I continue to receive this question despite the fact that I’ve reiterated it a thousand different ways already.
So here’s a shot at a definitive, comprehensive delineation of the roles “bottom” and “faggot” and how they are both similar yet different.
Both bottoms and faggots are sexually submissive gay males who exclusively prefer to be the receptive partner during sex.
But bottoms have their own agency. They are bottoms because they have a submissive personality, but they can be equal partners in a relationship and make their own choices in life. They are independent.
Faggots, on the other hand, are slaves to varying degrees. We submit completely to the control of Men. We do not have the right to self-determination, and often don’t even want that kind of power. We crave even the lowliest forms of service to Alphas.
I hope this definition helps clear up the distinctions between bottoms and faggots once and for all.
Hi Sam I’m a young 23 year old guy – I thought I was a faggot for a while, I even have a cock cage and like to wear it at times, but recently I topped a guy and I enjoyed it a lot – he wants me to do it again this week. I’m also a bit of a gym boy and I’m trying to bulk up a bit and the guy I fucked is a lot skinner and petite and it felt really good to be in control of himi. I think I still prefer bottoming (especially for older and more muscular guys) and love being called faggot and good boy when I bottom but I’m just wondering can a faggot be somewhat versatile depending on the guy?
I do think it’s possible for some faggots to have “Alpha faggot” tendencies. I don’t see it often, though. You may just really like using your dick once in a while. I don’t think that means you’re not a faggot. I just think you got hold of a smaller faggot and wanted to manhandle it a little bit. No biggie.
I just did it, for the first time i slept with a man. I had this fantasy since years, to be dominate by a very muscular total top. I have mixed feeling now. I enjoyed it, for sure, but at the same time i feel giulty about what ive done to myself. I know it’s just sex, and i know that i will always love to fuck girls, but i have regrets and i ask myself if i’m still a man, it’s hard.
Congratulations on your first experience! I commend you because so many others only dream about fantasies … but you made it happen!
I’m sure it’s hard for a Man who loves to fuck women to suddenly question everything after getting fucked. My best advice is to just relax and see if the craving returns. I’m betting it will.
You might be bisexual, and that doesn’t make you less of a Man.
I don’t really believe in the idea of versatile males. I firmly believe that verse males simply haven’t been able to accept or embrace the truth about their true desires.
Usually one mind-blowing fuck from the right Man can help them finally choose.
Hello, I’m a teen and since the beginning of my adolescence, I was confused with my sexuality. I’ve came to the conclusion that I’m bisexual but I still don’t know if I am right. I thought that I was a bottom because I’m not that muscular like other tops. However I tried sucking some older guy’s dick and I hated it. But in the end he sucked mine. And I fantasized about being someone’s bitch but when I’m not masturbating the thought of having a dick in my ass makes me mad because I’m not someone’s sex toy to relieve themselves. Maybe I have low self-esteem and that’s why I have those thoughts or I am just a bottom I still don’t know. I would like your opinion about this.
Hello my friend! Thank you for writing!
I think your reasoning is wrong about being a bottom. You may be scrawny, but that doesn’t mean you must be a faggot. There are plenty of skinny twink Tops, and plenty of muscle fags. Your body type doesn’t dictate what you are. The person you are inside decides that.
Frankly, I’d put good money on the idea that you are really a TOP rather than a bottom. You weren’t meant to suck dick or get fucked. You were born to get sucked and fuck. Readjust your thinking, try the other side, and see if it doesn’t suit you more!
#1 – being a better cock sucker by controlling my gag reflex and breathing. As to breathing, I have a very difficult time breathing out my nose when my mouth/throat is filled with cock. Basically, it gets plugged by mucus, need tips/tricks to prevent this or work around it.
#2 – being a better bottom. Things I can do with my faggot-pussy to pleasure him more.
#3 – how to enjoy being more submissive and try to enjoy more BDSM.
#4 – perhaps the most important – how to get Alphas to use me despite my tiny cock. I have a very tiny cock, about 2″ when hard. I was born with ambiguous genitalia and the docs basically turned what would of been a clit into a cock. This really freaks out most guys, whether they are Alphas that have no intention of touching it to those Alphas who do like to play with a cock. Easily, 90% of guys who see it drop me like a hot potato the moment they see it.
Any websites or such you’d recommend? Thanks.
#1. Getting better at cocksucking requires practice.
As far as mucus, you might try using a neti pot or some other gadget to clean out your sinuses so that they are more likely to remain open.
