love (and lust after) about any faggot, especially when my God could have a MUCH better looking, more appropriate cumdump than a (formerly) chubby, cumhole who is 10 years older, who is DEFINITELY not worthy of His vast reserves of patience and ABSOLUTELY not worthy of His unyielding love of His possessions. This strong devotion combined with His unshakable knowledge of His power to quietly, yet forcefully do ANYTHING He must to restore order and be the soothing, Alpha God presence to His family, the people He loves and protects (at times with His life) is what truly makes Him a God to all of us here.
I rambled on again but that seems to happen when i discuss the love of my life. Daddy says, “Tell the faggot I’ll try to shoot it an email this weekend–so its panties will have time to dry cause I know its little clit/dick just started dripping from the anticipation of contact with the God to whom you will forever belong. Now, put the mutherfucking phone down and get in bed.” Then smiling said,” you fucking cunt.” I will never understand why fate chose to gift me with belonging to this Alpha Male God.
Night brother… i got this feeling that I am about to be aggressively entered, pumped full of His copius, liquid passion, and made to feel i do deserve His all-encompassing love. my Daddy, He gives me LIFE!
This is such a vibrant description of what happens inside a faggot when owned completely by an Alpha Male.
We faggots are broken creatures. Scared. Insecure. The world around us feels dangerous and threatening.
So when an Alpha comes into our life and takes ownership of us, he brings with him order and purpose. We mindlessly work and tirelessly serve like hyperactive mice to make our Alpha happy, partially because, like a drug addict, we are afraid we will lose him.
So when an Alpha gives his faggot permission to decompress and commendation for a job well done, in that contemplative space the faggot becomes overwhelmed. All of these strong, suppressed emotions spring forth uncontrollably.
When a faggot is cunted, something similar happens. I strongly suspect it’s this phenomenon I’m talking about here.
Yes, it’s a shock reaction I’m describing. If you’ve ever seen a front-line worker during a disaster, they work so hard for so long, often subsisting on pure adrenaline alone … but once the danger has passed, they collapse and weep out of either joy or agony.
Cunted faggots or faggots in situations like Jamie’s above weep mostly out of extreme joy and gratitude. We break down because we feel so unworthy of our owner’s love and wise concern.
Master Dino may not have reacted to Jamie’s outburst, but inside he will remember every sob and every tear. These were the emotions of his faggot, his most valuable possession, gratefully offered in tribute to its god.
This is the very essence of this most primal and Hierarchical union. Alpha and faggot. Owner and owned. Master and slave. God and servant.
However it’s called, beneath it all runs deep and powerful rivers of respect, gratitude, adoration, and love.
Never feel ashamed to break down and share your feelings of gratitude with your Alpha. In his presence you are safe, and at his feet you are free.
Hi Sam, I’m Néstor and I’m 15 years old, mexican. Let me describe myself first, as the title says, I’m a quite short (just 5’3ft), white and skinny faggot. Unfortunately my dick’s 6 inches when hard (when soft it’s small hehe), I just wish it was smaller, tiny! What can I do to solve this? because I know real alpha men prefer clits than cocks around my size! Also I was wondering if we’re, short faggots, more appreciated among horse-cocked tall alphas because our leak and feminine height, are we? I haven’t been fucked yet but I want a tall horse-cocked alpha to take out my pussy’s virginity (which is quite pink and really, really tight like I just can barely put one of my thin fingers in :P) And, if I get an alpha master, how do I please him correctly?
Hi little brother! I wouldn’t worry about your little dick, but if it bothers you, putting it in chastity will shrink it. As for being tiny, YES Alphas love little eager faggots like you! They like tossing you around and picking you up like a dog with a chew toy!
I wrote a while back how I did a really stupid thing and deleted my alphas contact info. Your advice to go to his place and beg for forgiveness worked. I left a note on his door that I was down the street and begged to see him for a few minutes. He texted me and I went to his house. We stood in the door way and I told him everything, all my mixed up angry feelings I was having and owned my bitchy stupidity. I confessed the deep struggle I have with fully submitting to my fate as his faggot and the fear of loosing manhood as I enjoy being the sissy faggot he knows I am. I admitted how much I love the feeling of being used by him. I told him how my desires have shifted to wanting a man inside me in order to feel sexually satisfied. I apologized and reaffirmed that I’d do whatever he says and won’t act so impulsive again. He pulled me into his arms and held me, I melted. He said how what I told him pleased him and turned him on. I said I’d do whatever he wanted. He made me strip in front of him, kneel and tell me it all over again. As I did he pulled out his big beautiful cock snd started to stroke it in front of my face. I instinctively tried to take him in my mouth but he pulled back. He told me that to keep going and stroked himself in front of me more. He said he wanted me to see what I could have lost and if he was happy with my contrition he’s let me swallow his cum. Well he believed me and shot his alpha load into my open mouth telling me I was lucky. I was both slightly humiliated but felt so good that I have him back and got a mouthful of his alpha seed.
thanks for your advice!
This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION from last month.
Well how about that? I got one right! LOL
I’m very proud of you for humbling yourself before this great Alpha, my brother. It’s never easy. But you should be grateful to serve a true Alpha like your Master, a Man who can accept the failings of his faggots and knows how to use his power to realign your thinking!
And let me just add that I LOVE when Men do things like your Alpha did with the tease. It’s an instinctual training exercise Men seem to deeply understand. They know their cock has ultimate power, so they utlize that power to hypnotize the weak into obedience. Fucking LOVE IT!
I thank you for sharing your reconciliation! Stay humble and serve this Alpha with all of your heart from now on!
Hello Sam, I am a 26 year old fag from Mexico who is very eager to enter service. Maybe you recall I contacted you about Master Jace from Virginia. I talked to him but since we’re far away, there’s not much of a possibility. I really need your help. I have been following your advice to find a true alpha to serve. I have offered some athletic str8 friends to suck their cocks but they’ve refused. I’ve offered them service in other ways, such as meals or other favors. They’ve accepted that but strictly refused to feed me their dicks. I’ve tried grindr and online chats with no success. Do you happen to know some Alphas from Mexico? Caribbean Zone to be specific. Or any effective way to find young str8 alphas? Any other idea or suggestion? Maybe a US/Canada alpha willing to sponsor my trip? I would be paying back with extra service. PD. Will discord be back? Or any other chat? Thanks.
Brother, I’m very impressed by your courage and persistence! That’s how you are going to be successful in your search!
I wrote “May I Serve You, Sir?” to help Alphas to understand the uses of faggots. I have it in Spanish too, which mich be of help to you.
I don’t know any Alphas in Mexico, but given that this site has a fair amount of traffic you might get lucky here. You can also join the new Discord server and talk to others around the world: https://discord.com/invite/FSQMG5ww53.
Hi faggot brother, Sam, I finally gave in completely to my alpha top that I have been talking to for several months. He lives near me and wanted to put me in chastity and make me a faggot, I resisted a lot and never let him cage me because I love having access to my dick. I finally gave in about 2 weeks ago and let him cage me, and yesterday he put me on the bed and gave me a deep breeding. It has completely changed my life! In that moment when he was fucking me, I felt my mind opening up and every became clear. I never understood chastity until this moment, I’m so grateful for it, I have purpose now! By hiking my orgasm, I am broadening his horizon and allowing him to be the Alpha he needs to be. I cried afterward and was so moved emotionally, I can’t describe what happened exactly. He held me all night and we are a pair now! Is it normal that I cried? I’ve never been an emotional person like that, but I felt so happy and feminine and beautiful, I can’t describe it. I am a different person now. Thank you for this podcast, thank you for making me understand!
Little brother, this is one of the most beautiful messages I’ve ever received. So heartfelt and sincere! I’m grateful to have helped you along in your journey to this glorious moment!
I think your Alpha cunted you, brother. I can’t be 100% sure, of course, but your emotional transformation and subsequent crying indicates to me that he cunted you. These are all signs of cunting.
That’s what makes cunting so different from anything else. It truly transforms a faggot from the inside. I do (now) think that chastity has a lot to do with being cunted. Chastity prepares a faggot’s mind and heart, forces it to accept its rightful place as a possession of Men. This has the effect of opening up the faggot like a flower; its pussy then becomes the focus of its desire. So when an Alpha fucks a caged faggot’s receptive pussy, it is able to be cunted much more readily.
Your Alpha must be very powerful and wise. He seems to understand the process of faggot preparation and cunting. He also understands the importance of aftercare, especially after cunting. He knows that his powerful arms and his Alpha scent calms the cunted faggot curled up next to him.
I am so glad to hear that this happened for you, my brother! I hope you will share this with your Alpha so that he understands how extraordinary he is! I’d love to talk to him (and you) if possible. My email is fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com
Alpha Ren back here. I appreciate your answer, fag. I do understand the legal implications and the unhealthy mental issues that rape may cause, but I can’t help but keep on raping fags, it so fucking good and they always end up liking it and begging for more. I just can’t control those inner urges. So, in order to not do it with women, I do it with fags. I decided to keep my girl unaware about it and to continue demanding my right to rape fags, at least I keep them close to me and take good care of them to make them feel somehow important to me and for them to understand the importance of rape to the hierarchy.
Thank you for writing again, Sir. As you might imagine, your original question caused a bit of controversy behind the scenes here, with a few Alphas expressing disgust with the ask – and several faggots telling me how hot your question was. This schism in perspective is one of the main reasons why I never shy away from controversial issues like this one, because faggots and Alphas have WILDLY different viewpoints on it.
I thank you for giving my advice some serious thought, and I appreciate your honesty, too. I respect your position on the subject, Sir. Your faggots obviously love being rape objects for your inner rage. I’d love to talk to one of these faggots if possible, Sir. I think it would be fascinating to get their perspective on the way you’re using them.
Again, I’d like to simply thank you for your breathtaking honesty and thoughtful consideration, Sir. Alphas who are willing to speak in an open, unfiltered way about their true feelings are sorely needed in this ongoing discussion of an important topic! ~ sam the faggot
My husband and I just recently discovered that we have a fag and alpha sexual relationship, we’re experimenting at the moment with it, it doesn’t really extend to the point of a domestic fag or anything, more so anything sexual, for example if we’re watching a movie or I’m playing a game, i can ask for whatever i want with no expectation of return. I guess my question is if there’s any advice moving forward about a balanced dynamic as well as how to extend the alpha/fag relationship to more than just a blowjob or sex, but not as far as domestic fag or something. Hope it makes sense.
Thank you for writing, Sir! It’s exciting when established couples discover these natural roles lurking beneath the surface of what seemed to be a mutual relationship! Ultimately they’re inescapable!
I do think you might be trying to be too careful with this burgeoning situation, Sir. You want this, but not this … you should just let feelings dictate what is natural, rather than impose expectations upon it.
Try putting your faggot partner into chastity. Have it worship your feet. Have it take a larger share of the domestic duties. Have it sit on the floor at your feet after it serves your meal. Give it commands at random moments. Have it kneel before you and tell it that you own it and that you are proud to own a faggot like it.
Here’s what I want you to try to do: treat your faggot partner like a beloved dog a Man like you might own, and not as your equal (because your partner is not an equal). It’s time to shift the dynamics here into something that more closely resembles the truth at the center of your relationship, Sir.
I hope you understand my meaning, and that I’m not offending you, Sir! Please keep me informed on the progress, Sir! Email me anytime!
The following is an ongoing series of questions from Turkish Alpha, a 36-year-old straight married Alpha who has recently discovered the glories of faggot worship. You can access all of these by CLICKING HERE.
I love Turkish Alpha. I don’t hear from him often, but when I do, it’s usually something phenomenal.
Like this question he recently asked of me:
Hi Sam, been a while. Something I didn’t think would ever happen happened. I fell for a faggot. Not as in i am in love with him kinda “fell.” More like, this fag is so good and obedient and good looking and SERVES SO PERFECTLY, I really can not stand going for other so-so fags. Damn even writing this makes me feel uneasy. I never ever waited for a fag to text / call me first until this one. I need to fuck a hole, I call one up from my list of servants. I feel like having my cum eaten, I call a cum eater. I feel like having my feet kissed before having a shoulder massage, I tell one of my fags to be ready “tonight”. Having a wife and all, I usually don’t even check my messages from faggots constantly asking me if i need to use them, I don’t spend a minute replying their pleas of servitude. I call them when the “urge” comes and forget about them until it comes again. This fag. I want him to call me. I want him to BEG me everyday. I want to use him everyday. He does not know this, but I never rejected him so far. I fucked him 6 times, 4 of which he asked me if i can. I played the cool guy, -“yeah maybe if i have time, we’ll see” – but the second he wrote, I knew I was going to his place as soon as possible. WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON? I feel “the urge” -slap, spit on, choke and rage fuck a lesser man- for two days now and I don’t want to use any other faggots. I am waiting for this superbfag (you should see how he licks every single drop of my cum from my feet with a smile on his face). I know he would gladly serve me if i asked him now, but I want him to ask me. Last time he wrote – “I think I’m addicted to your cum, can you feed me today” and they made me.. I don’t want to admit it but. that made me happy. WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON?! Also, I never thought about caging a fag before -that’s not really a thing in Turkey- and was seeing that as an unnecessary fantasy of some sort when I saw your posts about caging. But I find myself imagining caging this faggot, and that makes me both rock hard and extremely happy. WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON?! AM I HAVING A CRUSH ON THIS FAGGOT?
