Hello Sammy! Would it be considered “ok” for me to be caged but continue to use my vibrator wand on my clit while I have a dildo inside my pussy hitting my spot? I ask because I struggle to accept chastity, I’m always horny and it is too much to handle sometimes, but if I were able to still release and feel the orgasm I might be able to accept it better. Furthermore, would an Alpha be offended if I wanted to use the vibrator wand on my clit while taking his seed in bed? I do not want to be disrespectful, should I not orgasm in front of an Alpha at all? I can’t stop masturbating and this might help me get better acquainted with chastity. You always give the best advice! Thank you my fag brother!
You seem to be having trouble understanding the purpose of chastity, my brother. You’re in chastity to PREVENT ERECTIONS and HINDER ORGASMS. So no, I don’t think you should be stimulating your clit. Now, if you are serving an Alpha who has no problem with this bizarre, non-productive approach, then whatever. But I think you are wasting the opportunity chastity affords you to deepen your submission and experience the truth of chastity and faghood.
Hello Sammy! love the blog and podcast! I am 31 and trying desperately to stop wanting to touch my dick and embrace my pussy as my sexual organ. I dream of being a good sub chastity bottom but I can’t stop masturbating when I’m horny. How do I train my brain to stop going straight to my dick? I use a dildo often and realize that my whole body feels complete, but I can never orgasm with the dildo by itself, I always start touching my dick. I feel shame after, I’m embarrassed that I allowed myself to do it. Any help you can provide for me to realistically become a good bottom is appreciated! thank you!
I can’t speak for everybody, but in my case the biggest change occurred within my heart and headlong before chastity. First of all, I was trained by a couple of Alphas early in my life to keep my hands away from my clit while serving. Mind you, that was never much of a problem even back then (I just never was as interested in my clit as I was in their dicks). But maybe four years ago I began to really develop a deep shame no only whenever I touched my clit sexually (in masturbation, for example), but also whenever I would pee standing up like a Man or even sitting in a chair like a Man. It was this growing ache of shame inside me, and every day I carried it in me like a scarlet letter on my heart.
Then I met Master Jin and Master Nick, then Sir Rob and Master Kyle. These Apex Alphas are such extraordinary examples of true Manhood in all respects, and their absolute power finally broke down my resistance. I was finally moved to act to make the statement of permanent chastity in my life.
So that’s my journey. You will need to find your own motivators. But ultimately you’ll need to become disgusted enough with the practice of masturbation to permanently put it away. It’s like a smoker trying to quit smoking. The ones who successfully stop smoking put the cigarettes down and say to themselves, “that’s disgusting, and I don’t want them anymore.” You need to reach that kind of conclusion about masturbation.
Trust me. The peace and serenity of honoring Men with your abstinence is much better than the momentary pleasure of masturbation.
Hi Sam! Young Faggot here. Let me first say your website has been a great resource that has helped me come to terms with and understand my place in the hierarchy. It is a joyous realization! However, since I accept that as a faggot I must not chase pleasure for myself, I find myself in a dilemma. Reading through your blog is an extremely arousing experience. My dicklet is seldom harder than when I am reading your correspondence with fags and GODS. This leads to me ”pleasuring myself” because the urge is too strong (I’m 17 btw). Do you have advice on how to control myself and still view this blog because I believe it is too important of a resource to give up for me.
Hi little brother!
Yeah, that’s a dilemma. You could put yourself into chastity and begin working on that I suppose. But at this critical stage in your development, a little masturbation might not be a terrible thing. Honestly, I don’t think masturbation is totally bad for a faggot as long as it doesn’t affect or replace the service it should be providing. Sadly, most faggots get derailed by masturbation.
I wouldn’t worry about it too much now, brother. However, you are a faggot in high school, and there’s no better place for a faggot to find needy and greedy Alphas. Don’t waste that valuable time jerking off to me, okay?
I’m a faggot cocksucker with a locked clit. I know that, as a faggot, my dicklet should always be kept limp and unused so it doesn’t distract me from servicing alphas and other doms. It’s really hard, though, to keep it unhard because I’m self-locked, and that just doesn’t work out very well. I have no self-control. I keep unlocking my cocklet to play with it and jizz. I know, I’m a bad faggot. Should I be considering castration to stop myself from doing this? Or is that something that only an alpha can decide for me? My testicles are obviously worthless and an insult to real men, and I know that I would be a better faggot if they didn’t produce any jizz, and that I have no right to cum, ever – but is castration a decision that I can make myself, or do I have to wait until an alpha or other dom makes that decision for me? Do faggots get to make choices like that?
