I’ve gone on 5 dates with guy and he hasn’t made a move yet, what am i doing wrong?
How deep in the closet is he? How new is he to being out as a gay male?
Gays have a whole extra level of complications when it comes to dating because of these variables. Dating for heterosexuals is difficult enough when everything they’re doing is socially acceptable. Homosexuals are constantly plagued by personal fears as a gay person and trouble with reading the needs of their dates.
One of the really confusing aspects of gay dating is this – who is supposed to make the first move?? In your situation, why do you think he’s supposed to make the first move rather than you?
It’s something to think about. It might be time for you to try something and see how he responds.