To all the Sirs out there and more importantly, to all my fellow fags – 

i AM a fag!  Always have been.  Always will be.  i’m proud of what i can do for the Alpha Male.  Not everyone can offer the same although some do try.

Please allow me to try to make my points on differing subjects.

i am not what i consider an attractive fag.  Why do i get to service the Alpha Male?  Repeatedly?  Because i have a great deal of respect.  Because i pay attention to what each Alpha Male wants.  Because i am discrete.

Alpha Males are not produced on an assembly line,  Each is different, and each knows He IS an Alpha without having to pass a test.  If you have to ask you either don’t recognize what an Alpha Male is or you aren’t prepared to service an Alpha Male.  my preference is for Straight Alphas, but, i would never turn down a Gay Alpha.

i suck dick.  i suck dick very well!  When i have the opportunity i let the Alpha know what i’m offering.  It’s not too usual for an Alpha to turn down a blow job.  If they don’t like it they can easily go to the next of 100 fags who wants to suck His dick.  i tend to be allowed to repeat what i offer, because i realize each Alpha is different and likes His dick sucked differently.  Because i suck anytime i’m told no questions asked.  And, because i’m discrete.  i NEVER disclose that i more than know who the Alpha is.  When i see Them in public (and i have a lot of cross over with the Alphas i see in business and personal life) i say “Hello” and pass by.  No reason to try to sit and chat.  IF They wanted to chat They’d do that before or after i suck Them.

i’ve been with Alphas who are much younger than i am.  i’ve been with Alphas who are older than i am.  Age doesn’t make an Alpha.  Being an Alpha makes an Alpha.

One Gay Alpha i’ve been servicing for years might appear to the general public as bottom.  He has a big dick that gets hard.  He likes to grab my head and fuck my face until He unloads.  He’s never asked to see my dick.  Another Gay Alpha used to cum by and fuck my face so roughly my jaw would be sore for a day or two afterwards.  One day He asked to see my dick just to see that i was hard and truly enjoying what He was doing.  i never touched myself, because i was busy taking care of Him.

i have a Straight Alpha i service regularly 3 or 4 times a week when i’m lucky.  A neighbor.  He walks in.  Locks the door.  And, lowers His pants.  i would never refuse to take His beautiful dick in my mouth, and He knows it.  He doesn’t usually cum, but that doesn’t prevent me from trying to suck the cum out.  i think He enjoys that He can get me to suck His dick anytime he wants.  He always watches straight video on His phone while i’m sucking.

Every time i’ve been allowed to suck an Alpha dick i thank Them for it.  They’ve taken time out of their daily schedule to allow me to suck, and i want Them to know i appreciate it.

How do i get Alpha dick?  Unfortunately, there is no regular formula.  Pay attention to the Alpha.  Find something of mutual interest.  Don’t be “To Wong Foo” open about it, but don’t hide in the shadows.  It may takes days, weeks, or months, but if it’s meant to happen it will.  With one Straight Alpha we knew one another for nearly 2 years before i could say anything to Him.  i still suck Him occasionally after 8 years.  It has to be at a time when the Alpha is comfortable.  Each Alpha is different, so expecting the same result each time is ignorant.

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mealprepboy:

Over the past few years, I have served a wonderful Sir as his meal prep boy. As I understand it, this is a somewhat novel expression of dominant-submissive (Dom-sub) power dynamics. I have looked around online for others in similar submissive positions, but I have come up empty-handed. I have found much enjoyment from serving in this way, and I would like to let others know about my experience.

Much like other forms of submission, a meal prep boy performs a service for his Dominant. Just as the name implies, a meal prep boy performs all the tasks related to preparing weekly meals for his Sir. This involves all the steps related to meal prepping, including procurement of groceries, cooking, and cleanup. The task may seem arduous, but all worthwhile forms of submission involve the submissive willing giving his energy to the Dominant. And with meal prep, there are lasting benefits for both the sub and the Dom.

Being a meal prep boy comes with an important responsibility: the nutrition of your Dom. You are fueling his body’s growth directly through your cooking. Seeing the results of your cooking through the growth of your Dom is exhilarating and encouraging. Of course, the ability to help your Dom grow comes with the responsibility to ensure his nutritional needs are met. This means accounting for all the macros and micros needed for muscle growth as well as any other concerns specific to your Dom (allergies, special diet, taste preference, etc.). All of this requires careful though to plan out tasty meals week after week, and of course the willpower to execute on these ideas.

Meal prepping as a role in a kink relationship requires a level of mental effort and physical care not typically associated with other expressions of kink. As a sub, you will have to think and plan far beyond the mental requirements of a pain pig or other more passive forms of submission. Nevertheless, the rewards, in my opinion, are far greater. Besides the previously stated manifestation of your work in the form of bigger muscles, meal prepping is a useful skill on its own. It promotes thoughtful planning, nutritional learning, and hands-on cooking experience. It’s like taking a cooking course where the instructor is a sexy bodybuilder. And of course, all the world of kink is open to the sub when their meal prep duties are done. Coupled with, say, a growth regimen for the sub, you and your Dom can grow together: physically, emotionally, and sexually.

Meal prepping can be one of many hats worn by a boy, or his sole, sacred duty. It takes positive effort from the submissive, but the rewards for you and your Dom are profound.

This. Is. Amazing. 

Sounds like something every Alpha should have. Boys in Vegas feel free to apply.

My goodness, what an incredible post, @mealprepboy! Weightlifters and bodybuilders absolutely need this vital service. Thank you for sharing this wonderful advice with the rest of us!

Your blog is GREAT!

I think you’d call me a gay switch or verse – really love to get my cock serviced and fuck ass, but am happy to worship alpha dick and give my ass up for it. Recently, I had an experience that made me relate to how frustrated alphas get with fags and that a large percentage of fags are FLAKES.

I’m in my 50s, have a belly, am handsome and have an average-sized cock, but I stay hard a long time. I’ve had an amazing cocksucker for several years who is rarely available any longer as he’s now in a relationship. He’s always told me it doesn’t matter to him that I don’t have a huge cock, because I’ve got “enthusiasm” and “staying power”. He suggested I put an ad out looking for another cocksucker and said “Real cocklovers won’t care about your age and your belly – they’ll love the fact you can stay hard and will let them fill their cocklust for a couple hours.” He helped me write a great ad that was very explicit about my stats, that I didn’t want the “Hey, what’s up?” bullshit, that I would not host, and instructions for how to respond. I also said “I’m not going to blow you, kiss you or fuck you, and it’ll be done when I say it’s done.”

I got lots of replies, but 75% of them were flakes! They asked if I could host, what I was into, didn’t give me availability or stats, asked if I’d blow them after they blew me, etc, – one dumb ass even said “Just remember, it’s really the bottom who’s in charge.” WTF?! While I have found one guy who’s turning out to be great, I was blown away with so many stupid responses after my ad was so clear with what I expected.

I guess the point of my post/rant is that if a fag really wants to worship cock and says they’re the hungriest cocksucker in town and will do anything to get it, THEN DO IT. The reason they’re not getting it is they want it to be all about them, not serving. And for those alphas out there frustrated with fags, when you find a good one, it will be worth it.

Thank you for this rant, Sir! This is something I’ve been preaching since the earliest days of this blog, and it’s very true. These dumb faggots don’t understand SUBMISSION or HUMILITY or RESPECT. Then they wonder why Alphas reject their half-hearted service and their no-show mentality. 

Again, thank you Sir for submitting this to my blog!