I’ve long said that Alphas are born, not made (unsurprisingly, I say the same about faggots). I’ve seen and experienced too much of the power of these human gods to think any other way.
Ask a true faggot to read the above testimony from @thesilentalpha, and it will instantly recognize the basic truth in it. The way Alphas effortlessly capture a room, the way they speak, the way their scent causes chemical reactions in those around them.
Alphahood is a gift, a power bequeathed to select Men by Nature. The effect of their Alphahood on others over their lives conditions them to expect worship, priming a feedback loop of worship that powers their entire life.
It’s magic.
Alphahood isn’t pseudoscience. It’s not theoretical or abstract.
It’s flesh and bone, sweat and scent, quickened heartbeats, heavy breaths, tenderness and power and the penetration of body and mind.
It’s primal. It’s animal. It’s real.
To my Alphas, I implore you: DON’T WASTE IT by trying to live an ordinary life!
This thread involves the rise of Alpha Jaguar, a frequent visitor to this blog who has chosen to share his experience as a straight Alpha who learned early about the usefulness of faggots. You can read all of his posts in chronological order by CLICKING HERE!
Some Alphas are not far removed from the Beast that lurks beneath the surface. For these Men, that Beast manifests itself in almost literal, predatory terms in their daily lives.
Master Hung Bull is one such Alpha. So is Master Titus. And I would include Alpha Jaguar in that group as well.
You might remember the memorable episode (CLICK HERE) when Alpha Jaguar literally growled at another Alpha invading his territory. Or the other times in the posts linked above when he was hunting faggots like a great land predator with a scent of blood in its nostrils.
Well Alpha Jaguar has a message from his hunts for all Alphas: FAGGOTS ARE EVERYWHERE.
Here is the message in full:
I was at the convenience store the other day. The same store where I earlier “growled” at young dude awhile back. Something hilarious happened! You see it was a very hot day so I was wearing flip flops after work, I was no joke marinating in sweat. Anyway, as I was waiting in line to check out, I was kinda eyeing this hood rat kinda guys bubble ass as it was the best scenery in the place and I was as usual VERY horny. Just as I said to myself “ah I’d fuck em”, he interrupted his transaction with the clerk to turn around and look at me, he did that kind of double take that I’ve seen fags do at me my whole life, and became fixated on my feet. Call it a fag sixth sense.
He looked at me and said sensually “oh, you got your toes out, that’s hot!” Emphasis was placed on the HOT! He didn’t seem to care that the clerk was trying to hand him money, he instead was locked on my feet. I found this so so funny I just busted out laughing, because I understood what was going through his mind. Then I got kinda uncomfortable because I thought he was going to get on his knees and lick them right there in the store and also all the people around were sort of confused. Why was he complimenting my feet, why was I laughing and finding it so hilarious.
He kind of snapped out of it and completed his transaction and walked off still trying to fix my gaze. When I walked out of the store he had waited for me. He clumsily tried to make conversation and when I asked him if would like to see these feet again I thought he was going to orgasm right there in the parking lot. I got his snap chat and he offered to pay $50 to worship my feet. Can you believe that? I plan to take him up on that this weekend as I have never tried it (other than having woman massage my feet), and shit I might as well. I deserve it right!
So, I learned a few things from this experience.
1) Fags are everywhere as you say.
2) I found his lust for my feet exciting and hilarious the way it embarrassed itself in their presence.
3) I would’ve been confused about this interaction (as a straight man with no foot fetish) if it weren’t for Sam and FWA. I really appreciate the knowledge and insight that your site has provided as it allowed me to understand and capitalize on the situation.
4) I never would have thought of this guy as a fag by his appearance, urban, athletic, and rough looking he may indeed turn me into a “Foot Master”!
What led to this encounter (aside from Alpha Jaguar wearing flip flops that displayed his beautiful feet) was his fearless, unabashed lust in public when he spied a faggot. Alphas do not need to fear this kind of thing. Animals do it all the time, and Alphas are the greatest and most powerful animal hunters the world has ever seen. Why would an Alpha ever second-guess himself when his lust is boiling over? He should simply take what he wants, right then and right there!
Alpha Jaguar lives on his instinct, and it almost never fails him. He has no problem with expressing his needs to a faggot he meets randomly in his life. He understands at a primal level what a faggot is meant to be for a Man like him.
As the weekend approaches, Alpha Jaguar wrote me this:
The footy thing is still so strange and hilarious to me. It’s hard to believe it as you say a #1 fetish among fags. But I’m going to allow myself to enjoy it!
Just as I helped Alpha Jaguar appreciate that faggots are everywhere, I think he’s about to learn what I say about how foot worship affects Alpha dominance!
I love the comments and questions sections of this site. I’m always sifting through them, trying to respond to as many as I can manage in a day, and occasionally I find nuggets of really great information and advice in them.
This is one such comment. A faggot responded to a recent ask by an Alpha about chastity cages for faggots with small balls. I personally have small balls, but I managed to make my chastity cage work well enough that I never gave the issue much thought. But apparently this can be an issue with faggots who have balls that are “high and tight”.
So a reader named Jace responded this way:
“Need some advice. I have a fag who has a big clit and we keep trying to find a cage that will fit. When we find one it won’t stay on bc she has small balls. What should we do?
I have a similar issue, it’s something that takes some trial and error.
Let me start here, I think boys like in the quote and myself, always start with a eBay, or Amazon cage it’s fun and exciting but the cheap cages always have some if not a lot of issues. (This list could go on for hours) .. I’ve played with cages for 7+ years now. The cage market has greatly improved recently. If you have small (boy balls/high and tight) I suggest Kink3d with the XD ring (make sure the ring is small enough) also sounds like the + cages will make sis a little more comfortable and more likely to keep it on and not try to escape. Also the Blackout Designs is full custom to your measurements it’s about $50 more than K3D, but if you answer truthfully when turning in the measurements getting out of it (pulling the shaft out) or having ball slippage will not happen. If you do wiggle/pull your way out you will need to explain to the key holder what happened cause you won’t get it back in.
Sorry, for inserting my thoughts, just thought some guidance one how to deal with this situation that I’ve already worked through. People get fussy about the $150 plus on a cage .. but they will spend $100s on cheap cages and never really enjoy chastity cause they buy them wrong! IMHO ..
This is excellent advice! I really appreciate this faggot’s input into this situation, which I’m sure can be a problem for faggots with this kind of testicular trauma. Let me know if this helps any of you!
I recently posted THIS RESPONSE to a question from a reader who was having issues with his “shallow cunt”. I knew someone in my audience would have some useful advice regarding this curious issue.
Sure enough, a reader who calls himself “Second Hole Evangelist” offered up a magnificent response to the problem. I loved this:
I had the same issue for a while. First, what is happening is they are reaching your second hole, which is the end of the rectum where a bend occurs and the sigmoid begins, typically the rectum is 7-9” deep. I learned to open the second hole by using an “ass snake”… which is a long (usually 11” or more) but flexible toy. It is excellent for this as it has some give that allows it to follow the bend of the sigmoid. It teaches you how to relax through the pain until your second hole opens. It’s worth it, once you can handle the slight discomfort of getting it open, there is NOTHING more pleasurable. A guy large enough to fuck my second hole can make me cum handsfree every time.
That said, as a faggot, I also remind myself that it is not about me. If my alpha gets off seeing his big cock is causing me pain that I don’t find physically pleasurable, I remind myself that he’s fucking me, a fag, and not another regular bottom because I am willing to endure the pain and give him what he wants. Even if, or especially if, what he wants is seeing me suffer through it and not enjoy it.
This is a terrific way to open the entire passage of the colon (for an example, I’ve posted a picture of a 13″ flexible dildo from Amazon above).
As my brother above shows, there is nothing like a “shallow cunt” that is possible in a faggot. There are always options to improve anal performance. Keep working to grow!
I hear a lot of heartbreaking and frustrating personal stories every week. I try to keep an open mind and be helpful where I can. I think almost everyone who has come to me with personal issues would agree that I work tirelessly to help others.
But sometimes I simply cannot smile and nod about some things.
Few things truly get under my skin like married faggots who complain to me about their troubled marriages. What am I supposed to say to these guys? That it’s okay to be so far in denial of your own truth that you entangle a woman into your web of lies for many years, ultimately consigning her to a passionless, romance-free existence they would never have willingly chosen?
I’ll give you an example. This one faggot married a female years ago and they produced a son. The son eventually grew up to be gay. Early on in the relationship the wife discovered that her husband liked to service Men, so she cut off sex with him because of the betrayal. They’ve stuck with the marriage to this point for the sake of the son.
The husband complained to me that she’s withholding sex from him, which I immediately countered with the fact that he’s unable to satisfy her anyway because he’s a faggot. So then he complained that she won’t forgive him for the time she caught him servicing a guy.
And then I hit him with the ultimate truth: It’s not her fault, it’s HIS. He’s the one who tricked her into a life married to a faggot who cannot ever satisfy her.
You see, there’s a reason I’ve remained single my entire life. I knew that I simply could not live a lie in order to have some fake social shield around myself. I also couldn’t (and wouldn’t) condemn a female to live a sexless, unsatisfying life as my partner. Using another person like this is the height of selfishness in my opinion.
And selfishness is the opposite of what we are called to be as faggots.
Faggots, accept what you are. Stop clinging to the ideas society forces upon you. Stop living in fear of judgment by others. It’s YOUR life. Live it honestly, without regret and without fear.
This post is part of a thread chronicling the Alphahood of Apex Alpha Master Ursus, a straight Alpha who has been owning and using faggots since high school. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
I get it far too often. Alphas sometimes question me about how to hunt and capture faggots in the wild. The question itself bothers and confuses me, because I know there are faggots EVERYWHERE and every last one is constantly starving for dick. It seems to me that any Alpha truly worthy of the title would have to do little more than rub his crotch to snag a fag.
That’s why I was glad to receive this missive from Apex Alpha Master Ursus on the very subject of wild faggot hunting. He was just as puzzled as I was about these questions from his Alpha brothers. And, like any great Alpha, he wanted to use the opportunity to teach and guide his brothers to greater and more frequent conquests.
This is a PSA for those Alpha fans of yours who say they can’t find fags. There are fags everywhere on the hoof in the wild, ripe and ready to be harvested. I found one before 10am this morning and wasn’t even looking or trying in the least.
I am on vacation and was going from one place to another this morning. Just driving along listening to the radio. Coming down this long curvy descent there was a dirt loop pullout kind of going away from the road towards this small river that the highway followed down the pass. There was a car in there which caught my eye since it had been nothing but trees for more than 20 miles. And a cute young guy standing near the car, tight shorts sagged, tight little T, hands on hips and BACK ARCHED. **Newsflash** Men don’t arch their backs unless they are lifting or stretching.
We locked eyes for a second as I drove by and I could tell from his expression and body language that he was a fag in heat. Shit, he’s probably been going to that pullout since five hours after he got his drivers license. Its out in the absolute middle of nowhere, but tons of logging trucks use that highway since its the only route over the mountains in that whole big area. I bet that guy gets good and full of trucker jizz whenever he wants to.
I wish I could say I turned around and filled that fag with my DNA, and I would have, but I was expected for lunch at my destination and already running late. I haven’t squirted any sperm since before I came on this trip and my jockstrap was bulging, wish I could have stopped and pumped several tablespoons of Alpha seed in that kid.
But the message is fags are everywhere. I may be exceptionally observant, but it is sometimes so damn obvious I can’t imagine any Alpha using his eyes, ears, and nose can’t find wild fags. Taking a fag in the wild is almost the same thrill as the first time you kill a deer or elk. Even though animals don’t want you to find them and shoot them and faggots are praying and begging that you will catch them and shoot your loads in their holes. Maybe the Department of Natural Resources should publish a pamphlet on fag hunting! If I can find one before mid-morning without even trying, in the middle of noplace in the Allegheny Mountains, every Alpha can find fags with a little effort and concentration.
My glorious Master Ursus is 100% correct. I’m not even close to being a Man – let alone an Alpha – and I can readily see the truth in his words. Countless true stories I’ve published here attest to what he’s saying.
So what’s lacking? I believe it’s a failure to appreciate and understand the great power each Alpha has been given by the universe. Nature equips Alphas with the most potent set of seduction tools in the animal kingdom. From scent, to look, to posture, to words … hell, let’s not forget the cock and balls of an aggressive Alpha breeder. There’s nothing standing in the way of an Alpha on the hunt for ANYTHING HE WANTS.
And that’s especially true of a weak and easily manipulated faggot.
So let the wise words of Master Ursus inspire you to channel your aggression and focus your confidence on a game plan worthy of a great hunter, and make your kills!
I have a possible sub I have been working on for some time, and I need your advice. So I’ve known this guy for ages. When we first met he was this cocky guy who liked to show off; buy expensive drink, order the most expensive item on the menu, get us into private nightclubs etc… Anyway one day he invites me to a private dinner, just the two of us, and buys me perhaps the most delicious meal I have ever had. Steak tartar, lobster, the works. After the meal and a couple of drinks he makes it clear that he would be down for sucking my cock and maybe more. I\’m no idiot, so I get him to suck me off in the loo. After that we would meet regularly. I\’d come round, have a couple of drinks, maybe smoke a joint and eventually (and I mean eventually, usually after the last train home) he would suck my cock. But he always seemed really timid about it and wasn\’t very good, and when I tried to direct him he\’d get flustered and would suddenly stop, thereby blue-balling me … or should i say blue-balling myself? Anyway, after a while, I got bored of this… a lackluster blowjob will only get you so far in my book, and if you\’re not willing to surrender your ass (as he was not), then you\’re pretty much living on borrowed time in my opinion. Eventually I gave him up, it was obviously too much work for too little return. This was about three years ago. Then suddenly, out of the blue, he texts me, asking if I\’m down for a drink. We meet, and the old routine starts again, he buys all the drinks and treats me to dinner and invites me back to his flight for a joint…. I know where this is going …. So we\’re back at his place and he starts playing with my dick, getting it hard, sucking it … he does okay… Suddenly he stops and says he doesn’t want me to cum because ‘that would be gay’… He was obviously very uncomfortable with the situation so I wasn’t going to push it. Besides, I can always message a more willing sub if I want to.. Now I have no idea what is going on in his head to justify sucking my cock as ‘being straight’ so long as I don’t cum … let alone cum down him… As I have said before, I have cum down him numerous times before and I know that if I push a little harder next time he will get there again… But I’m not satisfied with him giving me half-arsed blowjobs, I want more. In the intervening 3 years, I’ve grown as a person, not just physically but also sexually too, I’m not only much more sexually confident then I was, but also more sexually sophisticated. I need to move him from giving me half-arsed blowjobs to full on sex to, eventually, servitude… I think he can get there… the question is how willing am I to devote time to this? Last time round we spent an entire year with half-arsed blowjobs … I’m not willing to wait that long. On top of this, after he stopped blowing me he revealed to me that he has only ever swallowed the cum from 2 guys (me and some randomer he met at a party)… Now all of our mutual friends suspect he’s at least bi-sexual if not gay (he goes on about all these girls he fucks, but no one has ever met a single one of them) and none of them know anything about us. But now I’m wondering …. is he so far into the closet, he doesn’t even realize he’s in it? This might explain his unwillingness to engage further…. I just don’t want to waste my time on a sub, or even a person, who is only going to give me lackluster blowjobs… I have neither the time nor the energy to handhold someone through that kind of journey. At the end of the day I need to move things along. I got him to call me ‘sir’ the last time we met, and thank me for letting him suck my cock (this might have pushed him over the edge and forced him to stop sucking me), but I need more… Any advice?
Thank you for writing to me Sir!
You have a complex situation here. First of all, this guy is definitely a faggot. However, its denial is so deeply-rooted inside its identity that trying to carefully pull it apart is going to probably waste a lot of time and result in more back-outs and dead ends.
Here’s where an Alpha like you really needs to law down the law and take what you want from this faggot. You need to be ultra aggressive and essentially force it to accept the truth. I’m not suggesting rape here (just to be clear), but something flirting with that. Also, what I’m suggesting is something like a rape of this faggot’s soul.
You need to get with this faggot and essentially force it to kneel before you and kiss your feet. Get it to admit to you that it is a faggot. Get it to pledge devotion to your service as your property. Once you get that, have it smell your crotch and armpits. Make it become hypnotized by your natural aroma. All the while continue to make it admit that it is your faggot and your property.
Then, once you have it exasperated and desperate, throat fuck it. Make it gag. Be merciless. It needs to learn that the days of playing around as a cocksucker are done.
Then, when the faggot feels like it is breaking, tell it that you are going to fuck it and breed it. And then forcefully put it into position and enter it, preferably while holding its hair or throat. You need to take it like a male lion takes a female. Breed it.
The faggot doesn’t know it yet, but you taking it in this way will be the most impactful and important moment of its life. It’s been living a lie. You are going to pulverize those lies with the power of your Alpha might.
Alphas perform this rite of passage with faggots all the time. They do this because they understand the true purpose of faggots, and they need the faggots to accept that reality. Sometimes this happens without my force.
Hi. For most of my life I thought I was just a regular gay guy, but last year I discovered my inner faggot and now I am afraid I have let it take over my whole life. It scares me how much I love it when the Alphas I serve verbally and physically abuse me. No matter what they do to me or make me do, I am just happy to be able to serve and worship them. I have never been so happy as when I am on my knees serving a man. The problem is what started as a harmless fetish has started to affect the rest of my life. Any spare time I have I use to search for any and all men who is willing to let me serve them. I’ve ended up neglecting my job, family and friendships, and since I have a problem resisting Alphas who want to cashrape me, my personal finances has also taken a hit. But I’m afraid none of that matters to me when I’m on all fours groveling at some Alphas feet. I try to control myself, but it almost feels like an addiction at this point. One of the Alphas I’ve been serving regularly has said he is looking for a 24/7-slave, and I am seriously considering it. And while he is a cold, brutal and uncaring man, I would give everything up in a second for him. I no longer have any ambitions, hopes or dreams that does not involve me serving a real man. But at the end of the day no matter how much I’m tempted, I am afraid I might make a huge mistake throwing my life away for what might just be a fetish.
Hi brother! Thank you for writing! I know the out-of-control feeling you’re experiencing right now. I often refer to the early portion of my faggot journey as my “slut period” and it sounds like you might be starting your own “slut period” right now. It can be overwhelming.
For me, a key was the start of being owned by a series of good Alphas who taught me a lot and trained me to be a better, more focused faggot. I learned to appreciate the quieter, more measured aspects of regular service and the steady hand of an owner. It’s like the difference between going to a brand new amusement park and being lost in it versus knowing an amusement park well and you’re able to maximize your enjoyment of the place with more efficiency. Or something like that. You’ll figure it out in time, I’m sure.
Just know this – faghood is not a fetish. It can be drug-like due to the endorphin rush service causes, but being a faggot is something we are born to need. You’re overwhelmed right now because you’ve finally found the right path, and you’re the proverbial “kid in a candy store” gobbling down everything in sight. Just know that everything you’re experiencing is perfectly natural and part of your initiation into your TRUE LIFE.
One of my new favorite Twitter accounts is the one penned by Master David (@davidtentwoone). He describes himself as an “executive owner” of boys.
His tweets are sublime meditations on the meaning and purpose of his Alphahood, as well as the function and fulfillment of the boys and faggots he owns and cultivates. The account is rich with exquisitely-phrased psalms of Hierarchical truth.
I am hoping to interview this fascinating new Alpha whose mind and heart have transfixed me recently.
I’ve always maintained that the right approach can win over most Men with any form of dominance in them (sub-Alpha and above) or even some betas. The key to this right approach is deceptively simple: make the Man feel safe. Give him a place where he is confident and can be assured of discretion, and Men will absolutely run with a lot of things you might not expect. I’m consistently surprised (even now) at just how easily Men can shake off their feigned disgust and showy public repulsion when you get them alone in a place of physical and emotional safety.
I use this to highlight a recent question/comment I received from a reader named DSim. In it he describes his technique for seducing straight Men, even though he comes at it from a somewhat different angle than I do.
READ:
If you hang out with older (+35) married men and you let them know that you are bisexual*, they WILL use you, you just have to be brave and avoid rejecting them when they make conscious or subconscious moves towards you.
Real life example: My neighbor at my old place.
Looks exactly like the guy from CzechBitch. We started talking more and more whenever we ran into each other and at some point he invited me to his place to drink beer and watch sports while his wife was out. We sat on the couch chatting about random stuff and he made some comments about seeing older guys come and go from my apartment. I told him that I’m bisexual because I like sucking cock and getting fucked and women can’t give me that. He quizzed me further and I told him that I prefer older married guys because they are more discreet than cocky young douchebags. After more usual questions (“Why do you like it? Doesn’t it hurt? What do you get out of it? How do you meet all those guys? What about STDs?”) we switched topics and went back to watching sports.
After he finished his beer, he got up to get another one and when he came back, he had another beer for me. I cheekily asked him “Are you trying to get me drunk?” and he stammered “Maybe” while chuckling nervously. I gathered my courage and said “Why? I’d suck your cock even if I was fully sober”. Next thing I knew I was on my knees sucking his cock. After half an hour or so he said “I think I’m too drunk to cum tonight” so I told him that my asshole disagrees with that statement. First he mounted me on the couch, then I grabbed his dick and led him to the bedroom where he proceeded to really punish my ass. I’ve never been raped for real but getting dicked down by a drunk middle-aged man who’s desperately trying to cum must be pretty similar. Spoiler alert: he came inside me. I sucked his cock clean and thanked him, he slap-grabbed my ass, then I left.
After that we’ve met regularly, even though I moved out a few months after that, and he’s also referred me to a few of his buddies. Pretty good for a very masculine-looking guy in his late 20’s, huh? And this all happened because 1) I didn’t say “no” at any point but was completely receptive to every conversation and suggestion, 2) was prepared (e.g. cleaned my hole before going over to his place because you never know what might happen) and 3) offered my services when I had the opportunity.
*it’s very important to tell them you are bisexual even if you are 100% gay, don’t know why, it just is.
What an eye-opening example of a solid, patient approach! It’s really no wonder why this faggot was able to seduce this straight neighbor!
I wanted to add something to DSim’s final bit of advice. The reason why the “bisexual” trick works is because it makes the straight Man feel like it’s somewhat more normal and okay to have sex with another “dude” like himself. It links back to what I was describing earlier about making a Man feel comfortable and safe.
However, just as effective is my approach, which works the same way but from a different angle. I matter-of-factly state that I’m a faggot as if it were the most normal thing in the world (which it is, to me). This also puts the Man at ease, as he instantly understands that it’s no big deal AND I can be used because that is my actual function.
Regardless, with just a little forethought and courage, a lot of things you never expected could happen can definitely happen! Go out there and work on this effective technique!
I understand the frustrations of many faggots out there. You desperately want to serve Alphas but you have two problems:
1. You’re to afraid to approach Alphas in real life.
2. You aren’t wealthy.
Seemingly without an avenue available to serve, you shrink back and resign yourself to unrealized dreams.
But it doesn’t need to be this way! Silent service could be a way to find fulfillment!
