Thank you for your string of important information and techniques.  I am a new life time fan. I found a link to your site on my Twitter feed from one of the alphas I follow there. My first introduction to you and this site was the article on hierarchy and the importance of knowing our places within it. I couldn’t stop reading it, it was like this was a direct message to my soul. I have always carried and considered my self a dominate Alpha gay man. I was in a relationship for 20 years and was alpha dom top the entire time. My question is so I don’t get sidetracked is this. Can a Alpha enjoy sucking cock and be deceptively good at it. It is one if my favorite things to do not only for my own pleasure but to see the shock in a sub or faggots face that I can do it so well. Also eating ass falls into this category for me. Is it possible I could be a Alpha sub. Never crossed my mind until I read your breakdown.  I will share this as part of my background and what I find as my internal struggle with my place within the hierarchy of alpha sub and fag. When I was a child I was as i call it trained by my step father in the early 70’s along with 2 uncles as there fag sub. I also learned to emulate their behavior towards others I deemed as sub or fag to me. This training went on from age 6 till 10 as a regular ongoing occurrence.  Could this be why I enjoy sucking dick so much? Any insight you could provide would be appreciated.  I would be happy to share my past with you another time. If you have any questions or need further info feel free to email me. Thank you for your time and help in discovering my true nature. 

Sir, Thank you for writing to me!

First of all, let me just say emphatically that there is nothing wrong with a gay Alpha sucking a faggot’s dick or eating a faggot’s ass. It’s natural for a gay Alpha to suck a dick once in a while, especially if (like you) the Alpha does it to make the faggot uncomfortable. 

I don’t think you should read too much into these impulses, Sir. I say this because I’ve encountered multiple Alphas who had abuse as children and were trained to be submissive males … and they started out their early life unfulfilled. It was only when they discovered and embraced their Alphahood that they found their true place and could finally feel fulfillment. The early childhood experiences blinded them. 

So my advice to you is to forget your doubts. You are a true Alpha, and there is no reason for you to ever doubt it again. Be the Alpha YOU want to be. As an Alpha, nobody can attack you or question you. Make the kind of Alpha like YOU want to lead, and your faggots will gladly kneel and worship you. 

Thank you, Sir.

UPDATE: Here is Sir’s reply:

Faggot Sam: 
Thank you for your promotion response and words of support and understanding of my self doubts. I have begun delving into you great store of information and in sites.  
Kudos to you for ensuring this info is available and accessible.  
I truly feel my confidence swagger and truth of self resurging in me. I will continue to explore the things I need to understand and continue my journey to become the true Alpha that I am meant to be and want to be. 
I will say I will be keeping in touch if your ok with me asking questions and sharing ideas thoughts and experiences with you.  I know I am not like Alpha Deuch that you wrote about. I do want to ensure my Faggots cunts and holes are safe, and reaching their true selves and find fulfillment and pleasure along  with the proper training. To serve and worship an  alpha that is a base instinctive  animalistic Alpha that I know and have seen come through on other occasions, yet still the nurturing honest true to yourself Alpha that I also am. That’s what I will be contemplating as I go out tonight to mark my territory and hunt my first faggot of the night.
Chat with you soon Sam. Look forward to sharing my adventures if you care to hear.   Time to get a new phone with good video quality.  If it’s not documented it didn’t happen. 

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The second ring – what is it in our anatomy?

The technical term for the second ring is “sphincter ani internus“, which literally means “internal sphincter“. It’s a different muscle type from the outer sphincter (or butthole). It’s comprised of something called “smooth muscle” much like the muscles of our circulatory system. This internal sphincter is an involuntary muscle approximately 5-6 inches inside the anus that responds to moods and things like anxiety or excitement. As you might imagine, then, that puncturing the second ring in a certain way triggers the wave of euphoria, involuntary shaking, and sudden emotional outbursts seen during cunting.  

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I had the perfect opportunity to approach him again and again and I failed every single time. It was at the grocery store. He was probably 6’0″, muscular, tatted arms, classic tight shirt and jeans, and I noticed him as I passed the meat aisle. I couldnt take my eyes off him and I got so turned on. Unfortunately, I had to finish my shopping.
 
I was at the self-checkout with a lot of things and then I saw him circling around looking for a checkout. He ended up coming to the self checkout but on the other side of the aisle. I could barely check out my groceries, but I noticed he had some things but not too many. I finished before him and then I paused just as I was about to exit. He was finishing up scanning items and I realized the perfect opportunity to approach him was right as he was about to pay. I could have offered to pay him. I got nervous because the employee who watches over the checkouts was there, and a couple other customers. But then the rest of the customers left so it was just the employee and the Alpha in the general area. I kept thinking about the “Home Depot Faggot” story you have on the site and realized this was my chance. I saw him scan his last item and I tried so hard to approach him but I FAILED. I cursed myself under my breath as I watched him take out his card and pay. I left to my car defeated and disappointed in myself.
 
And then as I was putting away my groceries in my car I saw him come out to his pickup truck and start placing the bags in. My fucking god, so fucking handsome. We were pretty far in the parking lot away from the store so there werent too many people around. I took a $100 bill out of my wallet and thought about walking over and asking him how much his groceries were and offering it to him. Then I thought about what you said about being blunt if he asked me why I was doing it and just declaring that hes an Alpha and I’m a faggot and I can do much more for him. But i didnt do it. I watched him put the rest of his stuff away, put his cart back, and drive away. I got into my car and screamed and yelled at myself. I was so close Sam. I just didnt have the courage.
 
I dont believe I’ll ever have the courage to approach/find an Alpha. I’ll never figure out if this is truly my destiny because I’m just too scared and shy. I had every perfect chance and it seemed like the universe wanted me to do it…and I fucking blew it. I’m not strong enough. Alphas are so intimidating. I’m so disappointed in myself.

Don’t feel bad, brother! My goodness, your instincts were wonderful! You recognized the opportunities available in the moment, and came up with action plans in the moment! Awareness is half the battle AT LEAST! 
 
I wish all faggots were as serious as you about this truth inside of you! 
 
Just know that these little mental steps lead to huge leaps in action! You’re on your way! Just build up your resolve more and more and come up with ways you can offer service on the spot just like you did! And also, I would make note of the time and day this particular Alpha was at the grocery store … weightlifting Alphas often have schedules they adhere to. You might get another chance with this one!
 
Anyway, don’t be upset with yourself. This is not easy, but you CAN do it! I think you will get there! 

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Hi Sam. Tonight I was drinking at a bar (walking distance from my place) when I heard 2 guys sitting behind me. Just from their voices alone, I could tell they were Alpha Males. Especially when they started describing one of their friends as a “sheep” and how they dont respect what a spineless pussy he is. It turned me on so much.
 
Anyway, eventually they got on a topic that I knew about, so I spun around and introduced myself. We had a great chat (they ended up being 22 and 23 years old, and I am 25), and they truly did exude complete masculinity and Alphahood. I knew they werent staying though, because earlier I noticed one of them ordered beers but declined to start a tab. So eventually, they said goodbye. They even gave me the typical “bro” handshake, with the open palm and then you twist to just cup the fingers. It seems like all straight men know this handshake.
 
My question is…do you have any advice for possibly propositioning in this scenario? Even though I could tell I had pleased them and they acknowledged me…they still just left and I had no idea if I had a chance or not. I think I did, the really hot one was talking about how lonely he was in his new town for his new job. But I feel like if they actually did have any interest in me (as a friend or whatever), they would’ve invited me along with them. Maybe I’m overthinking it but…could I have capitalized  further in this opportunity?

Hi brother! First of all, I commend you for subtly integrating yourself into their conversation! That’s the huge first step that many faggots struggle to overcome! 
 
I think you missed a couple of opportunities here. First of all, Offering to pay their tabs or offering to buy them another round would’ve been a good idea. Yes, I know you said you thought they didn’t have a tab running … but it’s the OFFER TO PAY that is important here. It shows submissiveness and a willingness to serve. 
 
But the main one is this hot Alpha stating that he’s alone there in a new city and lonely. I find this to be an unusual thing for an Alpha to say in a conversation with two other males (one total stranger) at a bar. I think I would’ve offered to show him some of the sights of the city (and pay for everything if he accepts). Perhaps an offer to help him settle into his new place? I dunno … something needed to happen at that point in the conversation.
 
Here’s the plan: Men are territorial, and they return again and again to places they “claim” as familiar territory. Bars like the one you met them at are often such places. I have a feeling that one or both of those Alphas will return to that bar. You need to start casing the place in order to get another chance to offer yourself. I have done this with some success in the past. 
 
I’m proud of you for taking the initiative, brother!  Keep up the good work!

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hey sam. two years ago when I was 23 I finally stopped pretending I’m not gay and a faggot I came out, started to have sex with men and embraced my faggotness. almost exactly a year ago I met this 29 year old man who claimed to be an alpha. He was physically fit. Anyway we met, we were having sex and suddenly he became really violent both physically and verbally. he was hurting me so i asked him to stop but he kept telling me to “take it bitch” eventually I got out of the bed and he became livid he kept shouting at me and he grabbed this ceramic vase and he threw at me hitting the side of my head. I didn’t bleed much so I thought it wasn’t that bad. the next day I started to have major headaches I went to the doctor and he did a CT scan and the doctor told me i have some sort of bleeding. They operated on me and it took me a long time to heal. I’d like to think the physical damage is over but I still suffer with the psychological effects of what happened. I started to have fears and anxieties especially when approaching men. This has destroyed my sex life. I’m in therapy now I haven’t told her about the faggot alpha thing I’m certain she won’t get it. My question to you is, is this common in the fag alpha world? are we supposed to be attacked and assaulted? because if this is the deal I’m not so sure I’m up for it. I’m a faggot I’ll always be a faggot but if this is how it’s done, who’s to say next time it won’t be a knife or a gun or some homicidal maniac who will stuff me in the freezer. It’s just scary. Is there some vetting technique or procedure before hooking up with alphas to lessen the risk? thank you brother. HECTOR  

Brother, I’m so sorry this happened to you! What a horrifying experience! 
 
NO, this is NOT how things are supposed to go between Alphas and faggots! It is NOT alright that he attacked you! Fortunately, the vast majority of Alphas have enough control over their rage that they would never do something so harmful to a faggot (or any lesser creature), but there’s always that one psychologically-unbalanced person out there in the bunch. You were the unlucky faggot who happened to be the one who found that guy (who rightfully should be in jail). 
 
We all deal with attacks in our own way, I suppose. After my rape I did the opposite of you – I really went on a tear of whoring myself out. I look back at it now and can see that it was a desire to self-destruct motivating my actions, but at the time it was the only way I could drown out the fear and anger. You just do what you can to heal. There are no “right” answers for that. It’s whatever your heart needs.
 
But trust me – there are good Alphas (even GREAT ones) out there who will cherish you and protect you. Don’t close yourself off from fulfillment just because you had a terrible experience. If you do, you let his terrorization beat you in an even more destructive way – inside. 
 
Sadly, I don’t think there are foolproof ways to vet Alphas in order to completely avoid the bad apples in the bunch. Meeting in public places and getting to know them a bit first certainly help. But ultimately we faggots are kindling to the fire. We sacrifice ourselves in order to be useful to greater Men. All we can hope to do is burn very brightly. 

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Dear Faggot,
I thank you much for your website. It has been a real eye opener for me, and has confirmed much of what I’ve observed in my 43 years of life about the truth that all men are not created equal, and the reality of hierarchy among men. I am a straight alpha, currently single, but with an old gf who has stayed on as my friend with benefits (She doesn’t want children, so marriage is out of the question). We fuck three to four times a week when she comes over to my apartment. When work was particularly challenging this week, I called her to my office for a blowjob to clear my head. I was made for marriage and children, and frankly am a romantic at heart. I have only been in two long term committed relationships. So far, however, neither of them have been willing to take my cock in their asses nor able fully to deep throat me, despite their vigorous attempts. In a forum on a dick comparison website I have met a faggot who has expressed to me his fervent desire that I experience both by using him as my cum-dumpster. Although initially repulsed, I am now fully on board with the ideals of the hierarchy, since I made it clear that I have no romantic interest in men, and have zero interest in his dick. On my next business trip I am planning on meeting this faggot and breeding his holes. It will be the first time I have ever had a man touch my dick, but the power dynamics have me excited more than I could have ever imagined. While due to the distance and my future aspirations for marriage and a family I am unable to enter into a full blown Master-Slave relationship with this faggot, I consider even the time I spend dominating him as a tremendous opportunity for sexual awakening on my part as an alpha. The concept that a man would be so turned on by cock and body, my masculine essence, that he would be willing to subvert and desecrate his own masculinity in order to please me was absolutely foreign to me throughout most of my life. I now have learned to embrace the power of my manhood in a totally new and spectacular way. I want to thank you, faggot, for giving cogent expression to the truths of about men and their relationships with other men.

