How do you go about cruising men and where would be the best places to go when you feel like cruising.

When I was more into cruising, I was primarily hunting (is that appropriate for me to use?) for straight Alphas. Of course, straight Alphas don’t cruise the way gay Men do, so I would focus on places where the testosterone is always pumping (like a gym) or bars or parks (where sports activities and exercise happens).

For gay males, places like parks or bookstores with questionable reputations work very well (every decent-sized city has areas like this for gays to hook up). Gay clubs and saunas also work very well, obviously. 

Cruising is really for the bold. Shyness is a killer in this situation. You need to have a sure understanding that all of the guys are there for the same reason. It’s not a dating show, it’s a mating show. Eye contact is a terrific lure, but so is walking up to a Man and offering a blowjob. It’s really not complicated between Men in a situation like that.