It’s certainly terrifying to a straight Alpha to experience warm affection for a faggot. The whole “am I now gay?” question haunts their mind. You might remember straight Master Matt panicking about that very issue recently as well.
Here’s how I responded to Turkish Alpha’s dilemma:
My Turkish King! It is so wonderful to hear from you Master!!
No, you’re not in love with this faggot, Master. You’ve simply found a faggot compatible with your needs and personality, that’s all. This faggot is exceptional, and you own it completely.
Look at it this way, Master: a Man can own a lot of luxury cars and really enjoy them, but there’s always that one car he just loves more than the others. Its form is pleasing, it accelerates better than the others, and handles corners with ease. He’s not “in love” with that car simply because he loves it more than the rest. It’s simply his most prized possession.
This wonderful faggot is your most prized possession. You enjoy using it with wonder in your heart. You want it to enjoy being used by you (and express that) as much as you enjoy using it. None of this means you’re now a gay Alpha or that you’re “switching teams.” You aren’t. You’re still a straight Alpha, Master.
You’ve just taken ownership of your new favorite possession, and it pleases you beyond your wildest dreams. Enjoy the worship and the euphoria of this new arrangement, Master, and leave worries behind!
I really hope my words bring him some comfort, because I really have great affection for this amazing STRAIGHT Alpha! Thank you Master!
May I thank you for providing such an impressive resource for both Alpha Males and faggots. I was given the site address by a fellow faggot in a chatroom on the silverdaddies.com website. I have several questions which you can hopefully help me with over time. I’m married to a woman, happily, but with no sex at home. Although I don’t think I’m gay, for the last 6 or 7 years I have had sex with men only, with me in a bottom role, I am also very submissive naturally, in all aspects of life. First question, the term faggot, I often use it to describe myself because the “feel” of the word, and it’s connotations, best describe how I think of myself, however, I used the term in a gay chatroom the other day, to describe myself only, and it caused some offence. I can see why the word is distasteful in the wider “normal” gay community, is there a better word to describe myself in such situations, but still let people know that I am indeed a faggot, without upsetting gay men? Or should I just keep my mouth shut and let them work it out
There is an almost violent reaction against the use of the word “faggot” these days. It can get you banned from many social media platforms (I was just banned from Instagram again for using it, and I’ve been banned by Tumblr and Twitter MANY times for using the word). It’s almost a witch hunt by PC crybabies.
Here’s the real issue: the word faggot has REAL POWER. True faggots crave to be called by that word, and Alphas feel even more powerful when they use the word and see its effect on their slaves.
I have used this site (in part) to permanently defend the use of the word faggot, because in Hierarchical terms the word is almost essential. I want to normalize the use of the word much the way black people have normalized the use of the word “nigger.”
“Faggot” is the word used to describe extremely submissive gay bottoms who serve straight and gay Alphas as slaves.
Calling someone a faggot simply acknowledges its Hierarchical function. Men might use the term in a derogatory sense, but true faggots view it as a validation.
I will never shy away from the word. I embrace it. I’m proud of it, and you should be, too.
Hi. For most of my life I thought I was just a regular gay guy, but last year I discovered my inner faggot and now I am afraid I have let it take over my whole life. It scares me how much I love it when the Alphas I serve verbally and physically abuse me. No matter what they do to me or make me do, I am just happy to be able to serve and worship them. I have never been so happy as when I am on my knees serving a man. The problem is what started as a harmless fetish has started to affect the rest of my life. Any spare time I have I use to search for any and all men who is willing to let me serve them. I’ve ended up neglecting my job, family and friendships, and since I have a problem resisting Alphas who want to cashrape me, my personal finances has also taken a hit. But I’m afraid none of that matters to me when I’m on all fours groveling at some Alphas feet. I try to control myself, but it almost feels like an addiction at this point. One of the Alphas I’ve been serving regularly has said he is looking for a 24/7-slave, and I am seriously considering it. And while he is a cold, brutal and uncaring man, I would give everything up in a second for him. I no longer have any ambitions, hopes or dreams that does not involve me serving a real man. But at the end of the day no matter how much I’m tempted, I am afraid I might make a huge mistake throwing my life away for what might just be a fetish.
Hi brother! Thank you for writing! I know the out-of-control feeling you’re experiencing right now. I often refer to the early portion of my faggot journey as my “slut period” and it sounds like you might be starting your own “slut period” right now. It can be overwhelming.
For me, a key was the start of being owned by a series of good Alphas who taught me a lot and trained me to be a better, more focused faggot. I learned to appreciate the quieter, more measured aspects of regular service and the steady hand of an owner. It’s like the difference between going to a brand new amusement park and being lost in it versus knowing an amusement park well and you’re able to maximize your enjoyment of the place with more efficiency. Or something like that. You’ll figure it out in time, I’m sure.
Just know this – faghood is not a fetish. It can be drug-like due to the endorphin rush service causes, but being a faggot is something we are born to need. You’re overwhelmed right now because you’ve finally found the right path, and you’re the proverbial “kid in a candy store” gobbling down everything in sight. Just know that everything you’re experiencing is perfectly natural and part of your initiation into your TRUE LIFE.
I have been teaching students for 10+2 level and pre engineering exams,at a local institute, for last 3 years, so last week one student about 19 years came to me for studies, but he is dam sexy and muscular alpha , super handsome …so its about a week now ive been teaching him, but i am a faggot by nature , now please tell how do i start to worship this superior alpha? its really sad for me when he calls me sir , how do i tackle this …please help.
Teaching is a difficult profession for a faggot. You have this ethical line that is expected to separate the teacher and the student so that the situation is not abused for sexual purposes, but inevitably it happens from time to time. I do think the “faggot teacher/Alpha student” is a particularly potent one that can and should be exploited, however, due to the nature of Alphahood and the needs they have,
How you approach this entirely depends on your personal bravery and social skills. If it were me, the next time he called me “Sir” I would respectfully say, “Please don’t call me Sir. You are the Sir, not me. I serve you.” You are, of course, referencing the relationship of teacher and student, but using veiled, sexually-charged language that might spark the sexual imagination of the Alpha.
You must find a way to do things like this with this Alpha, because those are openings an Alpha will easily exploit for his own ends. If an Alpha thinks letting his faggot teacher suck his dick will get him a better grade, you know for sure he will take that chance. By age 19 any true Alpha has already amassed years of being worshiped by inferiors, and they are much more cunning than we often realize.
So try what I suggest above. Also, be submissive in your approach to him, smile a lot, and be genuinely complimentary. You might be surprised!
Hi, I fucked my first chance to be a faggot. I was in touch with a master nearly 15 years older than me. We were planning on meeting but the timings never worked out. One night I pinged him and asked him if i could serve his cock. His response was that he was in a group sex party and i would have to serve all his friends too and be their faggot. I got intimidated by the idea because i have no prior experience of being a faggot. I am all about alphas that nurture their fags and train them mentally and emotionally. This alpha wanted me to throw in a ring with other sexually charged men on the very first date. I chickened out and next morning he sent me a message saying I disappointed him and that his friends were anticipating me. I had nothing much to say. When i said that i want an alpha who would train me first, he asked me to fuck off and blocked me. As a guy in early 20s and someone starting it, i felt a little depressed by the attitude. The feeling lingered for some time until i decided to move on with my assignments. My question is why do people see alpha- faggot dynamic to be only driven by pleasure. Why is the instant gratification and pleasure so important when there is a larger scheme of things in place as you elucidate in your posts and book? Am i being unreasonable here to be wanting to learn from an alpha before i indulge in being used his friends?
Well, I’m sorry you had that bad experience, brother. You’re not wrong to want that, but this Alpha isn’t the right kind of Man for you now in your journey. There are all different types of Alphas out there … some are just sexual beasts, while others are more intellectual and introspective. You probably need the latter right now. Don’t worry, though – there are plenty of Alphas like that who have the patience and interest to train up faggots like you. Just don’t give up. Work on yourself and keep your focus while continuing your search. You’ll find him.
I dearly love skimming the comments section of this site because every so often you encounter an amazing experience or useful thought that takes you by surprise.
Such was the case with the comment left by an anonymous sigma Alpha yesterday (partially quoted above). His entire quote was this:
I say this as a sigma alpha: Using a faggot should never be a license to abuse. Though clearly sometimes alphas think it is and act that way. Which is wrong. The submission of a faggot to an alpha is a gift, an honor given by the faggot. There is a difference between mutual pleasure based in nature’s hierarchy and life endangerment on the part of a thoughtless, even perhaps criminal, superior. It is he who has the responsibility to discern that line because it is the alpha who has the power to act, while the faggot only has the power to refuse, which may effectively cease once it is drawn close into the alpha’s orbit.
Magnificent!
One beautiful aspect of sigma Alphas is their ability to be keen observers of human behavior. This generally lends itself to deeper Hierarchical thought, which rings all of my bells.
That quote should hang in a museum it is so exquisite, but instead I shall display it here for the world to read and ponder.
Hey man, I find your blog incredibly hot. Thanks for taking the time to keep it so nice. Throughout the years I’ve sometimes wandered to your blog as I was jerking off or watching porn. One of your posts read something along the lines of ”if you’re jerking off to this website, you’re a faggot”, putting the question in my head whether I actually am. A little bit about me. I’m a student in my early twenties. I’m tall, athletic, not anything to brag about but people have recently been noticing I’ve been working out. You wouldn’t notice I am gay and people are often surprised when they find out. I was captain of my high school sports team, I’m in a frat, etc. I have ambitions and I’m very competitive. Thing is, I like to be very submissive in bed. My type definitely falls along the typical Alpha Male lines. I have a boyfriend, who is very much an Alpha. He’s in his late twenties, director of a company, very dominant but super sweet :). When we have sex he always takes control, which I love. We have been discussing having threesomes. He’s more into younger or smaller guys he can throw around and use since he says it’s hard for him to fuck and use me like he doesn’t care about me, which he says is something he wants/needs from time to time. My type is obviously more like him, something that he has struggled with a little but has recently admitted he’s started to find quite hot. As we were talking about sex one night I showed him your site. He found it all quite hot and said he thinks you have it right when it comes to human hierarchy. I then asked him whether he thinks I am a faggot, to which he replied no. But still the question lingers in my head. What do you think? Thanks in advance for taking the time x
Hi brother! Thanks for writing! I think you are his faggot in reality, but I think he’s shying away from using that term with his boyfriend (due to the whole love thing) because he doesn’t know that it’s okay to call you a faggot. I bet you were hoping he would call you a faggot (or better yet, HIS faggot), which is why the question persists.
I love the transformation in your Alpha boyfriend you describe. I’ve seen this a lot. Too many Alphas are stifled by rules of proper conduct, but eventually Nature wins out. They must express that true power surging within them. Please tell him I’m very proud of him for taking hold of his Alphahood.
As for you, I think it might be interesting if you submitted to him in deeper ways. Like greeting him at the door by kneeling and kissing his feet. By calling him “Sir” more often. See where it can go.
my faggot is a melodramatic bitch. he thinks he’s my entire world like i should be thankful to get to fuck him when it should be the other way around. how do i handle this bitch? will cock denial work?
Thank you so much for writing, Master! I’m sorry you’re dealing with this issue, which should NEVER be an issue if all faggots accepted their true place.
Faggots are difficult to properly punish, however, because they get off on so many varieties of pain and torture. Using these methods only exacerbates the problem, as it causes the faggot to disobey on purpose so that it can be punished again.
Fortunately, I have the perfect solution for the problem, Master, but it just depends on how far you’re willing to go to make your point with this faggot. I call it “The Nuclear Option.” It’s designed to play on a faggot’s darkest fears and force it to accept reality.
It goes like this: tie the faggot down into a chair and put a ball gag in its mouth. Make it think you’re going to do something kinky with it. Once it’s secured, bring over another faggot and use that second faggot right in front of the current faggot. Do whatever you need to do to be satisfied, then dismiss the second faggot. Then go to your current faggot, spit in its face, and remind it that it can be replaced in a heartbeat. Underscore that it will obey without question or it will be dismissed and replaced. Then untie it and dismiss it.