Thank you so much for writing to me, Sir!
 
I am SO GLAD that your eyes have been opened to this great, unspoken truth at the heart of Manhood! It is an immutable reality. Men like you absolutely deserve on-demand service and worship! 
 
I love that you have begun to understand the power inherent in your Alpha body and persona. How your body is DESIGNED to own inferiors, from your scent and your cum to the commanding aspect of your presence. Men like you are BUILT TO RULE. 
 
I’m extremely excited to hear that a faggot is lined up to be your “first faggot” and be the one to help you experience true domination. I hope the faggot is being real and not playing games! As a faggot who has been the first faggot for a handful of straight Alphas, this is an extraordinary privilege that I take very  seriously. If the faggot flakes on you, please don’t give up, Sir! Trust me, there are A LOT of true faggots willing to serve! 
 
If you need ANYTHING or want help finding faggots (I have a wide audience), let me know, Sir! Like all faggots, I exist to serve you! 

Hey fag Sam,
I’ve been following your blog for a while, but I recently turned 18, so I felt like this was the time to message you. Before now, I’ve had lots of fun roleplaying online with subs, but now that I’m older, I feel that I want to get my feet wet. Literally and figuratively. What advice do you have? It’s a little sad, since I still live with my parents — with my current situation, I’m not leaving anytime soon.

Thank you for writing to me, Sir! I’m grateful that you finally made your presence known!
 
I’m also glad to hear that you recognize that online domination isn’t the real thing. Faggots like to play around online because it’s easier for them (no commitment to actual service), but for an Alpha like yourself, nothing can replace the actual use of a faggot. Men need that physicality, that interaction. When you’re being worshiped, you want to feel it down into your soul. I commend you for recognizing that need in yourself, Sir!
 
Your situation is far from impossible, Sir. Eighteen-year-olds have sex constantly despite living with their parents. I definitely did. 
 
Find local faggots in your age range (I’m sure there are faggots in your grade at high school, for example) and use them at your house when your parents are gone, or at their house when their parents are gone, or out in a park, or in a car, or wherever. 
 
Alternatively, you could use various methods (like Grindr or FetLife) to find slightly older faggots who have their own place. This could give you additional avenues for domination, like taking over the faggot’s residence or its money. Young Kings like you are a hot commodity for older faggots; we know the importance of serving you properly so that you start off your reign in a positive way.
 
Either way, it’s important that you start feeding faggots your cum and marking them with your scent. This will cause them to become addicted to you, allowing you to build a reliable stable of faggots you can count on for service on demand. This will set you up for the future when you have your own place and they can serve you there (even full time if you’d like).
 
I’m so excited for you to start this incredible journey into your Alphahood, Sir! You are one of the few Men chosen by Nature to rule. Never take this divine commission for granted, Sir! Good luck, and please keep in touch!  

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How should faggots sleep? Should they wear underwear or be completely naked save for their chastity cages?

If a faggot is owned, that’s entirely up to their owner, of course (if he cares). I do think it’s best if faggots try to wear items to bed that are not sexually stimulating. The less solo sexual stimulation a faggot has, the less likely it is to masturbate. Like it or not, a faggot’s life is more about denial rather than sexual depravity. It’s about learning to control the body and mind and focus it on the service of Alphas rather than self. This is a good question that addresses one small aspect of that training.

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Hey fag. I have an autoimmune disease and I have to be careful about getting any infections. I hate using condoms what should I do?

Well, if the faggot is clean, there should be nothing to worry about. Bacterial infections like gonorrhea or chlamydia are easily transferable to total Tops, but most things are not. HIV is not.

Ultimately, it just comes down to fag selection, Sir. Find a clean faggot (you could even demand that it gets tested) and breed it all you want.

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It’s the typical story for me too. At first i was scared of chastity cages, then i was turned on by it and as I’m writing this I’m in my cage. It feels warm inside and I’m horny all the time but without cumming, which at times makes me feel bad. I’d like to try to wear my cage even more frequently but it still feels funny down there. I have the 3 inch one on and it feels huge but i feel like it’s too soon to try on a smaller cage. Will it fit? Should I keep the one i have on till my dick gets smaller? I don’t know how it works. And if one day my dick gets small will i be able to get erect or cum? Can you help me Sam?

Your clit will adjust to whatever you put it in eventually. If the three-inch cage feels too big, get the next size down. The idea is that it should be SNUG. As for whether you will be able to get erect and cum in the future, the answer is yes you will. If the clit is set free for a period of time your natural erections will stretch it back out and you’ll be able to climax like a male again.

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Hiya, i’ve asked a question here before relating to chastity and you gave me a really detailed and thoughtful response so just wanted to thank you for that first of all! This title of the question may be a little misleading as it doesn’t actually relate to the traditional toilet training that might come to mind. I’m now talking to a new Alpha and we plan to meet this weekend. I’m a very dirty fag, open minded and willing to do pretty much whatever it takes to serve my Owner, and lucky for me, he is also very kinky. As we were talking and getting to know each other yesterday we get onto kinks, fetishes, limits etc. He starts by asking me would i be willing to rim his ass and i say ‘Yes Sir of course’ (not my favourite thing but i know my place). Then he proceeds to ask if he would clean it rather than just rim it (meaning his ass hole is dirty). I was reluctant at first but with a little discussion he reminds me of my place and i realise if it means i can serve him better then i am more than happy to do it. He expects to train my mouth as his piss urinal which we have previously discussed and both agreed is an important part of training, but now he wants me to be his toilet and train me fully with the intention and goal that nothing that comes out of his body goes to waste when i’m with him including, spit, piss, cum and shit. Obviously i would swallow his spit, cum and piss anyway out of respect and to acknowledge the natural order of the hierarchy but scat is something i haven’t experienced before. I’m sure it is something i could learn to do under his strict training and it’s not something i would let get between me and my Owner because i know that my place is at his feet and i live to serve him. But do you have any advice about how to make it easier for me to embark on this kind of training or if it’s even safe of necessary to do so in order to be the best faggot for my Master? Apologies for the amount of text i just wanted to give a little context so you can see where we’re at with it. Any advice would be much appreciated, thank you!

Well, here’s the rub. You say you’re a “dirty faggot” who will “do anything” for an Alpha. Now you’ve found an Alpha who literally wants to challenge that claim. What do you do?
 
I’m not going to sugarcoat it (although that might help in your situation LOL). Eating shit is not healthy or safe. I’m not saying it’s completely unsafe, either. But it’s not like drinking piss (which is sterile). There are all sorts of bad bacteria in human shit. It’s also (essentially) rotting solids excreted by the body. And it’s pretty damned disgusting.
 
I think it’s pretty awful that any Alpha would expect a faggot to actually eat his shit. A Man wouldn’t expect his dog to eat his shit, and would likely be disgusted if his dog tried to do that. So why demand that a faggot do it? These kinds of revolting games are childish and unnecessarily cruel. 
 
I wouldn’t serve such a Man. I don’t think you should, either. But at the very least you should draw the line at shit-eating. You aren’t proving anything to anybody by doing it except how dumb it is. 

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Hey, tried leaving some comments lately but they’re not showing. Weird. Anyway I’m really interested in that semen fetish ask you posted recently, but sadly they’re based in NYC and I’m in the UK. Do you or your readers know if there’s a similar kind of thing going on in the UK?

Thank you for writing, Sir! 
 
Frankly, I’ve never heard pf anything like this before EVER, so I’m afraid I can’t be of help. It sounds like the group has some resources, so perhaps there is a way of flying you out there to be their Bull semen donor. I don’t know.

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I’m in contact again with an Alpha who got me in this kind of mindset and He’s interested in using me, but I’m in a relationship with my bf of 5 years and we’re living together. He knows I like to play around sometimes but I promised I wouldn’t ever again. But I feel like my nature is calling. The Alpha is everything my bf isn’t and tbh I had never really got over Him. I’ve been seeing Him in my dreams a lot and I haven’t served a Real Man a long time. But I’m scared my bf will find out. Should I be a good boy and stay loyal or give in to my ex Master?

The best (and honest) answer to this problem is to leave the boyfriend who doesn’t really possess you and serve the Alpha. The Alpha owns your heart. Your nature as a faggot consumes your soul. As sad as it is to say, you’re not ever going to be truly happy or fulfilled with the boyfriend. Just respect your boyfriend enough to do the right thing and set him free rather than cheat on him.  

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how disturbed were you when you learned a former US army general advocated for the overthrow of the government? 

Completely disturbed? However, it’s not surprising. Every single person involved with Trump or his administration is criminal to such an absurd degree that even Kierkegaard would throw up his hands in confusion.

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Hi Sam,
ive read a lot on the convent of fag “rape” on here and I know it’s the type of service I need, but I don’t know how to:
1. Entice Dom guys and Str8 alphas to rape me
2. Show those who would want to rape me that there is no risk and that they are able to do whatever they want to me. 

I did think about wearing a chastity cage to the gym but I would love some advice. 

Please help this fag in need. 

Before I answer this, I’d like to emphasize that I do not advocate rape or the pursuit by a faggot to be raped. 
 
Your idea of wearing a chastity cage around the gym is a good one. It may not lead to rape, but it lets the other Men know what you are and might lead to some use.
 
Ultimately, here’s the intrinsic problem with your request – real rape isn’t something that can be planned or achieved as a desire. It’s a rage that wells up inside of a Man in the spur of the moment. But don’t worry – all Alphas know they can rape a faggot any time they want. You don’t need to “show them” anything about it – they know how to do it. 
 
Just make yourself completely available and completely submissive. They’ll handle the rest.

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Can anyone give me advice or referral? There are 7 of us in NYC area with a total fetish for semen – but ONLY specificity top grade A+ quality semen – alpha male semen. And up till 9 months ago we used to have a straight friend of one of us on the group provide his semen for us to use for the base ingredient for the cookbook “Natural Harvest: a collection of semen based recipes” (www.cookingwithcum.com). We would have a dinner 1-2x per year & we would prep for it 4-5 months in advance to collect enough semen. A few of us would meet 2-3x per wk & he’d be only 1 100% naked & wed milk him orally & by hand & always switch to hand at last sec & point his tip into container to add to our frozen supply. NO kissing, no fucking, recip Bj, etc. Just milking his semen. He definitely produced semen quality in top 0.2% percentile
We are looking got a new supplier. And we also will compensate/pay for his time (& we do handsomely). 1/3 upfront, 1/3 half way in & 1/3 after the dinner event. For the finale dinner he also must agree to attend, be the only 1 totally naked & periodically stand on small platform to display & lay on custom massage table to be milked to swallow there.
this is a LARGE commitment because we need a massive quality of semen (id rather say how much later so I don’t discourage anyone). We do also pay to provide a 4 wk pre supply & then current supply of Semenex which will increase semen volume production by 2-3x (and orgasm length)
Please help with any advice to find alpha supplier. And also if any want to join our group, let me know.  

Absolutely bizarre. Published for the sheer craziness alone. I am not involved in any way, so don’t ask.

