Hey, I’ve been seeing this guy for a while and he started out not really wanting to be dominant sexually with me, but… he’s lately been saying that he really finds it hot. He’s started enjoying being more possessive and dominating (he said he wants to piss on me and show me off to other guys because he gets off on them knowing I’m his). He’s still very sweet and caring, but it seems like this dominating side has woken. I just wanted your thoughts on the change
I’ve chronicled a few Men like this. I call them “latent Alphas” because, for whatever reason (usually some sort of early abuse), the Alpha aspect of their personality has been suppressed. This suppression causes a kind of low-grade, subconscious frustration and anxiety until it’s removed.
Here’s the thing: Alphas are BORN to be Alphas. This is their natural default setting. This destiny, this birthright … it exists in the very center of their soul and emanates power. When unleashed, this is the power Alphas use to move legions of Men and lift civilizations. But when it is being suppressed, it is a lot like a lion caged and chained in a zoo; it struggles against its bonds and becomes frustrated.
I have a suspicion that your boyfriend is actually an Alpha. For whatever reason, your boyfriend has been suppressing his Alphahood in favor of political correctness and politeness. But now he has you, a submissive partner, with which to begin flexing his Alpha muscles. He’s getting in touch with the raging power that all Alphas have burning in their hearts.
You could have a pivotal role in the development of your Alpha boyfriend! I implore you to let him explore the depth of his Alphahood on you and your body. Surrender yourself to his rule and his desires. I think you will find the process exhilarating if you do!
Please keep me informed!