#2. This is a wide-ranging question. Kegel exercises will strengthen your anal muscles and give you more control. Learn to work your hips, and get into the fuck. Learn to take a hard pounding. Always be clean.
#3. You must cultivate a joy for service, for serving the needs of Men rather than your own. As for BDSM, you really need to get into that scene in order to develop a love for it. Otherwise, it’s just a fetish rather than a part of your life.
#4. First of all, I can’t imagine a true Alpha having any problem with your equipment. They don’t care about it. But if that’s a problem, wear jock straps that conceal your tiny penis.
There’s a gay Scottish couple named Callum and Cole who post their sex lives online and have developed a pretty large following (OnlyFans.com/callumandcole).
Cole is the big dicked Alpha, and he especially loves to fuck Callum’s mouth!
I’m gay 31 recently though ive been craving to top to fuck to penetrate something i never even had back when i was 18! I was always a bottom a cocksucker a submissive bitch that craved to be penetrated and dominated by men and I still do but this new urge is disturbing me. Can I be both?
Thanks for writing! I’m not somebody who really believes in versatility. I think we are all intrinsically one way or another, but in some people there remains this nagging doubt or restlessness that prevents them from embracing the truth.
In your situation, there really is no other way to settle it except to try topping. Then you will know how you truly feel about the experience rather than fantasize about it.
Is it true thicker cocks make for a more pleasurable fuck for bottoms?
Thicker cocks are definitely more painful. So the “pleasure” part depends on how much pain a faggot needs to suffer in order to feel satisfied (yes, this is a real thing).
Honestly, dick size doesn’t matter as much as attitude. If a Man has a dominant, take-charge attitude, he can make any faggot weak and tumble into subspace.
Is it me or is there a superficiality problem in the gay community all gay men care about is hooking up and having casual sex I’m 40 and ice only encountered two just two couples who were serious and committed and they see a future together. I’m sick of dating guys who date me because they have daddy issues and after we fuck they disappear! I want something real something beyond a one night stand! Do you think it can happen or is this my own personal problem as in there’s something wrong with me?
Thank you for writing, Sir!
Faggots don’t really think that Alphas and Men suffer from their flighty, superficial, disrespectful attitudes and behaviors, but they do. There are good Men out there who just want something real, like you Sir.
Like you said, this is a problem across all of the gay community. It’s unlikely to change, too.
My suggestion is for you to focus your search on older bottoms/faggots, Sir. I know you might like younger males, but they lack the seriousness required for a Man like you. Think of how you were 20 years ago, Sir. These kids don’t know what they’re doing.
Find someone your age or a bit older. Someone in that age range has the seriousness of mind you can appreciate, as well as a kind of gratitude they will have toward being with a Man like you, Sir!
Can My boyfriend and I have sex a couple of hours after dinner or must I prepare?? I hate preparing every time we wanna have sex!
It takes somewhere between 24-72 hours for food to pass from mouth to excretion.
So the dinner you ate two hours earlier isn’t the issue, it’s the dinner you had YESTERDAY that is the problem.
You should not need to clean out EVERY time you have sex. A good enema cleaning should keep you safe for many hours. Once per day should be enough (twice if you just want to make sure). Quick douching in between might be nice for a fast spritz.
Believe me, I know it’s tiresome. It’s part of the burden we faggots and bottoms must carry. But I can assure you that you want to do everything you can to avoid THIS SHITTY SITUATION.
Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock 😉
SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his cock.
ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.
PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave his cock in your ass. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.
PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.
RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.
ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his cock down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ass.
REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.
COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.
Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.
LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.
LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.
LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his cock up your ass.
LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.
LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR “CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.
SHOW HIM RESPECT. Be polite. Call him Sir. Thank him after a good fuck.
What’s with this trend if gay bottom boys watching straight porn?
Gay bottoms and faggots will lust after straight Men until their last breath. We love watching the Male animal do what is most natural to him: fuck and breed female pussy.
Even though gay porn has hotter guys in them (usually), I absolutely love straight porn. Especially straight porn where the Man really gets aggressive with the female. It makes my heart beat faster.
Have you ever seen videos from Machofucker? I found that most bottoms like to be fucked like that, unless many of them says otherwise. Once they try it, they can’t get back to average fucking. The good thing is that they will certainly come back to you!
Yes, Sir, I’m definitely familiar with Machofucker. Is there any gay male unfamiliar with that great Alpha porn site from back in the day?