I have a possible sub I have been working on for some time, and I need your advice.
So I’ve known this guy for ages.  When we first met he was this cocky guy who liked to show off; buy expensive drink, order the most expensive item on the menu, get us into private nightclubs etc… Anyway one day he invites me to a private dinner, just the two of us, and buys me perhaps the most delicious meal I have ever had.  Steak tartar, lobster, the works.  After the meal and a couple of drinks he makes it clear that he would be down for sucking my cock and maybe more.  I\’m no idiot, so I get him to suck me off in the loo. After that we would meet regularly.  I\’d come round, have a couple of drinks, maybe smoke a joint and eventually (and I mean eventually, usually after the last train home) he would suck my cock.  But he always seemed really timid about it and wasn\’t very good, and when I tried to direct him he\’d get flustered and would suddenly stop, thereby blue-balling me … or should i say blue-balling myself?
Anyway, after a while, I got bored of this… a lackluster blowjob will only get you so far in my book, and if you\’re not willing to surrender your ass (as he was not), then you\’re pretty much living on borrowed time in my opinion.  Eventually I gave him up, it was obviously too much work for too little return.  This was about three years ago. Then suddenly, out of the blue, he texts me, asking if I\’m down for a drink.  We meet, and the old routine starts again, he buys all the drinks and treats me to dinner and invites me back to his flight for a joint…. I know where this is going …. So we\’re back at his place and he starts playing with my dick, getting it hard, sucking it … he does okay… Suddenly he stops and says he doesn’t want me to cum because ‘that would be gay’… He was obviously very uncomfortable with the situation so I wasn’t going to push it.  Besides, I can always message a more willing sub if I want to..
Now I have no idea what is going on in his head to justify sucking my cock as ‘being straight’ so long as I don’t cum … let alone cum down him… As I have said before, I have cum down him numerous times before and I know that if I push a little harder next time he will get there again… But I’m not satisfied with him giving me half-arsed blowjobs, I want more.  In the intervening 3 years, I’ve grown as a person, not just physically but also sexually too, I’m not only much more sexually confident then I was, but also more sexually sophisticated.  I need to move him from giving me half-arsed blowjobs to full on sex to, eventually, servitude… I think he can get there… the question is how willing am I to devote time to this?  Last time round we spent an entire year with half-arsed blowjobs … I’m not willing to wait that long.
On top of this, after he stopped blowing me he revealed to me that he has only ever swallowed the cum from 2 guys (me and some randomer he met at a party)…
Now all of our mutual friends suspect he’s at least bi-sexual if not gay (he goes on about all these girls he fucks, but no one has ever met a single one of them) and none of them know anything about us.  But now I’m wondering …. is he so far into the closet, he doesn’t even realize he’s in it?  This might explain his unwillingness to engage further…. I just don’t want to waste my time on a sub, or even a person, who is only going to give me lackluster blowjobs… I have neither the time nor the energy to handhold someone through that kind of journey.  At the end of the day I need to move things along.  I got him to call me ‘sir’ the last time we met, and thank me for letting him suck my cock (this might have pushed him over the edge and forced him to stop sucking me), but I need more… Any advice?

Thank you for writing to me Sir!
 
You have a complex situation here. First of all, this guy is definitely a faggot. However, its denial is so deeply-rooted inside its identity that trying to carefully pull it apart is going to probably waste a lot of time and result in more back-outs and dead ends.
 
Here’s where an Alpha like you really needs to law down the law and take what you want from this faggot. You need to be ultra aggressive and essentially force it to accept the truth. I’m not suggesting rape here (just to be clear), but something flirting with that. Also, what I’m suggesting is something like a rape of this faggot’s soul.
 
You need to get with this faggot and essentially force it to kneel before you and kiss your feet. Get it to admit to you that it is a faggot. Get it to pledge devotion to your service as your property. Once you get that, have it smell your crotch and armpits. Make it become hypnotized by your natural aroma. All the while continue to make it admit that it is your faggot and your property. 
 
Then, once you have it exasperated and desperate, throat fuck it. Make it gag. Be merciless. It needs to learn that the days of playing around as a cocksucker are done.
 
Then, when the faggot feels like it is breaking, tell it that you are going to fuck it and breed it. And then forcefully put it into position and enter it, preferably while holding its hair or throat. You need to take it like a male lion takes a female. Breed it.
 
The faggot doesn’t know it yet, but you taking it in this way will be the most impactful and important moment of its life. It’s been living a lie. You are going to pulverize those lies with the power of your Alpha might. 
 
Alphas perform this rite of passage with faggots all the time. They do this because they understand the true purpose of faggots, and they need the faggots to accept that reality. Sometimes this happens without my force. 
 
But sometimes force is the only way.
 
I hope this helps, Sir. Please keep me informed! fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com 

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I want to know why so many men and fag worry about size? I am here to serve men no matter body, race, sexuality, age, or cock size. My last sir was a big guy but I served him as though he was a Greek god. I have been in service since I was 16 and now being 28 I know where my place is and that is at the feet of men.

You have the right attitude, brother! Such a good boy!

I’m constantly baffled by the bad attitudes of many faggots who think that only supermodel Alphas should be worshiped and served, or worse, that they (as faggots) should have the right to serve only the cream of the crop when they themselves are lowly faggots.

JUST SERVE. If you’re a faggot, then all Men are above you Hierarchically. They’re better than you. So develop a humble mind and serve.

When you do serve a wide variety of Alphas, you eventually learn that, beneath the varied exteriors, Alphas are all the same in terms of needs and desires or the application of power. We are serving that inner Man, not his shell.

I really appreciate that you are serving Men with a humble heart, my brother! That is to be commended!

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Do you believe in life after death?

No I don’t believe in life after death, at least not in the way traditional religions teach it. If anything, our energies might return back to the energies of the universe (something vaguely predicted by quantum mechanics). I just don’t think it makes any sense that we would be hanging around in the spirit realm in a form that in any way resembles what we are now in the physical realm.

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I cant find it anywhere, and in spotify they deleted old episode one by one. where can i find it?

I think the feed is limited to 100 episodes, but I’m trying to expand it to 10,000. I don’t know if/when the feed will reflect this change. You can, of course, listen to all episodes on this site. They’re listed in reverse-chronological order under the “Hierarchy Podcast” tab in the main menu of this site.

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I know you’ve played a big part but I’m wondering if there were people before you who made contributions, do you know of them? are they still active? 

Well, I have been in the process of transferring the entire Tumblr blog str8guy4fags2serve (since abandoned) to this site for preservation (link in sidebar). Written in 2013 by an unnamed Alpha, I consider that blog to be a true internet flashpoint for the increased understanding we have today. 
 
Other important early sites include Natural Hung Bull (Tumblr deleted), Straight Alpha Mike (deleted), Sir Titus (gone, but preserved here on this site), NYC_Alpha (now mostly findom as International Alpha), Greedy Findom (in the Dom/fag findom space), Follow Your Slave Heart (still producing content), and several important fag sites that were deleted long ago for various reasons.  
 
Preservation of these important sites and their groundbreaking messages has always been something I’ve taken very seriously. That’s part of why I’m still here today, so that I can keep the works and words of pioneers like these alive and vital and inspiring as they have proven to be to me.

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Hi Sam!
I am a complete fag, I love sharing my pussy and keep my clit locked away almost all the time. Before I started caging full time, my erect penis was about 7.5 inches and moderately thick, but now my cage is about 3 inches long and squeezes me very tight. I have been seeing a regular Alpha male and he brought something to my attention. He was topping me and got upset that my clit was still so big and asked me to cage smaller, but I can’t get myself to fit into smaller cages. No matter how much force I use, my anatomy will not allow for a smaller cage than mine now, I’ve tried so much! Is there anything I can do to fit into smaller cages? I tried icing my clit to shrink it, but the nub cages just won’t fit. I want a small, cute clit but I can’t squeeze into the cages and I’m not shrinking at all. I welcome any help! I’ve been caged for over a year and I don’t see it getting any smaller.

I’ve seen some dramatic changes occur in fag clits cages for long periods of time. You need to find the absolute smallest cage possible and stay in it 24/7. There should be shrinkage due to the lack of erections. Then you must keep reducing the cage. I don’t know if you’ll ever be able to fit into a nub cage – there are limits to the amount of possible shrinkage – but you should be able to get it smaller.

I would also add this: a secure Man wouldn’t complain about a faggot’s clit if it is locked. If he really can’t handle it, then wear a jock strap to hide it. I just think whining about something like that is a little pathetic.

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Hey brother Sam. I’m 21. I have a thing for older guys especially married guys in their 40’s. I have so far served three men with a wife and kids. Initially I had no qualms about serving a married guy. He later on felt guilty and ended it. The second guy his wife caught him and sent me a heartbreaking text message (she thought I was a girl apparently he labeled my contact as such in his phone). The third guy is very careful, we only meet in a rented room, he pays cash and so on. Recently I’ve been thinking maybe what I’m doing is just wrong! I don’t know but I’ve been feeling kind of shitty about it. Am I doing something wrong here?Am I destroying a family here? my initial thinking if it wasn’t me it’s someone else so it may as well be me! a guy who wants to fuck will fuck! I’d appreciate your input here. Thanks brother! 

Look, you don’t necessarily need to feel bad about servicing a married Alpha. He’s going to fuck around with someone else in order to get what he wants, right? You’re born to serve Men like him. So it works out. More often than no you don’t break up a family as much as you allow the Alpha to blow off steam so he can maintain his family.
 
But if it’s bothering you enough, then you should stop. You’re not under any obligation to keep going simply because you’re a faggot. 

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my alpha is 46. i’ve known him for a little over 11 years. His sexual stamina is clearly winding down. He used to fuck me (in addition to his longtime gf) an average of 10 times a month now he only fucks me once or twice a month and its been going on for a year now. I now alphas are men of great power but do they go through manopause? 

Well, it may not be something silly like “manopause” and actually be something medically more significant. Sudden reduced sexual stamina or drive can be an indicator of disease or hormone imbalances. He should probably see a doctor. 

if rape is a natural impulse, why is it outlawed? 

Well, primarily because females have a natural impulse to not want to be raped. In addition, beta males and society generally seek to reign in Alpha power and the Alpha impulse because it is threatening to the status quo.  Again, I\’m not advocating rape by saying this. It is not advocacy to say that most Men have the urge to rape, but they don\’t act on it for a variety of reasons. Only by admitting that the urge exists can we ever hope to properly understand it.

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Hello Sam. I asked you a while ago about the blunt approach. I’d like to share my experience using this technique. I’ve tried it on five different men. I got to suck off four! It really is an art. Be polite, ensure privacy, don’t be a creep, and be ready to deal with rejection. It works! it simply works! Most men are sexually frustrated and they’d rather have a fag suck them off than jerk off! I’m still working on my technique. Thanks for your words of encouragement!

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION from April (I think).

HAHAHA that is fucking AWESOME!!! Congratulations!

See? I know what I’m talking about!!

As I’ve said here a few times before, I have had around a 60% success rate on this approach over the years. Your batting average is higher than that (you bitch LOL) so keep going! I’m not surprised about the success, though. Your approach (as described) is a perfect replica of my method, and I know it works!

I’m so proud of you, my brother! Keep me informed!

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Hey,
I’m fairly new to this but I was curious your thoughts on like, how to introduce general kinks and fetishes as well as Alpha/fag things into conversations for hookups or relationships. Like we all know apps exist, but idk how to go from a nice conversation on Grindr (yes, shocking, but it’s happened … sometimes), to “please let me serve you however I can, I want to kneel before a Man” and all.
Like I’m sure that would be good for some guys, but if I were approached that way I might block them. So, any advice on how to gauge if they’d be into it and maybe ease them in?

My approach has always been a full-frontal assault (as you might imagine). I figure if it’s too much for them, then they aren’t the right person. Truly Alpha Men are not going to be rattled by anything a faggot might say to them.
 
But there’s also a better way to approach them, too. I am not an over-the-top faggot in my language to Alphas. I am always honest and direct, and I try to avoid fake-sounding language like the stuff you used as an example. I find simply stating, “I’m a faggot, Sir. I exist to serve Men like you” is far more effective because it engages the Alpha’s curiosity and imagination.  Stating that in your profile (if possible) is even better, because it weeds out the wafflers and the fakers. 

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sam thank you so much for creating this site. I am an older gay person that has been quite confused of what I really am. I managed to create a stable and happy gay relationship, but with time realising that the sex side has been somehow not interesting. the more I was reading the more I felt the need to submit to dominant men. However my husband has no interest in playing a dominant role, so I often submit to escort services. the more I read your site and the more I believe that in my sexual life I am basically a faggot. I wonder if among your reader there are many that are struggling like me. On one side I need and want to hold on to my wonderful relation, but on the other side,  it is getting more and more frustrating not to be able to really be and act as the faggot I really am. keep on with your real good work.

Thanks for writing! Yes, I’ve absolutely met many faggots (and some Alphas) in circumstances similar to yours. It’s heartbreaking that you cannot fully express your needs with your partner, but honestly, it’s unreasonable to expect that one person can be the entirety of another person’s life. This is especially true for Alphas and faggots on the most extreme ends of the Hierarchical spectrum.
 
Since you’re an older couple, perhaps the sex has taken a backseat to companionship. Maybe your partner wouldn’t mind you going into a service relationship with an Alpha. Have you discussed this? As always, it’s best to clear the air in situations like this.
 