It’s your body. You have the right to make decisions about what happens to your body, even if you are owned.
Since you are unowned, you fully make the decision about this.
Hello fellow fag. I have a question. Is it ok for a fag to masturbate (as in jerk off)? I sometimes get the urge to do that. Especially edging myself. Still I am not sure if fags are supposed to do that.
Technically if you’re unowned there would be nothing inherently wrong with a faggot masturbating itself.
But there’s a difference between right/wrong and could/should.
When I first accepted my faghood at age 17, I was masturbating constantly. Of course, some of that was due to general teenage horniness, and some of it was caused by a lack of mature insight.
However, as I’ve gotten older and became more experienced, I began to realize the misdirection caused by a faggot masturbating. When I would masturbate, I would find myself caught in a Groundhog Day-like repetitive loop:
1. think about service
2. get horny
4. masturbate
5. cum
6. forget my purpose
(repeat)
Notice what’s missing in that loop? ACTUAL SERVICE.
A faggot isn’t a faggot because it thinks about serving a Man while it’s pleasuring itself. A faggot is a faggot because it denies itself in favor of serving the needs of the Man.
Removing masturbation (and therefore the faggot’s focus on itself) forces the faggot to properly realign its focus where it belongs – on service to Men.
To that end, I’ve become a strict proponent of chastity for faggots. I wasn’t ever in chastity until this year, mainly because I had masturbation under control. But chastity has taken me even deeper into subspace than I’ve ever been before. Chastity effectively DENIES ME THE RIGHT OF HAVING A PENIS. That’s powerful.
So I realize I’ve given you a longer answer for what is probably a pretty simple question, but I wanted to supply you with enough reasoning behind my opinion so you understand that I have thought it through.
Faggot masturbation has led to more unfulfilled faggot lives than any other thing, including Alpha rejection. Faggot masturbation is driving a motorless car stuck in neutral. It’s going nowhere.
Hello! I’ve been wanting to get more into chastity and locking up for longer at a time, but it’s really hard to go even a day without masturbating! Do you have any tips or advice for locking up longer?
Masturbation is much like smoking. You can only really quit or control the urge when you make up your mind that it’s wrong for you. In my case, I really turned the corner on masturbation when I began to develop a shame for masturbating. From there, I progressed to the point where I needed to go into chastity because I didn’t want to insult Men by being free myself.
So that’s really my advice – focus your mind on the impropriety of touching yourself. Focus on the fact that you are not a Man, and therefore do not deserve to masturbate like Men do.
I love this straight Alpha! He’s so laid-back and pleasant! The awkwardness of the situation doesn’t seem to rattle him at all; in fact, he almost acts like he might be back for more!
I do wonder how much he was paid for this, though.
When you’re Alpha, you come to love the feeling of your own body. The power, the masculinity, the limitless potential. This excites you, drawing you to worship yourself.
It’s in this instant that an Alpha understands why faggots worship him. Because he is truly superior and god-like. #tags
This is a new thread merging the true stories of straight Alpha Nick and straight Alpha Nikola as they begin a new adventure of full-time faggot Ownership! CLICK HERE for these new stories in chronological order!
A week ago I wrote an article titled “The Descent” that discussed the transformation of a sub male into a faggot. Each step down into the rabbit hole of subspace creates new opportunities for the faggot to learn more about itself and what their life ultimately means.
The latest lesson for fag Alex turned out to be one of his most difficult yet.
A couple of days ago Master Nikola was cleaning Alex and his cage. Suddenly Alex asked Master Nikola if he could play with his clit now that it was free. And no, Alex was not joking. For whatever reason, the inexperienced faggot thought he could manipulate his Master for a few fleeting moments of temporary pleasure like Men enjoy.
After the shock dissipated from Master Nikola sternly reinforced the reality facing the little faggot: No, you are a caged, owned faggot that will not ever touch itself again.
The shit really hit the fan when Master Nikola told Alex’s co-owner Master Nick about the bizarre question later that afternoon. Master Nick was pissed (to put it mildly) and demanded that Alex be at the apartment at 6pm for a meeting.
Once he had Alex trapped in a meeting, Master Nick really laid into the naive faggot. Master Nick asked Alex if he had mental problems or was “just stupid.” Finally came the law, repeated in is absolute terms: no faggot lives under Alpha control without being caged permanently without sexual stimulation.
And Master Nick added: “If you (Alex) don’t like it, then you can just leave.”
The stern dressing-down by an Alpha of such overwhelming power reduced Alex to a puddle of tears. The other three faggots listening in the other room were shivering in fear. Master Nick’s decisive speech went off like a nuclear bomb, obliterating any opposing theories or thoughts.