The great Alpha Max Potter, inspired by a post here, crafted a marvelous article on this subject with the help of a faggot named Chad.
Read on:
A fag is to serve. However, as a fag you might not have been able to find an Alpha for your devotion. This leaves you at a loss. But the world is full of men who deserve service. As a fag you should keep your eyes open for opportunities to serve silently, discreetly, even unnoticed.
“Silent Service” is the service a fag performs to better the life of any Alpha, of all Alphas without even trying to draw attention. It could be something as simple as one of the duties Chad does, emptying the trash at the gym owned by an Alpha. It is a service that is never asked for but makes the Alpha gym-owner’s life easier. Chad started this shortly after beginning to attend the gym and receiving personal training from this fit Alpha. Chad was driven by a desire for a service he could perform and began with the trash. Chad is comfortable with his place in the hierarchy and what he does is in full view of everyone. It is irrelevant if the Alpha knows that he has received service. What matters is that he has received service.
Service to an Alpha is not about you, the fag. It is not about getting credit or notice. The fag’s reward is the fact an Alpha’s life has been made easier or better. Chad makes sure certain co-workers with very intensive duties have everything they need or want, You can do the same thing. What Alphas are around you? What can you do to make things even a little bit better? Can you take on a late shift so he can enjoy his evening? Cover for him if he takes a longer lunch? Tidy up the locker room?
Some Alphas will notice, no matter how subtle you are. He will notice his sidewalk has been swept. The Alpha might never mention the service. Instead, he might choose to subtly give you more tasks. Let’s say you roll his trash to the curb for pick-up. Recyclables might then appear that need to be sorted and taken with the trash for pick-up. Do it. Or, perhaps the Alpha will indeed acknowledge what you are doing for him. What you do for the Alpha is more important than whether or not it leads you to his dick. If the Alpha chooses to let you at his dick, the Fag should be extra grateful to have done the work and gotten the opportunity to provide this additional service.
Chad describes this as a “dance”, the fag serves the Alpha while the Alpha accepts and acknowledges the service but possibly without coming out and saying it outright. Telling the fag the Alpha is happy to see him, saying “you spoil me”, or anything like that is a vanilla way of saying “Good Boy”. Listen for these clues hinting that the Alpha likes the attention.
Let us take a model conversation to see how a fag can respond and open the door for more service:
Alpha: “Oh hey, thanks for taking my trash down.”
Fag: “Happy to help out Sir, took mine at the same time. I notice your lawn needs raking. I’ve always found raking relaxing. I can let my mind wander. May I do yours once I finish mine?”
Let’s break down that exchange a bit. The Alpha give a casual thanks to the fag. Being thanked is common in regular society, and the Alpha is using that. He also implies it was a simple task because it is not unexpected that one neighbor would do that for another. The Alpha has acted in a way that is polite to a non-fag neighbor. This is your opportunity to show that you are ready to do more.
The fag’s response in this example does a number of things. First, the fag starts out expressing his joy at serving, using the everyday phrase, “Happy to help”. “Sir” is included to indicate that the fag is adopting a subservient position. Let the Alpha know you know he is an Alpha. Next, the fag points out another service he could perform. This service (‘raking the yard’) is obvious to anyone, even those who have not been keenly observing the Alpha as the fag has been.
The fag must offer to perform the service in a subtle way that makes the Alpha’s potential relationship to the fag inconspicuous to society. Until an Alpha/fag relationship is established, an Alpha will often treat offers of service from a fag like he would a vanilla person. Part of a fag’s job is to make it easier on the Alpha to accept service in a comfortable, easy way. Here, the fag treats raking the Alpha’s yard as a favor to the fag, which it is.
You want to seduce the Alpha to accept your service. Later, he may decide to use you for other things, but at the start you want to serve him. It is his choice what he wants to have you do for him, and it is your job to make yourself available no matter what that happens to be.
Fags must perform all services to a very high standard. The fag should prioritize the service to the new Alpha to show his enthusiasm. Having done any task, the fag has proven his willingness to serve and can request (or be assigned) more tasks. The initial Silent Service can lead to much more. The better a job you do for the Alpha, the more likely he’ll have you do more.
One thing to look out for when you offer service are the surroundings. Not all fags can be as forward as site-host Sam. If you work with an Alpha, where assisting or taking on duties is acceptable, offering sexual service in or out of the workplace could be a problem with HR. Offer services that are appropriate for the setting. Don’t put on a show (“Girl, can I get you coke?”) Look for the best time for the Alpha to receive your offer, and what you have to offer. A blow job offered in front of his buddies is not the way to go, but offering to put up weights after he does a heavy set is.
Service is very fulfilling. If you do not have an Alpha to service, you can service all Alphas by doing things for all of them. Choose your service wisely, do not look to be noticed, and when you have the opportunity to offer more, do it in a way that is most pleasing and convenient for the Alpha. It’s all about the Alpha, every bit of it. Do it for all the Alphas.
How encouraging is that?
It’s so easy for faggots to become discouraged or downhearted when they hear crazy success stories of other faggots, or read comments like this braggadocios one left on this site in the last day from a wealthy faggot:
Yup. I am a very wealthy, successful fag. This is one reason the whole “you’re worthless” thing that some second-rate doms say rings false to me. I’m not worthless. I contribute a hell of a lot to society: I’m pretty sure that, without my work, my community would be a much sadder place. Which makes it all the more meaningful when I get on my knees and serve an alpha male. What kind of tribute is it, to have a worthless piece of crap serve you? None at all. What kind of tribute is it to have a well-respected and successful man serve you? A big one! So I work to be successful in my career and valuable to my community so I can also be meaningfully submissive to alpha males. Service isn’t just sucking dicks and doing laundry.
This faggot (who doesn’t support this site, BTW) doesn’t get the true meaning of service. It uses the term “meaningfully submissive” as a classist term in order to set its extravagant form of service above the service of poorer faggots.
I tell you that a faggot who serves silently simply for the joy of being useful to Alphas is richer in spirit and more fully embodies the spirit of Hierarchy!
So seek out simple ways to improve the lives of superior Men every day! Even if he doesn’t acknowledge the act, the knowledge that you contributed will fill your heart with purpose!
This thread follows the thoughts and reflections of a 38-year-old Apex Alpha named Master Aresson as he sets out to rule the world. CLICK HERE to follow these posts in chronological order!
Over the years of breeding faggots, Master Daniel has picked up several skills. One of the most important skills he’s acquired is the ability to cunt a faggot.
The first time he accidentally cunted a faggot during one of his power ruts, he was surprised. “I was shocked because I did not understand the process back then. I didn’t do it right or for the right reason,” he admitted.
Since then Master Daniel has not only mastered the art of cunting, but he understands the processing of a cunting.
I think there are stages. Resetting, reprogramming, restarting & subordination.
Fags are confused by society. They are conflicted by what society tells them about equality, masculinity, gender roles, love, etc. All this versus their natural belief in hierarchy. It’s a state of mental struggle.
First all these false beliefs need to be reset. This is done by rutting them. Fucking deep is like reformatting their hard disk. Making it ready for new information.
Let me just stop here. I fucking LOVE this idea of reformatting a faggot through the use of rutting. It’s basically an Alpha thoroughly destroying the false image the faggot has about itself, the fake persona the world forces it to adopt.
Rutting obliterates that false front and allows the faggot to accept the truth of its existence.
Then it can be reprogrammed. The information is “downloaded” (so to speak) through the alpha’s seed. It has to be planted deep past the second sphincter to enter the bloodstream.
Now the fag will “awake”. Understanding its natural place. All the conflict will suddenly be released. It is a very emotional moment for the fag. On top it has just undergone a reshaping of its hole.
We see different reactions here. Paralysis, shaking, crying. The alpha needs to hold the fag to his chest. Feeling the strength, steady heartbeat and inhaling the musk of the alpha will stabilize the fag.
To be honest, I’ve talked to very experienced Alphas and faggots about cunting, and none of them defined the emotional toll and remedy better than Master Daniel does right here.
But then he went on to describe the profound post-cunting changes in the faggot:
In most cases in my experience fags now become very submissive. They want to show their master respect. Often they subordinate by falling to their knees, kissing master’s feet or asking to be showered in piss. The alpha should grant the wishes as it will help the fag to imprint on its master.
Then Master Daniel closes his thoughts on cunting with this beautiful message:
Cunting is a gift of the alpha to the fag. Cunting releases it from the boundaries of society, gives it purpose and security.
BRAVO!
Many faggots have been cunted by the skilled Alpha cock of Master Daniel. They’ve been held by his strong arms while they convulsed in ecstasy.
They’ve been set free to be what nature meant them to be.
Men like Master Daniel are born with this very special power to completely transform other males into pure faggots. Think about that ability! Before cunting it was an ordinary male, but after cunting it is a brand new creation!
Only Men have the power to do that! Men like Master Daniel:
Imagine being cunted by Master Daniel above!
Faggots everywhere, thank your Alphas and worship them daily! Between their legs lies the key to your freedom and purpose!
And Alphas, use your power as a Man to unlock your faggots and enslave them for life!
This article by Sir Max Potter was inspired by his response in the comments section (CLICK HERE).
Not all Alphas want to ruin the lives of their Fags. Owning a Fag comes with a lot of responsibility. Where Alphas may make it tough on the Fag, wise Alphas will assure the Fag can continue to serve.
A Fag may have a spouse, job, bank account. If the Alpha costs the Fag these, it may break the Fag so severly as to no longer be abe to proivde the service the Alpha deserves. A Fag’s spouse may see like a distraction, but for a Fag in a happy marriage, the Alpha breaking it up will send the Fag into a tailspring of depression, so service could be discontinued or at least dispirited. The same is true for forcing the Fag to quit (or to lose) his job. If he’s been providing money, that ends. How will he live or have a cell phone to be summoned? Will the Alpha move the Fag into this house?
A wise Alpha will not destroy a Fags life, but assures the Fag is not distracted by those problems and can focus on the Alpha. Some of the articles on this site describe Alphas bring in Fags to live with them, or be sure they finish school. By managing the Fag, the Alpha gets a better servant. A servant more dedicated to the Alpha.
Some Alphas do disregard the life state of their Fags, and by doing so the Fag may feel compleled to withdraw service, or be made unable to serve. Burning through Fags means you have to constantly train new ones in your preferences.
Alphas who want a talented Fag devoted to him will assist the Fag, even if that is limited to not interfering. Guiding the Fag in staying loyal to marriages, working hard at their job, means the Fag will be on call and ready for years, providing more and more unquestioned service and more tailored to the Alpha’s preferences.
For an Alpha, providing good guidance is an inborn ability. For a Fag, following such good advice is a gold mine.
This post was originally written by a (now deactivated) Tumblr called @breaking-in-whores. I’m preserving this useful information for posterity.
Something I find slightly annoying as a dominant guy is how few (but otherwise completely good) sluts don’t really get how to do dirty talk. So here’s a guide based on my experience as a dominant man.
Inevitably this is going to reflect some of my personal tastes but hopefully it’s also general enough to be useful to any slut who wants to please a man by being the filthy talking whore he dreams about:
1. Beg
Most men, unless they’re unsafe assholes, don’t want to go too far and hurt you (at least not too much). This means their natural instinct is to hold back. But even if they’ve learnt not to hold back then it’s pretty much always the case that hearing you beg for more makes it easier to forget that nagging instinct and to know that they have an eager little slut to use.
So say things like “Please fuck my cunt/throat/ass” or “Please rape me/fuck me hard” or “Please make me your whore” and any variations on those themes. Whatever he’s doing, beg him to do more of it. Plead with him to use you. Not only will he love hearing you beg but he’ll also use you even harder as a result.
Win win.
2. You don’t “want”, you “need”
Hearing a whore say she wants your cock is nice. Hearing that she needs it is better.
You want him to know that you’re a mindless slut who needs to be used. Who doesn’t just want what he’s doing to you but who craves it. Much like 1) it helps him think that you really are a complete slut who loves what he’s doing to you.
So whenever you’re about to say “I want X” say “I need X” instead.
Say things like “I need your cock in my ass/cunt/pussy” or “I need to be filled with your cock” or “I need to taste your cum”. I guarantee he’ll appreciate it.
3. Flatter him
We all like compliments. Men especially like them about their cocks. It doesn’t matter how big he is or isn’t, or how well he fucks. If you want to make him enjoy himself then compliment him.
Saying things like “your cock feels so big inside me”, “oh my god, I love your dick” or “I love it when you fuck me like this/do X to me” will help stroke his ego and make him enjoy using you more.
You can also extend this to praising whatever he’s doing. If he’s making you feel good then tell him how good it feels, moan like a slutty little whore as you tell him how amazing his cock feels inside you (this also has the advantage that it encourages him to keep doing something you’re enjoying). Or if he’s hurting you then praise that as well, let him know that you’re a filthy pain slut and what he’s doing “hurts so good”.
All of these will encourage him to double down on how he’s using you and bring him more pleasure. And since that’s the only thing that should matter to a good little whore then this is definitely something you need to do.
4. You love being degraded
This one’s simple. If you’re having the kind of sex where dirty talk makes sense then it’s already going to be at least a little degrading and you wouldn’t be having that kind of sex unless you enjoyed it (or hate it but are addicted to it).
So all you need to do is make it clear how much you enjoy (and need – remember that from earlier?) being degraded and used. This will help spur him on to use you remorselessly to satisfy his urges so if you’re craving being thoroughly fucked and used then this is the kind of dirty talking for you.
The simplest way to do this is just to ask him to do degrading things to you – or to keep doing the degrading things he’s already doing. Ask for things that humiliate and objectify you and tell him how much you love them.
Say things like “I love being your worthless cum dump”, or “thank you for treating me like the pathetic fucktoy I am” or “please let me taste my ass on your cock” or “I love gagging on your thick cock”. Again, it doesn’t matter if you don’t actually like the kind of degradation you’re talking about or if he doesn’t actually do all the things you say you like when you’re dirty talking.
What matters is that what you’re saying will put him in the mindset to use you the way he most enjoys and lets him know that you’re his dirty little toy for him to use. And, trust me, that’s the kind of thing that will thrill him and keep him coming back for more.
5. Repetition
There are some things in life where the same thing happening over and over again can be boring. This is not the case with fucking. If you love a particular position then you’re going to enjoy fucking more, not less, if that position is one you use every time you fuck.
Similarly for guys, if there’s a bit of dirty talk they like then hearing it on a regular basis will make fucking better, not boring. If there’s a particular genres of porn he likes then odds are he’ll usually watch porn in that genre. In the same way, if he likes his girl begging to taste his cum then odds are he’ll usually want her to say that every time he’s getting ready to cum in her mouth.
So if he gives a sign of liking something then continue on that theme. If he’s fucking your ass and you feel his cock twitch when you tell him you love being his ass slut then you’ve hit upon a topic that turns him on. So don’t just switch to something else, expand upon that theme. You’re not just his ass slut, you’re also his “filthy anal whore”, you need him to “ruin my ass with your huge cock” and you want him to “make me your anal slave” or any other variations on that theme you can think of.
The same applies to any other topic he seems to like. Don’t just say something once, repeat yourself over and over again and embellish what you’re saying. Return to similar themes every time you fuck. If it ain’t broke then don’t fix it as they say. So once you’ve worked out what gets him going then there’s nothing wrong with repeating yourself – if he enjoys you telling him that you “love your cock destroying my throat” then, guess what, he’ll enjoy that every time you say it.
So don’t overcomplicate things. If you’ve found something he enjoys then use it on a regular basis. It requires less imagination on your part and he’ll enjoy it more, not less.
6. Follow his lead
You’re not a mindreader so you won’t always know what a man likes. That’s why it’s important to pick up on the cues he gives you. In fact, this is one of the simplest ways to get into dirty talk if you’re new and nervous to the topic.
Just wait for, and encourage him to say something dirty, then seize on that theme and build upon it. 9 times out of 10 if he says something to you then it’s because it’s something he’d enjoy hearing you say to him.
So if he says “you’re a dirty little slut aren’t you” then the wrong response is just to say “yes” and keep on fucking like nothing happened. The correct response is to say “mmm, yeah, I’m a dirty little slut”,” I’m a slutty whore who loves getting fucked”, “please fuck this dirty slut Sir”, “I’m your slut, I’m your dirty slut”, etc.
You can very easily make him happy just by picking up on the hints he gives you and repeating back the things he says to you. In fact, if you do nothing else then just do this – because there’s nothing more frustrating than saying something dirty to a girl you’re fucking and her not embracing it and telling you the kind of things you’re hinting to her that you like.
Conclusion
So there it is. Six instructions to follow to be a dirty talking slut who’ll drive wild any man fucking you.
This guide is far from comprehensive and every man is different but if you follow what I’ve said then you shouldn’t go too far wrong no matter what.
I hope you’ll find this guide useful on your way to becoming a better fucktoy and, as always, if you follow my advice in real life then I’d love to know how it works out for you.
You’ve seen it a lot in porn, and any faggot who has served more than a couple of Men has probably heard them demand it. The “bitch position” is the most requested bodily contortion faggots are forced into.
The diagram above roughly shows the vital aspects of the bitch position. Head down … back arched … ass up.
Why do Men love this position so much? There are a couple of reasons:
It looks attractive to them from behind. The contours of the body from above are appealing to the Alpha’s eye.
It’s an extremely submissive position. In essence, the faggot is as low as it can get while still offering up its pussy to its owner.
Men can penetrate deeper in this position. With the ass in the air at this angle, the Man’s dick can get all the way inside and breed deeper into the faggot’s pussy.
It does require some practice, as it’s not a natural position for most people (unless you’re a gymnast or a yoga instructor). Focused stretching can loosen the lower back to make this position more attainable. Believe me, if you attempt this position, your Alpha will help you out by pushing down on your lower back! It’s irresistible to them!
Here are a couple of screenshots of the position in action:
So practice this position and use it on your Alpha! He’ll thank you with explosive cumshots in your cunt!
I love the comments section of this site. Many times there are extraordinary life experiences shared there, and other times there are helpful hints learned through trial and error.
The following tip for cocksuckers was shared in a comment from an Alpha named Kevin.
Years ago a faggot, when asked how he deepthroated and didn’t ever gag replied: “I swallow. It defeats the gag reflex, just like drinking, eating, and swallowing do. When the cock starts down your throat you swallow. It takes maybe a dozen tries and after a dick or two, it becomes second nature. You don’t even have to think about it and you can take the longest dick you want.”
Been training my cocksuckers like this for years. Works like magic!
I love this tip! Take a dildo and start practicing this technique!
Hey there. I’ve been with my Master for a little over 4 years now. He is my God. I do whatever He tells me to do. A huge interest of my Master is to share His faggots with His Alpha Friends. (There are 3 regular friends He requires me to serve at least once a week.) Master and I believe that an Alpha is entitled to breed any fag, so I’ve never actually used a condom before, and I have been on prep for as long as I’ve been being shared. Recently, however, Master has started to grow bored with me 🙁 He wants me to stop taking prep because He and His friends believe that it interferes with Their Seed being properly absorbed in my cunt. When my Master talks about this, I see a light in His eye, and I don’t want to disappoint Him. I’ve explained to Master earlier this week that I trust Him with all my heart, but His friends are not safe or safety conscious at all. This did not go well at all. I told Him this in His house, and He reminded me exactly where my place is. I know I shouldn’t have spoken against him. I’m Just concerned that I will get something and pass it along to my Master. If He is unbothered by this, and still wants me to go ahead, do you think I should do it? Any advice you can give would be great. Faggot Mitch
Well, first I congratulate you on your lengthy and faithful service to your Master! It seems like you serve faithfully!
Which is why it’s baffling that your Master is wanting to expose you to a potentially dangerous, life-altering virus. HIV might be more controlled these days, it’s still no laughing matter.
Apparently your Master and his friends are not well educated about PrEP. It does NOT stop absorption of cum. It only stops HIV from attaching to immune cells in the body, thereby preventing infection.
Personally I would draw the line here. You have been a faithful faggot for four years and have complied with everything he’s demanded. You’ve served his friends on command as well. But your long-term health is at stake here. A faggot cannot be useful if it doesn’t take care of itself first.
I’m not an Alpha, nor am I a Man. I was born to serve them, not fully understand them.
But legendary Apex Alpha Natural-Hung-Bull from Tumblr is most definitely an Alpha, and an exquisite Man. He is the type of Man from whom any Alpha can learn much.
Here is a delicious piece of advice he gave recently:
I wish I could help young men understand how amazing you are, right now, at this stage of your life. Many seek perfection, not knowing you are already perfect in every way. Yes, keep that 33 waist for a lifetime. That should be your marker.
I wear 501s only. Always have.
You, pick a brand and if those fuckers get a little too tight, do something about it. In my 20s I had a 32 waist, now I’m a 33-34. And that’s fine w me.
Look at yourself. Accept yourself. Find your confidence. Because confidence “sells”.
A Real Male is a male human animal who has found acceptance. When you accept yourself, nature will back your confidence. Expect to make mistakes. Lots of them. Learn and grow. Be kind. People will see that. You choose your path and don’t look back.
Hello! I was wondering about how I could train myself as a fag. I want to be ready when I find the alpha man I will serve. What can I do by myself to improve myslef as a fag?
Well brother, it’s really great that you want to take this commission seriously!
Things you can do now to prepare include:
*STOP MASTURBATING.
* using a dildo, spoon, or a vegetable like a carrot to train your gag reflex and improve your ability to deepthroat.
* Using a dildo, buttplug, and/or prostate massager to focus your attention on your new pussy and how to get pleasure from it.
* Chastity cage. You might as well start training on that now.
* Start getting used to shaving away pubic hair and pussy hair. Maybe get used to waxing as well (it’s better in the long run, honestly).
* Start reading in-depth posts about faggot experiences and real-life stories.
* Watch videos that focus on the Alpha/fag dynamic (the video section of fagsworshipalphas.com is almost exclusively on that topic).
* Perhaps keep a journal of your thoughts and dreams involving your own faghood. Visualization (without masturbating) can manifest your reality.
Hopefully that helps to point you in the right direction!
I just found your site and been thoroughly reading and learning so much. I checked out the resources for alphas page but still need help. I am bi and a mix between dom & sub, but more dom. As much as I want a nice big cock or low hanging balls, I prefer being the top and serviced. My problem though is that I have never developed a dom attitude and need help.
Thank you for writing, Sir!
Here’s my first question: what exactly is a “Dom attitude”? You see, there is the stereotypical “Dom attitude” and the fetish “Dom attitude” and a million individual opinions on what the “Dom attitude” is or should be.
All of it is bullshit, Sir.
You don’t need to be a Dom like every other Dominant Alpha in the world. You need only to express your true feelings and be the Alpha you naturally are inside. This is part of why I hate labels on Men (like straight or gay) because they limit what is so incredible about the Male animal. Men are limitless. They should never be forced into a box.
That is especially true for Alphas.
That said, I’m curious to understand why you believe that you are Alpha. Or, if you truly are, then why you were holding back your Alphahood. I’ve spoken to Alphas who came to accept it a bit later in their life (like in their twenties and thirties), and virtually every single one had some sort of abuse or trauma in their early life that inhibited them. I’m not suggesting that is the case with you, Sir, but untroubled Alphas all accept this about themselves early.