If your partner refuses to accept this reality within you, I’m not sure about your next step. Are you at the point where you can simply accept keeping the security of the relationship and put aside your desire to serve? Or do you break it up in order to chase this dream? I can’t be the one to tell you that.
 
Just start with the conversation and see where it leads, brother.

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I am very verbal when being serviced by fags and cocksuckers and nothing seems to get me off better than referring to a little faggot as a girl when she’s sucking my cock.  There seems to be some that like it and some that object, at least at first, but that’s what I like.  Im not sure why I like it, it just makes me cum.  Any thoughts from fags or Alphas on this?  I don’t actually like women for sex,  but not only do I like calling fags little sissies and girls, and slip from saying “good boy” to saying “good girl” but I like making them act girly because I find it amusing even when it’s an otherwise masculine guy.  I love to make them wiggle their ass when they are on their hands and knees sucking.   And why isn’t there more porn like this?   I don’t mean full crossdressing porn or trans, its just some kind of fine line that I can’t quite explain. Part amusement, part humiliation, control maybe, and now I’m finding locked up fag clits to be very arousing as well as if its says,  “get this out of the way it’s not relevant here”.  Calling you a girl is what makes me cum.  Holding back and refraining from saying whatever I want is frustrating.  Any thoughts.  Others like this?

Thank you so much for writing, Master Jim, and for all of your input around here!
 
I can’t speak for every faggot, but I do think the majority of faggots have a deep desire to be that cute feminine sex object for an Alpha. This is particularly true if the Alpha is straight or straight-perceived. We want this because we know that femininity turns on straight Alphas, and we definitely want these straight Men to lust after us the way they do for women. 
 
I remember one time in my younger days I lost weight worked out aerobically until I was shapely and curvy like a female. I felt so sexy that I was literally naked all the time around my straight male friends (it drove them crazy) in particular, and I got fucked quite a bit in that shape. It was a wonderful experiment in pushing my femininity. However, it wasn’t something I wanted to push any farther than that.
 
I think it’s a hot way to play, though. It’s especially true regarding the phrase “good girl” for the same reason why it’s hot to call our hole a “pussy”. Feminization of faggots is yet another tool in the arsenal of control Men use.
 
Thank you Master!   

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As an old fag, may I hope a new owner?

This is being answered by one of the great background Alphas of this site, Master Jim.

Yes there is hope. I am assuming you might be 63 based on your screen name or 58 if you were born in 63? Recently I was in Puerto Vallarta and was serviced by an “older” ( and “old” is relevant anyway, by the way) faggot who was eager, good at doing its job, obedient, and not at all hesitant to obey. And while I love a beautiful faggy little twink or bubble-assed jock pussy as much as anyone, the fact is I’m still thinking about the hot, brief experience with this “older” faggot and wished I had made more use of him while I was there. To be honest, the younger and better looking a fag is the more difficult they tend to be. I’m constantly hit up by ‘bottoms” who proceed to “tell” me what “they” want me to do to them. Older fags have a better understanding of what the word “obey” means. One thing that is a huge turn off is a fag who hesitates when it’s given a task. If you’re on the floor and I say “lick my feet,” it’s not a question, or a debate. You don’t even need to ask how I want it done. You just do it. You’ll be given further direction if need be. I suspect that you know how to do your job and you know what is expected, that you don’t hesitate or whine, or tell men what they’re job is, and that is a valuable quality. I’m older, 57, and people, gay and straight, male and female, have been and will always be judged and dismissed based on age. And now the young men in their 20s are all on the “gym and substance use” bandwagon which didn’t used to be the case. A 50 year old is never going to look like a 25 year old who’s on test and deca. So we all use whatever talents we have, including the ability to expand our thinking of what “hot” is.
Personally as long you’re not obese, but just an average looking middle aged fag in decent shape with the right attitude, and you take care of yourself, keep yourself well groomed and presentable, you should still be in demand. But you have to understand that a 20 year old muscle boy is not going to want you unless you pay. They know what’s up now. So you may have to adjust your standards and expectations as well. Thats life. I would also add, being a San Franciscan for many decades, I know that in the fetish world for instance, you see all ages and body types because those folks understand that age and body type is not the end-all be-all but the correct attitude is everything. Good luck. A skilled, obedient faggot should always be in demand.

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Hi Fag,  I’m a 19 year old Dom from the UK, who owns a item long term, ive been interested in expanding my stables of items/slaves/pigs or whatever the runt wants to be called for a while now, but was told of an interesting concept. The slave I own currently, tells me that there are slave markets even to this day, where alphas like myself go to/get invited to bid on new items and ‘buy’ a slave. I was wondering if you knew any truth to this, and if so if there are any benefits from sourcing slaves this way, as opposed to the traditional ‘prey’ approach.  

Master, thank you for writing to me!
 
What an extraordinary Alpha Master you are! At just 19 years old you’re already owning faggots and are eager to expand your stable of owned faggots! Amazing! I would very much like to hear more about your story Master if possible! You can write to me at fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com … I’d love to get you on my podcast so we can discuss this in-depth!
 
Now, to your question: Yes, Master, there are definitely faggot auctions happening around the world. They remain one of the great underground secrets of affluent Alphas. As you know, Alpha Packs are a real phenomenon. What happens within an Alpha Pack is known only to other Alphas; inferiors are not privy to that information. This is how Alphas have conducted their business since the dawn of time because it consolidates power and protects the less acceptable desires of Alpha Males from becoming public knowledge. 
 
Faggot auctions are definitely something Alphas would prefer to keep on the “down low.”
 
I know of faggot auctions in California, Texas, and New York. California Alpha (one of the Alphas chronicled on this site) has been involved in cross-country faggot auctions where he has sold some of his faggots to Alphas in New York for hefty prices. Slave Tim (also on this site) has been to faggot auctions with his Owner involving a smaller Alpha Pack where they live. So yes, faggot auctions are alive and well in 2021, Master.
 
You ask a very good follow-up question regarding the better approach to faggot acquisition, and it really speaks to your advanced understanding and appreciation for faggot ownership, Master. I’ve actually placed a message to Master Jace (California Alpha) to get his perspective, and will update this once he responds. 
 
From my perspective, the hunter/prey method is ultimately going to result in longer-lasting faggot control and ownership, and likely more satisfaction for the Alpha as well. The difference can be summed up this way: which fish tastes better, the kind you buy at the store or the ones you caught, filleted, and cooked yourself? 
 
As an experienced Master, I suspect you chose the latter option. Every Alpha would. The hunting, capturing, and breaking of a faggot satisfies a deep need in both the Master and the faggot and creates a lifelong bond deeper than the mere exchange of cash and location. A faggot bought and sold like property at an auction has no particular allegiance to its new Master, but the faggot transformed by training into the personal property of a Man is completely allied and loyal to that Man.
 
Having said that, it’s clear that auctions work as well, or Alphas wouldn’t keep doing it. And perhaps for some Alphas the auction method is an easier way to acquire new faggot servants. As a 19-year-old Master, I’m sure the hunter/prey method is easier right now. But I’m sure it must be nice to know that there are these other exclusive options available for elite Alphas like you!
 
Thank you, Master!

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Hey! I’m a very young fag and I have been reading your blog. I love them and feel a very deep connection with the things I see. I just have a slight problem. I can’t buy a chastity cage (since I’m underage) and I find it very hard to stop myself from masturbating. I have thought of finding an alpha but I live in a very homophobic town and I am afraid of asking an Alpha to serve Him, as He might out me. I also struggle with finding alphas around me (in my school). Once again love your work, you’ve helped me find my true self.

Little brother, I appreciate you reaching out to me. I’m glad my site has been a help to you!

First of all, don’t worry about chastity cages and masturbation right now. You’re young, and you shouldn’t necessarily be stopping masturbation right now because that helps you to develop what you really want to find in your sexual life. Chastity is for the future.

Believe me, there are definitely Alphas around you in school. There are Alphas in every high school and college in the world. It’s not always easy to make offers in the pressurized environment of high school, but it can be done. Remember, these young Alphas are testosterone factories at that age, and worship and attention are very powerful tools of manipulation on Alphas.

So be complimentary, thoughtful, friendly. Offer to do simple tasks for them. You could serve as a homework faggot, for example. Or you could buy them something for their car (if they have one) or you could offer to clean it. Start showing up at sporting games and making yourself known to the players by being friendly and complimentary. Alpha packs on teams definitely talk to each other, and they’ll notice the little faggot in the stands who has a crush on them.

But most of all, don’t be in a rush. You have a lifetime ahead of you! Just take little steps forward while you keep learning about yourself and what you want. It’ll come, I promise.

Thanks again for writing little brother!

– sam the faggot

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I’m 19 and live in a dorm. I brought my gf back last weekend and my roommate was napping. After some kissing and playing with her clit I got her to let me fuck her right there. I was turned away fucking but my gf says she clearly saw him jacking off under his blanket. I’ve always suspected he was gay. I walk around my underwear or towel. I sneak up behind him in his desk chair and talk real close. We have about 4 more weeks til summer. I want to see if I can get him to suck my dick. He doesn’t like me so I think it would be funny if he would. He’s uptight so he’ll say no at first. How can I wear him down?

Sir, thank you for writing to me!
 
Let’s clear it up: this roommate is either a faggot or a beta cuck. Either way, your cock belongs down its throat. As Alpha, all inferior males should be forced into service to your needs and submit to you.
 
Both faggots and beta cucks view you in similar terms. Namely, you are a sexually-potent Alpha Male who humiliates them with your sexual power. They recognize you as superior. Serving you sexually fulfills them and/or their place in Hierarchy. 
 
With that established, what should you do, Sir? Since we are unsure of the sub roommate’s actual Hierarchical orientation, the best way to start is to simply drop your towel after a shower and tell this roommate to kneel and service you. Faggots will drop immediately. Betas might resist at first, but don’t let that throw you, Sir. Walk closer to the beta and try putting your hand on its head in order to force it to happen.
 
It might feel awkward, Sir, but believe me … as Alpha, you are capable of getting most inferior Men to submit to you.  After all, inferior males exist to serve you. So now is the time when you take this faggot and make it your property!
 
Please keep me informed of your progress and feel free to ask me anything at fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com. Thank you, Sir!

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Hello, big boy.
i’m a dom obviously and here is my situation
i have a friend i’ve known for years, and years ago i was the first guy he came out to. He trusts me and was his first crush, obviously back then i was lot dumber and should have taken the chance. But now since we still talk to each other and he dated alot (he’s a dom btw) but now every time I think about him or meet him I get a raging boner that says I should just fuck him right here. And turn him into my own little cock slut, he offered to suck me plenty of times but i’m looking for more than a half asses blowjob. So should I be blunt with him and tell him that I want him to be my own bitch and fuck his tight ass like there was no tomorrow?

Thank you for writing to me, Sir!
 
Yes, you probably made a tactical mistake by not acting in the first place. Alphas should never pass on any opportunity to take control of something, even if it isn’t going to lead anywhere particularly special. Taking those opportunities as they arise trains the Alpha to always seek control and power over people and situations.
 
However, I would say that everything is not lost, Sir. I’m sure your “friend” is still carrying a flame for you after all of these years. Why do I say that? Because our early crushes never really go away, they live on inside us as ideals. You were his ideal Alpha, and likely you still are. 
 
I’m curious as to why you refer to him as a “Dom” Sir. If he is dominant with faggots, he will likely still submit to you if you force the issue. There is a clear Hierarchy even among Alphas, and you would be acting as the Apex Alpha. Now it’s just a matter of you taking control of the situation, Sir.
 
I think you should make him kneel before you and admit to you what he truly wants. This technique of verbal confession forces the submissive to admit the truth with its rational mind (as opposed to sexual impulse). It forces the submissive to OWN IT so that you can OWN HIM.
 
I hope it goes well, Sir! Please let me know of your progress here or at fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com! Thank you, Sir! 

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Hi Sam,
Would you or would anybody recommend a specific cage that can be considered as one hundred percent inescapable? 

There is a chastity cage known as “The Vice” that is touted as virtually inescapable after two days of wear. I don’t have any empirical evidence that is true, but it might be the best option without requiring a Prince Albert piercing. It looks like this:

Hey there fag
im James I don’t necessarily practice Dom sub relationship kink with dudes . I do enjoy it with woman tho but lately I’ve been having the fantasies is off raping my roommate and I really wanna do it but how do I come off as a dom to him not just a normal dude who is raping him but someone who owns him and can do whatever the fuck he wants with him? Should I just do it? Or does it need to be consensual cause because honestly I don’t give a fuck when I do it with girls because they all know that  I’m the master and they are on my property and I’ve never had any complaints.