You are completely correct about the effects of a rough fuck. Frankly, it isn’t just faggots; females respond to monster rutting the same way.
A rut like that is a Man’s way of laying permanent claim on the recipient’s psyche. They’re unforgettable. The recipient feels emotionally overpowered and owned when they’re fucked that way.
Have you ever seen videos from Machofucker? I found that most bottoms like to be fucked like that, unless many of them says otherwise. Once they try it, they can’t get back to average fucking. The good thing is that they will certainly come back to you!
Yes, Sir, I’m definitely familiar with Machofucker. Is there any gay male unfamiliar with that great Alpha porn site from back in the day?
You are completely correct about the effects of a rough fuck. Frankly, it isn’t just faggots; females respond to monster rutting the same way.
A rut like that is a Man’s way of laying permanent claim on the recipient’s psyche. They’re unforgettable. The recipient feels emotionally overpowered and owned when they’re fucked that way.
I feel like I’m developing into an Alpha as I approach my 30’s. I’ve never identified as a faggot but used to be more of a bottom in relationships with men. Now I’m dominating the submissive men I used to ignore and nothing has felt more right. I’ve also been taking more of an interest in women – I’ve got an urge to breed and pussy is an exciting new frontier.
Thank you for writing, Sir!
Although rare, I have met a few late-blooming Alphas. In almost all cases, their early submissiveness stemmed from something in childhood, like trauma of some kind. In one case an Alpha was groomed through molestation as a youngster to be a bottom, but the natural Alpha urge kept fighting against the conditioning until it could no longer be contained.
We cannot deny the truth within ourselves, Sir. I’m proud of you for working to identify this within yourself!
With this newly-discovered power, you should explore all aspects of your Masculinity. Breed at will, Sir! Take whatever you want in this world, for it all belongs to you!
I’m always excited by the emergence of new Alphas, regardless of age! Just be grateful that you have discovered this about yourself while still in your prime years of breeding and dominance! Your true life awaits, Sir!
My sub boyfriend wants me to lock him in chastity so we’re getting him a cock cage this weekend. It turns me on that he wants to be more submissive outside the bedroom but I warned him we’re not doing the tumblr/reddit crap where I assign release dates. I know he’ll need to cum eventually, so what do you consider the bare minimum per month/year for a 24 year old dude? My goal is to have him cum as rarely as possible when he least expects it
Thank you for writing, Sir!
First of all, I want to congratulate you for taking Ownership of this sub. I also commend you for being understanding of your sub’s needs. Fortunately, this clearly excites you as well.
I think I would start at one/two week intervals, then increase the length of time between milkings.
Furthermore, I think the process of “ejaculation” should be accomplished via prostate milking rather than having your sub pull on his dicklet. This trains your sub to view his hole as the true source of pleasure. Your sub should not be pleasing his urges the way a MAN like you might, Sir.
I’m excited for this next phase in your Ownership of this sub! There are so many things you will learn about each other while going through this process together!
I love hearing origin stories. The journey, the process we all must go through as we discover where we belong in the Hierarchy, will forever be of particular interest to me.
Alphahood is, of course, extremely interesting to me because it’s so foreign to my own experience. The process an Alpha must go through in order to accept his Superiority and natural place in the world isn’t as easy as it sounds.
I thought the story of discovery an Alpha namesd Dari shared with me was significant enough to warrant highlighting. I really love his frankness and his honesty! Enjoy!
Gods like Alpha Dari are BORN, NOT MADE. And no matter how the politically correct try to cram these gods back in line, they cannot EVER be contained that way. They are made of different stuff than other Men.
I thank Alpha Dari for sharing his story with me! What an honor it is for a faggot like me to be able to celebrate great Men like him!
Fögi Is A Bastard (also known as F. est un salaud) is a 1998 French/Swiss film about a 15-year-old submissive boy named Beni who falls into an abusive relationship with a dominant 25-year-old punk rocker/druggie named Fögi.
The film is pretty startling in its depiction of a Dom/sub relations. Here are a few clips from the movie:
No, not at all. Bottoms are more submissive than Tops, obviously, but they are not servants of the Men they are with sexually. Bottoms are very much like the traditional female role in heterosexual couplings, with some equal footing in the relationship. Bottoms are not slaves to their Tops.
Faggots are basically fuckdolls, maids, and, in some situations, abuse toys for Alphas. Faggots have little or no say in the arrangement other than to completely quit it. It is very much a Master/slave arrangement.