Later that night little Alex sought me out, maybe hoping to find comfort. I was too baffled by what was obviously inexcusable behavior to give him any relief, I’m afraid. I was flabbergasted, frankly.
I asked Alex why he ever thought to make such a request. “I thought they were just joking about chastity and masturbation,” replied Alex bizarrely.
No, Alphas don’t generally joke about things like this, kiddo. But from what I know of these two straight Alpha Masters, this is a topic of nearly-religious seriousness. And they mean every word of it.
Alex took a hard crash into the bottom of the faggot hole, and sustained a few bruises. But, more important than the error is the learning of another important lesson in his descent into faggothood.
One of the great frustrations many Men and Alphas have when dealing with using and owning faggots is their flighty, flaky nature. The faggot talks a good game, gets the Alpha worked up, and then – poof – the faggot suddenly disappears.
Almost exclusively this is known as a “subdrop.” It’s a post-orgasm shame that washes over a faggot (or other submissive) when they realize they’ve lost control. There’s a panic that makes them run away, hoping to return to “normal” society and escape the submissive urge that overtakes them.
This would likely never happen if faggots stopped masturbating like Men.
True faggots inherently know that it is wrong for them to masturbate like a Man. That is why many faggots seek chastity on their own, to remove that desire they know is improper.
While I have become a firm believer in chastity for faggots, I have discovered a strength within myself to control my urge to masturbate that didn’t involve physical constraints.
It involves MINDSET. For me, I developed such a deep shame (and frankly, disgust) at the idea of masturbating like a Man that my urge to do it disappeared. It involved me focusing so precisely on the needs of Men that I forgot myself entirely.
But it’s more than that, really. You see, Men are primal animals born to cum. When we think about the Male cumshot, it is forceful, explosive, powerful, emphatic. It is a natural claiming of territory, whether it be a pussy, a womb, a person, or an object. A Man spatters his seed across the Earth, marking territory and taking possession of it. Even when a Man masturbates, he is reinforcing this dominant need within himself.
Ever notice how even the straightest Man needs to see the cumshot at the end of a porn clip? He needs to see it because his subconscious registers that cumshot as the goal of sexual satisfaction, the sweet release of pressure and the waves of endorphin-fueled pleasure.
But a faggot is not a Man. It was not born to breed, mark territory, or exert its will. Every faggot ejaculation is a failure, a waste. And more importantly, it shames the glory that Men have been given through the power of their cocks and their cumshots.
Faggots should not attempt to masturbate and cum like Men. It leads to a cycle of failure throughout their lives. Faggots who do this exist in a twilight world, half in darkness and half in light. They cannot be truly fulfilled while carrying on this practice.
Conversely, a faggot achieves a kind of nirvana when it stops trying to emulate the behavior of Men and starts practicing restraint, denial, control, and focus. The faggot gains its power through these things, becoming a machine useful for the needs of Men.
And when that happens, a faggot finds fulfillment … and finally, peace.
I firmly believe faggots should not masturbate. First of all, it wrongly focuses their attention on themselves, rather than on the needs of Men.
In addition, it’s disrespectful of a faggot to masturbate like a Man. Faggots are not Men.
Faggots do better when they have restrictions on their behaviors. Alphas receive better service when they cage their faggots and take away their ability to self-please.
I firmly believe faggots should not masturbate. First of all, it wrongly focuses their attention on themselves, rather than on the needs of Men.
In addition, it’s disrespectful of a faggot to masturbate like a Man. Faggots are not Men.
Faggots do better when they have restrictions on their behaviors. Alphas receive better service when they cage their faggots and take away their ability to self-please.
Of course it is. Fucking someone is ALWAYS preferable to jacking off for a Man because the fuck itself allows a Man to release aggression and tension. Men have bodies built for fucking. Their minds crave domination. Fucking another human satisfies much of that need better than masturbation.
And the truth about boy pussy is this: it’s almost as convenient as using your hand. If a Man needs a piece of boy pussy, it literally requires a simple command for it to magically appear for use.
Ask straight Alphas Jin and Matt. They’ve recently discovered the magic of boy pussy, and now they’re fucking it all the time.
It’s nice that this Alpha tolerated his faggot’s selfish need to play with itself while getting fucked. The faggot was so distracted by its dicklet that it repeatedly disobeyed direct orders.
Needless to say, Alpha Jin absolutely loved using his faggot roommate’s mouth for the first time, and he was eager to pump more cum down its throat. So the following day, he resolved to get more head from his faggot.