Thank you for writing, Sir! 
 
First of all, keep this in mind: whatever you do with females you can do with sub males – and much more. Males who submit to Alphas like you will quickly accept the Hierarchical reprogramming and their place in the natural order. It’s not even a matter of you needing to rape the sub male to take what you want from it – that is a given. You simply need to assert yourself.
 
What I suggest you do is you go up to your roommate and tell him to get on his knees. Push him down if necessary. Then you might want to use call-and-response to get your roommate to admit that it wants to serve you and submit to you. Then pull out your cock and make it smell your scent while you tell it “good faggot” and other reassurances. Work your way up to having it suck you and then you throat fucking it. 
 
If your roommate protests, you can use varying levels of aggression and force to get it to accept its place. That might be up to you in the moment, Sir.
 
Alphas have been forcing inferior males into submission and service since the dawn of time. It is probably one of the most natural dynamics we have as humans. The desire you have to rape your roommate is springing from that Hierarchical need Men like you have to dominate. It should not be suppressed or denied, Sir.
 
I would be very interested in the outcome of this situation if you accomplish it, Sir. You can write to me here or at my email address fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com. Thank you, Sir!

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Hi Sam. I’m a 28 years old faggot from Italy. On top of being a faggot I’m also a size queen, I’ve always have been orbiting around those true men who carry huge cocks and exhude superiority with every step. I have recently met this true man who’s a year younger than me at work: he’s sunny, confident, he enjoys physical contact, he likes to put his big hands onto other men’s shoulders, arms or back of the heads. He laughs a lot, he’s always similing and puts everyone around him at ease. He’s got strong big dick energy, and he’s not afraid of wearing tight pants (whether they are jeans or just regular pants) to show it. He’s got a huge, prominent bulge, and I would’ve sensed by the way he carries himself that he’s particularly hung anyway.
He and I started working on a project together a few weeks ago, and since then I tried as much as possible to serve him (by bringing him coffee or buying him breakfast, supporting him in his work, doing chores, letting him know how good he is at his job – he is, I would never lie, etc.), and he’s responding very well to it. He makes a lot of eye-contact and always speaks his mind.
I tried to test the waters with some of his colleagues and they told me he had a brief relationship with a woman a couple of years ago, but since then it appears he hasn’t dated anyone else, which I found odd considering how charming, attractive and masculine he is.
So my question is: should I come out to him as a faggot somehow, or try to make him understand how much I crave to serve him and how much I respect him? I don’t want to hinder how work relationship, because I really enjoy serving him at work and making his work life easier as much as possible… but his giant bulge and strong build are driving me crazy and I feel like I should at least try to understand if I can seize this opportunity.
What do you think?

Is this actually a question?? OF COURSE YOU SHOULD! Don’t waste even one more second! 
 
Start calling him “Sir.” I want you to ask him how long he’s known he’s Alpha. This is a compliment designed to trigger his understanding of Hierarchy. You’ll be able to discover a few things in his answer. Be observant when he answers. 
 
After that, if you feel comfortable enough, say something along the lines of, “I wouldn’t know what it’s like to be Alpha since I’m a faggot.” This is designed to take him off guard. He’ll laugh or be shocked, but your matter-of-fact statement will disarm him.
 
Try it. You might be surprised.
 
If you don’t do that, then at the very least you need to ramp up your gifts and compliments. You are THISCLOSE to getting this Alpha to consider using you.

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Have any of watched it? And do you think it is as good as the Zilv Rourke stuff, or do you think they should look for new day jobs?

Zilv has built an established audience on Pornhub, so it’s unlikely that he needs to get a job at a gas station anytime soon. I’ve seen a couple of clips they’ve posted on Twitter, and I’m not impressed. The new faggot is a slut in a cloying, please-look-at-me way that lacks the purity and charm of Rourke. I’ll never support anything they do, I know that much.

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Four years ago I was placed on medication that mildly affected my erections. When I had a change in dose last year, it became a more serious problem. I felt pathetic. I was still physically active and engaged as a leader at work, but there is just a weird void when getting hard or reaching orgasm is frustrated. I putzed around like eunuch. So, over the weekend I went to one of those websites to get generic Cialis. I liked the sound of that one because the effects last longer. Holy. Fuck. It’s not just that my libido came back but it decided it was a teenager again. I’ve worked with a lot of guys, usually combat veterans, who end up in this same situation and ED pills were probably the thing that saved their sense of dignity the most. During care plan meetings, the female providers and nurses would complain about that they were using too many of the pills, they were only supposed to have these on the weekend during their outings in the rehab program, blah blah. They just don’t get it. It’s not really a question but a mix of testimonial and advice to men who might stop taking anti-depressants, blood pressure meds, etc. because they feel emasculated. There’s a way out. It may be annoying to have another pill but you won’t regret it.

That’s a great experience, Sir! I’m glad you’ve found something that works and is restoring your confidence! Male pride is centered around their cock and their virility, and losing touch with that part of their Masculinity is often soul crushing. It’s nice to have a solution for that! Thank you Sir!

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Hello, sam, i’m a 20 years old master, and as the title says, there is a sub in my dms who keep asking me to be his master and begging to be drained, firstly he lied about his age which is 16 years old. He wants to be taught how to be a fag but i’m not an idiot nor a pedophile, since i asked some of my buddies i concluded that even staying as friends with him is morally wrong. Since i know the « friendship » for the sub will turn into something else. Did I do the right thing? Should I have accepted the sub even though he’s younger than me?

Sir, thank you for writing to me! I definitely think you did the right thing by pulling back from this underage faggot. I know your instincts probably tell you to take this faggot and shape it into something you’d like to own, but it’s best to wait until the faggot can legally give itself to you. Besides, I’m sure a young Alpha like you is not hurting for faggots, so why take the risk? I’m proud of you for your wisdom and maturity, Sir!

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Hi Sam, 
thanks for your fantastic and helpful blog!
i am a 55 years old german fag; have been a fag my whole life but unfortunately didn’t serve Alphas the whole time. Since november 2019 i served a straight Alpha early 40s for about 3 years. i did his chores, housecleaning, dishes, shopping and stuff like this. once in a while when his gf was on holidays i was lucky to suck his perfect dick – i loved it! He was in a way abusive, slapped my face, spit into my mouth, called me names and stuff like this – but i loved this too. The more he degraded me, the more i submitted and loved to work for him. Unfortunately he quit my service, because he moved together with his gf and didn’t want his chick to know. 
So i started to search for another Alpha; but this very difficult, because of my age and of covid. In addition, i live in a very rural area and there are not many contact opportunities here. Nevertheless, i have now met a young straight Alpha. He is 28 years old and it scares me a bit that he is so young. He has no experience so far in dealing with faggots. He is really shy and hesitant, which irritates me. i have to constantly push so that he comes forward and says what He wants. He often asks what i want and doesn’t know exactly how far He can go with me. Then He doesn’t get in touch for a long time or cancels appointments. i think He is afraid of his own courage and it hurts me very much to see that He, a nature Alpha, is so withdrawn because society has drilled into him to be “nice”. It looks to me like He\’s not allowing himself to be what He is by nature: a leader and command-giver, born to enjoy life and use losers like me to do so.
Now He has stood me up several times in a row and is also slow to respond to my text messages; sometimes He doesn’t answer at all.  i don’t know what to do. Should I look for another Alpha? Or should i continue to stick with Him? i’m uncomfortable pushing Him like this and sort of taking the lead. i feel like i’m not entitled to that. i have already suggested to Him that i do only little for him at first, e.g. just do the shopping and then leave it outside His door – that way He doesn’t have to interact with me much. But He has not responded to this suggestion.
Do you have any idea how i should proceed? What behavior of mine is appropriate? Thank you in advance.
Greetings fag Achim 

Brother, thank you for writing to me! Yes, this can be a very frustrating situation, mainly because you don’t know the real reason for his behavior (it could be a host of things). But, ultimately, you need to leave him to find the truth for himself. Alphahood cannot be forced or coerced; it’s either there, going to be there eventually, or will never get there. As faggots, we might be able to make suggestions if the Alpha is receptive to talking about it. This Alpha doesn’t seem like he is, so I would move on. Believe me, there are other Alphas who are definitely ready to use you!

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Hi Sam. My Alpha has been brutally throat fucking me for 2 weeks now. Hes usually calm and passionate but I’ve sensed a change in him. He doesnt talk to me anymore and like I said, hes ramped up the domination and even though i love it, I worry about him. This is not his norm. I will take his dick as deep as he wants it, but I’m so worried! I’m here to be his hole but hes so reserved about his emotions. Most Men are like this right? Will he ever tell me whats wrong? Should i just keep submitting to him cause thats what he needs right now? I really need advice. Thanks

This is always a tricky part of the job as a faggot. Like you indicated, many Alphas hide how they’re feeling and respond to situations in unexpected ways. We often must react to those mood swings without making them worse. Honestly, all Men want from faggots in those moments are complication-free sexual releases. We can be that for them if we remember our place.
 
I’m unsure how to best advise you to move forward here. You need to be very submissive and nonconfrontational with your Alpha. Maybe if you kiss his feet and tell him that you’re concerned that he is upset about something he might be triggered into opening up to you. I don’t know. 
 
A lot of the time faggots simply help an Alpha by being the object of his rage. Maybe he has a girlfriend/wife that is upsetting him … maybe the job is too much pressure … we cannot know and perhaps aren’t meant to know. Maybe your function in his life is as a form of punching bag rather than a counselor. 
 
 Just be grateful that he is expressing his true self with you at all! That’s most of the battle!

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Hi Sam
I’m a young 23 year old guy – I thought I was a faggot for a while, I even have a cock cage and like to wear it at times, but recently I topped a guy and I enjoyed it a lot – he wants me to do it again this week. I’m also a bit of a gym boy and I’m trying to bulk up a bit and the guy I fucked is a lot skinner and petite and it felt really good to be in control of himi. I think I still prefer bottoming (especially for older and more muscular guys) and love being called faggot and good boy when I bottom but I’m just wondering can a faggot be somewhat versatile depending on the guy? 

I do think it’s possible for some faggots to have “Alpha faggot” tendencies. I don’t see it often, though. You may just really like using your dick once in a while. I don’t think that means you’re not a faggot. I just think you got hold of a smaller faggot and wanted to manhandle it a little bit. No biggie. 

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Hi Sam,
Ive been reading your site for quite sometime and absolutely love it!
I feel though there is a missing level in your hierarchy between a beta male and a faggot.
By their respective definitions I dont feel I fit in either categories. Im too submissive to be a beta, but apparently not submissive enough because i dont engage in domestic or financial servitude.
Im working on removing any remaining limits as i dont believe i should have any. I want to serve how an alpha wants and needs to be served sexually even if that means doing things i dont like or enjoy (strictly in sex). Not how i fantasize or how i feel i should be serving.
Where would you put me in your hierarchy? Or do you see merit that there is a sub category between the aforementioned levels?
Thanks
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There are many different ways a sub male serves a Man as a faggot. To qualify as a faggot you are not required to do everything possible. For instance, a faggot can serve a Man just financially and still be considered a faggot. That’s why I don’t have layers in the faggot level of my Hierarchical pyramid. To separate faggots based on how many boxes they check off on their resume is a waste of time. They’re all faggots to Men.

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I admire you sense of fellow faggot brotherhood and how you take pains to give legitimate praise that way.  It’s a great boost in self esteem, both generous and smart.  Keep it up please, brother! Here is the question.  We are, aren’t we (fags, bottoms, cunts etc) by definition always the Lessers. compared to the Greaters?  We have that submissive mindset that goes with extreme bottoming.  Can the question of whether. or how much. we do or don’t align with women in this way still be avoided?  I somehow feel I haven’t  heard enough core stuff on that.  How do women feel about submission and is it different from the way we feel about it?   My women friends don’t seem to want to talk radically and intimately enough on that subject to me, so I guess I’m in the dark.  Can you shed light?   Let me try to put the question in a different way.    In your interviews with alphas there\’s always this big stress on the difference between real Men’s  relations with women and their relationships with us faggot males. Love and diminished sexuality for them, extreme sex and no love (usually) for us?  What gives here?   Women and faggots in my mind are both just cunts.  Can a male cunt really different that much from a female one?  We’re cunts.  For use by real men.  So why should real men or alphas make this difference between the way they do sex with us (extreme lust but not love) and them, women (love, but only moderate lust satisfaction) if us and women are really just the same if we\’re both just cunts.   What gives here?  Shed some light?   And with a slightly other twist, is this because of women’s liberation and feminism?  And if it is, well, how is it right for us to tell women they are wrong in wanting to be, or seem to be, equals with their men? Have any enlightening thoughts here on these two questions?

