I’m a faggot that primarily sucks cock. Sometimes I’ll go to a cruising area and service several men, often two or three at a time. I don’t undress, but I do wear jockstraps generally. Recently I had a man turn me around and tug me jeans down. He was wet from my throat but I didn’t want to be fucked as I wasn’t prepped and asked him to please not to fuck me and he backed down and said he didn’t want to force me. But he was clearly annoyed and walked away so I felt some shame in failing to perform. I was glad to avoid getting fucked. I do however, understand the concept of implied consent, and I’m wondering if I should douche in case I can’t talk a guy down next time.

Yes, brother, you absolutely need to douche thoroughly and prepare yourself just as meticulously for cruising as you would if you were preparing yourself for your Owner. In my early days of cruising, I learned pretty quickly that Men will surprise you with how quickly their moods and intentions can change once you get them going. 
 
And why wouldn’t they expect that? After all, you’re the one on your knees servicing their cock. In their eyes, you are just a tool to use to get off, so why shouldn’t the ass be just as available as the mouth? 
 
Yes, cleanout is a pain. But if you’re going to put yourself in that situation, it’s really your responsibility to be ready to completely satisfy the Men you pick up through cruising. Offering just your mouth in such situations is like offering guests only the side dishes but none of the succulent main course. 
 
Have your pussy clean every time you cruise! 

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I hear about it every week, how I shouldn’t glorify or discuss the seedier and morally-debatable aspects of Hierarchical mechanics. “You endorse rape!” they scream at me from the safety of their computer keyboard.

But if we’re honest, we must admit that sex and sexuality between Men is complicated and raw. It definitely cannot be neatly packaged or pigeonholed. The Alpha/fag dynamic of Hierarchy is Male sexual mechanics at its most extreme and volatile. Of course it’s going to be messy in every way imaginable … and also controversial.

The following experience from a brother named Kyle.

Where I’m at there are a lot of spots that are frequented by guys looking for sex. It’s also a spot where alphas/straight guys can use faggots in a discreet NSA way.

A few days back I went to a local spot and saw this younger twink sucking off an muscular alpha who was definitely a few years older than the twink. Because I also enjoy to watch and listen to other guys I watched them for a bit.

This alpha finally told the fag twink he was to bend over so he could fuck his ass, but the twink was apprehensive and said a couple times he didn’t want to get fucked. But the alpha being an alpha bent the twink and took his ass anyway. The faggot did struggle a little as well as say no.

I knew what was happening, but preferred to watch the faggot get used as it should be. It’s like nature taking its course.

By any modern definition, the twink was raped.

But here’s the hard truth: as males, we know deep down that this is how it’s supposed to happen. Alphas grabbing faggots and using them at will.

Kyle could’ve become indignant and tried to stop the Alpha from “raping” the faggot. He could’ve expressed moral outrage.

But he didn’t. He watched it happen while silently nodding his head in solidarity with the moment.

“As it should be.”

How do you go about cruising men and where would be the best places to go when you feel like cruising.

When I was more into cruising, I was primarily hunting (is that appropriate for me to use?) for straight Alphas. Of course, straight Alphas don’t cruise the way gay Men do, so I would focus on places where the testosterone is always pumping (like a gym) or bars or parks (where sports activities and exercise happens).

For gay males, places like parks or bookstores with questionable reputations work very well (every decent-sized city has areas like this for gays to hook up). Gay clubs and saunas also work very well, obviously. 

Cruising is really for the bold. Shyness is a killer in this situation. You need to have a sure understanding that all of the guys are there for the same reason. It’s not a dating show, it’s a mating show. Eye contact is a terrific lure, but so is walking up to a Man and offering a blowjob. It’s really not complicated between Men in a situation like that.