When the faggot returned to their apartment the following day, Alpha Jin calmly stated, “Time for a feeding, faggot.” However, the faggot ignored the command and went to its room.
Bad idea. Alpha Jin stormed into the faggot’s room, grabbed it by the arm, and pulled it into the living room. “Get on your knees!” barked Alpha Jin, and the faggot obeyed.
“This is what you are to do every time I tell you it’s feeding time, understand?” commanded Alpha Jin. The faggot nodded meekly. Then Alpha Jin proceeded to rape the faggot’s throat aggressively, just to emphasize the point.
And when it came time for Alpha Jin to blow his load, he made sure the faggot knew it needed to swallow his entire load. And sure enough, every last drop of his Alpha cum was swallowed by the faggot this time – not a drop wasted!
Still, Alpha Jin was frustrated. The faggot was constantly playing with its pee-pee while it was supposed to be focused on its Owner’s cock. As a Straight Alpha, this sight was completely disrespectful and bothersome.
So Alpha Jin asked me what to do about this problem, and I, of course, recommended a chastity cage. I even suggested that Alpha Jin buy a cage and then use it as a threat first, just to see if that would motivate the faggot to train itself. Alpha Jin was intrigued by this new idea.
But the faggot was less than thrilled. It came home to find Alpha Jin looking online for chastity cages. There was an “oh fuck” moment flashing through the faggot’s mind as it quickly realized that its life was about to change.
“Give me your credit card, faggot,” said Alpha Jin calmly, “I want to buy one of these for you.” With that, the faggot flew into a hissy fit, refused to obey, and locked itself in its room.
Mustering the kind of knowing patience only true Alphas can muster, Alpha Jin waited and continued to browse for options online. Then, after a while, he heard the faggot’s door open.
The faggot walked into the room and handed Alpha Jin its credit card. It will be caged by the end of the weekend.
I need to show my Alpha how devoted I am to him. Reading your articles had truly put me in s different mind set of servitude. I dont see any other men but him, but I want to work on only pleasing myself when he gives me permission to do so. I get really turned on an awful lot and I will hump a couch, pillow, stuffed animal, or my fist. How do you keep from doing these things while waiting to please an Alpha? Any tips on how to keep myself ready until he shows up?
Well I managed it by developing a kind of shame over masturbating. I just began feeling embarrassment over the fact that I was trying to cum like Men cum. It’s unnatural and wrong for a faggot. So I stopped.
You might need to go into chastity. I have no doubt your Alpha would love to put a cage on you.
Why do faggots love watching Alphas jack off? Aside from their physical beauty, faggots respond to the selfishness inherent in masturbation. They like the fact that these powerful Males can get so caught up in their own little world of self-love after a lifetime of being worshiped by others.
Just watch this young god enjoy his perfect body. He knows the effect his body has on inferiors, and he absolutely loves it. If a faggot were there, I’m sure he’d make good use of it.
You may not know what I’m talking about but back when your blog wasnt censored so heavily by tumblr, you posted this video of a guy in flannel driving and listening to the radio with his cock out. He moaned, “oh yeah look at that fucking dick, you ready to see all the jizz that comes out of there”, and began to shoot his load into the air. He never stroked his cock just fucked the air while driving. Can you repost it to you’re blog so I can masturbate to it often? I love his voice. Blue flannel
I am guessing that this is the video you’re talking about starring the inimitable Blackey Madison. He has a big dick, and he is so vocal when he cums! The guy is a minor legend in the porn world.
I used to tell myself that I wasnt a true fag but as I was looking through your page, stuffing the couch with my mean I stumble in the video of a guy talking. I instinctively turned over and started stroking my meat to his voice. Rubbed the tip if my hole until I was moaning out loud and convulsing. Wtf just happend
I think maybe you just discovered something about yourself!
Do you stuff your ass? If you do Is that the reason you’ve gone so long without jerking?
I have been using a couple of dildos, but I haven’t been using them for prostate milking. I use them as a form of exercise.
I’m amused by the overwhelming interest in my masturbation habits (or lack thereof). You all act like I’ve committed some heretical act by voluntarily denying myself masturbation. I feel like I’m demonstrating exquisite control over myself, and frankly, I’m kinda proud of it.
Have you ever been able to cum handsfree? Since you’re not pleasuring yourself currently would you be willing to cum that way? Or is your goal just to stop cumming all together?
Yes I have been able to just use my mind to make myself cum hands-free, although I haven’t tried it in a while (obviously).