To answer your first question, females are not nearly as submissive as faggots even though they definitely should be submissive to Men. Almost all females like to imagine that they are equal complements to Men and deserving of equal amounts of power and status. They are wrong, and this stubborn attitude is often the cause of many of the issues between Men and women. 
 
Faggots give Men what they really want – worship.
 
So if that’s true, why do Men keep giving so much attention to females? The reason is simple – Men like the female form and its softness. They’re attracted to tits and pussy. Also, females afford Men the chance to express their romantic side. The vast majority of Men who use faggots are at least bisexual if not totally straight, so their interest in females is simply a matter of sexual preference. 
 
But, in the end, Men know where they can get what they really want. 

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Hello Sammy,
I am 24 and have been seeing an alpha for about a year and he recently got mad at me for pulling my pussy off his cock while he was fucking me. I was caged and it was an accident reflex and i meant no disrespect towards him, but he was upset and felt a certain way about it. As a punishment he wants to fist me and make me gape, which I have never done before and scared. I’m very tight and I know it’s going to hurt. His thinking is that it will teach me to be humble. He said I have 3 days to respond and I’m not sure what to do. Should I allow him to fist me to make up for what I did? Thank you for caring about fags!

Fisting seems like a bit of an overreaction to me, but I’m not an Alpha. It wasn’t like you pulled off his dick in order to stop sex. You were just adjusting yourself (as far as I understand it) and he came out of you just momentarily and accidentally. And what a weird punishment anyway. I kinda think he had this in his mind and this is how he wants to make you do it.
 
But listen – you don’t have to do it. Ultimately a faggot has a right to determine what happens to its body. I mean, if he wanted to punish you by sticking a red-hot poker in your eyeball, do you have to agree to it simply because you’re a faggot?? OF COURSE NOT. And here’s the other side of it – Alphas have a responsibility to discipline reasonably. He shouldn’t use his position to scar his faggots physically or psychologically. 
 
I would throw yourself on his mercy and tell him you cannot do this because you’re scared and you don’t want to be hurt. If he dismisses you, then he is not the right Alpha for you. Don’t worry – a quality faggot like you will find another, better owner!   

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Hi Sam,
I read an foreign article about that there is research going on, trying to come up with birth controll prevention (BCP) for males. We all know that today there is only BCP for females today. If the scientist predict it right, it may be on the marked in 2031. They say it’s of a equality perspective they’re doing it, females using BCP over so many years, while males have had it much easier, only needing to use condom. 
What are your input on this? Would this be an element that would benefit the alpha/faggot scene? Who in your opinion should be on/use them? Even though biologically it’s an impossiblility, but playing on potent fertility is how I interpret it would enhance the experience between an alpha and a faggot. 

I haven’t heard of birth control pills for Men. I’m absolutely sure they will never use such a medication. Men take virility very seriously … it’s a point of pride to be potent. They’d much rather use a condom or the “pull out method” for birth control concerns.
 
I don’t personally see how such a thing would affect the dynamic between Alphas and faggots, honestly. Alphas use faggots for a variety of reasons that have nothing to do with pregnancy already. And that will continue unabated or unchanged forever.

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When I was younger I used to fuck around a lot which often included being submissive. I was never truly an Alpha’s fag, but that idea always turned me on. But for the last four years I’ve been in a relationship that’s been monogamous so far but he’s not against opening it up. He’s great and knows that I like being called a faggot and being submissive, but he’s not really an Alpha, so recently I’ve been feeling a much stronger urge to lean into my faggotry and serve Alphas, but I don’t know if I can do both that and stay with my boyfriend. Half of me wants to be a total faggot, but the other half of me is too scared to lose my boyfriend and my current life in general. Do you have any advice for my situation?

I’ve always been of the opinion that service to an Alpha is too consuming and will eventually destroy the relationship if you attempt to do both. I’ve never seen or experienced a successful execution of service to both an Alpha and a stable relationship. Maybe you’ll be the first, but I’m not optimistic about your chances.

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Hi, I have what might be kinda a strange question. What do you think is the reason we fags exist? I know our purpose in life is to serve men, and while that might make their life nicer and easier sometimes, the way I see it we are not really needed. The world would go on even if we didn’t exist. I used to think we were created by God to serve his most perfect creation, but that was before I lost my faith. And while I believe in evolution I feel like fags serve no evolutionary purpose. I know I shouldn’t bother wondering about these things, but my life as a fag has been very difficult at times and I often wonder why I had to be born a fag, and why I couldn’t just be born a regular straight guy. Sorry for my rambling.

That’s a deep question, brother, and it makes for an interesting thought experiment. There really isn’t a way to be sure of why faggots exist, but here’s how I tend to look at it: Nature is all about balance. It’s constantly seeking equilibrium. So when we think about the supremacy of Alphas, nature would of course design a perfect counter-balance to that in the form of their direct opposite: faggots. The overpowered dominance of Alphas is diluted and soothed by the depths of faggot submission. Does that make sense?

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Hi Sam! It’s me, Sam again.
Lately, I’ve been trying to serve men the best way I can, but I think I’m having trouble with that. Every time I approach someone to serve, in any way, I do the job, he gets happy and I get too, but when the time passes I get really ashamed of myself, of all I’ve been doing. So I hide, I try to forget about it, I try to pretend I’m a real man but the need of serving calls me back. How do I stop feeling ashamed and embrace my place in the hierarchy? I just want to be a full time faggot who serves men not just for a night, but for a lifetime. 
Thanks for your time! 

Hi brother. Yours is a problem with mindset. Use meditation to boost your appreciation of your service opportunities after you’ve finished with a session. Think to yourself how awesome it was that you got to serve a great Man. Really mull it over and let it sink into your heart. It is a tremendous privilege to be able to serve at all!

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There is a younger alpha in my workplace.  I’ve always been crazy for him.  He needed a huge, career building favor and was getting the runaround. I’ve been in this organization a long time.  I know how to make shit happen.  It worked.  He wrote me this effusive email back in which he called me ”sir” twice.  It’s a sign of respect and gratitude, but I have to confess that it hurt me for him call me that. I did this for him because he deserves it not because I’m some domineering figure who can make important people do things, although I am good at that.  I hope as he climbs in this organization he will take his natural spot.

Brother, I know how you feel! That’s especially been happening more with me as I’ve gotten older. Let’s face it – we aren’t little boy faggots anymore. People are taught to show respect and decorum around older males, which in any other context is a good thing. 
 
I have actually used these kinds of things to introduce Hierarchy. I will usually inform them that I should be the one calling them Sir since they are Alpha and I am not. In true Alphas this twist intrigues them because it rings true. I’m not saying that it leads to service in every case, but when done with the right Alpha it certainly can!

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Realizing need to serve and be used by men, but in my 40s. Is it too late to start approaching alphas, or any tips you might have specific to older faggots?

Not at all, brother. Alphas can make use of faggots at any age. I know of faggots in their late fifties and sixties who are serving! Just get yourself ready and submit!

What is the discord server!  Or fix your damn links,  they open discord but not to your server faggot.  Such a waste of my fucking time even sending this email.

Sir, try this: https://discord.gg/7ffvQbvdXu

hi sam. does the blunt approach work? like saying to a man hey i would love to suck your cock, does that ever work? a fag brother of mine told me he’s had quite a bit of success with it he said the trick is to do it in private where the man wouldn’t feel threatened or embarrassed. your thoughts? 

Brother, yes your fag friend is totally right! The blunt approach does work! As I’ve said many times on this site, I’ve had somewhere in the neighborhood of a 60% success rate using the blunt approach. This is one of the most feared and most ignored methods of Alpha prospecting. Faggots foolishly talk themselves out of it.
 
I would add this to your friend’s advice: not only get them alone or in a private place, but you also want to approach them in a submissive yet nonchalant manner. They need to feel COMFORTABLE. A drooling, panting, nervous faggot will make the Alpha uncomfortable and he will reject the offer. Sound like a buddy offering thoughtful help. 

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Hi Sam, longtime reader here. A couple years ago in college through one of my roommates, I met this beautiful potential Alpha. 6’4″, straight with girlfriend, sweet, masculine, chiseled jaw, and fucking BUILT. Seriously, you can literally smell the testosterone coming from him. I feel like my life has changed, as all I want to do is submit to him and serve him like the God he truly is. I want to bask in his scent. I want him to use those huge arms to crush and destroy me. I want to make him dinner, clean his apartment, grab him a beer, and service him until he’s satisfied. He likes to eat meat and go shooting at the range. He’s a little dumb, but that’s where the sweetness comes from.
 
So he’s been a friend of a friend all these years and unfortunately, I had a falling out with the mentioned old college roommate (he and the Alpha are best friends). Old college roomie is leaving the state for grad school soon and I think I can take advantage of this opportunity. Me and the Alpha have never been “friends” since we only see each other at parties or when he visited the roomie. But he likes me and I’ve got his number so at least I’m not starting from nothing. We have a big size difference (I’m a short slim guy) and I think he likes to play on it. Every time hes hugged me he holds me very warm and caressingly, not like a friendly hug but a romantic hug. That’s all just fun and games though.
 
I very vividly remember one time the three of us (me, old roomie, Alpha) were hanging at old roomie\’s place and the Alpha was leaving but I was staying the night. He got up and announced his leaving while I was lying on old roomie’s bed. I reached out my arms to motion that I wanted to hug him goodbye and HE FUCKING LIED ON TOP OF ME MISSIONARY STYLE, WITH ALL HIS WEIGHT, AND AFTER 3 OR SO SECONDS HE JOKINGLY HUMPED ME REALLY QUICK. I am so happy I didnt moan or something and was able to play it off cool, but my god. I will never forget that moment. I think it was 5 humps/thrusts. All of his weight on me. Holding me missionary style. Life changing experience.
 
Another time we were both at a Halloween party with some mutual friends and he was getting super drunk. I think he was finishing an entire 30 rack by himself? What a Man. Anyway, further into the night I found him and asked him if he was having fun. He kinda just stared blankly at me, he was definitely wasted. Then he grabbed the back of my head, pulled me in and kissed my forehead. When he let me go, he still just had that blank expression on and I was a bit speechless but managed to blurt something out and left the room. Mind you he did this in a room full of people (who were probably also drunk lol).
 
So now I’m thinking about the future, since him and I wont ever see each other or talk at all once my old roomie leaves the state in a couple of months. I think I\’m going to “accidentally” text him, play it off cool, and then invite him to my new apartment that I’ll be moving in soon. I’ll offer food and beer, and just talk and stuff since we’ve never hung out ourselves. I have to handle this very carefully. I’m so nervous I’m gonna fuck it up. I probably will. Or maybe he’s not even interested. But I have to do this. Fulfill my ultimate purpose in life to serve him, a living God and epitome of manliness. Theres also his girlfriend to think about, they’re kinda serious but no real future goals. I dont wanna be a homewrecker, but that wont stop me from offering myself to him, especially maybe some domestic service duties I can do.
 
What do you think of my experiences with him? I call him “The Beast”. I literally worship this giant, beautiful, unbelievable man. I’ll let you know how it goes in a couple of months. Do you think I have a shot?

Thanks for that epic question! LOL
 
I would say this guy IS Alpha, not a “potential” Alpha. And he does sound like the prototypical fraternity meathead Alpha type, too, which can definitely be to your advantage. Spoiler alert: frat guys love faggots. We are weaker and submissive and we allow them to flex their energy and power in fun and flirtatious ways. They can act as inappropriately as they want with us because they know we love it.
 
First of all, you’re going to need to stop hiding your gay/faggot truth in this situation. It’s time for you to stop being afraid and just embrace yourself. This is a timed thing and you can’t afford to miss an opportunity because you’re too afraid to act because things aren’t perfect.
 
I suggest you get him over to your place for some sporting event. Or, if you know where he works, you might be able to weasel your way into asking him to get a drink or two. This will need to be a full service offer, meaning you are going to be making food or buying everything. I would get a few drinks in him, and then maybe bring up the humping episode as a “hey, remember that time you …” kind of story. If he gets apologetic, you plainly say something like “Sir, you don’t need to apologize. That’s how faggots should be treated” or something similar. Make it nonchalant, like it’s no big deal. This will make him curious, rather than off-put.
 