I had a straight Alpha do a version of this with me when I fell in love with him and was out of control, and it was crushing. A faggot never forgets a lesson like this. If nothing else, using the Nuclear Option will reassert your Alphahood, something this faggot is attempting to usurp with its disobedience.
I hope this helps, Master! Let me know how it goes!
Just listen to the words of straight Master Jin! What a glorious thing to say about his property, his loyal faggots Chin and Alex!
Ownership transforms a Man or an Alpha into something more. A god. It molds his heart and mind as he cares for his faggots like happy-yet-vulnerable puppies.
Faggots are a reflection of a Man’s Alphahood. They are like beams of light emanating from a powerful sun. They are shining trophies in the trophy case of a great champion.
Hi, So over 10 years ago at the age of 16, I lost my virginity to an Alpha who was 18 at the time and much more experienced. I had already known that I was born to be submissive, but after having sex with him I had no doubts. His dominant and aggressive masculinity brought out my highest form of femininity and made me feel so at home with myself. So about two weeks later we met up again and because I was still so young and inexperienced, there was a lot that I didn’t know about sex. I trusted him the first time and it went well so naturally I just expected for the second time to be the same. Well, he didn’t have lube and I was still very tight. So he just went inside of me and I started feeling very sharp pains. They grew increasingly painful with every stroke until I finally had to tell him to stop. He wouldn’t stop. He kept going and the more he went, the more excruciating it felt. I started screaming and he wouldn’t stop. In fact, I could tell there was a part of him that enjoyed my fight. After so long I just laid there quietly staring into space, accepting the fact that I was basically being raped. I was bleeding and had a hemorrhoid afterwards. But I was never angry at him. Until this day I feel like my body belongs to an Alpha man. I was made to serve. I feel like he as an Alpha male had the right to take what he wanted. And it makes me feel so feminine just thinking about the fact that a man had his way with me against my will. I don’t believe he should’ve stopped. I was already serving him. Had he stopped he wouldn’t have been pleased & I would’ve felt worthless. Am I wrong for the way I feel?
Brother, thank you for writing! First of all, just know this – you are not alone in feeling the way you do. I feel the same way about my rape these days, as do many other rape victims. It’s all part of a natural way we reason through our traumatic experiences. You are not wrong to feel the way you do about your violation. You are simply assimilating it into the rest of your existence.
Faggots are largely left out of field studies of rape victims because faggots aren’t recognized by current psychologists as a clinical subgroup. I do think faggots represent a unique challenge to accepted views on rape primarily because, as you mention, we are born with a need to be used by Men in ways similar to rape. In fact, the line between rough use and rape is so blurred between Men and faggots that they are virtually indistinguishable.
You seem like a thoughtful and intelligent faggot, my brother. I’m sure you’ve come away from your rape the same way I did, with a deeper respect for the power of Men and an inner strength forged in the fire of violent tribulation. You’re going to be alright, I think. Just know that you are not alone and you are definitely not wrong in feeling the things you do.
Sam, I messed up! I was mad and made a very bad decision. Sir was not giving me any attention lately, basically locked my clit in a silicone cage and left for 4 weeks with little communication, I was very unhappy and feeling lonely. When we finally met again he was being very rude to me and disrespectful, I was not in a good place mentally from his shitty treatment. He was fucking me I wanted to make him mad, idk why i wanted to make him mad but i did, maybe just looking to get a rise out of him? Anyways, I was able to maneuver the cage where my clit came out and I masturbated while he was fucking my pussy and not paying attention to me. I completely stopped focusing on my pussy while his eyes were shut and blew my load like a boy does. His eyes opened right when I came and he was instantly full of rage, I could see how disgusted he was that I was hard. It felt good in the moment to see him upset, but now he isn’t speaking to me and I’m scared I messed up! He is straight and he said he never wanted to see my dick hard, it was always a caged clit. I knew it would make him angry, but I never imagined this fallout. What can I do? Is it too late?
Here’s my advice to all faggots who are serving straight Alphas: DO NOT DISOBEY THEM. You need to understand that a straight Alpha can go fuck a chick at any moment. You are not only in competition with other faggots, but also all of the women on the planet, too!
Here’s another piece of advice for faggots: your asshole isn’t some magic wonderland full of Skittles and unicorn kisses and lamp genies granting endless wishes, okay? It’s a hole in your butt that Men use to get off and out of which you occasionally shit. SO KEEP PERSPECTIVE, HUMBLE YOURSELF, AND SERVE!
To answer your question, yes he’s probably gone. Lesson (hopefully) learned.
hey sam, I’m the one who was raped by the three men. thanks for your response, it comforts me to know other people share similar emotions about their experiences. So I haven’t heard from my alpha since it happened but last night he called me saying he was sorry about what happened and wants me to continue to serve him. should I? I was ready to move on and serve other men in the future. I really didn’t expect to hear from him ever again but his attitude is so laid back like he didn’t do anything worth feeling bad about. I swear alpha males have totally different brains, they just think different.
This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION about a faggot who was raped by three Alphas.
Why do you think he feels like he did nothing wrong if he apologized to you about what happened? That makes no sense on your part, brother. Clearly he’s sorry about it.
Whether you go back into service for him is your own decision. I can think of reasons both “pro” and “con” on the issue. Your main concern, however, needs to be about your own safety.
Hey there! I’ve recently discovered your blog and I’m already a big fan! Loads of material and resources that make me realise I’m not “alone” with my way of thinking… you could even call your blog the faggot bible haha! So I am wondering in what category of the hierarchy I would fit in. I’ve recently became single, after a relationship for 4 years. My ex wasn’t into anal sex, so I’m quite discovering what I like and don’t like. I had a few anal experiences before we started a relationship so I’m not a virgin at all. I’ve always though I was a bottom, as I figured myself being a but submissive. After the break up, I bought some anal toys and went exploring on myself. I liked it when I was performing in myself, so I tried to bottom a few times on a hookup even though I was super tight. I loved it when I was really dominated, but I really did not enjoy it when it was all vanilla… Fast forward a few months. I met some cute little twinks. And damn did I love dominating them and really manhandle those boys. I’ve started working out as well after the break up so I’m quite a muscular boy. That combines with some chest hair makes the twins to go in awe and really worship me – I liked this waaaay more than being dominated myself, so I think I’m more towards an alpha than sub? As long as there’s authority play involved.. I don’t like giving head at all. I’m very thick down below as well (medium size length) so the bottoms are struggling taking me (or I’m struggling to top) but once I’m in, I love to go to town and pound and choke… yet I do want them to feel comfortable. I recently bred a regular twink for the first time and god it felt like heaven!! Although rape is a major kink, I don’t think I would have it in me to really destroy a fag like that (even though I really want to – reservations in the mindset?). I do wanna get bigger so I can manhandle those boys even better. I don’t know in what category I would fall – I’m all exploring myself so any thoughts would be much appreciated! Best wishes BShredz95
Sir, thank you for writing!
I have documented many cases like yours featuring Alphas who only discovered their Alphahood after thinking they were supposed to be submissive or a bottom. Many times they felt that way due to early childhood trauma (like abuse) or other conflicting information.
Through a sort of “process of elimination” they were able to discover that they are, in actuality, an Alpha. When discovered, their path typically follows one of two possibilities:
They reject the idea of Alphahood as a title they are not worthy of carrying
They have an “a-ha” moment of clarity and embrace their Alphahood with focused enthusiasm.
It sounds like you are on the cusp of possibility #2, Sir, and I’m excited for you. If you accept this commission, a lifetime of worship and service awaits you!
Rape is an electric word. It shocks the ears of everyone who hears it, regardless of context.
In the Hierarchical world, rape is often used to put a charge into conversations/situations involving rough sex. Alphas are the top of the food chain, so to speak, and their animal lusts are powerful and uncontrollable forces of nature. They cannot and should not be restrained by the expectations of lesser humans.
This is especially true of faggots. As a faggot that was raped at knifepoint, I can say that, in looking back, my Alpha rapist did me a favor in a way by reinforcing the truth of my existence. He burned it into my soul. Faggots need rough fucking to rattle their cages and refocus their attention on their true purpose: service and worship of Men. This level of rough fucking might be called rape by modern societal standards, but it is not really rape for the faggot. It is necessary adjustment.
On the FWA Discord server there was a lively conversation about the word “rape” and its use on social media among visible personalities in the Dom/sub scene (me included). An Apex Alpha known as DomJakewulf joined the fray and unleashed this magnificent thought-piece on the subject that absolutely needs to be read by all:
Still trying to wrap my head around the idea of “raping” an inferior or “rape-like” fucking.
Brutally hard, relentless use of an inferior’s holes is the absolute right of an Alpha, no doubt. Once consent is given, the inferior gives up any control of the intensity of how an Alpha uses him.
I would beat the shit out of any man who I learned fucked someone without consent. First, the world is too full of faggots to ever need to fuck anyone without consent. Second, a true Alpha has better integrity than to fuck someone without consent. Lesser men are the ones who take what they haven’t earned or who take outside their level on the hierarchy.
Rape is a very real crime with real victims. I’ve never met an inferior who was a victim of my fuck. Most walked (hobbled) away feeling better about themselves after the brutal, terrorizing fuck they endured.
Words have power. Alphas have power. Alphas don’t need to rape or fuck in a rape-like manner. An Alpha knows that a hard, brutal, relentless, unforgiving, testosterone-driven rager of a fuck is not rape–its just how we fuck.
Clean it up, boys. Don’t borrow a word with a very negative meaning to describe a positive a perfectly consensual experience between an Alpha and his inferiors.
First of all, BRAVO!
Secondly, his point of view here meticulously slices the line between consent and nonconsent so surgically that he should be awarded a doctorate. I love when intelligent Apex Alphas thunder righteous declarations like this! It is akin to Moses hearing God’s voice on Mount Sinai.
My viewpoint is this: faggots imply consent when they submit to an Alpha. Their consent is implied almost from their birth as a faggot, and certainly verified by an adult life lived as a faggot.
Submitting to an Alpha is the reality of offering yourself for his needs. You lay yourself out like a banquet table and invite him to eat from you until he is satisfied. In that situation, he takes whatever he wants because permission to do so is implied.
But submitting to an Alpha can also be like inviting a tornado to visit your home. You might have expectations of how you’d like that tornado to behave, but more than likely it’s going to level your house.
Every single faggot needs to remember what Master Jake wrote above. Understand what your submission implies, and then be ready for anything.
Hey Sam, After a while of reading and following your blog, I have begun to chat with an Alpha in my town. Ive got all sorts of emotions and excitement. Your blog has really helped me! What would you tell a first time fag to get over their fears and embrace the service?
Congratulations on this new service opportunity! Exciting!
One of the best tricks I’ve ever learned to overcome fear when submitting to a new Alpha is to truly surrender to him. Essentially, when you meet him the first time, kneel and kiss his feet and essentially supplicate him for mercy (in a sense). Truly become a weaker vessel for his use and control. This act has the effect of touching the Alpha’s heart and helping him understand that you look to him for guidance rather than relying on your own knowledge. I hope I’m explaining this adequately.
The foot kiss greeting is one of my go-to tricks that almost never fails. Alphas love that because it shows instant honor and respect, and the act is so submissive that it immediately triggers their dominant instinct. It will also relax you as it causes you to feel comfortable in your proper role in his presence. I liken it to being a musician going out in front of a live audience … they’re nervous until they start playing the first notes of a song, and then the nerves disappear.
Just don’t fret too much, brother. This is what you were born to do. Your brain and body will respond accordingly if you allow yourself the chance to experience it! GO FOR IT!
I’m 70, married, now retired. I’ve sucked cocks off and on for 40 years. I even serviced, one fellow, on demand for 7 years, until be died. Now that he is gone (3 years ago) I find my self more interested in sucking cocks than ever, but not just anyone. I’ve come to realized that I want that “relationship” gig like I had before. One on one, with him controlling. Clearly my prior feeder turned me into his personal faggot and I didn’t realize it or did I choose to be a faggot.. Can i choose to be a faggot and still have some control over who and what I do? How do I find that alpha?
It’s great to meet you, brother! I love older cocksuckers who have used their lives (and throats) in service to Men! I’m proud of you for keeping your focus on your life’s purpose even now!
Yes, your previous Alpha definitely viewed you as his personal faggot cocksucker. The fact that you have this hunger to return to that type of situation speaks to the fundamental truth of that situation, and how it fulfills something within true faggots. It’s our true purpose, after all!
