Do you have any tips on how to get better at bottoming? I’ve tried a butt plug and i can ha sleep that but dildos and actual penises don’t feel good. It hurts.
Hopefully you are using plenty of lube!
You need to learn to push out when the dildo/dick is entering your hole. This will strengthen your hole against the penetration and lessen the pain.
You also need to relax. I’ve said this soooo many times, but it’s important: you need to LUST after the cock. You need to want it to fuck you. You’ve got to be hungry for it. Get into it. A heightened desire will allow you to feel less pain.
Hey. Big fan. I am a top(not necessarily alpha). I have found that I love serving my boyfriend. And he wants to do anal but I do not want to, ummm make a mess. Any tips or tutorials? You may have already posted about this but I’m in need.
There are a few things people recommend to do before bottoming, like fasting or laxatives. These are generally unrealistic. The primary thing to do is lots of douching.
Back in my seriously slutty days, I would use a gravity-fed enema to get water all the way through the colon. Believe me, that’ll clean you out. But for general purposes, douching works well enough. You just need to douche and evacuate repeatedly until the water (lukewarm!) comes out clear.
NOTE: I’m not talking about Fleet enemas, those small bottles of fluid sold at drugstores. Those have salt (a saline solution) in them designed to induce a natural pushing reaction in the colon. I don’t recommend that.
I can’t stand Davey Wavey, but I think his tutorial on douching is useful.
And here is another good video tutorial about general issues involved with bottoming.
Please help! My alphas dick is 12 inches big and every time we fuck my ass bleeds and hurts. Any tips please!
I’m sorry to hear that brother!!
First question: where are you bleeding…internally, or your hole?
Second question: are you using lube? If so, how much?
Recommendations:
– Use A LOT of lube. Obscene amounts.
– push out with your hole, a technique that helps fortify the ring of your asshole.
– your Alpha is going to need to take it easy when fucking you. That is just the reality (the curse?) of having a giant dick. At least until you can get acclimated to his size (which will happen).
– for you: RELAX. I know what it feels like to be confronted by big dicks (I’m part of the “fucked by 10+ inches” club also), and we have a tendency to seize up with fear. That only makes it worse on ourselves.
