When I was younger I used to fuck around a lot which often included being submissive. I was never truly an Alpha’s fag, but that idea always turned me on. But for the last four years I’ve been in a relationship that’s been monogamous so far but he’s not against opening it up. He’s great and knows that I like being called a faggot and being submissive, but he’s not really an Alpha, so recently I’ve been feeling a much stronger urge to lean into my faggotry and serve Alphas, but I don’t know if I can do both that and stay with my boyfriend. Half of me wants to be a total faggot, but the other half of me is too scared to lose my boyfriend and my current life in general. Do you have any advice for my situation?

I’ve always been of the opinion that service to an Alpha is too consuming and will eventually destroy the relationship if you attempt to do both. I’ve never seen or experienced a successful execution of service to both an Alpha and a stable relationship. Maybe you’ll be the first, but I’m not optimistic about your chances.

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