I would get on apps like Grindr or Tinder and advertise yourself as an on-call cocksucker. Being retired helps you advertise yourself as a mouth that can be available whenever there is a need. True Alphas don’t see age when it comes to cocksuckers, they only want service and worship. You can be useful again!
Sam, I’m a small boy and most men have labeled me a faggot without giving me a chance. I have a small body frame, 5 foot 4 inches and 135 lbs with no body hair to speak of and 19 years old. I have a small dick, about 4 inches hard, and I’m almost always forced to be a bottom when I have sex. Nobody ever lets me top and I feel like I’m being trained to be a faggot. I don’t mind bottoming, but my dick stays soft the entire time and when I cum from rubbing it, it feels strange as my p-spot is touched by a dick. A guy asked to watch me fuck and I demonstrated my ability with another guy in front of him, but he laughed at me because I have a very weak cum stream, I just dribble clear juice and twitch. This doesn’t define me does it? Why does nobody take me serious to be an alpha top? I don’t want to be a faggot! He mentioned caging my dick, but that’s never going to happen!
Okay, here’s a hard dose of reality: you are not an Alpha Top. And I’m not defining you by your physical attributes (which scream “faggot”), but by your acceptance of the grooming by these Alphas. You’ve repeatedly submitted to them. No true Alpha would accept that.
And you claim that nobody will give you a chance to prove yourself, but in fact you were allowed to perform as a Top, and you failed. Doesn’t that tell you something?
Look, I have a lot of dreams in my life, and most of them will never come true because I wasn’t born with the looks of a fashion model or the voice of Shawn Mendes or the circumstances of a Kardashian. There are people born without legs who would love to run or people born deaf who would love to hear music, but Nature didn’t allow that future for them.
Bitterly fighting against the will of Nature causes us to live unhappy and frustrated lives.
Now, I’m not saying you’re a faggot. Maybe you’re just a bottom. There’s nothing wrong with either of those eventualities. But what IS wrong is your fight to be something you’re clearly not. You need to accept reality and embrace what Nature intended for you, I think.
Master Theo (@DXMTHEO) is a wonderfully thoughtful Alpha I found on Twitter. He really takes his position seriously and cares about his faggots like cherished property. I really love what I’ve learned about him.
I wanted to share his magnificent recent thread about the nature of chastity.
It means a lot to my subs to be in chastity. They strive to be the best they can be for me and live up to what they think my expectations are. Yes, as a master, my expectations of a sub are low – That’s a given, that’s life and they know this. Yet going into chastity to honour and respect me by giving up their ‘manhood’ means they no longer feel shame by having a penis and touching it. The idea of that is dirty to them, deep down it always has been. Only I can enjoy that kind of pleasure and right to enjoy my cock – They know who and what they are in chastity, the cage is is a constant reminder. A reminder of what they are and what they’re not. All subs should be caged out of respect. If you’re true to yourself and you’re a sub, then we all know you’re not a man.. Think about why you haven’t caged yourself already let this be your sign to do so. OBEDIENCE is your pleasure, not the use of your so called ‘penis’ – Being caged isn’t a kink, nor is it funny. It’s natural . Kill off your ‘manhood’ and step up and embrace what you are, sub.
Brilliance!
I suggest that you follow this great Alpha voice on the scene!
I’m straight, I have a girlfriend for 5 years now, but I have to admit that I have an urge to rape fags and take what I want by force. There’s nothing better than the feeling of power and superiority that grows inside of me when I fuck a faggot against his will, when I make him bow down to me as an inferior piece of shit, when my grunts in deep voice diminishes his masculinity, when my manhood impregnates his mangina. Knowing that, do you think I need to tell my girl I have those feelings for fags or maybe break-up with her in order to protect her from this dark side of me?
Thank you for this, Sir. I appreciate your honesty!
Men don’t like to admit that they have these powerful urges within them, especially not “woke” Men with PC sensibilities who wag their fingers disapprovingly at the mere suggestion.
FACT: Most (if not all) dominant Men have urges to rape. It is perfectly natural.
ANOTHER FACT: In Hierarchical terms, rape is an effective tool that Men use to enforce Hierarchical status between them.
Is it a clean, healthy expression of Male power? Probably not. It’s destructive, sometimes permanently harmful, and wrong in a traditional, polite-society sense. I’m purposely omitting the legal ramifications of rape because I don’t believe faggot rape should fall under the same legal definition.
In your case (and many other Men) faggot rape is relieving certain primal urges in you. It’s putting you in touch with the animal part of yourself, the part that drives you to hunt, conquer, and breed relentlessly. However, you seem to have a perspective on it that I haven’t heard before, Sir. You have an honest assessment of your needs and a desire to find harmony between your feelings. I admire that, Sir.
To answer you directly, no, I don’t think you should tell your girlfriend about your love of raping faggots. The BEST you can hope for in that scenario is that she breaks up with you and disappears.
Break up with her and then hunt and breed at will without any of the fear of being discovered by a significant other, Sir. I honestly feel that Alphas should be free of committed relationships if possible for this reason.
I hope this answers your question effectively, Sir!
hello brother. i understand you are a rape survivor. I’m a 29 year old faggot who enjoys one on one service. i usually meet alphas and straights some one night stands some regularly but always one on one never in groups. so last week i decided to have my first service session since the pandemic hit. i was to meet this 30 something fit guy who is clearly an alpha male. when i got to his place he immediately asked me to suck his dick which I gladly did then two of his buddies showed up who took turns fucking me (they didn’t like talk to me or anything they just went for it) i really wasn’t planning on getting fucked that day let alone by two guys but they were so dominant i just froze i was really confused they just took charge. after they were done they zipped up and left then the original guy the one I had an arrangement with and sucked his dick earlier now he wants to fuck me too I said no I’m too tired and my hole is sore and that i wasn’t planning on serving more than one guy then he got all aggressive and verbally abusive he literally fucked me on the floor and my god it really felt like rape but for some odd reason i just froze i didn’t know how to process this. anyway after he was done he told me to leave so i left. i stayed in my car for like an house so confused about what happened trying to process all of this. here’s the problem, when it happened and immediately after it happened, i was certain it was rape. a couple of nights later I’m jerking off to the experience. my god i really hated myself for thinking what happened was hot. i guess the whole thing left me conflicted. i didn’t plan this. i didn’t have a say in this and now it’s a hot memory? what the fuck is wrong with me? i’d appreciate some advice brother. I’m deep in self loathing right now
You do NOT need to feel badly about being turned on by the experience you had with those three Alphas. Your reaction is VERY common and seemingly quite natural. I have had similar reactions to my rape, and many other faggots and females experience it as well. It’s part of a larger umbrella of side effects from rape called Rape Trauma Syndrome.
So I guess you can see where I’m going with this. Yes, brother, they raped you. All three raped you, but the responsibility for the rape falls on the Alpha who invited you over.
But here’s something most doctors and clinical psychologists will not admit – there is a difference between the way a faggot processes a rape than the way a female does. For women, rape is a violation that scars them and destroys their self-esteem. But for a faggot, the experience can become fulfilling and even exciting.
Unlike females, faggots generally don’t have self-esteem. We are born with an instinct to be cum holes for Men, to serve the needs of Men, and to find purpose in that service. The act of rape becomes a collision between action and purpose in a faggot’s life, and it can cause all sorts of collateral emotional damage.
But underneath that there is a nagging fulfillment of purpose that excites us. Being taken roughly and aggressively by Men is something of a goal for any true faggot, so rape isn’t as much of a stretch for us. That’s why I’ve written multiple articles attempting to decode my own post-rape feelings. It’s also why I’ve stated that the raping of faggots is, on some Hierarchical level, a necessary tool in the subjugation and ownership of faggots. And yes, I know how bad that sounds … but it’s the truth, no matter how ugly it might be.
I’m very proud of the way you are handling this, brother. You are much further in the process than I was at the same stage. If I can survive it (and come out stronger, I might add), then you can, too!
I dominated my ex-alpha Tim together with my master Joe. I was hooded and Tim couldn’t see that i was degrading him with Master Joe. It was a satisfying experience because Tim never told me that he was also a faggot. I devoted a serious part of my life submitting to him while he was worshipping my master Joe . I never felt so humiliated in my life. To degrade him, see him beg for dicks and pissing all over his so called alpha face made me feel so much better. Sam, you’re right about muscled submissive bottoms disguised as alpha for some. They simple ruin it for actual faggots. What’s your take?
My take is I’m glad you were able to have this measure of “revenge” on a game-playing faggot. I really get disgusted by faggots who (I guess) feel jealous of the power of Alphas and fake their own Alphahood in order to experience that power themselves. Actions like this disrespect and insult Hierarchy.
My message to everyone is simple: JUST BE YOURSELF. Express your true nature and become what Nature intended for you.
Your situation is one of the reasons why I’m so dismissive of the idea of “switches” in the Hierarchical structure. The honesty of people like you is taken advantage of in a sense by selfish people like this faggot. Switches are nothing more than indecisive liars to a degree, and I can’t stomach it beyond an experimental stage.
So again, I’m very glad you got a chance to strike back against this charlatan!
This was a comment left today on a post from 2019.
It might not be socially acceptable to admit, but this is a real thing. It’s not fake. This reader is expressing sincere emotions and urges that Men have inside them. They don’t talk about it in polite company, or even around other Men.
It’s just a primal urge lurking in their subconscious, eager to strike. Don’t say I didn’t warn you!
Hey! I’ve been a faggot for my Alpha for 3 years, I’m his favorite faggot and we see each other multiple nights per week. Something happened and I’m so uncomfortable with it, but he is being firm with me and not changing his mind. He was breeding me about 2 weeks ago, I was on my stomach and he was on top of me. My clit was caged (as usual in his presence) and the mood was perfect. All of the sudden, he asked me to get on my back and spread my legs. We don’t usually fuck this way, he likes to kiss my back, I was confused but completely agreeable. Sir started fucking me again with my clit visible, and he had a very different look on his face this time. He took the key from around his neck and removed the shaft cover from my clit, leaving the ring around my balls. He slowed his fucking, really honing in on my p-spot, and began masturbating me. I was caught off guard, it has NEVER happened before. I have never been uncaged in front of him, I was scared to be honest. He kept masturbating me and made me cum, then caged me back while he continued to fuck. I was so sensitive afterward and lost all sex drive while he kept fucking my pussy, it was a very weird experience! He has done it twice since, even leaving me caged once and making me cum before we even fucked to use it as lube (said he saw it in a video). I told him it was very weird for me, and even slightly painful because my pussy gets so sensitive. He likes seeing me uncomfortable and said masturbating me was exciting because I could not get fully hard. I don’t know how to feel about this. It was really embarrassing and being fucked after cumming is horrible, I’m so sensitive. He is not backing down, insisting to do it more. I’m not sure how to feel about it. He is so good me, but can be very firm and aggressive if challenged.
This is a huge conundrum, brother! I’m sorry your Alpha is doing that to you! I am certainly glad no Alpha ever treated me that way, which I find to be extremely thoughtless and cruel.
Yes, I know – you’re a faggot. You’re born to serve and to be pleasure objects for the desires of Men. However, ultimately YOU decide whether you want to submit or not, right? YOU choose whether or not you are used in a way that hurts you.
If you repeatedly tell your Alpha that you do not like to be touched or masturbated that way and he refuses to listen or change course, then he has made HIS decision. So it’s right for you to discontinue service to him. Clearly he has other faggots with whom he can continue this type of use/abuse. And surely a good faggot like you can find another Alpha, next time one that takes your feelings into consideration to some degree rather than not at all.
Hopefully you can have a heartfelt conversation with him about how much this is hurting and embarrassing you and somehow reach his heart on the matter. Three years of quality service would be sad to toss aside.
Hello Sammy! Would it be considered “ok” for me to be caged but continue to use my vibrator wand on my clit while I have a dildo inside my pussy hitting my spot? I ask because I struggle to accept chastity, I’m always horny and it is too much to handle sometimes, but if I were able to still release and feel the orgasm I might be able to accept it better. Furthermore, would an Alpha be offended if I wanted to use the vibrator wand on my clit while taking his seed in bed? I do not want to be disrespectful, should I not orgasm in front of an Alpha at all? I can’t stop masturbating and this might help me get better acquainted with chastity. You always give the best advice! Thank you my fag brother!
You seem to be having trouble understanding the purpose of chastity, my brother. You’re in chastity to PREVENT ERECTIONS and HINDER ORGASMS. So no, I don’t think you should be stimulating your clit. Now, if you are serving an Alpha who has no problem with this bizarre, non-productive approach, then whatever. But I think you are wasting the opportunity chastity affords you to deepen your submission and experience the truth of chastity and faghood.