My original goal was to see if I could completely stop focusing on my own orgasm using only my willpower. It’s been a good and worthwhile experiment. I might be willing to release myself from bondage soon, however.
I can’t begin to imagine how any male can go 18 months without rubbing one out! It’s unfathomable! Your balls must bluer than the pacific!
Like I said to another commentator, your balls don’t get “blue” unless you masturbate to the point of near-climax. As long as I avoid that, I’m okay. I had a near-miss recently over a hot conversation I had with an Alpha while porn was playing as well. It was sensory overload.
U totally stopped jerking off more than 1.5 year, but do u cum eventually? I mean alone or while being fucked? How does it work for u? Don’t u get blue balls sometimes?
Yes, it’s true – I purposely stopped masturbating 1.5 years ago. I haven’t cum either – no wet dreams, nothing. Curious, isn’t it? And no, I don’t get blue balls. You have to work yourself up to a point close to climax to have blue balls. I avoid that.
It’s so wonderful to see young Men in the heat of the moment relieving themselves of the constant pressure and need to cum. The only sad aspect of watching the video above is the fact that all of that jizz is essentially going to waste.
So u’ve said u “refrain from masturbation for about 1.5 years”. How do u deal with blue balls after getting too horny? Do u ever cum? I’ve tried but chastity but barely can walk after some days without cum
The body has built-in mechanisms to deal with excess cum – ever heard of “nocturnal emissions?”
The key to not getting blue balls is to not rub on or play with your penis until it gets hard and is ready to cum. You don’t get blue balls randomly; blue balls happen when you are excessively stimulated and ready to cum, then denied.
Do you refrain from masturbation totally? Or do you jerk off when you get horny and hungry for cock?
I have completely refrained from masturbation for about 1.5 years now. Totally voluntary. Part of it involved a curiosity about the effects of chastity (I’ve never been in a chastity cage before), but more crucially, I became increasingly embarrassed to masturbate like Men masturbate. I am not a Man, nor am I equal to a Man. I’m a faggot, and therefore I should not play with myself or have failed orgasms like a Man.
Men are in their purest form when they’re cumming. There is a primal Beast at the center of their being that civilization and delusions of morality cannot ever disguise or erase. That Beast can be clearly seen in the frozen, paralyzed moments of orgasm. All of their energy is focused on the pumping of seed, the angry thrusts, those guttural grunts accompanying every spurt.
A Man doesn’t love you in that moment. You are his victim, a sacrifice to his lust.
It tells us all we need to know about the true nature of fucking. During this process, a Man is transformed into an engine of dominance and creation. The engine of life.
The dominance and cockiness on display by this young Alpha is startling and very hot. And that question he asks – “Do you want Daddy’s cum?” – is rhetorical and is meant only as a reaffirmation of his power over the one watching him, desiring him.
And when he asks “where do you want it?” the question becomes pointless. He cums EVERYWHERE.
There are definite reasons why Alphas are Superior.
Look at this magnificent young Alpha showing off for the camera, demonstrating his Superiority as a GOD among Men. This Alpha was born to dominate, rule over others, and, most importantly, BREED.
His Alpha balls produce it every day, that thick white elixir females and faggots crave. He pumps it out effortlessly, each spurt a pearly rivulet of life-giving Alpha essence. His eyes never leave you, though. He knows what it does to you, the sight of his long fat cock squirting heavy wads of cum onto the floor. He likes what it does to you.
As you crawl on all fours to slurp up his precious Alpha fluid, the Alpha gets up dismissively and walks away. He knows your craving for him will last a lifetime.
Every day all across America Alpha Males are slipping into a bathroom or an empty conference room at work, whipping out their cocks, and relieving themselves of the heavy load they’re carrying between their legs. It’s a primal need of Men that must be satisfied.
Young Alphas with huge cocks know one thing – it’s all about them and their pleasure. Look at him show off and talk to the camera in his low, growling voice! He knows he owns you.
Oh my goodness do we ever! A faggot’s hunger for cock makes even the sluttiest female blush with embarrassment. This is especially true if the faggot has been caged or has been abstaining from masturbation.
Men: find a faggot in heat, and you will receive the most mind-bending, toe-curling service of your life!
I’ve never been in chastity, mainly because I maintain a high level of control over my masturbation habits already without it. Also, my penis is very small, so chastity seems redundant.
Some people seem to be called to chastity. It seems to excite them in some emotional way as they are constantly reminded of their inferiority.
I had considered caging myself earlier this year as an experiment, but a couple of Alphas talked me out of it. In their opinion, it was pointless to cage myself unless I was doing so for the glory of an Alpha. So I didn’t do it.