If you are truly Alpha, then I suggest you start meditating on what that means and what defines Alphahood for you. Then, practice that daily with all of the people in your life.
Hi, love the blog. Discovering this site blew my mind and really put my feelings of being a fag into context and helped me realize the true hierarchy. My problem is, when I’m outside of fag mode, I just instinctively lose sight of all this and revert back to being shy, anxious, and ashamed. I know, consciously, that I have no reason to feel this way, but no matter how much I know that to be true, I just can’t seem to internalize that. My worry is that when I’m like this, I don’t feel like I could truly be useful and serve alpha men with my full energy. How can I live a life of serving alphas when my drive to do so appears so unreliably?
Hi brother! Thank you for writing!
It’s very easy to become distracted or fatigued as a faggot, particularly during the beginning of the journey. Fulfilling a commission as a faggot requires a lot of work, focus, and discipline. We are fighting the indoctrination we received from society to be autonomous Men, as well as lure of a comfortable, “normal” life.
The key to this problem is one of meditation and focus. Our minds control our reality. Whatever we focus most of our mental energy on becomes the reality of our lives.
When I was transitioning into full-blown faghood, it took several years of constant cocksucking to really develop a need for service that has never left me. During my recent shutdown of service, I’ve had to focus my mind on the glory of Alphas and my privileged role as their servant. And honestly, I don’t think I’ve ever been as grateful to be a faggot than I am right now. In fact, that gratitude is what moved me to go into chastity for the first time in my life.
You have much to be proud of as a faggot who serves great Men, even if you are not serving at the moment. You are farther along in your personal development than most people in that you know your purpose. How comforting!
As an exercise, it might be helpful to start journaling your feelings of gratitude and awe you feel as a faggot in service to Men. Or write about your goals as a faggot. Or write about the dream situations you’d like to have as a faggot. Focus on the positive. Rejoice!
hi, I’m new to being a practicing faggot. I’m currently owned by a male GOD who has been fucking me every single day since we met 3 weeks ago. this man is insatiable! I’m happy to serve him but I’m having a problem with being ready to be fucked every day! how do i keep my colon clean? he usually fucks me after work evening time so I figured i should skip lunch but i get really hungry at work i really don’t know what to do! do i ask him to not fuck me daily or is there a routine i should stick to? i’d sure appreciate your input my brother.
Hi brother! Thanks for writing!
Well it sounds like you have the best “problem” I’ve ever encountered! Most faggots would kill their own mothers to have consistent dick like that!
I’m being a little silly, of course (sorta). Getting fucked daily is a great challenge for any bottom or faggot for the very reasons you mentioned. The constant manicuring, enemas, dietary control, Kegel exercises, and on an on. Even more frustrating is the fact that most Alphas just don’t think about that prep work at all … until something goes wrong, of course!
Diet is a bigger part of this problem than most people realize, particularly in the West where we eat like privileged pigs every day. Your strategy is correct, but you aren’t thinking is out. Here are a few tips I’ve learned:
OATMEAL is your friend. It’s filling, satisfying, and it has the soluble fiber necessary to create healthy, controlled bowel movements. This should probably be your breakfast and lunch meals.
FRUITS contain healthy sugars and fiber needed to make evacuation consistent and thorough.
WATER and lots of it. Get rid of soda and coffee and drink a lot of water throughout the day. Water and a fiber-rich diet will transform your digestion.
REAL LEMONADE made a HUGE difference in my bowels when I used it in place of my morning orange juice. I drink Simply Lemonade, which is 100% lemon juice lemonade. The acid in lemon juice is great for intestinal bacteria.
From there, late afternoon enemas should make your pussy sparkling clean and ready to be fucked!
I’m really proud of you for working so hard to please this powerful Alpha Bull! If you ever care to share your story about him, I’d love to hear it. Write to me at fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com!
When you do a podcast, you sometimes feel like you’re talking into a void. But then you get feedback from people, and it becomes clear: they ARE listening. And that’s really the reward to this entire endeavor with FWA – changing lives.
Some episodes of the podcast have received more than the usual amount of feedback. One such episode was the latest one, Hierarchy #58 on Domestic Faggots (CLICK HERE). That episode is especially close to my heart because (a) I dearly love domestic service, and (b) I know that domestic service is a perfect (or only) way for some faggots to fulfill their purpose.
The feedback on this episode was especially encouraging, but I want to share this letter I received from a faggot flight attendant named Chad.
Hi faggot sam,
I am one of Master Max’s mentees and actually came out as a domestic fag thru reading fags worship alphas.
I am not much for sex, and had a very bad accident that took away much of my sex drive, but i go wild for domestic service. I have always had a thing for it, but was always too embarrassed, ashamed etc to do anything about it. It is like you said, i feel very at ease and relaxed when i am cleaning an alphas home. It does not feel awkward to me. It is kind of a turn on if I am cleaning for him so he can spend his time being an alpha, going to the gym, building his career, or having fun with his friends.
I want to thank you for what you said about being valued as a chore fag. Our loyalty, dedication is actually what a smart Alpha would want. HE can trust us. Made me feel really good and you described me to the tee. I have had to take a break from serving due to a family situation and a second job I was asked to chair a committee that turned into a ton of work. Not to mention a full time job in customer service. You made me realize that people really value me and pile on the work and responsibility because that is what i am here for. (really miss doing domestic service).
Anytime, I would be grateful for the chance to speak with you. i always like to learn from other fags. Have a great night and thanks again for everything you do.
What a beautiful, heart-stirring letter! You can truly hear the deep yearning in Chad for this form of service!
Like I said in the podcast, domestic service makes a faggot complete. The dedication and focus required truly trains the faggot mind for selfless service.
But for Alphas, owning domestic faggots is probably as close to Kingship as any modern Man is likely to experience in his life. As Chad puts it, this is something “smart Alphas” should want.
I really hope Chad’s heartfelt letter inspires other faggots to put more effort into this vital form of worship! Not only would you be helping Alphas live a better life, but you will also find a deeper fulfillment and a more enriching experience as a valuable faggot!
In terms of Hierarchy, faggots are the ones who must often make the most difficult choices. Sometimes they are choices like “should I permanently gape my asshole?” or “should I get flavored or unflavored lube?” or “should I suck off my boss for a promotion?” or other such trivialities.
But sometimes they are more serious.
My most recent difficult choice involved service. I was getting chewed out constantly by my last owner because my work schedule was constantly interrupting my service to him. Finally, after a furious tirade, he dismissed me. I then had a choice to make: quit the job or pause full-time service.
I chose the job. By that point I had been serving Men for twenty years, so it wasn’t like I hadn’t experienced the joys of service. But more importantly, I was involved in the rescue of Baby Boy by then, and my job was the only lifeline we had between success and failure of that desperate mission.
I chose wisely, and we had a happy ending. I regret nothing.
My brother Cody is faced with a similar moment of truth. Here’s what he wrote to me:
So I’m a faggot, and it has taken me a long time to truly acceptthat part of myself. I’ve always known I was submissive and as I got older i discovered all of the many-layered depths of the bdsm world but I was always seeking more. I was always drawn to the idea of the “houseboy” if that tells you anything.
I always tried to deny that part of myself because I was afraid of what it would mean if it got out, what type of person would that make me? I was concerned for my future because the field I work in it would not be perceived very well and Iwould lose my job. But recently I’ve been trying to “life my truth” as it were. It’s been freeing honestly.
I recently got out of a 4 year relationship with someone that i was engaged to, someone I truly love because Ikept trying to deny my true self but it kept resurfacing in various ways. it’s been a difficult couple of months but I’m making it. Breaking up with this person was one of the hardest things I’ve gone through because i also consider this person to be my best friend and part but it helped me realize I can’t continue to hide.
Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve been conversing with an Alpha who lives in another state. He is incredible, I’venever really engaged with an Alpha like Him before. He has this energy and power and He knows His place in the hierarchy and what He deserves, and from my experience with Him so far, I would definitely say He is a “Protector Alpha”. We’ve been talking about my moving in with Him to be his live in fag/slave which I have to admit fills me with both excitement and trepidation. I recognize this is an incredible opportunity to fulfill my purpose and serve an Alpha but I’m also worried about giving up myself in that way because I’ve never really served anyone like that before. But honestly, I think serving Him and making His life better would make me happy and fulfilled.
I recently had a conversation with my ex and he wants to try to work things out because we have this deep connection and we want to be in each other’s lives. It’s all gotten very confusing. I spoke with my Alpha about the whole situation and He has allowed me a few days to figure everything out, but He said that He believes I was born to serve and I shouldn’t try to deny that part of myself. He is incredibly wise and generous. He is right of course, but my ex has said that he wants to figure out if he can provide me with what I need as a submissive and if we can still be together in an open relationship.
Anyway, I feel like this email is getting away from me so to bring it all together, do you think it’s possible or faggots to have “normal” relationships with people? Do you think I should give up trying to make things work with this person I’ve had this relationship with for so long and serve my Master? I know you probably have any concrete answers since everyone and every situation is so different but any advice or insights you can provide would be really appreciated as I try to figure out everything.
Here’s the thing – we faggots often have these huge decisions because Alpha Males like to level ultimatums on us. It’s not a cruel thing … it’s just in the nature of Men to be decisive. When they want something, they either take it or demand that it be given to them.
Here’s how I answered Cody:
Thanks for this long and detailed message! The more info, the better!
To the point: this Master is the one who is going to give you what you truly need and desire as a faggot. I think it’s nice that your ex wants to TRY to fulfill these needs in you, but ultimately he is playing a role, right? He’s giving you what he thinks you want, not what HE IS.
Meanwhile, you have the real thing ready to take possession of you and own you properly, correctly.
As for your question about faggots and real relationships, yes we can have normal relationships with other people and other Men. But of course, we have priorities, too.
I hope this answers your intrinsic questions as you deal with this life-changing moment!
I know that it’s enticing to take the relationship, the security, the sense of home. But I do think this is a trap for faggots. We are simply not built for “happy family life” – our true needs run counter to that notion.
The other part of the equation involves realistic fulfillment. Faggots need to FEEL that they are truly the property of a Man. That they are owned. Fetish games and playtime cannot truly fulfill that basic need in a faggot.
Being a true faggot is serious business! It’s a life of serious sacrifice!
Be prepared to go all-in if you want to find fulfillment!
I’ve dealt with a lot of flaky faggots over the years, and I haven’t always been kind to them. Most of the time I rain down unholy terror upon those who know they’re faggots and accept that fact, but they’re too selfish or too gutless to actually serve.
But occasionally I come across a faggot who truly doesn’t understand what’s happening to him and really wishes it would stop, but his nature won’t allow him to go back. That’s what happened with a faggot I will call Stan.
Stan contacted me and asked for my advice regarding his current situation. He was in a heterosexual relationship with a girl (not married), but something had recently happened with his best friend. It seems that he and his best friend used to jack off to straight porn together, an act that is surprisingly common among straight males these days.
But then Stan’s best friend broke his wrist in a sporting accident. And one weekend while the best friend’s girlfriend was out of town, Stan was with him and they were looking at porn together. And the best friend was struggling to get off without the use of his hand.
So Stan felt obligated (his words) to help his friend out by stroking his cock for him. But it wasn’t working. So the best friend told Stan to get it wet, so Stan spit into his hand to add lubrication. Still nothing.
So the best friend grabbed Stan’s head and shoved it down onto his dick. And Stan sucked his best friend off until he came in Stan’s mouth.
I asked Stan if he swallowed. “Well, yes, I didn’t want to disrespect him,” replied Stan.
Ooookaayyyy.
So the best friend then told another friend in their group about Stan’s cocksucking, and the other friend wanted to try it out. So the best friend ordered Stan to go over and service the other friend, and Stan did it.
You know what happens next, right? Before long, Stan is servicing a bunch of their friends, of course.
Stan came to me legitimately confused and afraid. He said he doesn’t want to do these things anymore.
“So stop,” I told Stan.
“But I’m not supposed to let Men down,” replied Stan.
“Straight Men don’t talk like that,” I said bluntly.
Ultimately it was decided that Stan is NOT straight because he wasn’t going to stop sucking their dicks. So I told Stan to immediately go and break up with his girlfriend.
And he immediately went over to her house and broke up with her!
Then I told Stan to go to his best friend and thank him for opening his eyes to the truth. And he did that, too! Then the best friend used Stan again.
To add insult to injury, the best friend is now fucking his ex-girlfriend.
But even though Stan has taken these steps, he’s still miserably unhappy. “I feel bad sucking dick, and now I don’t have a girlfriend, either,” said Stan.
You know what is causing this issue? It’s Stan’s inability to let go of his former (fake) heterosexual life and embrace the truth about his place as a faggot in service to Men.
I was in Stan’s shoes when I was 17 years old. I was dating and “fucking” girls then when my straight Alpha best friend forced me into service and I became his cocksucker.
The only difference between Stan and I is the speed of assimilation. I quickly embraced being a faggot and went on a voracious cocksucking spree for several years before settling into serious and devoted service. I didn’t waste any time once I knew what I was and what I was supposed to do.
Stan is wasting time. He’s also causing himself irreparable harm by pathetically brooding over things that cannot be changed. Yes, it can be put away … for a while. But it’s never going to stop.
Acceptance of purpose is a gift we give ourselves. We give ourselves permission to become whatever Nature has chosen for us. We soon discover that it’s okay to be this way, that sometimes following the true path is better than following the “correct” path.
I sincerely hope Stan can find that acceptance for himself. No more second-guessing, no more shame.
If he can’t, he will forever wander in an anguished twilight of ceaseless fear and emptiness.
What a terrific graphic! Here we can see exactly where the prostate is located and how easily it can be reached with a finger (also why anal sex feels so good!).
With some gentle pressure applied to the prostate, the gland can be coaxed to mechanically release semen.
This is, of course, quite useful for faggots and betas in chastity cages (like me) so that we can maintain prostate health.
I take this website seriously. I know what understanding Hierarchy and discovering purpose did for me, and I want that sense of security for others.
To that end, I’m always thinking about the unseen eyes viewing my work every day around the world, particularly all of the young people that I know are out there. While I’ve always tried to follow the laws governing minors and sexual imagery/discussions, I knew from the beginning that such a line was an impossible one to enforce. I remember how I WAS as a young gay male, in hiding and desperate for an understanding of my place. How could I expect any young person to be less curious?
So now here is this giant website I created almost to-the-day five years ago standing like a lighthouse on a rocky, wave-drenched beach. Its light continues to beckon travelers lost in the darkness and the mist and guide them to something resembling safety. This is especially true of our young ones, new captains on the seas that the world is all too eager to drown.
So I will not ever turn my back to these young ones. They just want knowledge. Answers. A sense of belonging. Purpose.
I received this incredible letter from a young faggot named Archie today. I was deeply moved by his story, his hard lessons already learned, and his silent scream for help.
Please read:
Hi Sam.
It’s lovely that I have the ability to contact you so easily. You’re incredibly generous with your contributions to this community–and I don’t have to be a long time member of it to see that. I’m going to be honest with you. I’m young. 18 years old. But like any teenager in the modern age, I’m no stranger to the internet realm of sex and debauchery. Thing is, I’ve never been like my peers, who watch porn for the fuck of it, masturbate, and go about their lives. For me a chord has always been struck–rippling throughout my sexual interests, my sexual behavior, all of it.
When I was no older than 10 years old, I’d discovered the realm of self-hypnosis. As if by fate, it was no time before I drifted into the erotic side of the community, namely hypnosis files specializing in making the listener feel mindless and enslaved, with no option nor desire to do anything except obey. Cue an intense eight years of inner turmoil, wrestling with my seemingly preexisting needs to be dominated, used, turned into a servant. Videos centering around the D/s dynamic were frequent visits of mine through the teen years, ranging from obscure fantasy to the most abject of sexual services. Retrospectively, I was always a lost cause, I think.
I didn’t truly come to learn what a faggot was until 2018, just months before Tumblr implemented the porn ban. It was like the Holy Grail, everything I’d ever desired suddenly having names and labels and people who actually participated in them. It was real! But so was my shame. For every bit of validation I felt, I felt disgusting. Wrong. Fundamentally broken. I’ll spare you any monotonous details, but a cycle of making accounts on Tumblr (then Twitter and bdsmlr) to find validation and then deleting them in shame ensued for months, and months.
Finally, I started learning how to practice self-love. And to my immense surprise (but now MUCH less shameful view), becoming innately self-loving didn’t erase my faggot side, it just allowed me to accept it. And now I want to indulge it. Begin to train and serve and become knowledgeable of the hierarchical world and how to fit into it in my coming adult years. Your website and your dedication are a GODSEND, Sam. But I admit. I’m scared. I was raped when I was 12 because I was so desperate to make sense of my faggot urges. It’s taken years to heal and I still am, at the sore age of EIGHTEEN. I love myself, and I want to embrace being a faggot wholeheartedly. But I don’t want to put myself in a situation where I could be raped again. Add being a black person in Texas on top of it, and I’m afraid of being killed. I know this is a long and complex email, but please–any advice you may have for me will be GREATLY appreciated. You’re the cornerstone of the faggot community and by far the most seasoned. Thank you for all you’ve already done.
Love, Archie the faggot
Can you hear what I hear in the words of this beautiful fag brother? Little Archie has already been through so much due to the process of blindly trying to find his way. There is real pain and justifiable fear in this letter.
How could I ever turn away, even when he was reading me when he was technically a minor? I couldn’t. I would never.
So how to address this? Here’s my response:
First of all, dear Archie, I thank you for this exquisitely-written letter and for your kind words. And I’m grateful for your honesty.
My main advice to you right now is this: BE PATIENT. Time is absolutely on your side, little brother. This isn’t a mountain you need to climb in the next week or the next year.
I don’t know if you have plans to go to college yet, but college could be a way to get out and gain new, vibrant experiences in relative safety. It might also be worth your while to try and go to college somewhere outside of Texas. If not college away from Texas, then maybe try getting a job in another state. Again, I don’t know much about that part of your life.
For obvious reasons, while you’re in that state I think it’s best if you err on the side of caution and choose your battles carefully. I was careful when I was your age also growing up in a conservative, sexually-repressed state, but the times were a bit friendlier to gays then and I was white. I’d be much more careful nowadays while being a gay black boy.
Plot your escape. Start making plans for the life you intend to create for yourself so that you can live freely just the way you want.
In the meantime, there are things you can do to deepen your relationship with your faghood. First potential step: go into chastity. Also, try to get a dildo and a prostate massager in order to practice deepthroating and developing more of an appreciation of your pussy.
Also, you’re a wonderful writer. It might be a useful exercise to start writing a journal or blog so that you might explore your feelings more.
All of these steps can help you in private while you take steps publicly to create a new life for yourself. You CAN do this!
And I and this website will always be here for every step of your journey!
Keep in touch!
Love,
sam the faggot
How could I ever ignore such a beautiful brother and such a lovely, heartfelt email?
This is why I continue to light the lights here. Why I work tirelessly to create content and chronicle true stories of success and failure here. Why I keep pushing this message of Hierarchy deeper into the mainstream.
For Archie, and all of the other Archies I know are out there being tossed at sea.
This experience was sent to me from xtopstudx, an experienced Alpha from Colorado.
Here’s another example of never knowing where you’re going to run into a beta/faggot or an Alpha.
I needed to start getting ready for work, but had to run to the store first. I walked down an aisle and saw a nice looking black man. He had a nice beard and hairy arm and was wearing an employee shirt. He saw Me walking towards him and I could see his eyes give Me the once over. As I got closer he looked at Me again and when I passed him he dropped his eyes and head. I said hi as I walked by and he said “hello sir.” I didn’t think anything of it, calling a male Sir, is just good customer service. About halfway down another aisle, I saw him walk across the end and he was looking down the aisle I was in. Again not thinking much about it. A few aisles later I see him again adjusting products on a shelf. He looked up at Me, smiled, then looked away. As I got closer I noticed a bulge in his pants I didn’t see before, and believe Me, I would have noticed before.
That’s when it hit Me. I stopped right in front of him and asked him where a product was. he said,“Sir, I’d be more than happy to show you.” Emphasis on Sir. Following behind him and getting a good look at his ass, made My dick start getting hard. In front of the product, he again stood sideways to Me and said “here you go Sir.” He once again looked at My face but when he saw Me looking back, he lowered his head. As he did I saw him take a glance at the bulge in My jeans, and I noticed his bulge had gotten bigger. I grabbed the product from the shelf, brushing his hairy arm. I said “thank you” and he said, “anytime Sir. Anything else I can help you with.” I wanted to use him right there, but said “not at this time.” He looked Me in the eyes, with a smile on his face and said “yes Sir. Please come back and see us again real soon.” You better believe I’ll be back soon. I’ll be looking for a certain employee.
For the faggot looking for an Alpha/Master, it’s not hard. We are everywhere. If you see a Man you like, give Us your sub/faggot signs. Look the Man in the eyes, when He looks back, lower your eyes and head. If He happens to speak to you, find a way to inject the word “Sir” into your reply. Go out of your way to show Us you’ll do anything for Us.
This is awesome advice. I’ve said it many times – Alphas are constantly scanning the people surrounding them and categorizing them mentally. Some might be threats to be subdued. Others might be romantic interests. And some, like the faggot above, might be potential fuck meat.
So just know that even a faggot’s most subtle submissive gestures are not lost on the Alpha Male. They see it all, and will use it to their advantage whenever they want.
An hands free cum is a high point for a fag, I like Dom and alpha I try to get my fagots to free themselves from their dicks and think only of their holes, so they get even more hungry to serve me. How could I do to give my fagots an hands free whenever I fuck them? Hi from Brazil
Thank you for writing to me, Sir!
First of all, I commend you for looking more deeply into how to make the act of fucking more pleasurable for both of you! That’s kind of you.
We need to keep in mind where the prostate is located. Its general location is inside the body in the space between the anus and scrotum called the perianeum. Also known as the “taint.” So if the faggot is lying on its back, you’d insert a finger into the anus and then point your finger upwards toward the front of its body. If the faggot is on all fours, then the reverse (in, and down) would lead to the prostate.
So with that in mind, it’s easy to devise how to fuck if you want to hit the prostate. For example, if you’re fucking the faggot doggie-style, you want to mount the faggot higher up on its ass, and essentially fuck downward. If the faggot is on its back, you want to stroke upward into the faggot’s pussy to hit the spot.
I hope that helps, Sir! Thank you again for writing!
19 will suck my first dick in a couple of days I’m so excited what does dick taste like? Also any tips for a first timer? Thansk I learned so much from this blog. I plan to thank the man afterwards and to swallow his load
Congratulations little brother!! Exciting!!
What does dick taste like? Well, put your mouth on your arm – taste that? Then add some salty sweat to that taste, and you approximate the taste of the average dick.
What do they mean when they say let the man control the blowjob?
Men don’t like pushy faggots in general, but definitely not when they’re getting their dicks sucked by one. Sucking dick is the ultimate submissive act. The power should be totally relinquished to the Man receiving service.
That means allowing him to direct your head. Telling you what to do or not do. Controlling the speed and pace. Deciding whether or not to throat fuck you.