Hi Sam, I’m a faggot. I was recently on Twitter scrolling through some findom content and one of the Masters posted how much they made and I admittedly got jealous and envious because we’re around the same age (20 somethings). I know that this is the way the world is meant to be, but knowing that doesn’t make it easier combating these feelings. Do you have any advice?
Yes, it can be difficult to see the money received by Alphas in findom and become envious. I know I have given large sums of money to Alphas in and out of online findom (hell, I’ve even purchased cars for two Alphas I’ve served personally in the past) without receiving anything in return except for the pleasure of knowing that I made them happy.
But that can be little consolation when you see so little money in your account as compared to theirs.
I think that’s why I make a point of reporting the amounts of money Alphas receive in the scene. I want faggots to fully understand what they’re doing before sending one thin dime.
But ultimately we as faggots simply weren’t meant to receive those tributes. But we also don’t have to give them, either.
Hey Sam. Love the website, great work. I have a friend who I never thought of as an Alpha until something happened. We were at a convention and got really drunk. We shared a hotel room so I got us back home just in time for him to start puking in the toilet. Even though I was also really drunk, it all went pretty smoothly. I’m a little hazy on the sequence of events, but at some point we’re lying together on the bathroom floor and I’m stroking his chest trying to help him feel better. He is completely gone at this point, barely able to say anything. I decided to hold his hand and tell him everything would be okay. This is where it happens. After 2ish minutes, he randomly starts bending my fingers backwards and it really hurt. I let out some soft squeals right into his ear (cause we’re still lying together on the bathroom floor) but he just kept forcing my fingers backwards. Once the pain became unbearable, I ripped my hand away. I got super turned on. I grabbed his hand again and he did it again. It hurt even worse the second time but after I got my hand free he managed to mumble a “sorry”. But the way he said it made me feel like he didnt regret what he did. Like if given the chance, he would’ve done it again. Or like he was sorry he got caught, but he had every intention of trying to cause me pain. Does that make sense? I whispered some things to him (“It’s all about your pleasure”, “You’re the only one that matters”, etc) but he only responded with an affirmative mumble for obvious reasons. I ended up thinking it was better if I just moved to the bed and left him there. A couple hours later he rises from the dead and he doesnt remember a thing. He noticed I let out a small “ow” while trying to use my hand and I told him about what he did. He said he was sorry again but I didnt tell him that I secretly liked that he just naturally inflicted pain on me. I know you say that essentially Alphas and faggots cannot maintain a friendship if they embrace the truth about the Heirarchy. I decided I am ready to risk my friendship with this guy with the chance that it might lead to something magical. My only question is…is it worth it? I only have this one experience that started the whole thing, but it feels like such an indicator of something greater. I want to unlock his inner Beast and feel his straight masculine Alpha energy. But he’s just a regular normal guy who I cant imagine would be into this. Maybe I’m just looking for validation that the experience we went through together meant something bigger. All I know is that if he asked (or demanded…) for service, I would instantly drop to my knees and pleasure him. i think I can “test the waters” a bit before I make a big move, but is there even a chance? I have a lot of hope but I would hate to set myself up for disappointment. Looking forward to the next podcast
I don’t know if this is enough evidence to suggest that he’d be open to such an advance, but you can always try!
First, start using “Sir” when talking to him. This always gets a Man’s attention.
Try drinking with him again. When he’s buzzed (not comatose) sit at his feet or get as near his feet as you can. If you can, try rubbing his feet or even kneeling and kissing his feet. This will trigger something in him if he’s truly dominant.
Also, look for ways to be useful and offer yourself to him for those service opportunities.
Don’t be afraid. He’s not going to hurt you. Ultimately you are there to do him some good.
Hi Sam, long time reader here. Long story short, I have a straight friend who I have ‘come out’ to as a faggot, and he is well aware that I want him to use me. I give him cash every now and again and tell him I’m his ‘cashfag’ but he doesn’t really take that part on board.
how can I introduce him to his alpha tendencies and show him how to properly take advantage of me!
This is why I say that findom isn’t the best way into service. True service to an Alpha is personal submission and responsibility. Money is just a thing.
Start calling him “Sir.” Try to give him massages, especially foot massages if possible. Try offering non-monetary services (like domestic chores). Focus his attention on your submission rather than money.
My boyfriend and I are in an open relationship. I had been serving a master that lives just two blocks away. He is brutal when being served but also a great guy who hugs and caresses after he unloads. So i was cuddling him after the session when he started showing me pictures of his “bitch boys” . It was all fun until i saw my boyfriend kneeling with master’s cock on his tongue. I was devastated to see it and felt fuzzy and wanted to leave to which master asked what was wrong. After a few slaps, I had to admit. I was hoping some consolation but he started laughing uncontrollably and said he would humiliate my boyfriend in front of me in a few days. I feel betrayed because my boyfriend is a hardcore dom and to be called someone’s “bitch boy” for him is so unbelievable for me. I can’t process it. Also if master actually uses him in front of me, I don’t think our relationship will last any longer. I had a sleepless night thinking about it. Life sucks.
Yes, I understand your frustration, brother. It’s like being cheated on Hierarchically. Sadly, some males cannot just be honest about what they are.
My reaction would be to break up with him. I don’t know if that’s the right reaction, but discovering this would make service to him like kissing a sibling.
I’ve always maintained that the right approach can win over most Men with any form of dominance in them (sub-Alpha and above) or even some betas. The key to this right approach is deceptively simple: make the Man feel safe. Give him a place where he is confident and can be assured of discretion, and Men will absolutely run with a lot of things you might not expect. I’m consistently surprised (even now) at just how easily Men can shake off their feigned disgust and showy public repulsion when you get them alone in a place of physical and emotional safety.
I use this to highlight a recent question/comment I received from a reader named DSim. In it he describes his technique for seducing straight Men, even though he comes at it from a somewhat different angle than I do.
READ:
If you hang out with older (+35) married men and you let them know that you are bisexual*, they WILL use you, you just have to be brave and avoid rejecting them when they make conscious or subconscious moves towards you.
Real life example: My neighbor at my old place.
Looks exactly like the guy from CzechBitch. We started talking more and more whenever we ran into each other and at some point he invited me to his place to drink beer and watch sports while his wife was out. We sat on the couch chatting about random stuff and he made some comments about seeing older guys come and go from my apartment. I told him that I’m bisexual because I like sucking cock and getting fucked and women can’t give me that. He quizzed me further and I told him that I prefer older married guys because they are more discreet than cocky young douchebags. After more usual questions (“Why do you like it? Doesn’t it hurt? What do you get out of it? How do you meet all those guys? What about STDs?”) we switched topics and went back to watching sports.
After he finished his beer, he got up to get another one and when he came back, he had another beer for me. I cheekily asked him “Are you trying to get me drunk?” and he stammered “Maybe” while chuckling nervously. I gathered my courage and said “Why? I’d suck your cock even if I was fully sober”. Next thing I knew I was on my knees sucking his cock. After half an hour or so he said “I think I’m too drunk to cum tonight” so I told him that my asshole disagrees with that statement. First he mounted me on the couch, then I grabbed his dick and led him to the bedroom where he proceeded to really punish my ass. I’ve never been raped for real but getting dicked down by a drunk middle-aged man who’s desperately trying to cum must be pretty similar. Spoiler alert: he came inside me. I sucked his cock clean and thanked him, he slap-grabbed my ass, then I left.
After that we’ve met regularly, even though I moved out a few months after that, and he’s also referred me to a few of his buddies. Pretty good for a very masculine-looking guy in his late 20’s, huh? And this all happened because 1) I didn’t say “no” at any point but was completely receptive to every conversation and suggestion, 2) was prepared (e.g. cleaned my hole before going over to his place because you never know what might happen) and 3) offered my services when I had the opportunity.
*it’s very important to tell them you are bisexual even if you are 100% gay, don’t know why, it just is.
What an eye-opening example of a solid, patient approach! It’s really no wonder why this faggot was able to seduce this straight neighbor!
I wanted to add something to DSim’s final bit of advice. The reason why the “bisexual” trick works is because it makes the straight Man feel like it’s somewhat more normal and okay to have sex with another “dude” like himself. It links back to what I was describing earlier about making a Man feel comfortable and safe.
However, just as effective is my approach, which works the same way but from a different angle. I matter-of-factly state that I’m a faggot as if it were the most normal thing in the world (which it is, to me). This also puts the Man at ease, as he instantly understands that it’s no big deal AND I can be used because that is my actual function.
Regardless, with just a little forethought and courage, a lot of things you never expected could happen can definitely happen! Go out there and work on this effective technique!
After many years of suppressing and not fully exploring and indulging my dominate tendencies I’ve recently broken through and started enjoying faggots. I guess I’m a late bloomer. Is it normal that I still tend to hold back so as not to offend or be really mean to a fag? Because I really want to to fully use and rape fag throat without too much regard. Also I talk really dirty and can’t help making fags be my “little girls” There’s something about getting them to give up their masculinity and act and moan and wiggle like little sissies that makes make my cock want to rut. is this common? I’m not actually bi but I do enjoy straight porn. I just want to feminize fags with my feminizing tool. So far I’ve just starting finding fags and only had a few. Still looking for a couple of really good ones who would appreciate my approach. Any advice is appreciated.
Sir, Congratulations on finally letting go and expressing your natural need for dominance! It’s NEVER too late to become what you were born to be, Sir!
I think the primary thing Men need to remember about faggots is that we WANT to be treated as roughly as possible. Just as you have a need to dominate and pulverize pussy, we are born with a need to be dominated and pulverized by Alpha cock. That’s why the Hierarchical arrangement is such a perfect one. The more you let go and unleash your inner Beast, the more the faggot will become addicted to you and need to serve you.
You allude to what comes next. The power of your cock is such that faggots become feminized when you utilize it the way nature intended. It cannot be avoided. So every time you hold back in the rutting of your faggots, the longer you deny them of fulfillment, and in the process, deny yourself.
Just view your faggots like they’re one of those carnival bells you ring by hitting a trigger with a hammer as hard as you can, Sir. Really ram them and choke them and breed them as often as you want. Rape them. They will fall into line in a way that will truly fulfill you and your burgeoning Alphahood!
I reacted to the last time I was with my alpha poorly and deleted his info from my phone. Now I am regretting my petulant act and hope that he will reach out to me. Let me explain, over the last year I’ve gone from a casual bu bottom to a panty wearing, cum craving m and chastity caged faggot. It is due to the alpha man I met who say my potential and at our first hook up bred me. He said his cum in me will turn me into a sissy and he was right. The past year he has bred and cunted me to the point where I can’t deny how much of a faggot I am. I have loved giving my cock up for his and pleasing him is more satisfying than my old ways of pleasing myself. But I fight it and try to be an equal or to be considered a partner… I know this isn’t true but I fight it. Our schedules are not in sync so we don’t hook up as often as needed. The last time we met up it was really late, which is a problem because I have to catch a ferry ticket back home. I worked the next day and if I don’t catch a ferry I have to sleep in my car which makes me not able to put the function at work. I wanted to be able to stay the night so I could get sleep and go to work.I showed up, dressed in panties stockings a bra and mr Stubbs chastity cage on. It was my first time with the really small cage, it was hot. He went to town on me. Pounded me mercilessly, I love him fucking me. I was leaking from my clitcock like mad and it was amazing. He loaded my cunt three times and took a break. In my haze he asked me what time I had to leave tincatch the ferry. I looked at the click and said “now”. I then realized he wasn’t going to have me stay the night and I needed to get out of there immediately if I was going to catch the ferry. I got pissy and started to gather my clothes, I was stumbling and trying to get moving. As I bent over to grab shoes his big strong hands grabbed me and pushed me over the foot of the bed. I tried to resist but he overpowered me and started to fuck me. I have to admit that his aggression and disregard for my situation made me not want to be there, I wasn’t giving myself he was taking me and I loved it. I hated that I loved it. I had a sissygasm and it was amazing. I cried at how good it felt being taken like this. He came in me and said “Now you can go”. I raced out of there. I drove my car like a bat out of hell in luckily made the ferry. I was so pissed that he put me in that situation I anger my deleted his contact info from my phone. Now a month later I regret it! I don’t know how to reach him except wait as his door. Which he’d not like. I don’t have a question, he some times reads this blog so I am hoping he sees this and invites me back. I have learned my lesson, I need to be his faggot and will be better, he knows I always come back more committed after I stumble. I won’t run from my role with him anymore.
Well, my brother … you really opened your heart here and admitted some huge experiences both good and bad. Your reaction to all of this – deleting his information, etc. – is one of the dumbest and most immature responses I’ve ever heard.