But in this graphic I created for that post, we can see how they all nest together like Russian dolls. Bottoms would be within the beta category for sure.
Can you explain your theory on Tops being less prone to get HIV/AIDS? I want to say that makes no sense but giving your experience in butt play versus mine, I'd like to believe you're right. I started watching gangbang vids after I read this and you can almost feel the AIDS forming in those fags assholes. I just feel like those tops would catch whatever is spread.
I would love to explain it. First, let’s look at some transmission stats:
“Receptive anal intercourse (the bottom) with a partner who is HIV-positive is the sex act that’s most likely to transmit the virus. For every 10,000 instances of receptive anal intercourse with a partner who has HIV, the virus is likely to be transmitted 138 times.
Insertive anal intercourse (the Top) poses a lower risk, with 11 transmissions per 10,000 exposures. All forms of oral sex are considered low risk. Biting, spitting, throwing bodily fluids, and sharing sex toys all have such a low risk of transmission that the CDCTrusted Source considers the risk ‘negligible.’” (citation)
As the above statistics show (and 40 years of science have proven), HIV is an extremely difficult virus to cause seropositivity. It’s a very fragile virus, destroyed easily by saliva and stomach acid. It also doesn’t remain viable very long outside the human body.
But look at the statistics for exclusive Tops – just ELEVEN transmissions of seropositivity out of 10,000 exposures! And who knows if that’s even accurate; Men can say they’ve never bottomed (thereby being classified as exclusively Top), but nobody can be sure if they’re telling the truth.
The point is that it requires massive amounts of viral exposure for the virus to get a foothold in the human body. That’s why oral sex isn’t even considered a risk factor, because the virus in the semen is destroyed so easily. A person generally needs a massive dose of infected semen (and perhaps many times) to become seropositive.
Now think about the sex act for a moment. Men who do the fucking (i.e. Tops) get very little exposure to bodily fluids entering their bodies. Sure, sex is often wet and messy, but all of that takes place on the outside of the Man’s body. And during ejaculation, the force of the cumshot expels fluid outward, not inward.
So that’s why I say that Tops have virtually zero risk of HIV infection from barebacking. All of that risk is carried by the bottoms or females getting fucked.
P.S. That doesn’t mean a Man can’t get BACTERIAL infections from inserting their penises into infected vaginas, mouths, or assholes. Bacteria are much hardier organisms, and they can penetrate the membranes of the penis with greater ease than HIV particles.
Looking for anal douche tips for gay men who bottom? Do you want to properly clean yourself out good before butt play? Are you hoping to find a step by step enema guide with recommendations?
If you’re answering yes to these questions, you wouldn’t be alone. Many gay men, particularly first time bottoms, seek out guidance on the Internet regarding these issues.
I’ve written this anal douche guide for gay men to act as a comprehensive “go to” source so that you can learn how to best prepare yourself with an enema for anal play.
If i fuck a fag without a condom but cum outside of his hole would i be alright?
Thank you Sir.
Frankly, you’ll be fine even if you cum inside a faggot’s pussy, Sir. If you’re concerned about HIV, it is EXTREMELY hard for a Top to get HIV from fucking a hole. The act of ejaculation forces viral particles out of the penis. Additionally, the amount of virus required to become sero-positive is so massive that it simply cannot be transmitted from asshole to cock. Bottoms are the ones at risk because we are the ones taking a Man’s whole load (which could potentially be a large enough dose of virus to infect the bottom) directly into our ass, which then passes through the colon walls into the bloodstream.
Can you see the difference in exposure?
If you’re very concerned about it, then you could suggest that both you and the faggot get tested ahead of time. There are rapid tests that literally take no time. And if you’re still worried, go on PrEP. That should absolutely keep you safe, Sir!
So I wouldn’t give HIV fears a second thought, Sir. The only real risk in barebacking for you (as the Top) might be bacterial infections like gonorrhea. And those can be easily dealt with via antibiotics.
Do I fit into your worldview? I’m a cocksucking alpha bottom. I’m the one getting services when I’m offered good dick. I’m the powerful one when a guy’s addicted to my throat or my cunt, or both, and believe me, this happens. I turn tops into fags. Their cocks worship me, worship my face, my rectum, my prostate. I make guys my bitch. I make them throb and beg to be inside me. Does the binary maleness you celebrate have to be so rigid, so one-way? I’m smarter than the dumb stick…
You’re mistaking arrogance with Alphahood, faggot. I don’t care if you have a solid gold, Versace-decorated pussy or a pretty little princess face – if you’re getting fucked or sucking dick, you’re SERVING.