If you allow the Man to control the blow job, you have a much better chance of thoroughly pleasing him!
One of the great frustrations many Men and Alphas have when dealing with using and owning faggots is their flighty, flaky nature. The faggot talks a good game, gets the Alpha worked up, and then – poof – the faggot suddenly disappears.
Almost exclusively this is known as a “subdrop.” It’s a post-orgasm shame that washes over a faggot (or other submissive) when they realize they’ve lost control. There’s a panic that makes them run away, hoping to return to “normal” society and escape the submissive urge that overtakes them.
This would likely never happen if faggots stopped masturbating like Men.
True faggots inherently know that it is wrong for them to masturbate like a Man. That is why many faggots seek chastity on their own, to remove that desire they know is improper.
While I have become a firm believer in chastity for faggots, I have discovered a strength within myself to control my urge to masturbate that didn’t involve physical constraints.
It involves MINDSET. For me, I developed such a deep shame (and frankly, disgust) at the idea of masturbating like a Man that my urge to do it disappeared. It involved me focusing so precisely on the needs of Men that I forgot myself entirely.
But it’s more than that, really. You see, Men are primal animals born to cum. When we think about the Male cumshot, it is forceful, explosive, powerful, emphatic. It is a natural claiming of territory, whether it be a pussy, a womb, a person, or an object. A Man spatters his seed across the Earth, marking territory and taking possession of it. Even when a Man masturbates, he is reinforcing this dominant need within himself.
Ever notice how even the straightest Man needs to see the cumshot at the end of a porn clip? He needs to see it because his subconscious registers that cumshot as the goal of sexual satisfaction, the sweet release of pressure and the waves of endorphin-fueled pleasure.
But a faggot is not a Man. It was not born to breed, mark territory, or exert its will. Every faggot ejaculation is a failure, a waste. And more importantly, it shames the glory that Men have been given through the power of their cocks and their cumshots.
Faggots should not attempt to masturbate and cum like Men. It leads to a cycle of failure throughout their lives. Faggots who do this exist in a twilight world, half in darkness and half in light. They cannot be truly fulfilled while carrying on this practice.
Conversely, a faggot achieves a kind of nirvana when it stops trying to emulate the behavior of Men and starts practicing restraint, denial, control, and focus. The faggot gains its power through these things, becoming a machine useful for the needs of Men.
And when that happens, a faggot finds fulfillment … and finally, peace.
When I’m sucking cock what can I do to enhance my man’s pleasure?
There are physical and mental/emotional things to enhance your Man’s pleasure.
PHYSICAL
Cup his balls with your hand and gently pull/massage them
Occasionally lick his balls.
Extend your tongue on the downstroke, which opens your throat and also feels good on his cock.
Wrap your thumb and forefinger around the base of his cock and squeeze. This will cause the cock to swell, heightening the sensations around the cock head.
Flick your tongue on the underside of the cock near the underside of the head. This is one of the most sensitive parts of the entire cock.
Moan with a humming sound with his cock in your mouth. The vibrations feel fantastic for him (see below).
MENTAL/EMOTIONAL
Moaning on his cock makes him feel like you love sucking him.
Look up at him while his cock is in your mouth. This makes you look like you are submissively seeking his approval, which is a turn-on for him.
Talk to him. Thank him for feeding you his cock. Tell him how good it tastes and smells. Beg him for his cum.
The following post was originally written by a faggot slave known as masterworxx on Tumblr. It is a towering masterwork of truth. Alphas and faggots should read this and ponder the many gems of wisdom within!
Advice from one slave to its brothers
1. Until you agree to submit, you are in control of what you do. Every Man you come across who says He is a Master deserves appropriate respect and deference. But simply because He says He is a Master does not mean you owe Him submission. Your submission is a gift. You choose Who to give it to. And until you choose to give it to a Man, you remain in control and should exercise that control — but always with respect and deference.
2. Never meet a Master for a session of service or s/m play before first meeting to talk. Remember what they say about bars? That the closer to closing time it gets, the better everyone looks? Keep this in mind also when you’re online. Everyone can look good online. Everyone can say the right things, type the proper words. Enjoy cyber — but know it is only cyber until you meet.
If you have spent extensive time with Him online or on the phone and feel okay with Him, you might consider that to be the meeting. But it still remains best to meet first in person — preferably in a neutral place, like a restaurant. Show Him respect and deference, but until you choose to submit, you remain in control of yourself even if you are at His place. Until you choose to give Him this control, His requests for you to undress, sit on the floor, or whatever, no matter the tone in His voice, are merely requests, not orders, until you accept them as such.
3. It is best not to plan or expect a session at this first meeting. Let it be just a meeting to find out if the two of you click and want to continue. This is a good test of the sincerity of the Master. Almost all will tell you They want an ongoing thing. If this is true, and if They really want you, then there is no hurry. You can meet first … and plan to have the session the next day, if you want.
4. Be totally and completely honest with potential Masters about what you seek, what your experience level is, what you fear, what you crave, and what your limits are. Your ego and your desire to not disappoint a potential Master may make you want to exaggerate. But it does no one any good if you tell a Master you can take a bullwhip when you have never even been flogged hard.
A good Master is not as concerned with how intensely you can play as with whether you genuinely want to play. Good Masters are looking for reactions and potential for growth. If They get a good reaction out of a slow, light flogging, They are as satisfied as when They get a good reaction out of a full-force bullwhipping. Well, maybe not as satisfied, but satisfied enough!
And never say you can take anything. You may find your forehead branded before the night is out.
5. Be totally honest with yourself about what you seek. There is an undercurrent in the leather community that a hierarchy exists among submissives. According to this “common wisdom,” it is better to be 24/7 than part time, it is better to be a slave than a boy, and so on. Don’t fall into this trap.
What is best for you is whatever meets your specific desires and needs. To be a man who submits only in sessions because this is all he needs is as valid and as good as being a man who submits to the complete control of a Master on a 24/7 basis because that is what he needs. Don’t let anyone, fellow submissive or Master, try to make you into something you do not need or want to be.
6. Follow your gut feeling about the Master. Even if your head cannot come up with specific reasons not to trust the Man, if your gut is sending up any sort of red flags, listen to it. If you find you are talking yourself into submission to a specific Master, then He is not the One for you. At the same time, learn to recognize the difference between fear of giving up control, which is good and exciting, and uncertainty about a particular Man’s trustworthiness. Most of the Men you meet will be trustworthy and not a problem. But a few will not be.
7. When you meet with the Master, do as much interviewing as He does — but do it respectfully, of course. What are you trying to find out about Him? Several things. Does He respect you as a man? Does He respect you as a slave? Will He respect your limits? Does He understand your level of experience, and will He work with it? Does He have experience or skills in the type of activity He wants to do, or is He just off on some fantasy trip? Do you like this Man as a person?
And, not unimportant, do you find this Man attractive either physically, personally, or because He has something to teach You? (Not every Master has to be a physical fantasy trip. Some may not be but are still well worth submitting to because you will learn a lot and They can give you exactly what you need.)
8. One major thing to look for is whether the Master is concerned about your needs and desires, about what you want to get out of this. If there is little discussion about your needs — if all the talk is about His needs — He is probably not the Man you want for a long-term situation, though He may be great for a quick session focused totally and completely on His desires. If you pick a Man like this to submit to, realize that you will probably need to take care of your own emotional and physical satisfaction. He is not going to give it to you.
9. Never go to a first meeting or session (or even a second or third) thinking that this Master may be good for a long-term relationship or for total control outside of when You are together. You are very likely to find yourself hurt and disappointed if you do. Full or 24/7 control develops over a long period of time — it is not created out of thin air.
10. When considering a Master for long-term or total control outside of sessions, look at the total Man. You are going to spend a lot of time with this Man outside of sessions. Do you like Him that much? Can you deal with all His idiosyncrasies, bad habits, insecurities, and personal baggage on a continuing basis? And if you think He doesn’t have any of that stuff, then you have just not seen it. And if you have not seen it, then you do not know Him well enough for such a commitment.
11. Limits. Have two sets: temporary ones, which you decide when to lift, and permanent ones, which always remain in place. You need to decide what belongs in each set. To help you understand the difference, here are the limits i used to use — and still do if my Master wants me to hunt for outside experiences:
Permanent — Safe sex. No scat. No blood. No drugs. Nothing illegal. No permanent damage physically, professionally, personally, or emotionally.
Temporary — Meet first. No total bondage; either legs or arms must be free at all times. (Yes, I want to be able to kick Him in the balls if I need to — or fight back some other way.) No blindfolds. No gags. Safeword. (We’ll talk about safewords below.)
You are the one who drops these temporary limits — one at a time or all together — as you get comfortable and feel you can trust the Man. You may even decide to drop them in the first session. But use your head, and listen to your gut, in deciding when to drop them, not your cock. If you are still not comfortable enough by the third session with a Master to drop any of your temporary limits, you probably don’t trust Him enough and shouldn’t see Him again.
(Having said all this, i must add that all limits, even permanent ones, go away if you are owned — and owned for a long time! Once the trust is total, there is no need for any limits. But you still choose when the permanent ones go away, not your Master.)
12. Try to get references on a particular Master before you commit to any sort of a session. Leather clubs and organizations are good for this, as are friends and people you talk to online. A good reference from another bottom is better than any sort of assurance from the Master Himself.
What to do if you get a bad reference? Don’t automatically reject the Master. Find out why the reference is bad. It could easily be that the two men simply did not click, or that the Master’s interests did not correspond with the slave’s. This can happen between any two men and is not a sign that either one is untrustworthy or bad in some way. A disregard for safewords, however, or otherwise ignoring limits are good reasons to call it off.
13. When you have your first session with a Master, no matter how well you think you have gotten to know Him, you need to protect yourself in case you have made a bad judgment call. There are many ways to do this. One of the most common is to tell a friend where you are going, the Master’s name, and the address and phone number of where you will be, assuming you have these. Give your friend a time when you will call him to verify that you are okay. Tell him that if he does not hear from you by that time, he should take action to find you.
Make sure, though, that you give enough leeway in the timing so that the Master does not have cops knocking down His door because you thought the session would end at midnight and He was just getting going at that point! Also, make sure you do call the friend if you are all right, even if it is from the Master’s home. Let the Master know you have made this arrangement and when your friend is expecting to hear from you. A good Master will not be offended and will make sure you can place the call.
14. Safewords. Everyone talks about them. Almost every Master says He will respect them. But do not assume that because a Man says He will respect them that He will do so in the heat of a session. Respecting safewords is an easy promise to make — and an even easier one to break. Accepting a Master’s assurance that He will respect a safeword is like assuming the white line in the street will automatically stop every car the moment you walk into the crosswalk. Most Masters do respect safewords, but some do not. Build some trust in a Master first before accepting His assurances at face value.
Here’s a test you can use in the first couple of sessions. When you’re in a difficult position or undergoing some heavy action, make noises indicating it is getting very hard to take and that you need something changed. See what He does. An immediate response from Him is not necessary — He may want to see how far you can go. But a timely response to your distress should be forthcoming. If it is not, don’t assume He will listen to a safe word.
15. When you are talking with a Master online or meeting Him in a bar or elsewhere for the first time, know that you are both doing a seduction dance with each other. And if you both play your roles correctly, you will both get turned on.
Being seduced and turned on is a good thing, but recognize it for what it is. You are both looking for the buttons that the other reacts to, and once you find them, you are both pushing them to get the reactions you want — He in taking control and you in submitting. But seduction is not real life, just a part of it. Wait until you get to know the Man in real life before deciding He is the One you really want to submit to.
16. Play the field. You’ll need to kiss a lot of frogs before finding your Prince. One mistake many slaves — especially those who are just “coming out” — make is to jump into serving a single Master exclusively and totally before they have figured out what it is they want and need. Resist this temptation, no matter how hard your dick gets or how fast your heart beats when you first hear a Master speak the words you have only heard in your fantasies before.
Any Master worth His salt is going to be able to get you excited and eager to serve. That doesn’t necessarily mean He is the one to latch onto full time. It just means that while You were together, you clicked. Get lots of experience. Compare the styles and characters of many Masters. Learn from each of them. Learn about Masters and, more important, about yourself and what it is you really seek from your submission. Once you have learned enough, especially about your own needs, then you can consider Someone as a full-time Master.
17. Recognize that a Master without a boy is often as desperate as a boy without a Master. They, too, are human, and They like to have someone They can depend on to play with and be with anytime They want. Plus, Masters generally have good-size egos and like to be able to impress other Masters by saying, “I own a boy” — or more than one.
Because of this, you may get a lot of pressure to make a full-time commitment or to go into full-time training at an early stage of your acquaintance with a Master. Resist this. Do not do it until you are sure that He is the Man you want in this role. Indeed, one sign of a really good Master is that He may offer you a position with Him without pressuring you in any way to make a quick decision. Such a Man understands how tentative and unsure of themselves many unowned slaves are and has enough confidence in Himself not to need a trophy.
18. Do not assume that in the early stages of getting to know a Master that He will feel the same toward you as you feel toward Him. It is very hard for a male to open himself up and become vulnerable to someone else, but this is exactly what we slaves do when we submit to a Master. Doing so provides an amazing sense of relief and satisfaction, and we feel a strong bond with the Man Who has seen us become so open and vulnerable. We feel close to Him and want to be with Him.
But, at least in an early session, the Master does not do the same: He does not lay Himself bare to you just because He plays with you. While He may like you, may have enjoyed the session, and may want to see you again, don’t assume He is feeling the same strong bond with you that you feel with Him. Over time, if you and He develop an ongoing relationship, He will feel this way. But not at first.
19. Do not mistake this bond you are feeling for love. This is why so many slaves decide, after only a couple of weeks, that they have found the Master they have sought for so long. Then they are hurt and disappointed when, a few weeks later, it doesn’t work out. Don’t make this mistake.
Since it is seldom that any of us experience real love in life, we may not know what love really feels like even though we seek it so desperately. As noted above, once you have laid yourself bare in a session, given that much control and submission to another Man, you are going to feel very close to Him. But this is not love. It is simply openness and a bond beginning to form. Enjoy the bond. But remember that real love means you know the Man well — not just the Master but the whole Man — and that you accept Him for what He is, warts and all.
20. Finally, remember that this is all supposed to be fun and satisfying. If it is not, if you find that the Master is causing you to be upset, worried, guilty, whatever — if you are not having fun or being satisfied — then don’t play with Him. Find someone else. Too many boys take this all much too seriously and never really enjoy the hunt, never really enjoy the sex, never really enjoy the submission, never really enjoy being conquered by a Master, never really enjoy any of it. They work too hard and are too desperate.
Go out, enjoy, and have fun. It’s the only reason to do this.
Non-porn related question but i like your advice and wanna seek your wisdom. My boss at work is killing me. He has a personal vendetta against me. I feel like his sole purpose in life is to make me miserable. I like the job i like the pay but i feel its starting to affect my mental wellbeing. What do I do?
Quit the job ASAP. You have one chance in this life – make it count.
I know that feels terrifying, especially if you don’t know what might happen if you just drop the current job, but don’t worry – it will work itself out.
When an Alpha owns a faggot and both parties fulfill their respective roles, there is generally peace and harmony of a sort that is rare to find elsewhere in human relationships. It’s like two very different parts of the same engine working in unison for a common goal.
But even the parts of the finest engine can warp and bend and break over time, eventually destroying the function of the entire machine. In the engine of the Alpha/fag dynamic, the warped part is typically found within the faggot’s heart. When a faggot falls in love with its Alpha, its parts begin to bend almost to the breaking point, and eventually that warped love destroys the entire engine.
It’s not hard to understand why a faggot would fall in love with its Alpha. After all, Alphas represent the pinnacle of human evolution. They are magnetic forces in our lives, pulling us so deeply into service that we lose ourselves in their overwhelming, all-encompassing power. It can almost feel like drowning, but without the fear. Instead, there is peace, a contentment that feels as soothing as a cozy blanket or a gentle lullaby.
In this state, a faggot feels deep love for its Alpha. The Alpha might feel love for his faggot, too. This kind of love is a principled love built from respect and honor. The Greeks used the term “agape” to describe this type of love.
The bond between Alpha and faggot might even evolve into a warmly affectionate union much like a friendship. The Greeks also had a word for this type of love: “philia.” In the case of the Alpha/faggot dynamic, this philia love would be akin to the philia love a Man and dog share. It’s a union based on respect and shared friendship.
If the faggot can control its emotions and remain focused on serving its Alpha within the framework of these two satisfying forms of love, things will be wonderful. The faggot will enjoy many fulfilling years in service to its Alpha, and the Alpha will enjoy the worship he rightly deserves.
But too often faggots don’t control their emotions. Due to a lack of humility, they begin to crave the kind of love the Greeks called “eros,” which represents romantic love.
Here’s the problem with that: Alphas will almost never be able to be romantically interested in their faggots. The probability is nearly 0%. Why? There are a couple of reasons:
Alphas are not wired for monogamous romantic relationships
Faggots are born inferior, and are made to serve
Alphas lose respect for the faggot’s fallen nature
Alphas have a wide selection of more appealing choices
Alphas prefer the worship and service over romance
Straight Alphas don’t have any romantic inclinations toward a faggot
So once it’s clear that the Alpha cannot ever reciprocate the faggot’s out-of-whack romantic interests, the faggot will often resort to complaining, pouting, hysterical screaming, crying, and wild accusations. A good Alpha will try to gently correct the faggot’s mindset, but the faggot, consumed by visions of romantic love, mistakes this kindness as reciprocal interest. And so the cycle continues until the Alpha, exasperated beyond the breaking point, cuts the faggot off and dismisses it.
See how tragic this is?
My encouragement to all of my faggot brothers currently serving is this:
Stay humble.
Focus only on completely fulfilling your duties.
Renew your gratitude daily for the privilege to serve Him.
Remain vigilant against any wavering emotions.
Humble yourself even more.
As faggots, we have the most extraordinary commission of all time. We get to serve the greatest Men who have ever lived! In return for our service, these incredible Men take us into their lives and keep us as one of their prized possessions! Anyone who has seen a Man with his loyal dog or his favorite car knows what warmth and protection he lavishes upon those cherished parts of his life! We can be one of those prized possessions, too!
But it will only happen if we stay humble and treasure every valuable moment we have in their service! It is a privilege beyond compare!
There are a variety of opinions on this subject, but I wanted a definitive list of must-haves after years of personal experience and discussions with Men about what they like and want.
1. Lose your ego. In this moment, you are a cocksucker; embrace it. You will choke, spit up, and be covered in throat slime. The Man you’re servicing may treat you roughly, even rudely. Accept it. You’re a cocksucker with only one function: pleasing him. Do it without pride.
2. Tease him. Men love teasing and edging at the start of a blowjob. Their balls tighten and the juice within begins to churn in the anticipation of what is to come. Lick the head, especially the underside. Flick it with your tongue. Gently stroke the shaft with your hand every so often. Smile.
3. Eye contact. As you take his cock into your mouth, look up at him. A guy loves fucking holes, but eye contact makes you more submissive TO HIM and tells him that he is your Master.
4. No teeth. Obviously there will be some Men who like teeth running along the shaft of the cock, but that’s rare. Avoid it as much as possible. One trick is to extend your tongue out of your mouth slightly, providing protection from the lower teeth (and also opening the throat) as the cock slides in and out of your mouth.
5. Deepthroat. Not everyone manages to master deepthroating, but this is a skill that can be learned through training. Get a dildo and train your gag reflex. Push yourself. You can improve. Men want deepthroat, and you’re their cocksucker of the moment. Learn it.
6. Don’t forget the balls. A Man’s balls are the most sensitive part of his body. Why would a cocksucker neglect such an opportunity to please a Man or heighten his pleasure? Cradle them in your hand while sucking. Roll them around gently. Occasionally take your mouth off his cock and swirl your tongue over them. One added advantage of this is the more direct exposure to his testosterone-laced musk that concentrates around his balls, which will send you deeper into subspace.
7. No blueballing. Once you start to suck his cock, you’re in it until he squirts his last drop of cum. No complaining about aching jaws or a lack of interest. You’re a cocksucker (remember the first commandment) and you’re expected to do your job TO COMPLETION.
8. Moan and dirty talk. Moaning while sucking cock serves two functions: (a) it tells the Man how much you love the size and taste of it, and (b) the vibrations of your moans rising up from your throat stimulate his cock. You can occasionally tell him how much you love sucking his cock, but don’t overdo it! SHOW HIM you love it with your smiles and enthusiasm!
9. The Man does what he wants. It doesn’t matter what he wants to do, roll with it. He’s the Man and you’re his cocksucker. If he wants to throat-fuck you, fine. If he wants to slap his cock on your face or tongue, don’t object. This especially goes for his cumshot. If he wants to cum on your face, let him. If he wants to cum in your mouth …
10. You must swallow. Nothing upsets a Man more than seeing a cocksucker spit out his cum. It is an ugly and disrespectful rejection of his virility and Manhood. If you don’t like the taste, swallow it anyway. You will survive. Remember, you’re sucking this Man’s cock in order to please him, and his cumshot is your reward for a job well done. Swallow it with pride!
Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock 😉
SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his cock.
ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.
PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave his cock in your ass. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.
PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.
RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.
ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his cock down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ass.
REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.
COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.
Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.
LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.
LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.
LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his cock up your ass.
LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.
LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR “CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.
SHOW HIM RESPECT. Be polite. Call him Sir. Thank him after a good fuck.
How hard is it to suck cock to completion for a first timer??
It can be tricky. If the Man you’re sucking doesn’t take control of you, it can feel a little uncomfortable or confusing. I was fortunate that my first Alpha was a natural throat fucker, so I didn’t need to learn anything other than opening my throat and overcoming my gag reflex.
If possible, try to get a silicone, medical-grade dildo and practice, practice, practice! This IS something you can learn and do well!
– First thing in the morning, worship your husband’s cock as he wakes. Don’t ever let Him leave the house without cumming first.
– Work hard all day on your chores and focus all your attention on doing a perfect job. He deserves to come home to a spotless home.
– As soon as you hear the front door open in the evening as He arrives home, ensure that you are there to greet Him properly by getting on your hands and knees and kissing His feet.
– If he needs relief immediately, respectfully undo His belt, slip down His trousers and boxers and work enthusiastically and tirelessly to bring Him to orgasm, all with your hands clasped behind your back.
– As He showers the day off, prepare Him His favourite drink and have it ready by the time He comes back into the living room.
– Serve dinner and never let it be even a minute late. A Man deserves excellent, hot food.
– After preparing another drink and presenting it to Him, get to work cleaning the kitchen…make it spotless.
– Kneel at His feet and wait patiently for any orders. If He needs further oral relief, spend the evening with His cock in your mouth hole and don’t disturb Him. If He needs to fuck your pussy, Make sure all self-hygiene is done prior to His arrival home and that your body hair has been removed, leaving you smooth.
– Accept any and all punishments/corrections gratefully and remember to thank Him for taking the time to teach you to be better.
– Before you drift off to sleep, remember to run through all the things that you’re grateful for in life and ponder on how much the Man of the house does for you both. He keeps you safe, fed, protected, warm, and a thousand other things besides – He is your everything and you are but an extension of Him and His will. Be grateful and vow to always work hard for Him and to let Him lead the way, as He was born to do.