Do you really think you’re going to find an Alpha to replace this one? This great Alpha who has cunted you and takes you effortlessly?
I don’t know if he’s going to see this response. You shouldn’t wait and let this get to the point where a return is awkward or impossible.
I like the idea of you waiting on his doorstep in a state of contrition. Shame. Sorrow. Regret. Surrender your ego and absolutely beg for the forgiveness of this Alpha god.
Hello. It’s the fag who loves his bf. Well I did what you said and when I talked to him about it. At first he wasn’t to into it. But when I started calling him sir. Not looking him in the eyes when I kneeled at his feet. I know you said to look him in the eye but it felt more submissive not too. And he totally got turned in. He is now willing to give this a try. Thank you!
This is in response to an answered question about awakening an Alpha boyfriend. CLICK HERE for that original question!
OMG THAT IS WONDERFUL!!!
Very good application of my advice! I’m glad to hear you improvised the way you did! It came from your heart, brother, and that is the key to successful faggot service!
I guarantee that your boyfriend is about to discover something deep and meaningful develop inside of him with you serving him as his faggot. What an exciting moment, all due to your simple but profound act of submission!
Hello sam i am a faggot from India , i have read your book 5 times ” May I serve you sir” and also i regularly read your articles and hear your podcast . I had tried very hard to find an alpha male who could become my master , my god on various apps and websites as per your tips but i could not find an alpha master yet in india , kindly please hep me with authentic resources to help me find a real alpha whom i can serve in india . i am very well aware that i have been created for serving a real alpha male , please help me with real websites or apps i can use to find alpha masters in india. please give a detailed answer.
My brother, thank you for writing!
I occasionally receive messages from faggots in India, a culture that isn’t exactly gay-friendly. It’s like the Middle East (not as bad, though) in that people are quite closed-off to even experimentation.
However, it does seem that the site fetlife.com has been successful for some Doms and subs to connect with each other in India. I don’t know if doublelist.com is working in India, or Recon.
This is the main issue – I’m not familiar enough with the workings of other cultures to specifically advise on this. I’m just spitballing and guessing.
As always, the best method remains the same – approach an Alpha in person and offer to be of service in some way. You have the book – use it. I made it to be given to Men so they can learn and understand what you’re offering.
Is it possible for you to remove the ads on The Legendary Thread? I sent my alpha friend that page so he could understand the phenomenon and he immediately closed it after saying “why is there gay shit on the side? fuck this.” I think if there was a special ad-free format specifically for that page, it would cause less automatic repulsion within Alphas stepping into the new territory.
This alpha likes to degrade and humiliate me as well as joke about fucking me (teasing me in ways that make him feel powerful?). When he’s drunk he’ll start telling me over and over again how he “need a hole to get off in. Any hole.” I asked him if that meant he’d let me suck him off and he hesitated then said yes if he couldn’t see my face. He’s mentioned multiple times how he needs to find a girl version of me because of the things I’d let men to do to me, as well as because of my mind (he’s super lonely and “loves that he can talk to me about anything”). He’s also drunkenly said that if I was a girl he’d fly over to america and fuck the shit out of me.
I say all that just to exemplify that I feel he’s really close to tapping into the world of using faggots, but I really really needed him to read the perspectives of other Straight Men so he could realize, “Oh, I’m still straight. I can just use them like a fleshlight and I’m still a Man.” When he’s drunk he has no issue stating it, but his sober mind… blockage is still there, thus why that page was so critical to his awakening.
Anyway, my chance to send him to that page is gone, but for future new-to-fag alphas, I truly think a lack of gay imagery on the side would help them not be repulsed and then that’s one more alpha using fags in the world XD.
(no worries if it can’t be done for any reason. You’ve got your reasons for the way things are structured!)
I am not changing the layout of a successful website to cater to one Alpha’s internalized homophobia. Do you know how many Alphas have discovered the Truth through those sidebar links? Too many to count!
You know, instead of being a lazy faggot and telling this Alpha “here, go to fagsworshipalphas.com and see what you think,” you could’ve sent him information tailored to his need for information without the porn.
NOT TO MENTION THAT I EVEN WROTE AN ENTIRE BOOK designed to help straight Alphas understand the purpose of faggots!!!! I mean, there a metric shit-tons of resources on this site specifically geared toward helping straight Alphas discover fag worship that you could’ve sent him, but you took the lazy way out.
No, I’m not redesigning the website for you. Get off your ass and use the resources I’ve already created.
so my best friend fucked me. It was a huge mistake because I really valued our friendship and I knew sex would ruin it. it’s been a week now and the dynamic is off. He’s acting strangely and I feel awkward in his presence. last night he texted me wanting head but I said no. can anything be done to save our friendship? maybe not hanging out for a while will help matters? what do you think?
I have always said that you shouldn’t get into a service-oriented situation with a friend unless you’re willing to lose the friendship. Why? Because the Alpha will lose important and necessary respect for the bottom he used sexually, and the dynamic drastically changes with sex now involved. The Alpha doesn’t know what to do with this male friend he has fucked; he doesn’t want to date a male, but with sex involved the friendship is no longer traditional.
It’s also important to remember that Men compartmentalize their lives effectively. They are like kids that don’t want food items in a meal to touch on a plate. Having a friend that he also fucks mixes too many compartments in his mind, and that becomes an issue emotionally for him.
I think you’ll need to forget about the friendship and accept the new reality: you are his faggot, his cumdump. He’s already demonstrating this new role to you by contacting you for head. He’s not going to want to go fishing or to a ballgame with you anymore, unless it might mean that he receives sexual release.
You probably feel a sense of loss because of this new reality, but you don’t need to worry about that. Being his faggot is a very special commission, too. Dive headfirst into this new reality, and become the best fag whore possible for him.
1) I have no interest in domestic service or chaos or but I’m willing to let my mouth be used. Am I still a faggot ?
2) you are right. You can run – but if you get hard sucking alpha cock on demand – it will never go away – I know even being straight I will always be called on to suck cock
There are faggots who generally don’t serve domestically. However, I do think that domestic service is just as exciting and fulfilling as any other form of service. You are missing out on an opportunity for growth by skipping this.
Hi samI’m M from India. I’m quite young, will turn 17 this year.I lost my virginity at age 15 to a man and since then have met numerous men for sex. I’ve never really been with a woman ( it’s very difficult here in India). However majority of my fantasies have been of girls. I’ve always been on top, never bottomed( and I don’t think I will soon) and have been told I’m quite rough in sex. Tried to suck a cock once, ended up almost vomiting from the first lick. I found your blog back in November, and reading the stories of various guys has led to numerous jaw dropping moments. Tho, I don’t think I fit in ur description of an alpha( handsome, big dick, cocky, Athletic).I just wanted to ask you that is it possible that I’m just a straight guy who just fucks guys coz that’s the only way I can get enough sex often, or that I’m bi or possibly gay? I’ve not seen a guy in about 2 months now since I got a girlfriend and due to studies, but I often think about those times when I destroyed those guys asses. I even downloaded Grindr once to just get a guy to fuck but stopped myself before it happened. Sorry if I’ve rambled a lot😅 but I thought you could help. Hope you understand me and reply accordingly
Sir,
It’s pretty clear that you ARE Alpha. This idea that an Alpha must be handsome, well-hung, cocky, and athletic is poisonous to so many Men like you. How can a real Man who isn’t a mirror image of some imaginary “ideal Alpha” possibly reach those expectations? I can’t help but wonder how many Alphas have given up on their Alphahood because they aren’t bodybuilders or hung like an elephant. I don’t want that to happen to you, Sir. Virtually everything you’ve said in your letter screams Alpha. More specifically to your point, I think you’re a straight Alpha who needs to express his raging Alphahood on faggot pussy. This is common, Sir … in fact, I was talking to another straight Alpha who enjoys using faggots earlier tonight. It’s not that you are sexually attracted to males as much as you are addicted to the POWER of fucking males. But have no doubt – you are an Alpha, Sir. You were born Alpha, and it cannot be lost. I recommend that you start owning and using faggots on the side so that you can at least get some relief and the worship your soul craves, Sir. I promise, if you exert your Alphahood and tap into the true power within you, everything will fall perfectly into place!
As a sort of primer for this website, I want to outline an all-encompassing vision of Hierarchy and the roles each of us will naturally embody. Let’s start with the pyramid:
What Is Hierarchy?
Hierarchy is the primary social structure of society. It is the oldest and most basic framework of human interaction, one that we see mirrored in the animal kingdom as well. It’s reflected in the principles of sayings like “dog eat dog” or “survival of the fittest.” It’s a social version of natural selection.
Levels Of The Hierarchical Pyramid
APEX ALPHAS – These most powerful Men (straight or gay) are the ones other Alphas defer to and respect as their superiors. Blessed with physical superiority, these greatest Alphas are also gifted with extraordinary confidence, intelligence, empathy, compassion, and nobility. These are the Men all other humans look to as our real-life superheroes.
ALPHAS – In a more general sense, Alphas (straight or gay) exemplify the best qualities of Men to a superior degree. They are the general leaders of our society, the Men that lead large groups of lesser males with their dominant will.
SUB-ALPHAS – These are typically straight Men who are not quite as superior or as dominant as Alphas, but they are not submissive.
BETAS – These males (straight or gay) are socially or sexually submissive males. They don’t lead, they follow. They are often bullied, ridiculed, or cucked.
FAGGOTS – These “males” (exclusively gay or closeted gay) are extremely submissive and act as slaves and servants of Men higher in the Hierarchy. They serve these Men sexually, domestically, and financially. Their lives revolve entirely around the service of Men, and can even be owned like property by Men.
OBJECTS – These are humans (nonsexual) reduced to accessories or possessions. They might be used sexually, but usually they are simply blank slaves owned by Men.
While most of these Hierarchical roles are determined at birth, sometimes males might move between roles as their natural position manifests itself through life experience. Sometimes these initially-indeterminate males call themselves “switches” and consider themselves flexible, but over time they tend to naturally settle on a single role.
The Importance Of Understanding Hierarchy
We need to understand and accept Hierarchy as a fundamental truth in human society. It’s the first truth. Resisting or denying it brings frustration and misery.
But when we embrace Hierarchy and fulfill our role, we find completeness. We find peace.
Resisting or denying it brings frustration and misery.
hey Sam, long time reader here. So recently I moved to a big city and I’m getting adjusted to the big city life. Anyway my next door neighbor is this insanely hot 20 something man. I mean he is beyond gorgeous. First time I laid my eyes on him I wanted to drop on my knees and suck him off. So my strategy was to establish familiarity so I’d say hi to him whenever we met. I then introduced myself to him and he was polite enough. This encouraged me to invite him for dinner one night. He declined he said he was busy that night. I felt I was coming on too strong perhaps so I backed off. A couple of weeks went by and then out of no where he invites me to his place for a drink. I said to myself wow what happened? I was excited so I went to his place we had a couple of drinks. He began to ask me about where I’m from and stuff like that then he asked me “you’re gay right?” i said yes i am he said do you have a boyfriend I said no. During this whole time I could not keep my eyes off his bulge. He then said would you like suck my dick? I swear to god that was the happiest moment of my life! I SAID FUCK YES! he skull fucked me for a good 10 minutes then came all over my face! it was great! afterwards he’d call me every time he wanted head and I could not be more pleased! I know he’s straight and he has a girlfriend but it feels so good when he texts me to suck him off!! I’m 41 years old I’ve had my share of being told no when I offered my services but thanks to you and the knowledge I learned from you I managed to give subtle hints and clues to let the men know I’m available without scaring them off! I’m so thankful to you! Thank you!
OMG!
I am SO HAPPY for you, my brother! Your approach and execution were flawless! It’s very likely that he’s used/owned faggots before and recognized what you truly are. Alphas have a magic eye when it comes to faggots, and we simply cannot hide from them.
As if we want to hide!
I’m sure he’s so grateful to have had a faggot cocksucker move in right next door. It makes receiving discreet service that much easier. I wonder if that’s all he wants from you. I would definitely offer domestic service and see if you can coax ownership out of him. Oftentimes straight Alphas don’t realize or understand the full range of what they’re entitled to from faggots. But once we offer more, they will many times take more.
Nice job though, my brother! Keep me posted on how it develops!
I seriously feel relieved I found this site Few quick questions: 1)is it uncommon for a straight man, to later become a fag in his 30s with no previous bi behavior ? 2)Alphas requesting their fag to feminize: is this common?
3) my desires to be fag come and go …. in between my hero activities. I can’t control it … I’m about two years into this… Does it just intensify? Or stay this pattern of on and off
thanks!