If/when he asks questions, simply explain the natural order to him in plain, “no big deal” terms. The truth of Hierarchy is so powerful and so obvious when laid out that way logically to an Alpha that it becomes undeniable. 
 
From there you just follow his cues and calmly assuage his fears. Once you get to that point, the rest of the manipulation is self explanatory.
 
Now, you could use my book in this situation, but I’m not sure if he’s much of a reader. This is something that you can cause to happen through skill and perseverance. But it CAN be done, though. Definitely think about what I’ve described and keep me posted. You really shouldn’t wait to lay the groundwork for this one. You gotta really find the right bait in order to land the biggest fish!

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Lately I’ve been reflecting on when I really knew I was a faggot. I guess I’m interested in knowing if there are more fags that realized it as early as I did. 

Even when I was as young as 9/10 I fantasized about smelling and licking men’s feet. At that age I would sneak into the closet to sniff my grandpa’s shoes. Fantasize about drinking piss at the urinal. These fantasies were before I even know about the fetishes. 

Yes, many faggots experienced these feelings at that age. I’m one of them. I had a huge crush on a boy in sixth grade named George, and I remember being attracted to his feet and the way he walked. 

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I scored a 17 on the faggot test (in the book “Are You A Faggot?“). I do not have the quality of neglecting my dick and not wanting to fuck. I like fucking girls and guys. But I have a big weakness for size difference and big feet. Am I a true faggot or should I forget about that lifestyle and just keep doing what I’m doing?

I would say you’re probably not a faggot. You’re probably a beta male with some sub tendencies. 

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Dear Sam, I am fascinated by chastity and cages, and I plan to find a Master who cages me permanently because I feel it’s the right thing to do. I would like to give up cumming completely and for good, as I think that kind of pleasure must be felt by Men only. I understand though that for health reasons it is advisable to be ”emptied” from time to time. Is there a way to get emptied without feeling the slightest pleasure? I would hate feeling pleasure, it would be like betraying the Master and the chastity philosophy. Please let me know what you think!

Brother, yes there is a way to expel semen without an official orgasm. The process is called “milking”. You or your Alpha can insert a finger into your anus and feel forward until you find the prostate. Then you press on the prostate, which will then allow semen and seminal fluid to be released. This can sometimes be pleasurable, but most of the time the faggot feels nothing but a slight pressure in the area. 

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Hi, 
i am a slave to a completely superior dominant Master, who is definitely gay. i exist to serve Him. Am I also a faggot? 

Yes you are the walking, talking definition of a faggot.

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Hello Sam 
Thank you so much for the wonderful material and excellent website you provide through the great work! 
I am Billy, 48 years old faggot from Europe. I am a total faggot and aware of it. I serve a younger Alpha male on a regular basis. He is 30  and happily partnered to a long-time boyfriend. So secrecy and discretion add some horny feelings to our interaction. He controls my body and mind. I am happy to be caged for Him and to meet Him in luxurious hotel rooms which I pay of course. He refuses to be called a Findom which is totally right as the money I spend is invested  for common pleasure and mutual benefit.
So till recently I was glad and proud that a handsome young guy got interested in educating an older faggot. Moreover we had some social interaction as well. No friendship really, just a perfect match faggot-master. 
Unfortunately, when He told me about adopting a kid with his partner in order to found a nice family,  my clit suddenly stopped to move and my devotion and obedience faded away.  I couldn’t connect the idea of my Master, strong and superior man used to arrogance and strict attitudes with the picture of a loving daddy… It blocked me at any level of submission. I was used to swallow his loads and drink his piss… I was used to give Him massage and proper devotion.  All that new ‘adoption kid story’ made my submission collapse. I’ve asked Him for a break to reflect on the situation. I’m a true faggot and I only perceive Alphas as agressive and lonely leaders not involved in baby caring ! I am very sad about my feelings and am thinking more and more of terminating this relationship as my inner sexual identity is to serve superior males,  but not respectful heads of families… 
 
Thanks a lot for reading – faggot billy

Brother, that’s a shame you feel that way. A family is nothing more than a small society, and Alphas lead families just like they lead societies. You’re allowing your ALPHA FETISH to overwhelm and destroy your ALPHA SERVICE. What an incredibly sad thing.
 
Our most powerful Men have deep needs to procreate, raise children to carry on their name and legacy. Gay Alphas, of course, can’t make children by natural means, so adoption or surrogacy is the answer to satisfy that desire. It doesn’t make him less of a Man for having that desire, it makes him MORE of a Man.
 
The fact that you can only see your fetish version of an Alpha rather than the true Man is something very misguided. You are going to throw away service to an amazing younger dominant Alpha because he suddenly doesn’t meet up with your exact fantasy? Think about how sad that sounds!
 
You seriously need to think about what you’re doing. You have only a few cards left in your hand at this stage of your fag life … I suggest you wield them with much more care and thoughtfulness. 

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Hi Sam, I’m Néstor and I’m 15 years old, mexican.
Let me describe myself first, as the title says, I’m a quite short (just 5’3ft), white and skinny faggot. Unfortunately my dick’s 6 inches when hard (when soft it’s small hehe), I just wish it was smaller, tiny! What can I do to solve this? because I know real alpha men prefer clits than cocks around my size!
Also I was wondering if we’re, short faggots, more appreciated among horse-cocked tall alphas because our leak and feminine height, are we?
I haven’t been fucked yet but I want a tall horse-cocked alpha to take out my pussy’s virginity (which is quite pink and really, really tight like I just can barely put one of my thin fingers in :P)
And, if I get an alpha master, how do I please him correctly?

Hi little brother! I wouldn’t worry about your little dick, but if it bothers you, putting it in chastity will shrink it. As for being tiny, YES Alphas love little eager faggots like you! They like tossing you around and picking you up like a dog with a chew toy!

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I wrote a while back how I did a really stupid thing and deleted my alphas contact info. Your advice to go to his place and beg for forgiveness worked. I left a note on his door that I was down the street and begged to see him for a few minutes. He texted me and I went to his house. We stood in the door way and I told him everything, all my mixed up angry feelings I was having and owned my bitchy stupidity. I confessed the deep struggle I have with fully submitting to my fate as his faggot and the fear of loosing manhood as I enjoy being the sissy faggot he knows I am. I admitted how much I love the feeling of being used by him. I told him how my desires have shifted to wanting a man inside me in order to feel sexually satisfied. I apologized and reaffirmed that I’d do whatever he says and won’t act so impulsive again. 
He pulled me into his arms and held me, I melted. He said how what I told him pleased him and turned him on.  I said I’d do whatever he wanted. 
He made me strip in front of him, kneel and tell me it all over again. As I did he pulled out his big beautiful cock snd started to stroke it in front of my face. I instinctively tried to take him in my mouth but he pulled back. He told me that to keep going and stroked himself in front of me more. He said he wanted me to see what I could have lost and if he was happy with my contrition he’s let me swallow his cum. Well he believed me and shot his alpha load into my open mouth telling me I was lucky. I was both slightly humiliated but felt so good that I have him back and got a mouthful of his alpha seed.

thanks for your advice!

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION from last month.

Well how about that? I got one right! LOL
 
I’m very proud of you for humbling yourself before this great Alpha, my brother. It’s never easy. But you should be grateful to serve a true Alpha like your Master, a Man who can accept the failings of his faggots and knows how to use his power to realign your thinking! 
 
And let me just add that I LOVE when Men do things like your Alpha did with the tease. It’s an instinctual training exercise Men seem to deeply understand. They know their cock has ultimate power, so they utlize that power to hypnotize the weak into obedience. Fucking LOVE IT!
 
I thank you for sharing your reconciliation! Stay humble and serve this Alpha with all of your heart from now on!

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Hello Sam, I am a 26 year old fag from Mexico who is very eager to enter service. Maybe you recall I contacted you about Master Jace from Virginia. I talked to him but since we’re far away, there’s not much of a possibility. I really need your help. I have been following your advice to find a true alpha to serve. I have offered some athletic str8 friends to suck their cocks but they’ve refused. I’ve offered them service in other ways, such as meals or other favors. They’ve accepted that but strictly refused to feed me their dicks. I’ve tried grindr and online chats with no success.  Do you happen to know some Alphas from Mexico? Caribbean Zone to be specific. Or any effective way to find young str8 alphas? Any other idea or suggestion? Maybe a US/Canada alpha willing to sponsor my trip? I would be paying back with extra service. PD. Will discord be back? Or any other chat? Thanks. 

Brother, I’m very impressed by your courage and persistence! That’s how you are going to be successful in your search!
 
I wrote “May I Serve You, Sir?” to help Alphas to understand the uses of faggots. I have it in Spanish too, which mich be of help to you. 
 
I don’t know any Alphas in Mexico, but given that this site has a fair amount of traffic you might get lucky here. You can also join the new Discord server and talk to others around the world: https://discord.com/invite/FSQMG5ww53.

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I want to start breed my faggot, by now I only feed it. In Mexico is not easy to get PreP. So , Can I start breed it with only with HIV test ? I would like to be safe before fuck him with out condom. What others blood test do you suggest?

Sir, thank you for writing! I’m glad you want to start breeding your faggot! There’s nothing more powerful than breeding a faggot and pumping your seed into its bloodstream, taking away its masculinity and converting it into your possession!

Yes, you can definitely breed it after you get an HIV test done, Sir. Have the faggot do the same, of course. Once those tests come back clean, you can breed it as much as you’d like without a condom. There possibly isn’t a need for any other tests unless you suspect the faggot might have gonorrhea or syphilis or some other transmissible sexual disease, although you’d likely see the symptoms of those things if the faggot was infected. If there is any doubt, I recommend a general screening.

But anyway, I’m sure you’ll be fine to breed your faggot, Sir. I think you will find breeding to be a much more pleasurable and fulfilling experience than even feeding it has been for you, Sir! Please let me know how it goes! Thank you, Sir!

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Hi faggot brother,
Sam, I finally gave in completely to my alpha top that I have been talking to for several months. He lives near me and wanted to put me in chastity and make me a faggot, I resisted a lot and never let him cage me because I love having access to my dick. I finally gave in about 2 weeks ago and let him cage me, and yesterday he put me on the bed and gave me a deep breeding. It has completely changed my life! In that moment when he was fucking me, I felt my mind opening up and every became clear. I never understood chastity until this moment, I’m so grateful for it, I have purpose now! By hiking my orgasm, I am broadening his horizon and allowing him to be the Alpha he needs to be.
I cried afterward and was so moved emotionally, I can’t describe what happened exactly. He held me all night and we are a pair now! Is it normal that I cried? I’ve never been an emotional person like that, but I felt so happy and feminine and beautiful, I can’t describe it. I am a different person now.
Thank you for this podcast, thank you for making me understand!

Little brother, this is one of the most beautiful messages I’ve ever received. So heartfelt and sincere! I’m grateful to have helped you along in your journey to this glorious moment!
 
I think your Alpha cunted you, brother. I can’t be 100% sure, of course, but your emotional transformation and subsequent crying indicates to me that he cunted you. These are all signs of cunting.
 
That’s what makes cunting so different from anything else. It truly transforms a faggot from the inside. I do (now) think that chastity has a lot to do with being cunted. Chastity prepares a faggot’s mind and heart, forces it to accept its rightful place as a possession of Men. This has the effect of opening up the faggot like a flower; its pussy then becomes the focus of its desire. So when an Alpha fucks a caged faggot’s receptive pussy, it is able to be cunted much more readily.
 
Your Alpha must be very powerful and wise. He seems to understand the process of faggot preparation and cunting. He also understands the importance of aftercare, especially after cunting. He knows that his powerful arms and his Alpha scent calms the cunted faggot curled up next to him. 

