What do they mean when they say let the man control the blowjob?
Men don’t like pushy faggots in general, but definitely not when they’re getting their dicks sucked by one. Sucking dick is the ultimate submissive act. The power should be totally relinquished to the Man receiving service.
That means allowing him to direct your head. Telling you what to do or not do. Controlling the speed and pace. Deciding whether or not to throat fuck you.
If you allow the Man to control the blow job, you have a much better chance of thoroughly pleasing him!