Brother, I’m glad you’re here and learning the truth about Hierarchical roles!
It is uncommon for that to blossom unprovoked in one’s thirties, but not unheard of. I think it probably has something to do with a growing inadequacy (the origin of which I do not know).
Alphas don’t typically “request” anything, they command, And yes, many straight Alphas do like to feminize their faggots (which is natural given their sexual interests). Gay Alphas don’t for the same reason.
I’m not sure what “hero activities” means … is this some sort of “Unbreakable” deal or what? Anyway, these feelings will not be going away and will likely intensify. You’ll naturally want to experience the fullness of these feelings in your life. I think you need to focus and pursue the path and see where it leads.
For the entirety of my adult life as a faggot I’ve fearlessly practiced a formula to meet and serve straight Alphas.
It goes roughly like this:
1. Find an Alpha.
2. Approach discreetly and submissively.
3. Make an intriguing offer.
4. Allow the Alpha to process the offer on his own timetable without pressure.
This simple method has led to more successes than failures in my life. It’s what I’ve preached over the years to other faggots.
To that end, I created a physical book entitled “May I Serve You, Sir?” that could be used as a tool to motivate an Alpha to use a faggot.
But the book isn’t entirely necessary if you’re a brave faggot. And that’s what this story is about.
You see, there’s this faggot in Arizona, USA named phxchastitysub. And one day it saw an Alpha at a grocery store and finally took a leap by using my approach! Here’s its story:
Holy shit your advice is good.
I saw this really hot alpha guy going into the supermarket … I summoned up the courage to leave a note on his car. “You are hot Sir! Please let me know if you need any fag service” then my number.
Good start! I tend to make it less sexual, but still workable. It gets better:
An hour later he texts me
FANTASTIC!
The faggot describes the Alpha this way:
~27ish… 6’2” fit tight jeans cowboy boots, polo shirt…. got out of a big F150 truck.
The positive experience left phxchastitysub flying high emotionally (I remember the adrenaline rush well).
I’m shocked it worked! I’ve never done anything like that and I got a good response on the very first try!
We are still waiting to see how the Alpha responds after the consideration period of the offer. But one thing’s for sure: this faggot has been changed forever!
We’ll see if it work… and even if it doesn’t this time around I’m inspired to be braver and take more initiative from now on.
FUCK YES!
I am soooo proud of my fag brother for working up the courage to make this happen! Once you see that Alphas will not kill you for submitting to them, a world of service opportunities opens up to you!
So follow this brother’s fine example! Use the approach and see what happens!
It’s just not fair! I don’t want to be a faggot bitch boy! I want to be a real Alpha Man! I won\’t submit! I won’t suck cock! I won’t be cunted! I won’t cage my pp!
Okay, calm down. Yikes.
First of all, you might not be a faggot.
Yours is a fairly common reaction when we suspect we might be a faggot. But here’s the problem with your stance: it’s inescapable. You can try to run away and hide from you, but it will return and consume you, again and again, I’m not trying to scare you … just trying to warn you.
It’s a tight ring of involuntary muscles about 5-6 inches inside of the faggot. When an Alpha violently pops through that ring, the faggot can have an amazing internal orgasm that often involves shaking, crying, and blackouts. That orgasm is called “cunting” a faggot. Here’s an animation: https://fagsworshipalphas.com/the-magical-second-ring/ Here’s a bit more on this subject: https://fagsworshipalphas.com/question/second-ring/
Hi Sam, I’ve been a follower of this blog for a bit now and i think nows as good a time as ever to ask for help. Im a 16 year old faggot living in Miami I’ve known I’m gay since very early on. I’ve had experiences both topping and bottoming which I can go into more detail about in emails if necessary. The situation is I feel this extreme hunger and desire to serve alpha men. Obviously this isn’t something new to you and I bet you have faggots lined up asking you the same thing I’m about to but how do I find an alpha to serve at my age? There are a couple candidates that I’d love to worship in my neighborhood and I have a bit of sexual history with them which I can also elaborate on but no matter how hard I try I just can’t get them to persue the type of service I want to give them so badly. For example there’s this one boy in the same grade as me who lives on my block and we were good friends for a while and I would flirt and verbally worship him as much as I could to show him that I was willing and horny for him to use but he’d never do anything about it. I even called myself a faggot around him whenever my queerness would be a topic of conversation and at one point I was so horny I literally got on my knees in front of him and begged him to let me give him head. I got close at one point where he let me see one of his dick pics abs a video of him jerking off one day I’m assuming he was horny and i was even able to convince him to let me send them to my phone and promised to keep track of every time I jerked off to them but he never took me seriously. Every time I’d make an effort he’d just laugh it off and eventually forget about it. His dick is so beautiful and I’d love nothing more than to service him and be his faggot but I’m not sure what else I have to do for him to go for it. Like I said there are two other boys in my neighborhood who I also have on my mind (one of which I actually hooked up with one time this summer) but it’s so difficult to get these boys to realize how easy it is to use and enjoy a faggot. Sorry for the long post, feel free to reach out to me in my email if you would like me to elaborate but I really don’t know what to do and I’m desperate to worship these studs that live so close to me. Any advice is welcome, hope you’re having a fantastic day!
First and foremost, I am unbelievably proud of you for your fearless approach to the Alphas around you. That is AT LEAST half the battle. You are going to be a very successful faggot with that kind of heart, little brother.
One of the tricky aspects of approaching straight Alphas is making the offer NOT WEIRD or NOT FUNNY. You need to be sincere and humble and respectful while always being open to their suggestions. If a straight Alpha senses that he can use you and then trust you with that experience, then he will be more comfortable and open to using you.
I think you might be coming on a little strong right now. I admire what you’re doing, but your actions can be a bit much for them. Remember too that straight Alphas are hunters. They want to hunt and pursue and conquer, not spoon-fed. Be the faggot they want to impulsively use in the middle of the night, the holes they can rely on when they’re in need.
I don’t need to tell you good luck, because you are making your own luck by being so unfailingly brave. It’s a numbers game. You take as many shots as you can, and eventually you’ll hit some bullseyes.
An Alpha who calls himself Commander Andrew has created a 12-minute video overview of general Hierarchy. It’s pretty well done, and I think he has a great voice.
I love Hierarchy. It’s the truth. And anything anybody creates to push this message will always be welcome here!
One of the common issues I see with many Alphas is this internal fight they wage over the standards and expectations society places on those labeled as Alpha. It’s everywhere; in commercials, posters, magazine covers, this image of the Alpha Male as a muscular, square-jawed superman with flawless hair and smooth, sun-dappled skin.
It’s an unrealistic portrayal of Manhood. Very few Men look like these ideals and, worse yet, are made to feel unworthy and ashamed to be called an Alpha because they don’t measure up. Even more disgusting, there are actual faggots – FAGGOTS! – telling these great Men that they can’t be Alpha. It’s awful.
The younger generation of Alphas are especially susceptible to this type of insidious and demoralizing programming. It’s like being told you’re bad at sex before you ever start fucking. These young Alphas look at media standards of Alphahood and hear the stupid chatter of faggots and feel unworthy.
I received a letter from a young Alpha named M who is facing this very dilemma. Here’s what he said:
Hi sam. I’m M from India. I’m quite young, will turn 17 this year. I lost my virginity at age 15 to a man and since then have met numerous men for sex. I’ve never really been with a woman ( it’s very difficult here in India). However majority of my fantasies have been of girls. I’ve always been on top, never bottomed (and I don’t think I will soon) and have been told I’m quite rough in sex. Tried to suck a cock once, ended up almost vomiting from the first lick. I found your blog back in November, and reading the stories of various guys has led to numerous jaw dropping moments. Tho, I don’t think I fit in ur description of an alpha( handsome, big dick, cocky, Athletic).I just wanted to ask you that is it possible that I’m just a straight guy who just fucks guys coz that’s the only way I can get enough sex often, or that I’m bi or possibly gay? I’ve not seen a guy in about 2 months now since I got a girlfriend and due to studies, but I often think about those times when I destroyed those guys asses. I even downloaded Grindr once to just get a guy to fuck but stopped myself before it happened.
To my eyes, M is undoubtedly an Alpha in the making. The negative reactions to sucking dick and the disinterest in bottoming definitely indicate to me that he’s Alpha. Yet here he is, struggling to accept his Alphahood due to these external pressures.
I wrote this in response:
Sir, It’s pretty clear that you ARE Alpha. This idea that an Alpha must be handsome, well-hung, cocky, and athletic is poisonous to so many Men like you. How can a real Man who isn’t a mirror image of some imaginary “ideal Alpha” possibly reach those expectations? I can’t help but wonder how many Alphas have given up on their Alphahood because they aren’t bodybuilders or hung like an elephant.
I don’t want that to happen to you, Sir. Virtually everything you’ve said in your letter screams Alpha. More specifically to your point, I think you’re a straight Alpha who needs to express his raging Alphahood on faggot pussy. This is common, Sir … in fact, I was talking to another straight Alpha who enjoys using faggots earlier tonight. It’s not that you are sexually attracted to males as much as you are addicted to the POWER of fucking males. But have no doubt – you are an Alpha, Sir. You were born Alpha, and it cannot be lost.
I recommend that you start owning and using faggots on the side so that you can at least get some relief and the worship your soul craves, Sir. I promise, if you exert your Alphahood and tap into the true power within you, everything will fall perfectly into place
Thank you, Sir! sam the faggot
True Alphas will eventually overcome these pressures as their Alphahood matures and becomes seasoned with life experience. But how many other young Alphas are like Alpha M who have the urge, but are unsure what they should do with it?
I have been straight all of my life. I’m 39. Never had a thought. When I was married I had a fantasy of watching my wife and being a cuckold. I never told her and she ended up leaving for a real alpha After we divorced I sought out an alpha and decided to suck his thick cock. Although I still date women I still need to suck thick cock. I also get off when I’m called a faggot. Is this a fetish ? Or am I confused? Am I a real faggot ? I know I’m a beta.
thanks
Your marriage doesn’t mean you are partially gay or not a faggot. Lots of faggots make the mistake of hiding behind the facade of heterosexual marriage and subsequently waste many valuable years.
I think you are probably a faggot or an extremely submissive beta. It is not a fetish. You were born to perform these natural duties, but you’ve been in denial.
I am from iran and i want to suck cocks and serve alphas but it s against law and if i get caught i will be executed how can i serve alphas?
My brother, I am sorry for your situation. You can do subtle and submissive things for Alphas, but you’re not going to be able to truly fulfill what you truly want until you move away from Iran. You must try to find a way out of there. It’s simply too dangerous in that country.
Hey Sam, Once again I am asking you for advice. I’m the fag that was devastated after finding out my Daddy will dismiss me if something is to happen between him and a girl at work he has interest in. (https://fagsworshipalphas.com/question/how-to-continu-serving/) Now so far nothing happened, I tried following your advice about emotional fits, but I must admit I did have difficulty with that and I had a good conversation with Daddy. He told me I will be dismissed if something were to happen with this girl, but he wants me to continue serving him for the time being and he wants me to continue being his good little slut. He also wants to meet up when possible (covid lockdown…) to fuck me and allow me a worship session where I can do anything I want with his godly body. Now I am still very sad, because he also told me he basically doesn’t care much about me, but he just enjoys using me. I KNOW, that’s amazing as a fag, but I can’t help feeling emotionally attached and feeling a little hurt he cares so little about me. But I am also very grateful. Basically I’m a conflicted fag… Anyways to get to the point of my question. He sent me a link to a 900 euros watch that he is interested in. I kinda want to buy it for him, as a surprise for when I do visit him to worship him. But also… It’s a lot of money, he doesn’t require it of me and he also discourages it. Reality is, he might dismiss me the next few months and it’s basically half my monthly paycheck. I think my underlying reason to wanting to buy it for him is to make him appreciate me more and consider keeping me, but I know that is a stupid thought… Should I buy it for him? What is your advice, o-wise-fag?
This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION from earlier this month.
I can’t tell you whether you should buy a 900 Euro watch ($1089 dollars) for this straight Alpha who is possibly going to dismiss you. That’s a lot of money regardless of what you made in salary per month, but it’s a backbreaker if you’re making as little as you are.
My gut reaction is to tell you that you should not buy it for him. However, I know faggots don’t always listen to reason. But my advice would be that you should only give it to him if you are able to let it go completely. It can’t be a situation where you bring up the watch as a reason why he should value you or stay. This goes for any faggot serving financially.
I absolutely must share this amazing little story about a faggot named Nick. Incidentally, I have another story about Nick that I have been struggling to find time to write … but this one must come first.
