how did your father react when he found out that you’re a faggot and how did he become aware of that? Did you come out to him or did he find out on his own. Also does your mother know? You dont really talk about her? Sorry if youve answered this before, im a new follower and I’m curious to know. Love your blog btw!

My father knows I’m gay because my mother told him. It’s not discussed with him. I honestly don’t care one way or the other.

My mom is a terrific and loving woman who has been forced to live essentially like a prisoner with my father. She isn’t able to live the life she really wants, and she doesn’t leave him because she thinks the Bible condemns divorcing. So there ya go. 

Most gays have problems with their dads, why?

Because Men have standards of Masculinity they expect their sons to reach. They often view homosexuality to be beneath those standards, making their sons lesser Men and embarrassments. In other words, failed males. 

I also feel sorry for you Dad, not because you aren’t who he wanted, but because his love wasn’t or isn’t conditional. What kind of father cant get passed something that’s different about his son. You could still have biological children, if you wanted to do so. It may be hard to get used to you being a cock sucking faggot because your dad isnt an Alpha, but knowing that you’ve found love in a son and the lengths you’re going through to bring him happiness is admirable. Fuck your dad man.

Thank you for this, Sir!

I kinda feel sorry for your dad. Hid only son he probably had high hopes when he first held you thinking you one day will give him grandkids and there you are a cocksucker and a person obsessed with dick. What kind of father wouldn’t be at least a little disappointed?

This moment from Citizen Kane always resonated with me and my feelings toward my father. “Everything you hate” is a perfect line, delivered perfectly.