For faggots, this is a nice checklist of duties to meditate upon and put into practice! Chin and Yul are excellent examples of this effort in practice! Accomplishing it daily to perfection brings peace and fulfillment.
For Alphas. I can only say:
YOU ARE A KING! THIS IS HOW YOU WERE BORN TO LIVE!!
Thanks to @followyourslaveheart for writing such a thoughtful list!
My sub boyfriend wants me to lock him in chastity so we’re getting him a cock cage this weekend. It turns me on that he wants to be more submissive outside the bedroom but I warned him we’re not doing the tumblr/reddit crap where I assign release dates. I know he’ll need to cum eventually, so what do you consider the bare minimum per month/year for a 24 year old dude? My goal is to have him cum as rarely as possible when he least expects it
Thank you for writing, Sir!
First of all, I want to congratulate you for taking Ownership of this sub. I also commend you for being understanding of your sub’s needs. Fortunately, this clearly excites you as well.
I think I would start at one/two week intervals, then increase the length of time between milkings.
Furthermore, I think the process of “ejaculation” should be accomplished via prostate milking rather than having your sub pull on his dicklet. This trains your sub to view his hole as the true source of pleasure. Your sub should not be pleasing his urges the way a MAN like you might, Sir.
I’m excited for this next phase in your Ownership of this sub! There are so many things you will learn about each other while going through this process together!
This was written long ago on Tumblr by a faggot in Australia. I wanted to preserve the work from the wreckage of the site.
#1 – Be able to host
#2 – Break your gag reflex by practicing with a banana or a dildo.
#3 – Never use your hands, unless told to
#4 – Look him in the eyes when his cock is down your throat.
#5 – Learn to listen and observe non-verbal cues that tell you how to suck him better
#6 – Pay attention to his balls as well.
#7 – Buy some knees pads so you don’t need to take a break
#8 – When he is cumming, keep sucking him all the way through until his orgasm ends.
#9 – Always swallow, unless he decides to blow it some other way, in which case, let him.
#10 – Keep his cock in your mouth after he has come, and let it get soft while he comes down from his orgasm. He might fall asleep with his cock in your mouth, let him.
#11 – When he is done cumming, your are done. Never expect him to reciprocate in any way.
#12 – Strive to make your mouth a replacement for masturbation. Many guys would much rather cum down your throat than jerk off.
#13 – Try to make note of when he usually contacts you. And the frequency of when he does, so you can make sure you are available when he wants to use you. When his balls are full, he’s not interested in what else you have going on in your life.
#14 – If he touches his nipples while you are sucking him, you should reach up and offer to work them with your hands for him.
#15 – If he lifts his legs back while you are sucking him, that often means he would like to get rimmed as well, and your should do that for him.
#16 – When you are rimming him, don’t stop until he is finished enjoying it, which can be over an hour sometimes. Get used to that.
#17 – Never touch your cock when you are sucking him, unless he tells you to.
#18 – Always provide amyl (poppers) if they enjoy using them. Allow him to use the poppers as much as he likes, and never use them yourself unless he puts the bottle under your nose. Never reach for them and never ask for them. There is nothing worse than a cock sucker that constantly stops sucking to sniff more poppers. Let him decide how much you get, and when.
#19 – Always provide porn from him to enjoy, and get the kind of porn he likes to watch.
#20 – When he is not using you, do not hassle him or bug him. At the very most, you can periodically let him know your availability, but never expect him to respond unless he wants to, when he wants to. And when he doesn’t feel like using your mouth, leave him alone to enjoy the rest of his life.
How do I stop a faggot from falling in love with me?
First of all, it’s difficult to really assess your situation since you haven’t really told me what’s going on. Is this a faggot you are using sexually or otherwise? Is this a faggot friend who wants more than just friendship? Or are you just asking for any future encounters?
Let me just put out there first that faggots generally have trouble controlling their emotions when it comes to straight Men and Alphas. It’s perfectly understandable; we are talking about the world’s greatest Males, pinnacles of human evolution and the rulers of our Hierarchy. To a faggot, you are the personification of God.
The emotions involved with worship operate in the same region of the heart as those feelings of love. They share similar flushes of excitement, adoration, desire, yearning, and hope.
Hence why so many faggots end up falling in love with straight Men they either serve or wish to serve.
If you’re concerned about a faggot falling in love with you, then the most obvious first step would be to either not fuck the faggot, or stop fucking it if you already are.
You need to make sure you’re always honest and upfront with the faggot, and then follow through on what you’ve said with clear, unambiguous actions. For example, don’t tell the faggot you cannot love it, then buy it a teddy bear two weeks later.
Youll need to minimize contact with the faggot to service-oriented times. If your faggot is performing domestic duties for you, allow it to continue, but dismiss it after the task is completed. This retrains the faggot’s mind to focus on service and reminds the faggot that it is not your equal and not in a relationship with you.
If none of these things stabilize the faggot’s emotions, it will need to be dismissed. Keeping the faggot around is only going to exacerbate a volatile situation. The faggot needs a “cooling down” period to reorganize itself and correct problematic control over itself.
I hope this helps, Sir. Like I said, I’m kind of shooting in the dark without complete information. Thank you, Sir!
Is there anything a guy should watch out for or be aware of before fucking around with fags?
I think any Man looking for a faggot to own and/or use should avoid club or heavy-partying faggots. I think they should avoid faggots who are heavily into degradation or nasty behaviors.
Why? Because these types of faggots tend to have drug problems, serious personality problems, and are involved in high-risk sexual behaviors that would needlessly encroach or endanger a Man’s life.
Also, I think a Man should dismiss a faggot immediately if it doesn’t follow through with the first instructions it is given. If a faggot isn’t going to follow orders or show up for the first service assignment, then that shows a lack of seriousness and promises a lot of headaches in the future.
The whole point of owning and using faggots is to MAKE LIFE EASIER, not harder. So be on the lookout for QUALITY faggots, ones who have their act together and who are serious about service.
Do you have any tips or advice when it comes to wrestling or play fighting with fags? It seems fun and I want to maximise that fun. Maybe tips for long term and short term fag ownership.
Thank you, Sir!
When wrestling with a faggot (or a suspected faggot), the key is to always get it into submissive, sexualized holds. Putting your feet on its face and holding it down, or pushing its head down to the ground toward your feet are always potent moves.
The very best move is to pin the faggot on its back and straddle its chest, your legs pinning both of its arms down. In this position, your cock and balls are right there in the faggot’s face where it can see your bulge and smell your scent (or at least imagine these things). My first Alpha would do this to me mercilessly then tap on my face or slap me. The natural reaction of a fag (or anybody) in this position is to push the head forward into your crotch. The first time I did that, my Alpha was shocked – he had never had a male’s head in his crotch before – but he kept doing it anyway. That’s when I realized I could eventually serve him.
As far as short/long term fag Ownership, I don’t really see the difference between the two scenarios, Sir. Ownership is ownership.
1. He declines being called Sir, Master or any other grandiose title from the start. Until a relationship has been agreed he knows he’s a human being just like you, on the same level as you. He will owe you that respect and courtesy from the beginning. He declines being called ego-inflating names unless a dynamic has been explicitly agreed by both parties.
2. He looks after your interests. He will be on your side and will want you to be fulfilled in a relationship. He will be prepared to walk away from a relationship, if he believes your needs will be better met by somebody else. In fact he will be more than happy to introduce you to somebody else who will meet your needs better than him, even if that means he will lose you.
3. He doesn’t criticise other people, particularly other doms, behind their backs. He doesn’t feel threatened by other doms and doesn’t see them as competition. He doesn’t belittle or talk bad about other doms or tries to eliminate or undermine “competitors”.
4. He doesn’t try to dominate the conversation or gratuitously lead a group onto something just to prove to everyone and himself how domly he is. He will let other people have their say, without trying to hoard the limelight. He is a true team player who puts the needs and interests of the group before himself. He is interested in the team winning, not him winning.
5. He doesn’t prey on the vulnerable. He doesn’t hang around the entrance of munches or clubs looking for “fresh meat”. He doesn’t try to take advantage of inexperienced submissives and use their lack of knowledge to his advantage. On the contrary, he will protect those new and vulnerable and do what he can to guide them in the right direction.
6. He doesn’t instigate politics, bitching and division between camps. He is not prepared to partake in them and will try to minimise conflict whenever possible. He has a conciliatory tone and tries to build bridges, not burn them, whilst still defending what is right.
7. He’s approachable. He’s friendly and welcoming and accepts everybody as they are. He keeps his ego in check and doesn’t carry himself with a swagger or in a threatening or arrogant manner. He’s not in possession of the truth. He knows an überdom is quite the opposite of a true dom.
8. He admits to his mistakes. He’s happy to say sorry. He knows that being a dom doesn’t mean he’s perfect. He will own up to his errors and will make reparation whenever possible. If he makes a mistake during play he’ll apologise sincerely and make sure it doesn’t happen again.
9. He’s comfortable with a sub who is more intelligent, skilled and capable than him. He knows that being a dom doesn’t mean he has to be the best at everything. He’s quite happy to take instruction from her submissive and let her teach him what he doesn’t know. As an example, he’s happy to take directions from her when he’s driving.
10. He has nothing to prove. He’s comfortable in his own skin and doesn’t need to prove to anybody how “dominant” he is. He doesn’t try to live up to some expectation of what a dom should be. He’s confident and sure of himself and is untroubled by others disagreeing with him and having a different approach to dominance than his. He knows who he is and he doesn’t need to justify himself to anybody.
11. He doesn’t take liberties. He will not boss around a person just because she’s submissive. Nor will he grope her either. He will be clear, transparent and specific about how he wants to play, before anything happens. He will not take advantage of someone being in subspace and therefore more vulnerable. He is polite to waiters, clerks and those in serving professions.
12. He’s trustworthy. He has a strong sense of integrity, responsibility and compassion. He will stick to his agreements and fulfil his end of the bargain. He will tell the truth and behave with honesty, even if that means he loses out. He’s honourable and his word is his bond.
This is where I diverge from many in the community. Many faggots and Alphas want the sadistic elements – the violence, the degradation – and ignore or dismiss the qualities listed above.
That’s a shame, because some of the greatest Alphas I’ve ever served were Men like the ideal described here. My dear brother Simon (whose story I’ve been chronicling here) has an Alpha very much like this type of true Man.
How do guys hit on other guys? What do they say/do??
Hitting on a guy is just like hitting on a female or whatever. It’s just human-to-human contact. I think you’re able to be more direct with males, but generally it’s the same process. Talk, be vulnerable, honest, and direct.
My primary advice is this, Sir: DO NOT hold back in taking what you want from your faggot. Far too many Alphas (particularly straight Alphas) resist the urge to be aggressive or insulting or greedy because they fear it violates the faggot’s human rights or some code of ethics.
But when you do hold back – even with good intentions – the faggot takes that as weakness and will disobey or lose the requisite respect for you.
A faggot is not a female, Sir. Faggots are the most service and worship-oriented creatures on the planet. We yearn to serve Men like you; we exist for that reason. So don’t hold back from taking these this created to please you, Sir. It’s your birthright!
I am not necessarily a fan of using a banana because there is a chance of choking if it breaks off. I would use a long, slender cucumber if you need a vegetable, but ideally, you’d use a silicone dildo. Take more and more of it down your throat, taking care to hold it down your throat for as long as you can.
You need to develop the mindset that the dildo/cock IS GOING DOWN YOUR THROAT. Don’t be afraid of it – get aggressive with it. Suck on it like it is the most amazing meal and you are starving to death.
I think the problem with most fags that write you is their concentration on being fucked. Just as most horned up betas learn true pleasure comes in the form of giving. Some boys are so focused on dick in their ass or in their throat that they forget it’s about making the Man feel good. True Alpha/Fag relationship. Being fucked by an Alpha should be a reward. I make my boy wait weeks. Before I even reply to him to assure him my dick is not on call for him. I can get ass and mouth anywhere its the worship I seek. How much power will you give me? I don’t mean the power to humiliate you. I mean total control. My boy will go crazy when I text him “yo” he’ll begin to beg me to let him come over, frantically texting me and I won’t reply until he calms down. Which could be days later. I leave him with the thought of “how could I have handled this differently?” I like to train him. Make sure that he knows I’m here but not at his beck and call. Everything happens when I say. If he begs to blow me I may not even let him when he comes over. I may just have him wash and fold my clothes. Give me a massage. Anything but what he wants when he wants it. Am I cruel to him? Not at all. Great kid, but as kids need to learn, so must he. A lot of what I read here is based on how the fag/boy feels and if most them switch their mindset to pleasing the Man/Alpha, they would be surprised how he will open up to using them. Just a thought.
Thank you Sir!
You have nailed it, Sir! Selfishness is easily the #1 problem with faggots, and it leads them to a life of unfulfillment until they learn to fix it. I have no idea how many times I’ve told faggots here “who cares what you want?” Whenever I do, I receive hate from uppity gays who indignantly declare that they have needs, too. They just don’t get it, Sir, and that’s why they don’t get IT.
I must say that your training methods are intriguing, Sir, and extremely clever. I can only imagine how some of those moves drive your faggots insane with desire and submission!
Your faggots are VERY fortunate to be owned by you, Sir! And I am very fortunate to receive a little bit of your wisdom and guidance, too. Thank you, Sir!
When it comes to the Hierarchy of Men, no other concept is more important than Alphahood. It is the foundational stone of the Hierarchy, the concept upon which it all rests.
So it’s odd that something so intrinsic to human society is poorly understood or flat-out rejected by modern people. And yet every day we see the impact of Alphahood on our world and in our lives. And deep in our bones there is a gnawing feeling that this is really the truth of our existence.
Loosely, Alphahood can be defined this way: It is the state of certain Men who are born with more genetic and personality advantages than others. This state of being makes them dominant socially, sexually, professionally, and personally.
For Men who are born Alpha and just coming to that realization, there is at once elation and confusion. Elation, of course, for having such a birthright and finally having an explanation for certain aspects of their lives.
But confusion, too. How do I know it’s real? How am I supposed to act? WHAT NOW? That was the state of mind of a reader, who asked this simple question:
Do you have any advice for an Alpha who’s just realizing and coming into His power?
So let me address this Alpha’s questions, while also sending these guidelines out to all Alphas everywhere.
First of all, I have TONS of advice! Much of it would naturally be tailored specifically to your circumstances (which I don’t know, yet), but I can give you general advice, much of which centers on mindset:
1. You were born to rule this world, Sir. Everything around you – people, money, everything – is yours. Meditate on that powerful concept.
2. You were born to be worshiped. Men are NOT created equal. Some Men – including you – were born Superior. Some scientists believe there is a special chromosomal combination responsible for Alphahood, but regardless, your genetics and makeup as a Man have crafted you into a god. Accept that about yourself, and allow that worship.
3. Embrace all forms of worship. Being a god, people will want to do obeisance to you. Some might seek to kiss your feet. Some might be compelled to give you vast sums of money. Some might wish to be your massage therapist. Others might wish to simply clean and shine the tires of your vehicle. Hell, there might be some who simply want to feed you grapes as you relax on a beach. These are all pleasures laid out before you on the banquet table of your life, Sir. So allow these inferiors to offer you their treasures.
3. Realize that it is NATURAL for inferiors to be drawn to your power as an Alpha. We want to serve Men like you because your Superiority compels us to submit and honor you. Alphas are light a light in the darkness, and we are moths drawn to it. It’s instinct on the most basic level, Sir.
4. Given that all inferiors are yours, Sir, you are free to pick and choose and take what you want. So be confident in that. Confidence is the one advantage all Alphas have over everyone else. You’re able to look someone in the eye and almost dare them to refuse you. That’s true power, Sir!
5. Expand your kingdom. Start to realize that there are many forms of worship that can come from many different directions. I don’t know about your sexual orientation, Sir, but let’s say that using faggots sexually doesn’t interest you – they can still clean for you, can’t they? They can still tribute money to you. They can lick your shoes clean or run errands or a thousand other chores for you.
6. You are Alpha over ALL inferiors. Some people make Alphahood out to be some sexual fetish thing. It isn’t. Alphahood is a state of being for select Men. It does sometimes involve sex or Dom/sub fetish play (which reinforces your dominance), but your Alphahood should be reflected throughout your entire life like light through a perfect diamond.
I hope some of these general points have inspired you to take hold of that commission entrusted to you by Nature!
You need a fat dick in that smart ass mouth and an even fatter one in that tight ass. Tell the truth faggot you’ve thinking of breaking your celibacy streak haven’t you? I bet you tap your hole tempted to finger it just s bit if you dont already. I hear you calling like the howl of a wolf through your word play. It’s time.
My alpha used to fuck me rough like he hates himself for doing this but recently the fuck started to be a little less rough a little more tender it’s like he’s making love. Am i making too much of this?
Well, I don’t think you’re making too much of this YET. It’s very common for Alphas in long-term service relationships with their faggots to ease up over time. The Alpha starts to value the faggot as a person more as he gets to know it, and the faggot then becomes more than simply a fuck object.
Here’s the important part: control your emotions. Do not start to read intentions of love into his actions. Let him do whatever he wants to do and enjoy the ride. It might take you somewhere unexpected, and it might not. But if you fall in love and become unbalanced, you’re going to put the entire thing at risk.
Looking for anal douche tips for gay men who bottom? Do you want to properly clean yourself out good before butt play? Are you hoping to find a step by step enema guide with recommendations?
If you’re answering yes to these questions, you wouldn’t be alone. Many gay men, particularly first time bottoms, seek out guidance on the Internet regarding these issues.
I’ve written this anal douche guide for gay men to act as a comprehensive “go to” source so that you can learn how to best prepare yourself with an enema for anal play.
Do you genuinely believe anal sex is safely compatible with human anatomy?
Ugh, you again.
Humans have been having ass sex since dicks first got hard. Is it 100% perfect? Fuck no. But then again, most sex carries difficulties and risks. Oddly enough, none of those risk factors have ever stopped humans from doing those acts.
The next time you’re receiving oral sex, I want you to remember that such an act isn’t 100% compatible with the uses of those genital parts, okay?
Some say I’m supposed to push like I’m defecating during anal sex to ease up the entry pain, is this effective? Also wouldn’t this lead to some excrement to come out?
Yes it is an effective technique. And you shouldn’t be able to defecate while doing this because (hopefully) you emptied your bowels prior to sex. Always thoroughly clean yourself out before sex!
okay so i am a gay 19 year old guy who is curious to try taking dick up the ass but whenever ive practiced shoving a brush up my ass it feels good but honestly also feels like I’m gonna take a shit. Is that normal or does it feel different having a dick up your ass or is it just uncomfortably good or is that only the first few times?
Awww, congratulations my little brother! Time to take that big step, eh? Good for you!
You’re right, there is a feeling of pressure that can feel like you’re going to shit. That’s due to the intruding object affecting the air pressure inside your colon. It’s definitely unnerving when you first start playing with your ass … and it gets REALLY intense when you’re getting fucked by a cock.
You’ll adjust to the feeling once you get past the fear that you might actually shit. You might find it hard to believe, but you’ll actually miss that full feeling and crave to have dick causing that pressure inside your pussy.
On a side note, what’s the deal with faggots sticking brushes in their pussies? LOL Here I am doing the same damned thing:
im a young college student who has just discovered that he’s an alpha. i was wondering if you could offer some tips on how to ridicule fags and exercise control onto them
First, no need to be an ass. There’s no need to ridicule and humiliate. That’s not how it works Sport.
Second, take it easy. You have a lifetime of sex ahead of you. Enjoy the gift of your body. Faggots will come to you like magnets to metal. In private, gave your way with them. Be open and build a stable.
In public, treat these men w respect and kindness. Let them fag out on your masculine young body in private, where you can be filthy.
This is how you step up to the “Buck” level. The “Alpha” part comes after you truly become a man.
I love hearing @natural-hung-bull give advice like this to young Alphas!
You can hear the difference in their voices, can’t you? One is antsy, eager to prove himself, the other is wise and heavy with responsibility.
Young Alphas who are smart will listen to these older Alphas, absorb their knowledge and apply it wisely. And there are few better teachers than @natural-hung-bull!
Hey. Big fan. I am a top(not necessarily alpha). I have found that I love serving my boyfriend. And he wants to do anal but I do not want to, ummm make a mess. Any tips or tutorials? You may have already posted about this but I’m in need.
There are a few things people recommend to do before bottoming, like fasting or laxatives. These are generally unrealistic. The primary thing to do is lots of douching.
Back in my seriously slutty days, I would use a gravity-fed enema to get water all the way through the colon. Believe me, that’ll clean you out. But for general purposes, douching works well enough. You just need to douche and evacuate repeatedly until the water (lukewarm!) comes out clear.
NOTE: I’m not talking about Fleet enemas, those small bottles of fluid sold at drugstores. Those have salt (a saline solution) in them designed to induce a natural pushing reaction in the colon. I don’t recommend that.
I can’t stand Davey Wavey, but I think his tutorial on douching is useful.
And here is another good video tutorial about general issues involved with bottoming.
Please help! My alphas dick is 12 inches big and every time we fuck my ass bleeds and hurts. Any tips please!
I’m sorry to hear that brother!!
First question: where are you bleeding…internally, or your hole?
Second question: are you using lube? If so, how much?
Recommendations:
– Use A LOT of lube. Obscene amounts.
– push out with your hole, a technique that helps fortify the ring of your asshole.
– your Alpha is going to need to take it easy when fucking you. That is just the reality (the curse?) of having a giant dick. At least until you can get acclimated to his size (which will happen).
– for you: RELAX. I know what it feels like to be confronted by big dicks (I’m part of the “fucked by 10+ inches” club also), and we have a tendency to seize up with fear. That only makes it worse on ourselves.
Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock 😉
SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his cock.
ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.
PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave his cock in your ass. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.
PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.
RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.
ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his cock down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ass.
REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.
COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.
Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.
LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.
LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.
LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his cock up your ass.
LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.
LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR “CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.
SHOW HIM RESPECT. Be polite. Call him Sir. Thank him after a good fuck.
#2 – Break your gag reflex by practicing with a banana or a dildo.
#3 – Never use your hands, unless told to
#4 – Look him in the eyes when his cock is down your throat.
#5 – Learn to listen and observe non-verbal cues that tell you how to suck him better
#6 – Pay attention to his balls as well.
#7 – Buy some knees pads so you don’t need to take a break
#8 – When he is cumming, keep sucking him all the way through until his orgasm ends.
#9 – Always swallow, unless he decides to blow it some other way, in which case, let him.
#10 – Keep his cock in your mouth after he has come, and let it get soft while he comes down from his orgasm. He might fall asleep with his cock in your mouth, let him.
#11 – When he is done cumming, your are done. Never expect him to reciprocate in any way.
#12 – Strive to make your mouth a replacement for masturbation. Many guys would much rather cum down your throat than jerk off.
#13 – Try to make note of when he usually contacts you. And the frequency of when he does, so you can make sure you are available when he wants to use you. When his balls are full, he’s not interested in what else you have going on in your life.