Nick is a 30-year-old faggot who has been making a concerted effort to improve his courage so he might make an effort to serve Men and fulfill his purpose. I love when faggots take this commission seriously!
But circumstance was about to give Nick an unexpected opportunity to show courage. I’ll let him tell it:
So, I’ve been listening to the podcast a lot the last few days aloud on my phone and I guess my main door was open and my neighbors boyfriend across the hall heard it and listened in a bit. I saw him doing laundry and he confronted me about it.
He asked if I believed in what I was listening to and if I was “like that” and after hesitating for a minute I told him, “Yes Sir, it’s true.” He told me he thought I was sick and he just walked out.
(Nick said the episode in question was #83 – “Breeding”)
I must tell you that I cannot express how proud I am of Nick! When confronted, he stood his ground and didn’t back down from the truth!
Ultimately, that’s how this “war” is won. Brave faggots who persist at serving Men change them and those around them. Look at the example of Master Jin and his faggot Chin; their bravery has led to the fulfillment of eight other people exposed to Hierarchical principles!
To that end, keep this in mind: that neighbor listened to it, didn’t he? And he may have had a disgusted initial reaction, but what might come of things as the information turns in his mind?
That is the beauty of Hierarchy. It is Nature’s First Law. It cannot be refuted. So stand firm like Nick the faggot! The truth shall set you free!
HI Sam, Just wanted you to know that you helped me a lot in accepting that I’m a fag. It’s been a long journey and I’m finally proud to admit it. I was struggling with always touching my dick while getting fucked by my husband and I knew I needed to stop as a sign of respect toward Him. Guess what! It’s been 6 months and I haven’t touch my dick when my alpha fucks me! I finally taught myself to only get pleasure from my man hole and Him and I only focus on His desire to cum. My job is the say, “Thank you for cumming in me Sir.” He then rolls over and it’s my job to suck his cock, clean him up before he goes to sleep. I’m so proud to be his fag and to be used by Him. So needless to say that I don’t cum anymore while getting fucked and it’s only about His cock. He gives me permission to jack off after though but never during sex. So, thanks for bringing that out of me. I do have a question though. Do you know any good sites/chat forums where I can talk to other subs about being a fag? I have bdsmlr but its kinda clunky and less interactive with people. What are your thoughts?
Brother,
Wow, that’s awesome! I’m glad to hear that you have made such great progress on your journey toward complete fulfillment! It makes a difference, doesn’t it?
I’m a little surprised that your Alpha has allowed you to go on so long with some of these kinds of habits. He must be a very forgiving and patient Man! You didn’t mention how long you’ve been serving him, though, so that might make a difference.
You’re taking the same route that I took for many years by controlling masturbation with the mind rather than a cage. I think as you descend further into your faghood you will be compelled (as I was) to finally go into chastity. It made a huge difference, let me tell you!
As far as a chat room to speak with other faggots (and Alphas), yet this site now has a Discord server devoted to that very thing. It’s brand new, but I have no idea how you missed it because I’ve been plastering it everywhere! It’s growing quickly! I hope to see you there, brother! Keep up the good work! GO HERE: https://discord.gg/kUAwUe3dPu
my straight alpha of 2 years finally got married in march of 2020. a day before his wedding he sent me a text informing me our relationship is over and I’m not to make contact with him ever again. it broke my heart, in fact it made me live in misery for months. He was all man and all alpha, what fags pussies dream of! I stopped communicating with him per his wish but now after almost 10 months he sends me a text wanting a blowjob. I was both shocked and pleased to get this. I asked him what happened? he didn’t reply. So I met him and performed well. He told me after he came how much he craved this moment! he was a total animal, I could tell he was sexually starved. He said his “wife” stopped giving him oral pleasure months ago! what the hell is wrong with women? she gets to have this god of a man as her husband and she refuses to please him? I’d kill to be this man’s spouse! I’d kill to have that honor! anyway, now he feels guilty and wants to be faithful to his wife, my question is, what are the chances of me sucking his dick again?
Brother, what an incredible story, and (sadly) extremely common. Over the years some of the straight Alphas I served who married and moved away would call me to tell me tales similar to what you said above and tell me how much they miss using me … like you said above, why do they make these choices that run counter to their Alpha programming? It’s mystifying, honestly.
I’m really proud of you for swallowing your pride (and his load) and taking him back! Even if it was only one time (for now), you served an important function in this god’s life!
Which deftly leads to my prediction: you will absolutely suck his cock again. That is a 100% FWA guarantee!
Why am I so sure? From my experience, straight Alphas who experience faggot service and then return to a life of domesticity with a female simply cannot get the faggot out their heads. Their wives simply cannot match the pure release and worship a faggot provides, so the contrast gnaws at them. That’s different from a gay Alpha, who knows he can get fag pussy anytime he wants and there isn’t anything unique about the ones he owns.
Your Alpha is at home right now thinking about how good it feels with you on your knees sucking the life out of his cock. He’ll be back.
Hello, I would like to know what can i do to my public appearance to advertise to the Alpha Men I may come across, that I am a submissive faggot that wishes to be dominated in every way ?
Well, I have a couple of shirts in my new Hierarchy store that are designed to make it plainly obvious that you’re a faggot: https://officialhierarchy.com
Beyond that, you can kneel in their presence I suppose.
The best thing you can do is approach and ask them if there is any way you can be of service to them.
Um im sorry if this is the wrong place to go im just nervous about using reddit or other not very regulated sights. Im new to this ive been a closet fag all my life as my family is very homophobic, im so so desperate to be owned by a master that is BRUTAL like will take over my life, break me down, and build me a new one to serve,i know im a faggot and i shouldnt have a say but i want my first time to be special with a master i can trust and hopefully serve for a long time but its hard to not only find one but find one that is what im looking for. I hope you can help me or at least point me in the right direction. from london , sorry if this isnt the right place i love your whole blog and hopefully one day i can maybe make it on her myself to please you or something 🙂 um haveva nice evening sorry im really nervous writing this um. If maybe you would ever be interested in talking my number is (number removed) even if its just online becauze i think your from the US it would make, well it would be the best thing to ever happen to me. Sorry for disturbing sir.
I have a book called “May I Serve You, Sir” designed to help you make introductions to Alphas in general. But if you’re looking for something that specific, you’ll need to go to sites/apps like Scruff, Recon, DoubleList, or Sniffies (maybe) in order to find them. Grindr can be good too, but it’s a bit too generic for what you want.
Hey Sam. I am serving a straight Alpha who is also my best and basically only friend. It’s been tricky but we made it work for a long time. I have always been serving him financially and just doing services for him. For the last 5 months it’s been sexual as well. I’m 23, he’s 24. He has never had a girlfriend, but now a girl at his work is showing interest in him and he is interested as hell in her. How do I continu to serve him while I know he will dismiss me as soon as he is with a woman? And I know this will likely happen on pretty short term. I have been crying myself to sleep since Thursday, when he told me. He as explained to me this is a risk of serving a straight Alpha, and I get that. But it hurts SO much… And he wants me to continu to serve right now as well, but we live 200km away and with this pandemic I can’t even meet him. Please, do you have any advice for this hurting, absolutely devastated, faggot? He is all I care about in this world, I would do anything for him. I honestly don’t think I can survive losing him as my Daddy, but I also worry our friendship will cease to exist. I hurts so excruciatingly much to imagine losing him from my life…
Oh I’m so sorry my brother! My heart is broken for you!
Like he said, this is the danger of serving a straight Alpha (frankly, I’m surprised he understands it that deeply). I had this happen multiple times, including two Alphas that I desperately loved (and it was my obsessive love that effectively ended it all). It never really disappears completely.
My advice is for you to be as worshipful and accommodating as possible with him. Be faithful. Don’t throw emotional hissy fits. Stand beside your Alpha and serve as much as he allows or wants.
Ultimately you know that this girl will never match your skill, devotion, and loyalty. He will yearn to be worshiped by his faggot, especially when she’s upsetting him.
Then you just need to ride it out. Stay occupied. Most of all, know that you provided him the worship he deserved. No matter what happens from here, he will always carry that in his heart.
Do you see that large dick in the picture above? Many Men would kill to have that thing swinging between their legs. They’d be the envy of the locker room!
One problem: that big dick belongs to a faggot named David.
David wrote to me to express the trouble he’s having as a truly well-endowed faggot.
Hello Sam my name is David and I’m a faggot. I was reading about what you call size queens and I have to say the size of a dick works both ways and not only with alphas. I’ve always identified as a faggot and never even thought of topping a guy but just because I have a big dick ( see pic ) I’ve had a total of five alphas say to me you can’t be a fag with a dick that big. So I just had to say that the size thing goes both ways. My big dick is totally wasted because I’ll never use it and I’m actually getting it locked. I’d actually like to know if this is a problem you have dealt with before or know any other faggots who have. Thank you for your time brother and feel free to share this message and pic.
This heartfelt message really underscores the issue here – faggots are born, not made.
It doesn’t matter what we are on the outside. Inside is the true and secret person of the heart, and that is what determines our actual place in the Hierarchy.
I really admire my faggot brother for standing firm for what he knows is right despite the hassling he receives.
I hope he sends me an updated pic of his oversized clit in chastity!
This is part of a continuing series chronicling the rise of Alpha Matt, a straight male and friend of Alpha Jin who slowly came to understand the wonders of faggot worship. Click here to read all of these posts in order!
The other day my wonderful Master Matt was telling me how much he loved fucking his faggot Michael when he stopped to ask a question.
He asked: “I’m worried that I might be turning gay. What do you think, faggot?”
Of course, there really is no such thing as “turning gay.” We are born with natural attractions and needs that must be satisfied. Once we reach sexual maturity we begin hunting for whatever our genetics tell us we need.
In the case of Master Matt, he’s been hunting and devouring female pussy ever since he produced his first drop of precum. The drive in him has never stopped or even slowed down; in the midst of a deadly pandemic and while also owning a personal faggot he was still dating a fucking females!
Why? Because he MUST do it to satisfy those genetic desires he’s had since birth.
Because he is a STRAIGHT ALPHA MALE.
Still, there is no escaping this fact: Master Matt absolutely loves fucking/breeding Michael, and he finds Michael extremely sexy in those moments when Michael is naked and submitting to him. There are times when Master Matt is so overcome by desire in those moments that he holds his faggot down and pounds it mercilessly like a literal animal.
So what is causing these polar-opposite reactions? The deep submission of the faggot is a macro answer, but if we investigate it more, it most likely comes down to this: the chastity cage.
The sight of a male in chastity evokes many visceral emotions in Men (and particularly Alphas). The first reactions usually involve confusion and curiosity.
But eventually the Man realizes that the caged male is no longer a Man. It is a lesser thing, a faggot. A toy for the needs of Men. When they realize that, it’s like a stoplight turning from red to green on a long abandoned highway. The Man can do whatever he wants to this caged, submissive creature before him and there is nothing that can stop him.
I liken it to tossing a bright, shiny toy into a monkey cage. At first the monkey is cautious, but curious. Then the monkey tests out the toy to make sure it’s safe. Before long that monkey is tossing the toy around the cage with abandon.
Faggots locked in chastity are toys for Men to use.
And Men instinctively know this, too. You might remember the incredible true story I published about Master Seb turning his straight friend Raoul onto the use of faggots (CLICK HERE). Master Raoul wanted NOTHING to do with faggots at all, and kept turning Master Seb away every time he’d mention it. Naturally it wouldn’t interest him because he’s a straight young Man.
Then Master Seb ordered his personal faggot to undress, and Master Raoul saw the faggot’s chastity cage … and a switch instantly flipped! Master Raoul almost immediately pounced (Master Seb’s word) on the faggot and fucked it without mercy!
I think Master Matt is experiencing this effect of faggot chastity on his emotions. Even from the first time Master Matt saw a faggot in a cage, it turned him on incredibly. He had an overwhelming need to pin caged faggots down and breed them.
But it’s not sexual attraction so much as it is the Alpha need to POSSESS and CONTROL lesser objects. He loves mounting and breeding his locked faggot because it reinforces his power as an Apex Alpha; his big Alpha cock is all that matters, and because his faggot is locked he doesn’t need to worry about the sexual pleasure of anyone but himself. As it should be.
There is a reason so many locked faggots get fucked in gyms. The Men there see the locked faggot and know it is meant to be bred by Alpha Bulls. It’s simply an animal reaction, like the monkey and the toy.
Men are programmed for this. It’s primal.
So Master Matt is absolutely NOT gay in any way. He is simply fulfilling his Hierarchical duty as one of Earth’s greatest Alpha breeders. I am SO PROUD of Master Matt for thinking so deeply about this subject and being humble enough to to express his doubts and fears!