I would question the Manhood of any Man who would grovel like a bitch for a mouthy little faggot like you.
My bf is younger than me but I love to call him “Daddy”. He wasnt really into it until I explained that he is much grown-up, masculine and smarter in alot of things. Now he calls himself sometimes Daddy when he tries to turn me on. Every morning I call write “Good morning Daddy” to him. Do you think he will ever really like the idea of this? He is 20/ top and I’m 24/bottom.
I have no idea if he will ever fully embrace the term for himself. I know some beta males who enjoy calling themselves “Daddy” in a joking way, but that isn’t what you’d like from him.
We must always be careful to not project our own fantasies onto another person. Your boyfriend may feel Alpha to you (or “Daddy”), but that may not be how he views himself. Trying to force him into that role will only make him feel inadequate or self-conscious.
I’m not suggesting that you abandon the term, especially given that he is playfully using it himself. I just think you need to allow him space to develop into whatever he was born to be. Remember, he’s just 20 years old. Some Men begin to comprehend their Alphahood later in life. Give him time.
Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock 😉
SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his cock.
ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.
PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave his cock in your ass. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.
PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.
RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.
ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his cock down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ass.
REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.
COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.
Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.
LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.
LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.
LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his cock up your ass.
LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.
LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR “CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.
SHOW HIM RESPECT. Be polite. Call him Sir. Thank him after a good fuck.
I met a guy who told me he likes to fuck girls but get fucked by guys, is this something you’ve encountered before?
I’ve heard of guys TRYING to pull that off. It doesn’t work. In my opinion, you can’t take a dick up your ass and then keep up the straight pretense for very long.
Everything about the Hierarchy is here. A dominant Alpha mounting a faggot and claiming the faggot’s hole bareback, while the faggot’s cock, while hard, is left unused and useless.
There is a bottom in the next town over from me. Cute twink and he knows it. So i havent seen not heard from him in months. He is kind of a fair weather brat. He will cozy up when he needs something and last week it was a ride home, his car was dropped off for repairs. He texts me and says that he has been thinking about me and he wants to ride me. Then, asks could I pick him up and give him a lift. Nope. Two different things in my book. I wished him good luck. Unfair?
No, Sir, you did exactly the right thing. Why would any Man be at the beck and call of a self-absorbed bottom bitch??
Note to all bottom bitches out there: You know that golden pussy you’ve got that you think no Man can live without?
It’s really an asshole. And everybody’s got one just like it. Get over yourself.
Humans typically faint when there is not enough blood flowing to the brain. This happens during moments of extreme physical exertion when the person is not breathing properly or under stress that causes the heart to beat irregularly.
Getting fucked in the ass can definitely be such a stressful event, particularly if the Man is in the midst of a powerful Rut.
Why do bottoms crave big dicks? The bigger ones hurt more so I don’t understand the need for 9in and more
Faggots are addicted to power, and they often equate large cocks with power. The feeling of being penetrated by a large cock (and the accompanying pain) reinforces that idea.
Plus, many faggots have been fucked so much and by so many different objects of various sizes that their assholes are prolapsing and they can’t feel anything anymore unless it’s the size of a truck.
Do you think the dynamic between Alphas and Fags is different from Tops and Bottoms? I personally feel like the former is just the very extremes of each side of the spectrum
Yes, the Alpha/fag dynamic is a more extreme version of the Top/bottom scenario. However, Alpha/fag encompasses straight Alphas as well, and isn’t always centered on sexuality, whereas Top/bottom is largely sexual and emotional in nature.
Here’s an example of the ignorant atttitudes some faggots have. Absolutely idiotic.
EDIT: bear in mind this bottom bitch is putting stipulations on a Man, basically pulling the same shit females do (“if you don’t give me what I want, then you get nothing.”). That’s bullshit.
I wish I could find the original post on this one. Regardless, Sir, I appreciate the update! It sounds like you are doing a fine job of training the fag! Hopefully soon you will decide to pop its cherry and claim it as yours, Sir!
Tops should always talk to their bottoms during sex! It not only intensifies his eventual orgasm, but it also causes the bottom to slip deeper into his role and take the dick longer and harder.
Yesterday I found myself in a bit of a pickle when I answered this question about whether an Alpha can be a bottom. Then I sarcastically replied to another anonymous person who claimed he was an Alpha bottom. This discussion bled over onto @kc-alpha‘s site, too.