#14 – If he touches his nipples while you are sucking him, you should reach up and offer to work them with your hands for him.
#15 – If he lifts his legs back while you are sucking him, that often means he would like to get rimmed as well, and your should do that for him.
#16 – When you are rimming him, don’t stop until he is finished enjoying it, which can be over an hour sometimes. Get used to that.
#17 – Never touch your cock when you are sucking him, unless he tells you to.
#18 – Always provide amyl (poppers) if they enjoy using them. Allow him to use the poppers as much as he likes, and never use them yourself unless he puts the bottle under your nose. Never reach for them and never ask for them. There is nothing worse than a cock sucker that constantly stops sucking to sniff more poppers. Let him decide how much you get, and when.
#19 – Always provide porn from him to enjoy, and get the kind of porn he likes to watch.
#20 – When he is not using you, do not hassle him or bug him. At the very most, you can periodically let him know your availability, but never expect him to respond unless he wants to, when he wants to. And when he doesn’t feel like using your mouth, leave him alone to enjoy the rest of his life.
Hey, I need a tip on best way to train a faggot. This faggot an I met on Adam4Adam an he needs a master. So I told him to pick me up after telling him what I like an wanna do since the average gay guys don’t like to get fisted. Faggots clit was so excited on every red light an wanted a feel. So I slapped him an told him to wait. We get back on the room in the hotel an the faggot had the ignorance to ask me what I want. Faggot get on the floor. As we continued we did the things I wanted. Fist, piss, an of course, stuffing pool balls in an “gave birth”. However his oral skills need work and he has a bf that loves him an his faggot way. Lucky to have a man that accepts his place in the world. After marking his stomach with my marks and using porn to get me to cum we left. How do you train a faggot oral skills? I tried telling an skull fucking but no luck. Any tips on how to make him understands on how to give cock oral head?
Thank you very much for writing, Sir!
First of all, congratulations on finding this new faggot to worship you and satisfy your needs. Just know that, by using it, you are also fulfilling the faggot as well.
Skull fucking the faggot isn’t going to do much for the faggot’s skills except to get it accustomed to violent use. The faggot needs some training, either with a dildo or with your cock, if you have the patience for that.
How would you go about approaching someone to serve? Like, I’ve kind of been helping this guy out with some stuff, someone thought I acted like his assistant almost, and I think I want to try and serve him a bit more. Any tips for how to go about this? Maybe via text?
Sure, I guess you could send a text if you don’t feel comfortable saying something to him directly. Just convey that you really enjoy assisting him and you’d really like to have more tasks from him.
First off, let me be clear that i am not using the term faggot in a pejorative sense. One of the most effective ways of taking the sting out of a word is to re-appropriate it from the haters, and redefine it yourself. This must of course happen in a supportive environment, among those who accept you as you are. That enables you to defiantly and bravely own up to what you are. And to realize that there are appreciative Alphas/Men out there who would love nothing better than to have their own personal fag. Don’t let others keep you from living the life that fits you best. And without shame.
In this re-appropriated meaning, the following are some pretty strong indicators that you are a faggot:
1. Your primary sex organ is not your penis.
Most males (gay or straight) derive most of their sexual pleasure from their penises. Men love to ejaculate, and they find great satisfaction in the power of their ejaculations. They take great pride in their penises and in phallic symbolism.
Faggots, on the other hand, are often embarrassed by their penis. It may be relatively small. Many have weak erections. Some have low testosterone levels. On the other hand, faggots generally take great pleasure in their butts and assholes. They are compelled to play with this area, stimulate it using fingers, dildos, or butt plugs, and learn to have prostate-induced anal orgasms rather than (or in addition to) penile orgasms. For faggots, their asshole becomes their primary sex organ, not their penis. Most regard their mouths as a primary or secondary sex organ.
2. You are unable to top.
In general, Men are born with a natural desire to penetrate and ejaculate. It is their prime instinct. Men love to watch their cocks slide into their partner, love to hear their moans as they fuck them, and enjoy the feeling of pumping their warm seminal fluid into them.
Faggots, on the other hand, cannot see themselves as anything other than a receptive hole for a Man’s cock. A faggot will never penetrate anyone else. The idea has no appeal, and there is no motivation to do so. My penis does not get aroused at the thought. It remains flaccid.
When being fucked, faggots typically feel little or no motivation to touch their penises, preferring instead to focus on the penetration. Many faggots remain flaccid while getting fucked, so focused are they on their asshole as primary sex organ.
3. You dislike receiving oral sex.
From my first sexual experience with another male, I noticed that I did not enjoy receiving oral sex. My penis remained flaccid, and the experience was embarrassing and made me intensely uncomfortable. That is not atypical. There are at least two reasons for this. One, already described above, is that a faggot’s penis is not experienced as a primary sex organ. Another is that the position of power a blowjob bestows upon the receiver is antithetical to the true nature of a faggot.
Almost all Men (gay or straight) love to receive a good blowjob. Faggots are the exception. They typically recoil from the idea. Now that I’ve come to understand my true nature, the very thought of receiving a blowjob fills me with disgust and horror. I’ve heard the same from many faggots over the years.
4. You are service oriented.
All gay bottoms are submissive to some degree; taking a dick up the ass requires at least a degree of submissiveness. But most are submissive only in the bedroom, and their bottoming is how they prefer to get off. In other words, there is a reciprocity. They seek their own orgasm as much as their partner’s. They consider themselves on a level plane to the Man who is fucking them. This is very similar to how most women view their relationships with Men.
A faggot is not only not equal to a Man (except in certain fundamental human rights as a human being), but the faggot itself knows and acknowledges that it is not equal. A faggot doesn’t focus on its own pleasure at all, in or out of the bedroom. At all times a true faggot focuses on the Man’s pleasure. Its own pleasure is merely incidental, and in no way central.
5. You have certain fetishes, and open to deeper forms of submission.
Certain fetishes tend to distinguish faggots from conventional gay bottoms. For instance, almost all faggots seem to have fetishes for aspects of a Man’s body that denote masculinity and power asymmetry.
Faggots tend to very willingly kiss and lick a Man’s feet. They also tend to their lust for the smells of a Man. A Man’s used underwear might disgust most people, but a faggot typically desires these items. Faggots love to sniff and lick musky balls and armpits. While gay bottoms may enjoy such aspects, too, they rarely have the worshipful lust faggots reserve for them.
These fetishes might drive faggots to do things that ordinary gay bottoms would never do, such as swallow a Man’s piss, or get spanked.
6. You derive satisfaction from service.
Faggots achieve emotional satisfaction from serving a Man through menial tasks. A faggot finds great satisfaction while cleaning a Man’s bathroom, doing a Man’s dishes, or washing a Man’s laundry. Very few women or other gay Men exhibit this level of servitude, nor do they seem to derive pleasure from such tasks.
In addition, a faggot does such chores without the expectation of reward. Contrast that mentality with women and gay Men, who often perform chores for a Man in the expectation that they will be rewarded in some way. Faggots do not have such expectations. Their reward comes from performing the service itself for a special Man.
7. Being called “faggot” or hearing the words “good boy” or “good faggot” fill you with pride and joy.
It’s difficult to summarize this peculiar aspect of faghood. Truly, though, it is an almost-universal trait of faggots that they respond positively when they are spoken to this way by Men. In fact, any Man seeking the service of a faggot (or is testing to discover whether a guy is a faggot) should call that guy a faggot. His response to it will be immediate and unmistakable.
The recognition of our faghood by true Men fills us with a kind of safety. We are noticed by these Men, and not necessarily rejected! It’s a warm and comforting feeling to true faggots.
Summing up, you are a faggot if:
You are more interested in your ass as your primary sex organ
You seek only the sexual satisfaction of the Man, not yourself.
You are attracted to the power of a Man
You are attracted to a Man’s intimate scents and, and not repelled by his spit and piss
You can derive pleasure from serving a Man through menial tasks
You respond positively to being called “faggot” or being told “good boy.”
Once again the glorious straight Alpha @CasterDom drops another truth bomb on his worshipers! The best Alphas are just like him – straight up, no bullshit, and an undeniable sense of confidence and security. These are the kinds of Alphas who naturally understand the role they play within the Hierarchy, and the purpose faggots play in their role as dominant predator.
Alphas can often use their feet to flush a faggot out of hiding
One of the most curious questions I receive from Alphas is this: “How do I identify a faggot?”
I find it to be a curious question because Alphas typically see right through a faggot’s defenses and discover their submissive desire to serve them. It’s almost as if Alphas have a sixth sense regarding the Nature of faggots. This can be a very powerful tool for any Alpha who seeks worship and desires servants under his command.
There are a variety of signals faggots involuntarily emit that Alphas immediately notice. Once the Alpha is convinced by these signals that a certain inferior male is a faggot, he can move in for the “kill” by enslaving that faggot. This is essentially what happened with my first Alpha, and it happens every day around the world.
Here are some markers an Alpha might look for when trying to determine if an inferior male is a faggot in everyday life:
1. Perpetually single and/or no interest in the opposite sex. This is a pretty big sign, obviously, but it lays the groundwork for more subtle tells.
2. Submissive body posture. It’s incredible how very slight changes in posture can reflect either submission or dominance. Males with recoiled, slumping postures are clearly inferior, and possibly faggot.
3. Poor eye contact/downward-cast eyes. Faggots have trouble keeping eye contact with Alphas, mainly because the Alpha’s Superiority makes them more self-conscious about their own inferiority. Faggots will also fall into “shy eyes” or “flirty eyes” mode, which are not typical Male behaviors.
4. Preoccupation with feet (and sometimes hands). This is a huge one; I would wager that nearly 100% of faggots have a foot fetish. A sharp eyed Alpha will catch a potential faggot staring at their feet (or hands). Here’s a fun way to test for faggotry as an Alpha: take off your shoes and prop them on a table in the faggot’s eye line and see what happens. Or, better yet, plop your feet anywhere on their body. A true faggot will not react to this temptation the way a regular Man would.
5. Preoccupation with crotches and bulges. This should be pretty obvious. An Alpha will notice that, as he moves around, that the faggot’s eyes are tracking his bulge (or his ass). Normal Males do not do this, either.
6. Feminine dress and grooming. In the Age of the Metrosexual, it’s becoming more difficult to use this as a guiding principle. However, faggots typically take good care of themselves, and are at least acceptably stylist. But avoid the really prissy, overly feminine ones; they’re usually trouble.
7. Very touchy/handsy. A faggot will often spontaneously start rubbing/massaging shoulders, FEET, thighs, etc.
8. Often physically lowers itself near the floor or at a Man’s feet. Faggots often subconsciously sit at a Man’s feet or lower/beneath a Man. It makes them feel smaller and more dog-like. This was something I did often to assist in the seduction of my first Alpha – I would sit on the floor at his feet or even under his chair.
9. Frequent and unusual offers of gifts/services. Faggots will often do things like make meals or perform light duties (like car washing or laundry), usually without asking or being told to do it.
Signs in sexual and romantic situations
1. Refuses to Top or cannot Top. Faggots are simply not wired to fuck things. Even faggots with big, wasted dicks are incapable of wanting to fuck.
2. Hates getting its dick sucked. Most Men love getting their dick sucked, but for a faggot, getting their dick sucked is like Dracula accidentally biting into some garlic. Faggots often recoil in horror if a Man attempts to suck them.
3. Unfailingly generous and always the “giver.” Faggots will bend over backwards to please an Alpha, and sometimes that comes in the form of non-sexual service. Frequent and obvious gifting is something Males do not do.
4. Very touchy/handsy.
5. Often physically lowers itself near the floor or at a Man’s feet.
6. Frequent and unusual offers of gifts/services.
These are some of the basic signals that can help an Alpha distinguish a faggot from an average Man. Once isolated and identified, the faggot can be taken and used for whatever an Alpha needs.
And once that happens, the great Hierarchical balance is satisfied once again!
We often talk about subs and faggots as weak creatures who are taken and used indiscriminately by powerful Men.
But actual submission involves incredible amounts of personal strength. The ability to set aside one’s own ego in order to serve even in difficult situations is very difficult, and often requires a lot of training. The peaceable, fulfilling fruits at the end of that journey are satisfying, but the road to get there is arduous and fraught with fear and insecurities. A fag must work hard to face down everything in order to be not only pleasing to Men, but also pleasing to themselves.
This is why I’m always preaching to faggots to have enough self-respect to turn away from abusive Alphas. The strength a faggot shows in order to submit to a Man is worth too much to be treated harshly or with disrespect.
If you gather enough strength to submit to a Man, make sure he is a Man worthy of such worship. A Man who will treasure such a powerful gift of submission!
Over the course of my adult life, I’ve known several faggots very well. A couple continue to be my close friends even to this day, spanning many years and many shared experiences. We have ridden the turbulent waves of service together, cried with each other, and had occasional animated discussions on the various aspects of faggotry. We don’t always agree, but we are honest with each other.
I think one point we agree on is that it is not easy to fulfill the calling of faggotry. It’s a difficult life. A faggot who is true to that commission must be willing to give up on many of the expectations of a “normal” life. A faggot lives to serve its Alpha or Alphas. There is little time for dating, and falling in love is almost completely out of the equation. Even employment and financial considerations might be sacrificed or curtailed in favor of an Alpha’s wishes.
These might seem like extreme sacrifices, and they are from a particular point of view. But true faggots make these sacrifices anyway because we are called to serve. It is a yearning in our soul to serve these great and powerful Men. And when we do, we feel a fulfillment unlike any other in life.
But there’s something I’ve noticed about many fags – they suffer quite a bit from depression. In almost all cases, fear plays a central role in this depression; fear of the unknown, fear of failure, fear of rejection, or a fear about a loveless future. These are all reasonable fears, but not ones that need to cripple a faggot.
On the other hand, the happiest and most satisfied faggots I’ve ever known (and I would include myself in this group) have thrown caution to the wind and embraced this calling with our entire being. We know the thrills and the contentment that comes from service to a satisfied Alpha. We feel a sense of pride in knowing that we have made our Owners feel like Kings, and in turn we are elevated. For us, there is nothing finer than a tender pat on the head or a casual “good boy” coming from our Alpha’s lips.
To those fags out there who are struggling with depression, I say this – either dive head-first into service, or walk away from it forever. The waffling, the flirtations … they lead only to failure and more depression. Flaky faggots lead the saddest lives, because they exist in a gray, shadow-like world of non-action. It is an impotent course of life, one ultimately devoid of meaning.
If a faggot embraces what it was born to be, it finds a deep and rich fulfillment unlike any other experience in life. It satisfies the yearning deep inside a faggot’s soul, the need a faggot has at its very core. Its genetic purpose.
On the other hand, a faggot can leave behind the idea of service and pursue a “normal” life, and still find a measure of happiness. In many cases, their depression might be cured by way of lifestyle distractions.
Either way, a faggot doesn’t need to wallow in a depressive funk. There are ways out of the faggotry jungle. Facing these truths and accepting them is the first and most important step.
You’ve found a blog that was designed for you. Whether you’re straight, bi or gay, this blog is intended to help you deal with the cocksuckers all around you.
As an Alpha Male, you know you’re superior. You’ve never questioned that. However, most of you have never used a cocksucker. And that’s too bad. Society has programmed us to think about sex and male bodies negatively. Like if a man comes into contact with another man it will somehow make him a homo as if something that is DONE to you could change who you are. So you probably have no idea how or even if you should use a cocksucker. I’m here to tell you that, yes you should. As an Alpha you already use your resources and people to maximal benefit of yourself. It’s only natural. Using cocksuckers is no different. Cocksuckers will make your life better and easier.
A quick word about the term cocksucker. It’s the term I prefer to use for any guy who submits to me or another Alpha, whether sexually or not. While many submissives happily use other derogatory terms to describe themselves like fag and faggot, and want you to use those terms because humiliation is a turn-on, some are very opposed to the word as it has negative connotations for them. The ones who self identify, I’m happy to oblige. But none of them can deny that they suck cock, at least after you’ve had your dick in their mouth, so cocksucker is a word you can use with impunity. I’ve had a few complain about it, but once I explain that it’s simply a term accurately describing what they do, they usually embrace it.
I started using cocksuckers when I was in College but the realization that I called all the shots was a game changer. I discovered I could order them around and they would jump at the chance to serve me, both sexually and otherwise. I recently wrote on my blog about the first time I got a rimjob from a cocksucker. That was actually the first cocksucker I used. After that I started noticing the potential cocksuckers all around me.
This is how it started. I decided to do a little experiment. There was this guy in my bio class. He would always come to my work bench if I didn’t have a partner. That was the first clue. The second clue was the way he would offer to do stuff for me, like he’d write up the lab and make a copy for me. He said it was more efficient than both of us writing our own. You just get a vibe from some cocksuckers, you know.
He knew on some level it was his role to serve me even if he wasn’t conscious of it.
He wasn’t effeminate at all, in fact he looked like a jock, so the clues were not the typical ones that let you spot a cocksucker a mile away, but they were there. One of the clues was he talked too fucking much. So one day, (the lab was early in the morning), I was feeling sleepy and needed a jolt of caffeine and got an idea.
“DJ, before our next lab, why don’t you get us a couple of coffees?”
He seemed to get excited at that idea. Like we were bonding or some shit. There was no reason it should be him that gets the coffees, I just wanted to see his reaction to my “order”. He had that “want to please you” puppydog reaction. He wanted to know if I wanted him to go to the coffee shop, or if I liked the cafeteria coffee. There were a million questions. How much cream, what kind of cream, sugar, what size, and dark, medium or light. The questions about this fucking cup of coffee were endless. I half regretted even asking him. I soon learned how to deal with all the fucking chatter, though. It was clear, pleasing me was his first priority.
If you’ve never used a cocksucker before, then this blog will help you understand how to do it. It may surprise you just how much you can use them. In the blog, I explain by sharing my experiences and reblogging sexual scenes where Alphas are using cocksuckers, with my comments or comments from other Alphas that I agree with, but in addition to using them as a tool to get off, there are a lot of other opportunities to use cocksuckers that will make your life better as well.
I also reblog posts from cocksuckers who make it clear they are there to serve you. I have tagged some of my posts with Pro tips for Alphas. These are obviously my thoughts on how to use cocksuckers. I also have Rules for cocksuckers which are worth reading because they will give you an idea of what you can expect cocksuckers to do for you. It might surprise you to learn that some cocksuckers will do pretty much anything you want, simply because they recognize your superiority and understand you deserve to be served and worshipped like a God. This may all seem like a fantasy, but I assure you it isn’t. Your Alpha status is your ticket to a privileged life. There are millions of cocksuckers out there. You can start using them whenever you want.
So back to DJ. He shows up with my coffee. I thought I’d push him a little.
“Thanks dude, but where’s my donut.” I hadn’t mentioned a donut.
“Oh, um, sorry. I … can go get you one.” He looked devastated that he made a mistake and disappointed me.
“Never mind, I just thought you’d remember I like a donut with my coffee.”
Instead of saying “you didn’t ask for a fucking donut”, he says he can go get me one. Any straight guy would have told me to get my own fucking donut, but not DJ. He is clearly putting himself in the subservient role and tries to appease me by offering to go get one. This was one of those telltale signs. Even if he didn’t know he was a cocksucker, he’s so subservient to me naturally that I knew I could get him to serve me even more. Certainly for non-sexual services like donut retrieval but also for more involved tasks like doing my laundry or even sucking my dick as I would find out.
His service or servitude as it is called in porn, continued, with me escalating the level of service to the point where he would write essays for me, edit the ones I had to write myself, do my laundry, pick up shit from the store, and finally I got him sucking my dick. That took a little bit of finesse as he was not aware that he was a cocksucker, but I simply explained to him about the hierarchy of men, and how lower men have always served Alphas, and pointed out that his service up to now was not something an equal would have offered or tolerated. I told him it was clear his own sense of self and purpose was tied to his subservience and service to me. I explained it in terms of my helping him recognize and accept his purpose (as a cocksucker, though I didn’t use that term). He was quite shocked but I could see some of it resonated as he became very silent. No doubt he wasn’t completely oblivious to his own nature. I didn’t demand service that first night. I just let him think about it. A few days later I invited him to my apartment, and just told him what I wanted (a blowjob). He actually cried that night, (I told him they were tears of joy at finally finding his purpose). He was kind of frozen in his chair as the realization of what was about to happen dawned on him. So I stood up and guided his head to my crotch. There was no resistance at all. He became a pretty good cocksucker over the next few weeks and came to embrace his nature completely. I even put a gag in his mouth to stop the chatter. He would always do what I told him. I had to let him go later when it became clear that he had fallen in love with me. But for a few months I lived like a King.
I hope you can use this information to find your own cocksuckers. If you have any questions or success stories you want to share, feel free.
Good luck.
Really, this is an astonishing essay by @jerrod99 on how Alpha Males can secure cocksuckers and faggot slaves. Master Jerrod really pinpoints one key factor – Alphas need to have the confidence and insight to recognize cocksucker behavior and then take the steps necessary to cause the cocksucker to submit. In reality, all submissive persons belong to Alphas. It is the Alpha’s right to take what they want from them.
Quite a while ago I wrote a post entitled “Am I A Faggot?” to help faggots examine themselves and discover their own truth. I thought I might try to do the same for Alphas despite the fact that I’m the exact opposite of an Alpha. However, I do have quite a bit of experience with Alphas, so I thought I might examine Alpha traits from that perspective.
Self confidence
Many Men give off a confident vibe, either real or for show. But Alphas are supremely confident Men, assured both in their actions and place in the world. They often make excellent eye contact and an intensity behind their eyes that reveals their confident nature.
Body confidence
In addition to self confidence, Alphas are typically confident about their bodies and the effect of their physical presence on others. Physical imperfections do not cause shyness in most Alphas. Alphas aren’t usually shy about their body odors, as they tend to look at their scent as a way to mark or entice submissives.
Sexually aggressive
Almost every true Alpha is aggressive to some degree. This might involve aggressive sexual play (slapping, choking, pinning) or powerful rutting. Alphas are also aggressive in getting what they want, not shying away from ordering a sub over to service them. This aggression is key to Alphas getting what they need sexually.
A need to lead
Alphas do not typically like being told what to do; they prefer to follow their own instincts. This drive for leadership is often why Alphas excel in the workplace, always first in line for promotions and other recognition. Along with that, other Men will typically (even subconsciously) follow the lead of the Alpha. They will often defer to the Alpha’s opinions in conversations or in group settings.
The submission of others
True Alphas will often receive deference in every aspect of their lives. Submissives will naturally (again, even subconsciously) seek ways to make the Alpha’s life easier and more pleasant. In social settings, Alphas are usually the center of everyone’s attention, and people will cater to the Alphas or seek his favor. Alphas often receive gifts, even when they didn’t request them.
Constant attention of subs
Alphas will notice that submissives are often fixated on certain aspects of their bodies. A submissive might stare at an Alpha’s feet, or a sub might not be able to maintain eye contact as its eyes constantly graze over the Alpha’s attractive features. If you are noticing this kind of behavior from those around you, then you may be Alpha.
A love of worship
True Alphas love to be the center of attention. The crave a submissive treating them like a god and worshiping them for their power and presence. Alphas rightly believe they deserve such adoration, and thoroughly enjoy receiving such treatment from inferiors.
Sexual selfishness
While I wouldn’t say Alphas are always selfish sexually (married Alphas do seek to please their wives), the overriding concern of the Alpha is his own pleasure. This is particularly true when Alphas deal with faggots; Alphas have no interest in bottoming and rarely (if ever) touch a fag’s dick (this is typically true with gay Alphas, too).
So you may be an Alpha if:
You are supremely self confident
You are sexually aggressive
You prefer to lead
Others naturally submit to you
You love to be worshiped
I may add to this list as time goes on. If I’ve missed something important, let me know.
I suppose I am, in a way, grateful for the existence of cash faggotry. When I first heard about the practice last summer, my research led me to many Tumblr sites that inspired me enough to start my own blog here.
I was almost a little embarrassed that I’d never heard of the cash fag business. I am, after all, a pretty internet-savvy faggot. In my lifetime of serving Men, I had spent a lot of money in the process of service, buying them expensive clothes or paying for their meals, etc. I even bought one Alpha a truck! So I guess what I’m saying is that I think I should’ve been more attuned to the idea of online cash faggotry when I first heard about it last summer.
Around the same time that I was establishing this blog, I experimented with being an online cash fag just to see what it did for me. Over the course of two months, I was humiliated by multiple cash Masters and paid them money. I spent approximately $1,500 over that time period paying online cash Masters.
I’m a financially-stable faggot and can afford to blow that kind of money, but I was a bit alarmed when I saw how easily that amount of cash disappeared.
So I started doing some background investigations on the “cash Masters” I had paid. What I discovered was that almost all of the so-called “Alphas” I had paid weren’t Alphas at all. One was a morbidly-obese guy with glasses from Tennessee. One was a lumpy, pasty-white dork in Australia. And on and on.
Occasionally I have encountered a true Alpha online who is worthy of such cash worship. I spoke early on about Alpha Santi, a young Alpha from the UK. Also @kc-alpha is another worthy cash Master who isn’t afraid to reveal himself to his followers. And, of course, the most popular cash Master of them all, Master Jax. These types of cash Alphas are the exception, though, not the rule. Most cash Masters hide behind fake pics of hot guys in order to provide a fantasy for weak faggots.
Recently I was contacted by a cash Master. He’s a 22 year old weightlifter who lives in Canada with his parents. He’s straight and has a girlfriend. He started using cash faggots last January when some fag suggested it to him. Since then, he’s collected more than $21,000 in fag cash.
As you can see, he isn’t afraid to show off his muscular body or talk dirty to his fags:
However, when I started searching through his blogspot site (here) I came across an entry where he demanded that fags help him pay cash for a used RAV4 because he was currently driving his mother’s car.
Look, I believe Alphas deserve to be worshiped, and fags are born to serve them and make their lives better, but shouldn’t an Alpha be exhibiting superior behavior if they are worthy of such worship?
Think about it: this 22 year-old Man lives at home with his parents and doesn’t have his own car. Yeah, he’s gorgeous and muscular, but what does that lifestyle say about him as a superior being? Is he really superior to a responsible fag who works all day and takes care of its bills?
I recently had an unemployed black Alpha (huge cock, great body) demand that I pay him money so he can buy some weed. Does that make any sense? Can I really respect a Man with such lazy personal behaviors?
I’m not against the practice of cash faggotry. I understand that cash faggotry is probably the only outlet many fags have to serve a Man in some way.
However, cash fags out there need to seriously consider the type of Man they’re serving and why. There is an important difference between serving a Man and being taken for a ride by a Man.
Earlier today I received my 483rd question about whether or not a Man needs to have a big cock in order to be considered an Alpha. In an irritated huff I hastily said that an Alpha doesn’t need a big cock because an Alpha is defined by the Man he is inside.
Although I wasn’t necessarily wrong, my sloppy answer was quickly corrected by an Alpha. You can read it here.
So I thought I would expand on this Alpha’s thoughts about ways Men can be considered Alphas.
DICK SIZE
I know there are a lot of size queens out there who mistakenly think they can judge a Man’s Alphahood by the size of his cock. This is absolutely FALSE. I’ve known faggots with huge dicks, and I’ve known (and served) Alphas with dicks not much bigger than mine (and mine is very small). An Alpha cannot be judged by the size of his cock.
However, it is true that a big dick helps a Man develop the kind of confidence that defines an Alpha. I’ve spoken to many Alphas who have all described how they first noticed they were different when they compared their dicks with other boys their age. Any Man with Alpha traits will take that as a boost of confidence, and it will help nurture them and encourage them to become Alphas later in life.
But let me say it again: dick size doesn’t necessarily determine whether a Man is an Alpha.
STRENGTH AND SIZE
Let’s face it: some Men are genetically built better than others. They’re taller, thicker, and stronger than other Men. When growing up, these larger Men often come to understand their superiority while playing sports or when confronted by an adversary. This instills in them a confidence often lacking in other Men.
Size and strength isn’t necessarily a definition of an Alpha, though. I personally know a gigantic Man who is probably one of the biggest, most embarrassing pussies I’ve ever met. However, a Man with these kinds of powerful qualities can develop the confidence necessary to become an Alpha.
FINANCIAL POWER
I’ve met some Alphas who were born wealthy or received large amounts of money at a relatively early age. There is definitely a difference in the attitudes of these Men that separates them from other Men. There is a sense of entitlement in these wealthy Alphas. You can look at Alphas like Justin Bieber or Conrad Hilton (brother of Paris) for proof of this.
GOOD LOOKS
Thanks to Instagram, Vine, YouTube, and Twitter, we’ve seen the development of young Alphas based solely on their good looks. I don’t think all Alphas need to be Instagram hunks, but we’ve seen many young Alphas rise to the top thanks to these kinds of sites. The constant adoration instills in these Men a confidence often lacking in less-attractive Men.
Of course, a pretty face doesn’t guarantee Alphahood. I’ve known great looking Men who are shy or embarrassed about their looks. And, obviously there are lots of pretty fags who aren’t even close to being an Alpha.
SO WHAT DEFINES AN ALPHA?
The whole point of this post is to underline what really counts in any Alpha: confidence. It’s an inner quality developed throughout a lifetime of success in any of those areas.
Look through each subheading. You’ll see that I constantly circle back to confidence as the defining characteristic that results from having a big dick, a larger body, lots of money, or good looks.
But then, what does the Man do with that confidence and his superiority? Does he use it to hurt others, or does he use it to help those in need? Does he build up or tear down? A true Alpha Male is a protector as well as a hunter. Again, an inner quality that cannot be discerned through the body alone.
So please, no more superficial questions about dick size. It is just one piece of a much larger, more complex puzzle that separates an Alpha from the rest.
Every so often I get messages questioning whether the Men I’ve served in my posts were really straight. “They fucked you,” they argue, “so they can’t be straight.”
If only human sexuality could fit so neatly into little boxes like that!
There is a persistent belief (despite mountains of contradicting evidence) that straight Men only fuck women, and gay Men only fuck other Men. Then there are bisexual Men who have sexual interests in both sexes. Many times the people questioning me insist that the Men I’ve served were bisexual, not straight.
I’m sure a couple of those Men would, if pressed, say they’re bisexual to some degree. However, the vast majority of the Men I’ve served fucked girls before/during my time with them, and they went on to get married to women and have children afterwards. If we’d need to classify their sexuality, they would be called straight Men. I have no doubt they would classify themselves that way.
People who question this generally have a misunderstanding of what role a faggot plays in the life of a Man.
When a straight Man sees a beautiful woman, he becomes sexually aroused. When a gay Man sees an attractive Man, he becomes sexually aroused. This attraction comes from his basic instinct, his true sexual nature.
Generally speaking, a Man is not sexually aroused by a faggot as much as he’s excited by the opportunity to own and use a faggot. You see, a faggot arouses a different set of impulses in a Man – the need to dominate.
Men are generally kinky creatures by nature. They like dirty sex, forbidden sex, and sexual acts that would horrify most others. A completely straight Man who has never even thought of using another male sexually can become aroused at the sight of a faggot kneeling before him and kissing his feet. Why? Because the faggot’s submissiveness triggers the Man’s natural need to be worshiped and honored.
Once that situation is established, a Man will fuck a faggot’s mouth or pussy simply as a statement of domination and personal satisfaction. This doesn’t mean the Man is no longer straight. The Man is simply exerting his dominance over the inferior much like we see in the animal kingdom. It also happens to feel really good, too.
It’s a mistake to label and classify something as complex as human sexuality. This is especially true when it comes to the service faggots provide, given that much of what a fag does for a Man falls outside the realm of sexuality and into something closer to religious worship. Once we get past the idea of labeling human sexuality in neat little boxes, we start to appreciate the depth and breadth of the human sexual experience.
I have been corresponding with a reader over the last couple of days. He’s a college-aged faggot with a good heart and a lot of enthusiasm.
He goes to college with an Alpha. They are friends to a degree, but the Alpha was often derisive of the fag and would call him demeaning names. Some of that is likely due to his upbringing – the Alpha comes from a wealthy family – but it appears that the Alpha was also sensing the truth about his friend.
Finally, the fag told his Alpha friend the truth. This kind of reveal is always tough and fraught with danger, but the fag mustered up the courage nonetheless.
And, as is typical, the Alpha responded by enslaving the fag. A few days after the fag’s revelation, the Alpha told it that his parents would be leaving on vacation for a couple of weeks, and the family maid was also off. The fag immediately offered its services.
Now the fag is enjoying the opportunity to serve the Alpha of its dreams. The fag has been cooking, cleaning, and doing the Alpha’s laundry. Very recently the Alpha decided to use the fag as a footrest. The fag excitedly told me that the Alpha’s giant erect cock could be seen bulging in his shorts. Obviously, the Alpha is already enjoying his ownership of a personal faggot.
I just wanted to relay the bare bones of this story to (once again) emphasize that faggots must be brave if they truly wish to serve a Man. The offer you make to an Alpha can be as simple as the one detailed above. Just do whatever you can to make yourself available. You have little to fear, and everything to gain.
I receive several messages every week from faggots asking me how to approach an Alpha for service. I’m often mystified by this. Approaching an Alpha is really no different than striking up a conversation with any stranger. To do this, we need to correctly utilize the following:
Mindset
Mood
Circumstances
Opportunity
MINDSET
A fag must remember that almost all Alphas are accustomed to worship. They have spent their entire lives having people cater to them and defer to their power. Alphas are used to seeing inferiors stumble over words while speaking to them. In a way, they are flattered by the constant attention and humility of the inferiors who approach them.
In addition, a faggot needs to remember that Alphas are hunters. They have a natural desire to possess, conquer, and use others. A faggot offering gifts is like catnip to an Alpha.
So when approaching Alphas, do not fear. You were born to serve them, and they understand this.
MOOD
Alphas project much about their mood through their bodies. Observation of their posture, facial expressions, and other telltale physical signs can signal their mood and receptiveness.
This can be tricky, though. Alphas are typically very expressive and confident in public spaces, and such public displays can sometimes be misleading.
If you see an Alpha out in a public space like a bar/restaurant/concert and the Alpha seems friendly enough, possibly buy him a drink or offer to pick up his tab. At the very least the Alpha will appreciate the gesture even if he chooses not to pursue anything else.
Regardless, a faggot’s mood should always be respectful, humble, and warm. No Alpha wants to be approached by a sad-looking, pathetic fag.
CIRCUMSTANCES
Approaching an Alpha at the wrong time or under the wrong circumstances can cause trouble. For instance, an Alpha working out at the gym with earbuds in his ears probably doesn’t want to be bothered; he’s clearly there to focus on his workout. An Alpha out having a few beers with a bunch of friends would probably be unnerved if a faggot started buying his drinks in front of them.
I flunked this recently when I bought a pizza for an Alpha at a bar while he was with a group of friends. I was drunk and overheard this Alpha bragging about the pizza at the bar, so I took it upon myself to have the waitress send him a pizza. Even though the Alpha was gracious, he was quite clearly embarrassed in front of his friends. I felt awful. Under different circumstances, this Alpha might’ve been more receptive to my offer, but clearly that was an inappropriate moment for him.
OPPORTUNITY
Faggots sometimes think awkwardly offering a blowjob to an Alpha is the correct course of action (every guy loves a blowjob, right?). In reality, small offers can lead to bigger payoffs.
I’ll give you an example. I once lived in an apartment that was part of an eight-unit building. Above my apartment lived a young Alpha named Tim and his girlfriend (?). They were constantly fighting, and she didn’t seem to stay there with him often. Tim owned a big black truck, and he was constantly fussing with it. One afternoon I saw him shirtless (as always) cleaning the interior after he had washed the truck. An opportunity! I went to my car and grabbed some expensive tire shine spray out of the trunk.
“Hello, Sir,” I said casually, “I thought this might help.”
Tim smiled widely. “Cool.”
I bent down and began to apply it carefully to his tires as he watched. Afterwards he thanked me and we talked briefly before I left him to his work.
This one encounter led to multiple conversations as we passed each other in the building. Eventually I saw Tim sitting outside the building drunk late one night after another fight, and I ended up sucking him off. I continued to service him orally until his lease ran out and the landlord asked him to move (the neighbors were complaining about the fighting). Then I moved and I lost contact with him. Still, that one opportunity led to an enjoyable period of service.
Seizing opportunity requires assessing the situation and using whatever the situation allows in order to get “in” with an Alpha.
Being alert to all four of these categories will help a fag take brave steps to offer themselves to an Alpha. But the mental/emotional understanding of these four categories is meaningless without ACTION. Action is the difference between dreaming to serve and living to serve.
I’ve recently received some questions from readers who have expressed various levels of fear or embarrassment over their sexuality. One Alpha felt uncomfortable with his blossoming feelings for his faggot. A middle-aged fag who had recently discovered his true desires was scared to begin service. A younger fag was concerned about his lack of erections during sexual encounters. Another fag was purposely ignoring signals from his Alpha college roommate because he hasn’t told anyone he’s gay.
Fear can be a useful instinct; it often saves lives during a dangerous situation. But fear is almost always damaging to the development of our self-perception. When we fear our desires, fear the opinions of others, fear the loss of prominence, power, or position, or fear the outcome our desired course of action, we become paralyzed inside. The development of our true self stops, replaced by a mask designed to help us be “normal.”
For example, think about Alpha Males. They are Kings born with a natural desire to dominate and rule over others. However, society tells them they should treat everyone as equals, even when they know they are not equal. This politically-correct conditioning stunts their growth as Alphas and blunts their natural ambitions.
Gays and faggots have it even worse. Not only are their natural sexual desires considered “morally wrong,” but also socially unacceptable. Young gays are often kicked from their homes when their families discover the truth, while other young gays are subjected to physical abuse (sometimes death). This causes the gay person or faggot to hide themselves, terrified of discovery, behind of mask of hetero-normalcy.
In reality, there is no “normal” when it comes to sex, intimacy, and human behavior. One Man might prefer vaginal sex, while another prefers anal sex. One Man might prefer to kiss feet, while another might prefer to have his feet kissed. One Man might like to play with dildos, while another Man can’t have an orgasm without smelling farts. Human sexuality is one of the most complicated and diverse subjects in the natural world; no aspect of something that complex can be shoved into boxes with easily-identifiable labels.
Worrying about whether a feeling or an act is “normal” not only wastes time and energy, but it also forces you to compare yourself to everyone else over something that simply cannot be compared. Comparing your own sexual identity and desires to those of another person is like comparing dust bunnies to the sun; they are not comparable concepts. The snowflake analogy works well here – like a snowflake, each person is different. Your battery of sexual and emotional needs is unique to you and nobody else.
Rather than be normal for everyone else, be normal for YOU. Be true to your own desires, pursue your own dreams, and enjoy intimacy in whatever legal, safe way makes you feel fulfilled.
Each of us only has a few precious years to live on this planet, and it goes by so quickly. Why waste that time living a life dictated by others or the fear they inflict? Let the world see you for yourself and the unique gifts you have to share.
By living life without fear of possible dangers, you open yourself up to living for possibilities. Fear is a useful emotion, but living in fear isn’t living at all.
I received this email from a reader. I thought perhaps others may know something about this:
I
love your blog. I read it daily. Listen, lately I’ve been getting my
throat used A LOT. (I live in Brazil so it’s impossible not to offer
myself daily to beautiful Alpha males.) A few days ago a guy was fucking
my face and a drop of blood came out of my nose. I thought it came from
his cock initially and then maybe my teeth or something..either way he
continued to pump one out and then left. Yesterday, I’m sucking off a
guy who usually uses me weekly and the same thing happens only this time
I realized it was actually coming from my nose right after he fucked my
throat deep. He was gracious enough to let me rest. Of course though, I
wasn’t satisfied and called in two more to finish the job thinking I
was fine. Sure enough, they came over, started using my throat and my
nose started bleeding again. I’m going to take a rest from serving for
about a week but I was wondering if any other fag has had this
experience? It was a first for me and freaked me out. Thanks!!!
Here was my answer:
First of all, thank you!
Also, I commend you for fulfilling your purpose so thoroughly! I’m
jealous … Brazilian Men are beautiful!
When
under stress, the capillaries in the sinuses can pop and bleed. I think
a few days off might be a good idea, but I don’t believe the two things
(bloody nose and throat fucking) are related structurally.
Today’s society tells us that we’re all equal and deserving of equal amounts of respect and honor as individual human beings. This is, of course, nonsense. Life on Earth is built around a hierarchical model in which one set of life forms is dominant over another. It is one of the basic tenets of evolution.
Domination has been one of the key motivators in the rise of the human race. A Man leads and others follow. Those who refuse to follow can fight for their superiority. As this fight for dominance continued through the ages, cities were built, wars were fought, and women were impregnated by the superior seed of the Alphas who conquered.
No amount of political correctness can change what millions of years of evolutionary development has established as truth: Men are not equal. Some are born to lead, and others are born to serve.
This reality can be jarring for many straight/gay Alphas to discover, and even more difficult for them to accept. Take, for example, this email I received from a 27 year-old Alpha in New York:
I’ve
always considered myself a lone wolf rather than Alpha. My need to lead
and protect those without the fundamental faculties to do so have led
me to blaze my own trail, without much thought as to how those who
follow also view me. Until recently, it never occurred to me that a
faggot could and would get pleasure from service as it’s just so far
from my own experiences or desires.
I
don’t believe in having to convince or reinforce thoughts or feelings
of inferiority (or my superiority) if it doubts its place. To me, having
to do so is a sign of weakness in itself. For this reason, a lot of
talk of humiliation doesn’t sit well with me; I would rather help
someone to take on a position of responsibility they cannot handle than
to denigrate them to a position of subservience that they have not yet
accepted as their purpose in life.
I’m
27 and live in New York City so as you can imagine, I’ve had no
shortage of self-proclaimed “faggots” and “alphas” try to throw
themselves at me. That said, until I came across your blog, I hadn’t
given any of these attempts much of a second thought because I viewed
desires to serve as coming from a place of self-loathing. However, your
explanations and advice to others tell me you’re a well-adjusted fag, to
the extent which makes me reconsider my own willingness to be
worshiped.
This is how I responded:
Sir,
Thank you for this incredible email! I’m honored!
First
of all, yes, faggots receive a tremendous amount of satisfaction from
serving Men. I’m sure there are faggots out there who serve Men out of a
feeling of self-loathing (I believe many of these abuse fags fall into
that), but most faggots are like me. We believe that Men are the
cornerstone of our society, and they deserve our respect, worship, and
support. Doing so gives us a sense of purpose.
You
are obviously a very good Man worthy of such worship and service. You
think deeply about subjects and consider them from many angles. You are
very clearly an Alpha personality.
I
agree with you that the true expression of a Man’s power comes when he
protects and encourages rather than denigrate and humiliate. I wish more
Men understood that, Sir.
Then he sent this:
Here’s something else that I would like to hear your reaction to:
From
my point of view, offers to serve seem to come from out of the blue and
often from those who have never even met me. I cannot accept a gift
unless I know there is a valid reason for it and that I am also
providing something in exchange.
I’m
not comfortable accepting service because I am not clear on what I have
done to inspire it. My independence is a source of pride and to just
accept something for what seems like nothing, for me, would not only be
weak, but would compromise my independence and self-sufficiency.
So what it is that I provide that creates this gratitude and desire to serve? Also,
why do many treat service as if it’s nothing when allowing oneself to
be served showcases a pretty obvious vulnerability that comes with
accepting gifts in general? Even if it is deserved, I am still letting
someone/thing provide me with something.
And my response:
Sir,
The valid reason to accept
service offered to you is YOUR EXISTENCE. The very fact that you exist
as a god among men is all the reason any faggot needs to offer their
worship to you.
Accepting
freely-offered service or tribute is not a sign of weakness, but of
strength. Is it really weakness in your eyes that a King accept the
willing service of his slaves? Of course not. The King receives such
respect and worship because of his station in life … He doesn’t need
to do anything to “earn” respect or adoration. His existence alone
generates such adoration.
I
don’t know anything about you, but perhaps I can help you see things
the way we faggots do. When a faggot sees you, it notices your good
looks, your masculinity, your power and confidence. Such things
absolutely radiate from Alphas. Perhaps the faggot might smell your
pheromones and recognize your superior masculine scent. At that moment,
you own the faggot even if you haven’t even noticed the faggot staring
at you in awe.
In reality, Alphas already own all faggots. It’s just a matter of whether the Alpha chooses to use a faggot.
You
need to understand that this isn’t about equality or a
“something-for-something” relationship (like you might have in a
marriage or friendship). Faggots are already your possessions, your
property. All a faggot needs to know is that it pleased you.
Hopefully this helps you understand the situation in clearer terms, Sir.
Can you see the problem here? This particular Alpha is struggling with the idea that faggots would willingly submit themselves to him and serve him without a discernible exchange of “gifts.” His thinking has been affected by the society around him, one that insists on equal rights and fair treatment for everyone.
For a Man to truly ascend to Alphahood, he must cast off any politically correct views about others. He needs to understand that he is a god deserving of worship from the inferiors around him. He must view others as his property, his birthright.
Some Men know they are Alpha from a young age (remember, California Alpha knew it when he was eight years old), while other Men need time to accept this role. But no Man can ever be an Alpha until he accepts the fact that he was born to be worshiped and born to own the world.
I received this question from an anonymous person, but I wanted to convert it into a post in order to make it more searchable. I get this question A LOT.
“I’ve admitted to a couple friends I’m “curious” and one said
“everybody’s curious” and the truth is I think I’m a actually a total
faggot. The truth is the sexual relationships I’ve had with girls don’t
really do anything for me and I’m constantly jerking off thinking about
my cocky straight male friends. And it feels like it would be jumping
off a cliff but I actually want to offer myself as a fag for them, to be
whatever kind of faggot bitch they’d want me to be or let me be. How do
I do it?”
First of all, the friend who said “everybody’s curious” is probably attempting to open a door for something to happen. I don’t know what further actions you took after he said that, but it sounds like an open invitation.
Now to the meat of this question.
Can You Serve Straight Friends?
Absolutely! I know because, as I’ve detailed elsewhere on this site, I’ve served multiple straight Men who were once my friends prior to serving them.