Let me clear up a couple of things about this.
Alphas are largely straight or bi-sexual Men. I’ve discussed the apparent rarity of gay (strictly attracted to males) Alphas before (read here). I even wrote of what I consider to be my own stereotyping:
I think the stereotype of homosexual males colors my thinking here. Gay
males (even the ripped, muscle-bound dudes) are generally perceived as
limp-wristed and weaker than straight males. This has been my experience
with gay males over the years. Even gay “tops” I’ve known in the past
still want romance and cuddling and reciprocation. No matter if they are
a “total top” gay male, they always seem to want a boyfriend and love
and cuddling.
This has largely been my experience over the years. Since starting this site a year ago, I’ve met a number of fantastic gay Alphas. Each one owns faggots and understands that faggots exist to serve them. They do not have delusions of gay equality, nor do they have an interest in starting relationships with fags. For all intents and purposes, they might as well be straight Alphas.
But there has been a recurring theme in all of my dealings with straight and gay Alphas: they do not have any interest in being penetrated by another Man. In fact, almost all of them recoil at the idea, much the same way I might recoil at the idea of receiving a blowjob. The idea is something loathsome to them.
Why? Simply put, any true Alpha never submits to another Man. A true Alpha rules over other Men, dominates other Men. The idea of sexually submitting to another Man is something abhorrent to an Alpha, a direct affront to the masculinity they were born to defend.
I think the person who thinks they’re an “Alpha Bottom” is really just a gay bottom with an inflated sense of self.
I received this email on the subject which I quite liked:
The more I’ve thought about it, I don’t get the alpha bottom thing
either. By extension you would need a “faggot top” which just sounds
like a fucking oxymoron if there ever was one. There are some good tops
who care about their prowess and love to please, but it’s just not the
same. If an alpha commanded me to fuck him I couldn’t take it
seriously.
And that’s really the problem, isn’t it? Could anyone seriously consider a Man to be an ALPHA MALE if he takes another Man’s dick up his ass?
My answer is definitely “no,” and I’m pretty sure most true Alphas reading this will wholeheartedly agree with me.
During a conversation yesterday I was told a story by a reader who shall remain nameless. This reader is a fag brother who has been serving a straight Alpha for the past year.
This fag was formerly a good friend of this Alpha prior to a year ago. Then, one night, the fag worked up the courage to tell the Alpha that he was attracted to him.
And then everything changed.
The Alpha immediately began laying out the ground rules for service. For instance, the fag was to be exclusively owned by him, was to refer to him only as Master or Sir, and was to be completely a servant to his needs. The fag thought over the conditions and agreed.
Now the two former friends are no longer friends. The straight Alpha uses his new fag for oral service and various domestic duties. The straight Alpha no longer uses his former friend’s name, referring to it now only as faggot or bitch.
When the fag was talking to me yesterday, it confided in me that it didn’t understand its true purpose until the Alpha friend took control. The fag didn’t know there was such a thing as a “faggot” or an “Alpha” until that moment. The fag didn’t even know the straight Alpha was dominant until the night the fag confessed an attraction to him. Now everything is different.
This story illustrates two important realities of the Alpha/fag dynamic:
1. Faggots often don’t know they are truly faggots until a Man takes control of them and helps them understand their true purpose. This fag thought it was simply a gay Male who was attracted to a straight Male friend. However, the straight Male friend – an Alpha – knew otherwise and took control of the situation.
2. Straight Alphas understand the true purpose of faggots almost instinctively. True straight Alphas know and appreciate the need of a faggot to serve them, and in turn the Alpha desires this service. In this case, the straight Alpha immediately disconnected their friendship and enslaved his former friend for service. The Alpha knew that his former friend was a faggot born to serve him, and subsequently took control of its life.
When an Alpha does this, he provides a great service to the faggot. Not only does the Alpha offer the faggot an object worthy of veneration, but the Alpha helps to unlock the confusion clouding the faggot’s mind.
I thought this fag put it nicely when it said this:
The first time my Master fucked my face I knew I never wanted to be with
a gay top again. I used to think I was a bottom. Then I learned the
difference between a top and a Man.
Straight Alphas understand this truth, and they have the power to reveal it to faggots.
A fag should always offer itself on its stomach, arms outstretched, ass in the air. A Man will know how to use that. The pain of His entry and subsequent pounding is the fag’s reward for his willing service.