It can be dangerous, though. I’ve lost a couple of friends who slowly drifted away because they felt they could not give me what I truly wanted from them. If you’re hell-bent on serving a straight friend, you must be prepared to lose that friendship.
I say this up front because, either way, you will lose the friendship. Either that straight friend will leave you in disgust, or he will enslave you as his personal faggot. In either scenario, he is no longer your friend.
Which leads cleanly into the second point:
You Need A Change Of Attitude
Many would-be fags think they can just suck off their friends once in a while and that will fulfill them. Sadly, that isn’t usually the case. The typical reaction involves one or both parties freaking out over the sexual encounter and running in the opposite direction.
A potential fag like you who desperately wants to serve a straight friend must first change his own attitude. Embrace the truth about yourself: that you are a faggot who is not equal to your straight friend. If you are going to truly serve a straight friend, this attitude adjustment is essential. You aren’t “buddies” anymore.
You aren’t equals. He is your Owner now, and you are his slave.
Subtly Begin To Serve
Once you have corrected your own thinking, begin giving this straight friend respect, honor, and deference. Begin doing things for him (offering to buy food/drink, washing his car, etc.) in order to trigger his natural dominance. If you have an affectionate friendship, physical signs such as massages (particularly foot massages) or submissive nuzzling can encourage him. Most straight Men (particularly Alphas) pick up on these subtle signs of submission. The attentions of these submissives flatter and encourage the straight Man’s natural instincts to overpower weaker prey.
Be Honest, Brave
At some point during this “dance,” your straight friend may ask about your newfound mental adjustment. This is your opportunity to be honest with him and unpack your desire to serve him. You should tell him that serving him makes you feel safe, comfortable, and fulfilled. You should tell him that you consider him to be a Man worthy of worship. You should indicate that you wish to spend your life in his service.
If you’ve played your cards carefully, he will likely think about this offer very seriously. After all, he cares about you as a former friend, and obviously likes you to some degree. He isn’t going to want to hurt you over this, but he may not be ready for more. Steel yourself against this possibility.
However, keep in mind that almost all straight Men (and all Alphas) love to be worshiped, honored, and respected. These are gestures all fags should master. If you want to convince your straight friend to own you, these gestures are critical.
Don’t Flake Out
If your straight friend does decide to use you, for fuck’s sake DON’T FLAKE OUT. I’m shocked at the number of faggots who get to this point and then freak out or suddenly start expecting a great love affair from him. Remember your place – you’re his faggot, his slave. Serve him to the best of your ability, and do so gratefully and happily.
Becoming the faggot of a former friend might seem like an impossible task, but with the right attitude and some careful planning you can find yourself living every fag’s dream.
I’ve heard a few recent stories about Alpha Males falling in love with prospective faggots. In some cases, it’s understandable. Much like females, cute faggots trigger an Alpha’s natural instinct to protect. Finding a cute young faggot is like finding a lost, defenseless puppy; an Alpha’s first instinct is to take that faggot home, care for it, and protect it. Then, of course, fuck it silly.
Really, without this natural Male instinct, the human race wouldn’t have gotten very far. The Male instinct to protect his property – even violently – has nurtured families and kept weaker members of the family (the female, the children) safe. A Man wants to wrap his strong arms around the weak and feel them relax inside his protection. It is a vital emotional need for a Man.
Cute faggots – particularly faggots much younger than the Man – also trigger this Male instinct to protect. Not only does the faggot appeal to the eyes, but the faggot also causes the Man to want to care for it like a son or a woman.
Here’s the problem with that: faggots aren’t really dependent on a Man’s protection in the same way as a female or a child. In fact, a faggot isn’t really beholden to a Man in any appreciable way; faggots are technically males, after all. A faggot typically has a job, makes money, pays its bills, and fights its own battles.
A faggot only really needs a Man sexually, and we all know the unstable nature of the sex drive. One horny minute a person thinks they’re ready for something sexual, only to see that desire vanish after a round of masturbation. Yes, there are true faggots out there like me who have devoted their lives to serving Men, but most faggots – particularly young ones – are playing games. They’re turned on by the idea, but they cannot accept their true nature. So rather than fulfill it, they play games and get off.
And that’s why I advise all Men to keep a proper view of faggots. A faggot is not your lover, not your son. You aren’t going to skip down the beach hand-in-hand together. You aren’t getting married.
Faggots exist to SERVE YOU. Just as you were born a Man, a faggot was born to kneel before you and satisfy your needs. A faggot is a slave, not a wife. You can appreciate them and what they do for you, but don’t fall in love with them.
I received this nice email from a young black Alpha today, and I wanted to share it:
I’m a recent college grad,
black, and I’ve always been bi-curious. In the bedroom with women I’ve
always enjoyed dominance and being the one in charge, but the
relationships I’ve been in with women sometimes have a romantic
component.
In the sophomore year of college I got my first fag and
enjoyed using him, he seemed so submissive and pathetic, obeying every
fucking command I gave him to a T and when he didn’t he graciously
excepted his punishment and took it.
I
came across your Tumblr today, and was surprised how much I saw myself
in many of the posts and laughed at how much of a true faggot you seem
to be. I also like how you know what a true Alpha is, since apparently
many people are just “fake faggots” looking for their idealized fantasy
of an alpha (tall, white, ‘handsome’, muscular) without actually
understanding what an Alpha actually is or can be.
After some years being off the market, I’m now in a new area (Durham,
NC) and have been looking for a true faggot. I’ve found some submissive
bitches online through Craigslist and also in the area, but none of them are
true faggots who want nothing more than to serve me perfectly. Currently
I do have a girlfriend but I’m also now deciding to put effort into looking
for a real fag that’s actually just going to give me what I demand and
take from him. I’m tired of the fake ones who say they want to serve and
then when I give them a command they begin stuttering like a bitch and
trying to come up with an excuse. Or when I slap and smack them, they
then text me afterwards saying, that’s not what they wanted. I’m looking
for a real faggot.
I just love letters like this from budding young Alphas learning to use their power!
Here was my response. It might be useful for faggots and Alphas to meditate on some of these points:
Thank you for your amazing email!
I
do think this is a common problem, Sir. Gay rights have allowed people
to finally be able express their sexuality, but it has also given
faggots the mistaken impression that they are “equal” to Men. Many
faggots have a “diva” mentality similar to females. They tend to think
they are little princesses who can be treated a little rough on
occasion, but generally think they should be respected as an equal.
This is, of course, false.
As
an Alpha Male, it is your right to expect worship from everybody, but
especially from females and faggots. Men like you should be revered as
gods, and lesser humans should recognize that.
One
thing most straight/bisexual Alphas don’t realize is that you have
faggots around you every day that can be enslaved quite easily. If you
start watching, you’ll notice fags following you, deferring to you,
flirting with you. Your power and confidence as an Alpha attracts them.
Simply ordering them around will cause them to get in line as your
servant.
Craigslist
and other online services can work, but more often those are useful to
find one-time encounters (like if you just want to fuck some throat,
etc) rather than a long-term slave. If you’re going that route, I
suggest that you be very blunt about your desires (Alpha Seeks Faggot
Slave) so that there is no confusion.
Thank you again for this terrific letter, Sir! I always appreciate hearing from superior Men like you!
I get constant requests from fags asking me how to find an Alpha. While I’ve written about this occasionally in various forms, I wanted to put the information in one place so I can simply direct fags to this rather than retype it again and again.
Where Are Alphas?
No, faggot, you do not live in some Alpha-free area of the world. There are Alpha Males everywhere if you only look. Depending on your age, high school and college campuses are filled with Alpha Males eager to flex their powers. Gyms and other workout facilities contain high concentrations of Alpha Males. Alpha Males often make use of parks and biking/hiking trails for workout purposes as well. Bars, clubs, and restaurants – particularly those near college campuses or in high-traffic party districts – usually have a high concentration of Alphas. I see plenty of Alpha Males in high-end grocery stores; Alphas have to eat, and they typically prefer the best stuff. If you live near water, beaches are a great place to find Alphas. Any sporting stuff, too (ski resorts, mountain climbing, campgrounds) Here’s another tip: car washes and lawn care companies almost always employ hot young Alphas.
Online Methods To Find An Alpha
I’m not a huge fan of websites/apps like Grindr, Adam4Adam, or Recon because (a) most of the Men there are gay, and (b) there is no convenient way to sift the results in order to find the Alphas there. However, I do like using Doublelist because you can easily scan the search results, and many more straight Men can be found there (straight Men are much more likely to use a neutral and widely-accepted site like Doublelist).
Can Straight Guys Be Convinced To Use Fags?
Short answer: most definitely. I’ve been the “first faggot” for many straight Alphas, mainly due to tips below. Straight Alphas may not always be interested in using a fag sexually, but in my experience, they generally love the attention and the consequence-free sex offered by faggots. Many straight Alphas want to be viewed as gods, but women rarely give them that kind of respect and recognition. Faggots will. So yes, they can be convinced to use faggots.
How To Convince Straight Men to Use Fags
You can’t typically just waltz up to a straight Alpha and offer them a blowjob, although that does work from time to time. If you know a straight Alpha (perhaps a friend or acquaintance) that you want to serve, you must start by offering certain services. Offer to clean their apartment/house. Offer to wash or wax their car. Offer to do their laundry, buy their food, or whatever seems appropriate. Start calling them Sir and showing them deference. If they’re truly an Alpha, they’ll start to understand.
Fags Must Be Brave
I’ve written about this topic extensively already (like here and here), so I’m not going to get into another long harangue about it. However, I will underline this point: to serve an Alpha, you must be brave. You must be willing to approach an Alpha in some way and offer to serve him. Start by offering little services if you’re unsure of his feelings on the matter; almost any true Alpha will appreciate a fag offering to buy his meal or clean his car. If he accepts those small gestures of worship, he will eventually understand that he owns you.
But fags need to understand this: jacking off alone in your house isn’t going to help you find a Man to serve. You need to get off your ass and do something about it.
Fags Must Be Creative
If a fag is truly having a difficult time finding an Alpha or gathering the necessary bravery, then the fag needs to get creative. In the winter, offer a ride to an Alpha walking in the cold. It recently snowed in my town, and I probably saw four young Alphas trudging through the snow on my way to a meeting; I would’ve picked up at least one of them (so hot!) had I not been late for that meeting. If you see an Alpha washing his car somewhere, go back and leave a note describing your services and provide a way to contact you. I’ve had the idea to post flyers in places like bathrooms in college bars. I recently heard from a faggot who has started serving his Alpha Uber driver. There are all sorts of creative methods to catch the eye of an Alpha eager for worship.
Stop Playing Games And Serve
I’ve written about my many frustrations with flaky, game-playing faggots (here). There is nothing more pathetic and revolting as a faggot who sits around dreaming about serving a Man, only to flake and run away when finally confronted with the reality. A fag who acts like this is not only wasting their own time, but they’re also wasting the time of real Men who deserve better.
If you want to actually serve a Man, then take your quivering hand off of your clitoris, throw the bottle of poppers in the trash, and get serious. Real Men will use you and allow you to serve if you have the correct mental and emotional approach to service. They aren’t interested in whiners. If they wanted a whiner, they’d go get a female.
The Correct Mental Attitude
You are a faggot. You are not going to ever be an Alpha’s girlfriend or lover. You exist to serve Alphas as a slave. You scrub toilets when ordered. You cook his food, fold his laundry, and clean his house. You lick his shoes clean if he commands it. And finally, when the Alpha needs a hole to use, you are his sex toy.
As a faggot, you are a piece of property … his property. He isn’t going to marry you. He isn’t going to be exclusive to you, either; in fact, he might fuck other women or faggots while you watch. Your job is solely to serve him in whatever way he requires, and nothing more. And you will be satisfied to be able to serve him in this way without complaint or jealousy.
A Final Thought
Alpha Males are everywhere. They are the foundation of our society, great leaders and powerful Men who deserve total respect and worship. By following the advice above, I have had the privilege of looking up and serving incredible Alpha Males. I have tasted their cocks. I have swallowed their precious seed. I have kissed their feet, massaged their muscles, and tenderly worshiped every part of their bodies. I have had the unique position of being able to wipe their urine stains from their toilets, spent countless hours of my life cleaning houses and cars, and even more hours washing their laundry or cooking their meals. Because I followed this advice, I have been able to worship great Men.
A few weeks ago I wrote a little essay entitled Tips For Deep-Throating (read it here) that seemed to go over well with both Alphas and fags alike. However, I recently received this request from @the-pussyhounder:
@fagsworshipstraights – can you give any tips to faggots about men who are really wide as well? I
am 8″ around and I find so many boys don’t know what to do with that….
It’s not so much the gag reflex as the back molars that get me
frustrated.
Alpha Men with thicker, heftier cocks have every reason to be proud. They also have every reason to expect the same quality of service that every other Man receives from faggots and cocksuckers.
Let’s face it – long cocks might trigger a gag reflex, but meatier cocks pose a problem to the very mechanics of the human mouth. Sadly, humans cannot unhinge their jaws like a snake and envelop an object five times larger than their head. If I could do that, I’d probably weigh 600 pounds after just two weeks of scarfing down double-stacked cheeseburgers. You would, too.
Unfortunately, no amount of relaxation or mental training can allow an extremely thick cock (like the 8″ circumference of @the-pussyhounder‘s twat stretcher) to fit very far into the human mouth.
So what to do? My typical solution when faced with this dilemma (and I’ve served many black Males, so I know what I’m saying here) is to concentrate my mouth actions on only the first couple of inches (the head and an inch or two lower). The tongue is extremely important here, as it helps further stimulate the glans and surrounding area. I use my hand more in this situation, mainly because a faggot should never neglect the shaft of a Man’s cock.
To make up for the lack of oral penetration, alternate between sucking the head (in rhythmic timing with your hand as it strokes the shaft) and licking up and down the length of the cock. Don’t forget his balls! This licking helps to lubricate the shaft for your hand movements, but it also gives you the opportunity to look up at the Man, smile, flirt, and show him how much you absolutely love his giant dick.
I know that Men with thicker cocks want deep-throat just as much as any other Man, but there are simply limits to what can be achieved. Attempting deep throat on a cock of this size will only lead to unpleasant molar scrapings (as @the-pussyhounder mentioned) and a general dissatisfaction with the service.
With practiced skill, a faggot can give a Man with an extremely fat dick a blow job just as mindblowing as any other. In fact, it’s an opportunity for an even more intense worship session given the amount of time devoted to licking and kissing the cock. An adjustment of expectations for both parties can lead to a fully satisfying climax for the Alpha.
If you’re serious about serving Men, then learning to suck dick properly is essential. Men love to have a talented mouth worshiping their cock.
Of course, dicks come in all kinds of shapes and sizes. Some Men don’t have particularly large dicks, and servicing them usually isn’t much of a struggle. However, many Alpha Males are well-endowed – it’s part of what makes them an Alpha in the first place – so mastering deep-throat techniques will help provide more pleasure for him and more self assurance for you.
I’ve served many well-endowed Men (remember, I have a fondness for black Men), so I’ve learned a few tricks that have helped me master the technique.
The first thing to remember about deep-throating is that it involves the mind as much as it involves any physical part of your body. Many fags give up in frustration and try to excuse their failure to fully deep-throat a larger cock. However, these excuses aren’t acceptable because:
(1) Barring a birth defect, the mechanics and dimensions of the human throat are extraordinarily similar. If anything, a male’s throat might even be (generally) a bit larger than a female’s throat, and we know many females can deep-throat. So no, faggot, your throat isn’t “too small” to accommodate an extra-large cock.
(2) All humans have a gag reflex. The gag reflex is essential for life, as it helps prevent larger objects from becoming lodged in the throat. While some might have more extreme reactions to the gag reflex, we all still have the same involuntary fight against an object in the back of the throat. However, some have obviously mastered their gag reflex enough to swallow a large dick. In other words, you aren’t some special flower with the most intense gag reflex in human history. You just aren’t trying to overcome it.
I think the reason many most people fail at deep-throat is because they don’t love the dick enough. To successfully deep-throat a giant cock, you must be absolutely HUNGRY for it. You must CRAVE to have that entire dick inside of you. When you reach that mental state, your mind helps to override your nervous system. Instead of being afraid of the gagging, you push yourself to get the cock inside of you. That can make all of the difference.
Of course, the gag reflex is real and sometimes cannot be avoided. It’s mechanical. However, in my experience, Men love to hear a cocksucker gagging on their large dick; it’s an ego trip for them that makes the encounter more pleasurable. Another bonus from the gag reflex is the production of additional saliva to help the dick slide into the throat with ease. So the gag reflex isn’t a terrible thing, nor should it be an impediment to fully deep-throating a cock.
To help train and overcome a gag reflex, it’s important to train your mind to remember that a cock isn’t going to lodge in your throat. It’s attached to another human being and will easily pull out. You cannot choke to death on a cock unless the Man behind the cock is a murderer out specifically to kill you, and even then it’s unlikely because you could bite it off.
If you want to develop this mental state, I suggest getting a dildo. It should be one that is either very long (so you can easily hold and control it) or has balls on one end to prevent it from lodging in your throat. Make sure it is silicone, as most other dildos have a terrible taste/smell that won’t wash off and could be harmful. Challenge yourself to take more of the dildo with each session, training your mind to want it completely inside your throat. Before long, you will be surprised by your abilities.
Most of all, you must learn to RELAX. Yes, that can be difficult when a Man has you by the head and is brutally face fucking you. However, if you relax and remember your mental training, you can successfully take his cock in ways you never thought possible.
As fags, we want to serve Men the way we know they deserve. Since we know they love having a talented mouth around their Manhood, it is our duty to become the best cocksucker they’ve ever had. By doing so, we give them pleasure and honor, as well as a very compelling reason to continue using us.
I have a companion article to this piece, designed to instruct how to handle extra-large cocks. Please CLICK HERE for more!
And don’t forget the balls! Here are some tips for properly worshiping a Man’s ballsack: Please click here!
Thanks to this blog, I’ve been approached by several Alphas eager for my help in finding them fag slaves to own and use. When everyone cooperates, I’ve had some astonishing successes. My master Texas Alpha (latest very hot update here) is my greatest success story so far, but there have been others as well.
However, I’m always surprised when an Alpha approaches me and asks for help finding faggots. There are faggots EVERYWHERE, and they’re all absolutely CRAVING an opportunity to serve an Alpha, particularly a straight Alpha. It should be as easy for an Alpha to collect fags as it is to go to the grocery store and pick up a gallon of milk.
So what seems to be the problem? In some cases, it’s due to youth and unfamiliarity with fags in general (as with Texas Alpha). With others, there’s a real fear that using fags makes them “gay” forever and they won’t ever be able to stop that part of their life once it starts. I’ve also run across some Alphas who are too paranoid or too interested in game-playing.
Any Alpha Male worthy of real worship and devotion – you know who you are – typically exhibits the following traits:
1. FEARLESSNESS. A real Alpha isn’t afraid if his buddies or his coworkers find out that he uses fags as slaves. Why should he be concerned? He’s too busy living the greatest life imaginable to worry about what anybody thinks of him. That doesn’t mean he parades his fags on a leash down the street at lunchtime, but he doesn’t live with a fear of discovery, either.
2. CONFIDENCE. A real Alpha knows he deserves to be worshiped and served by everyone. There isn’t a question in his mind about the “rightness” of using others for his own gain. This is simply what he knows he deserves at all times. He expects it.
3. NARCISSISM. In general, narcissism is considered to be an unfavorable personality trait (the narcissism of the selfie generation, for example, is almost unbearable). For an Alpha, though, narcissism is the engine that supplies his power over others. His belief in his own superiority over others, coupled with the desire to have that belief reinforced by actual worship, allows him to take whatever he wants.
4. DIRECTNESS. This ties in with “fearlessness.” A real Alpha doesn’t play coy games when dealing with the inferiors around him. He doesn’t ask for something, he demands it. He tells you exactly what he wants, and you are left only to comply or refuse.
5. FOCUS. The greatest Alphas know exactly what they want, and, like a pit bull on a baby, they won’t let go of that idea until they receive it. For instance, let’s say an Alpha wants to fuck someone in the ass. No matter how much the woman/fag resists or makes excuses, the Alpha doesn’t stop pursuing his goal until he finally gets what he wants.
And perhaps I’ll add this sixth one:
6. A BIG DICK. I’ve been with Alphas who didn’t have huge dicks (but they weren’t small, either), but typically Alphas have larger-than-average cocks. Again, it isn’t a requirement. I’m simply adding this one because many of the traits above develop during the teen years when a budding Alpha discovers that he is not built like normal guys. Then he starts fucking people with his bigger-than-average cock and he starts to discover the power he has over them, how they submit to him and his manhood. Really, an Alpha derives his power from his cock and balls. They are the center of his entire world, the glorious manifestation of his very being.
So how does an Alpha collect servants?
Typically, the people who worship and serve Alphas (submissive women, fags) initially make themselves known through conversation or body language. The best Alphas recognize this behavior instantly. Real Alphas have observed the effect they have on others ever since they were children, so they know the signals very well.
Alphas are constantly watching those around them to catch them staring in awe. Alphas relish how inferiors struggle to concentrate while in their presence. Sometimes an Alpha will play with his dick or adjust himself while in the presence of an inferior, just to gauge their level of interest. At the gym, Alphas use the mirrors to see which fags are susceptible to his control. Ultimately, the Alpha’s presence and his awareness of the power of his presence draws potential servants to him.
But once an Alpha spots a potential fag slave (this goes for women, too), it is up to him to make the first move. Inferiors are typically too terrified and insecure to make the first move. Here’s where many of the above traits become important.
Alphas who successfully own fags have no problem going up to a faggot and demanding something from it: “Get me some coffee” or something like that. True Alphas know that fags were born to serve them, that fags actually WANT to serve them, so they know demanding things from the fag actually helps both parties.
From there, a fag will usually start to volunteer its service in various ways, and the Alpha is often keen to expand his mastery over the fag by accepting these gifts. The Alpha can start suggesting other, more personal forms of service – car detailing, house cleaning, laundry, etc. Real Alphas do not hesitate to enslave a fag in such a way.
Before too long, the Alpha has the fag servicing him, giving him money, and performing all sorts of tasks on demand. And the Alpha now owns a fag slave to serve him.
I think many Alphas who struggle to find fags are simply not aware of their effect on others. Some of these Alphas are afraid to buck societal norms and enslave a fag for their personal use. And some of these Alphas are terrified of what others might think of them.
If you’re an Alpha who wants to own a fag (or multiple fags), the process starts within. Understand and appreciate the following things:
1. You were born to be worshiped.
2. You deserve to be worshiped.
3. Fags were born to worship you in whatever ways you want.
4. It is not wrong to use fags. Your use of fags fulfills them.
5. You own fags before you ever even speak to them.
6. The world cannot judge you because you own the world.
Alphas who understand these things about themselves, their power, and their place in this world own servants and are worshiped properly. Alphas who are plagued with fear or who lack self-awareness fail to fulfill their destinies as Masters over others.
So go forth as the Kings you are and collect the servants you deserve! They are waiting, desperate to worship you. Take what is rightfully yours!