I am so glad to hear that this happened for you, my brother! I hope you will share this with your Alpha so that he understands how extraordinary he is! I’d love to talk to him (and you) if possible. My email is fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com

always,
~ sam the faggot

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Hey Sam! My name is Sam too!
Recently, I’ve accepted myself as a true faggot and started working on it. Thanks to this website!
But I have to confess that it’s been hard not jerking off every day, I don’t enjoy it, I don’t like doing it, I hate cumming but it’s like I couldn’t stop edging. I started searching about chastity for a while now and it’s really something I would like to try, to be locked for months and months, forget about my useless clit, to be a full-time faggot. But at the same time it turns me on, chastity has been something that really scares me. I’m almost buying my cage and I still have some questions: will it make my penis smaller or damage it in any way? Is it visible under normal clothes? When my penis tries to get erect will it hurt? And what’s the best type of cage to start? I would like to put a really small cage but I’m afraid it won’t fit, most of the time my soft penis it’s really really small and it looks like the smallest cage would be the best choice, but sometimes my soft penis gets bigger and it might not fit.
Lastly, I’m so thankful for this website and your work! Since I discovered it, I’ve been accepting and understanding myself more and more. I used to think I was a top, now my dick doesn’t even get fully hard anymore, I can’t wait to be fucked with my useless penis in its cage!

Congratulations brother! I’m proud of you for taking this step!

Yes, your penis will shrink with extended caging. That’s due to no longer being able to achieve a full erection. There is no permanent damage from chastity. When you get hard in the cage, there could be some pain from the cage pulling on your balls. Of course this is useful, because it discourages erections.

You should milk yourself occasionally to promote prostate health. Other than that, chastity is an excellent tool to guide a faggot’s journey!

Congratulations again, brother!

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Alpha Ren back here. I appreciate your answer, fag. I do understand the legal implications and the unhealthy mental issues that rape may cause, but I can’t help but keep on raping fags, it so fucking good and they always end up liking it and begging for more. I just can’t control those inner urges. So, in order to not do it with women, I do it with fags. I decided to keep my girl unaware about it and to continue demanding my right to rape fags, at least I keep them close to me and take good care of them to make them feel somehow important to me and for them to understand the importance of rape to the hierarchy.

This is a follow-up to THIS CONTROVERSIAL QUESTION about a straight Alpha who enjoys raping faggots. 

Thank you for writing again, Sir. As you might imagine, your original question caused a bit of controversy behind the scenes here, with a few Alphas expressing disgust with the ask – and several faggots telling me how hot your question was. This schism in perspective is one of the main reasons why I never shy away from controversial issues like this one, because faggots and Alphas have WILDLY different viewpoints on it.
 
I thank you for giving my advice some serious thought, and I appreciate your honesty, too. I respect your position on the subject, Sir. Your faggots obviously love being rape objects for your inner rage. I’d love to talk to one of these faggots if possible, Sir. I think it would be fascinating to get their perspective on the way you’re using them.
 
Again, I’d like to simply thank you for your breathtaking honesty and thoughtful consideration, Sir. Alphas who are willing to speak in an open, unfiltered way about their true feelings are sorely needed in this ongoing discussion of an important topic!
~ sam the faggot 

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I was not aware of the term cunting, or the second anal ring, until I read this site a few days ago.
Last year, before lockdown, I was fucked by a gay man with a 7 inch penis, he only meets men who are married to a woman if they agree to take it bare, and accept a brutally hard deep fucking, to teach them a lesson
The session was intense, and brutal, the most painful anal I have ever taken, it affected me mentally, made me question myself, but I returned for more abuse a week or so later, just before he stopped meeting because of the virus. I have always thought of myself as a beta bisexual, but am now questioning whether I am actually a faggot?
My question is, have I been cunted without knowing? Is it likely he penetrated my second anal ring, and will this now become the kind of fucking that I need to accept?

I don’t think you’ve been cunted because, if you had been cunted, you wouldn’t be asking that question. Cunting is a singular and inescapable event that has unmistakable effects when it’s happening. If you’re questioning it, then it hasn’t happened yet.
 
I think there is an emotional component required for a faggot to be truly cunted. The faggot needs to welcome the experience of its Alpha’s power and open itself up to it. Physiologically-speaking, this opening relaxes the muscles of the second ring and makes it easier to really penetrate it effectively. This is my own theory, though, and I don’t have any medical evidence of it.

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My husband and I just recently discovered that we have a fag and alpha sexual relationship, we’re experimenting at the moment with it, it doesn’t really extend to the point of a domestic fag or anything, more so anything sexual, for example if we’re watching a movie or I’m playing a game, i can ask for whatever i want with no expectation of return. I guess my question is if there’s any advice moving forward about a balanced dynamic as well as how to extend the alpha/fag relationship to more than just a blowjob or sex, but not as far as domestic fag or something. Hope it makes sense.

Thank you for writing, Sir! It’s exciting when established couples discover these natural roles lurking beneath the surface of what seemed to be a mutual relationship! Ultimately they’re inescapable!

I do think you might be trying to be too careful with this burgeoning situation, Sir. You want this, but not this … you should just let feelings dictate what is natural, rather than impose expectations upon it.

Try putting your faggot partner into chastity. Have it worship your feet. Have it take a larger share of the domestic duties. Have it sit on the floor at your feet after it serves your meal. Give it commands at random moments. Have it kneel before you and tell it that you own it and that you are proud to own a faggot like it.

Here’s what I want you to try to do: treat your faggot partner like a beloved dog a Man like you might own, and not as your equal (because your partner is not an equal). It’s time to shift the dynamics here into something that more closely resembles the truth at the center of your relationship, Sir.

I hope you understand my meaning, and that I’m not offending you, Sir! Please keep me informed on the progress, Sir! Email me anytime!

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Hi Sam, I am currently locked in chastity and was curious about long term effects of chastity on faggot clits? Will they get smaller over time and will it be impossible to get an ”erection” in the future? Any other potential effects over time?

Faggot clits definitely do get smaller as the length of time in chastity increases. However, it’s not permanent; if you’re released from the cage, your erections will stretch the dicklet back out. In terms of overall health, it’s wise for the faggot to be milked regularly in order to maintain prostate health. 

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I have finally totally submitted this week to my  two Alpha business partners.  The one is very difficult and mean towards me his cousin the other Alpha that I work out with every week is very supportive and helpful towards me.   He acts as the buffer between me and the 1st one   I feel they are acting as good cop and bad cop in my training.   I haven’t felt better but wish there was more open conversation But they do not seem to wish conversation about it.   I would love this to grow into a situation with domestic discipline

I’m not sure I fully understand the situation you’re describing. How exactly have you submitted to your two business partners? What is the dynamic between the three of you in this business? Are they straight or gay? I really don’t know how to answer this. I would say that offering domestic service could lead to getting that opportunity. 

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May I thank you for providing such an impressive resource for both Alpha Males and faggots. I was given the site address by a fellow faggot in a chatroom on the silverdaddies.com website. I have several questions which you can hopefully help me with over time. I’m married to a woman, happily, but with no sex at home. Although I don’t think I’m gay, for the last 6 or 7 years I have had sex with men only, with me in a bottom role, I am also very submissive naturally, in all aspects of life. First question, the term faggot, I often use it to describe myself because the “feel” of the word, and it’s connotations, best describe how I think of myself, however, I used the term in a gay chatroom the other day, to describe myself only, and it caused some offence. I can see why the word is distasteful in the wider “normal” gay community, is there a better word to describe myself in such situations, but still let people know that I am indeed a faggot, without upsetting gay men? Or should I just keep my mouth shut and let them work it out

There is an almost violent reaction against the use of the word “faggot” these days. It can get you banned from many social media platforms (I was just banned from Instagram again for using it, and I’ve been banned by Tumblr and Twitter MANY times for using the word). It’s almost a witch hunt by PC crybabies.

Here’s the real issue: the word faggot has REAL POWER. True faggots crave to be called by that word, and Alphas feel even more powerful when they use the word and see its effect on their slaves.

I have used this site (in part) to permanently defend the use of the word faggot, because in Hierarchical terms the word is almost essential. I want to normalize the use of the word much the way black people have normalized the use of the word “nigger.”

“Faggot” is the word used to describe extremely submissive gay bottoms who serve straight and gay Alphas as slaves.

Calling someone a faggot simply acknowledges its Hierarchical function. Men might use the term in a derogatory sense, but true faggots view it as a validation.

I will never shy away from the word. I embrace it. I’m proud of it, and you should be, too.

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I (19 yo fag) have my first Alpha (41 yo) who is fucking me regularly now that I’m caged and He has the key. Your podcast has been critical to my journey and I am very grateful to you Sam! So he uncages me when we fuck and said it is ok for me to cum as long as I don’t get fully hard, otherwise he will cage me back. I don’t typically get hard all the way anyways, more of a stiffness and not a full dicklet. He seems to be very pleased and enjoys seeing it move as he fucks me. Is this ok? Should I recommend to keep my clit caged completely and refrain from orgasm to show commitment? He likes to see me cum, it’s confusing.

Yes, that is confusing. I would approach him and ask him if it’s that important to him that you are uncaged. Tell him you feel uncomfortable out of the cage. I can’t imagine he’d have that much of an issue with keeping you locked up if you really wanted that.

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Hi. For most of my life I thought I was just a regular gay guy, but last year I discovered my inner faggot and now I am afraid I have let it take over my whole life. It scares me how much I love it when the Alphas I serve verbally and physically abuse me. No matter what they do to me or make me do, I am just happy to be able to serve and worship them. I have never been so happy as when I am on my knees serving a man. The problem is what started as a harmless fetish has started to affect the rest of my life. Any spare time I have I use to search for any and all men who is willing to let me serve them. I’ve ended up neglecting my job, family and friendships, and since I have a problem resisting Alphas who want to cashrape me, my personal finances has also taken a hit. But I’m afraid none of that matters to me when I’m on all fours groveling at some Alphas feet. I try to control myself, but it almost feels like an addiction at this point. One of the Alphas I’ve been serving regularly has said he is looking for a 24/7-slave, and I am seriously considering it. And while he is a cold, brutal and uncaring man, I would give everything up in a second for him. I no longer have any ambitions, hopes or dreams that does not involve me serving a real man. But at the end of the day no matter how much I’m tempted, I am afraid I might make a huge mistake throwing my life away for what might just be a fetish.

Hi brother! Thank you for writing! I know the out-of-control feeling you’re experiencing right now. I often refer to the early portion of my faggot journey as my “slut period” and it sounds like you might be starting your own “slut period” right now. It can be overwhelming. 
 
For me, a key was the start of being owned by a series of good Alphas who taught me a lot and trained me to be a better, more focused faggot. I learned to appreciate the quieter, more measured aspects of regular service and the steady hand of an owner. It’s like the difference between going to a brand new amusement park and being lost in it versus knowing an amusement park well and you’re able to maximize your enjoyment of the place with more efficiency. Or something like that. You’ll figure it out in time, I’m sure.
 
Just know this – faghood is not a fetish. It can be drug-like due to the endorphin rush service causes, but being a faggot is something we are born to need. You’re overwhelmed right now because you’ve finally found the right path, and you’re the proverbial “kid in a candy store” gobbling down everything in sight. Just know that everything you’re experiencing is perfectly natural and part of your initiation into your TRUE LIFE.

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I have been teaching students for 10+2 level and pre engineering exams,at a local institute, for last 3 years, so last week one student about 19 years came to me for studies, but he is dam sexy and muscular alpha , super handsome …so its about a week now ive been teaching him, but i am a faggot by nature , now please tell how do i start to worship this superior alpha? 
its really sad for me when he calls me sir , how do i tackle this …please help.

Teaching is a difficult profession for a faggot. You have this ethical line that is expected to separate the teacher and the student so that the situation is not abused for sexual purposes, but inevitably it happens from time to time. I do think the “faggot teacher/Alpha student” is a particularly potent one that can and should be exploited, however, due to the nature of Alphahood and the needs they have,
 
How you approach this entirely depends on your personal bravery and social skills. If it were me, the next time he called me “Sir” I would respectfully say, “Please don’t call me Sir. You are the Sir, not me. I serve you.” You are, of course, referencing the relationship of teacher and student, but using veiled, sexually-charged language that might spark the sexual imagination of the Alpha. 
 
You must find a way to do things like this with this Alpha, because those are openings an Alpha will easily exploit for his own ends. If an Alpha thinks letting his faggot teacher suck his dick will get him a better grade, you know for sure he will take that chance. By age 19 any true Alpha has already amassed years of being worshiped by inferiors, and they are much more cunning than we often realize. 
 
So try what I suggest above. Also, be submissive in your approach to him, smile a lot, and be genuinely complimentary. You might be surprised!

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Everytime an Asian dom sends a message, a robotic voice plays in my head for everything that is written in the chat. A buff Asian dom messaged and said some cliched alpha things straight out of your website (i swear :P) and then asked me to come and suck his dick. Usually i am not into asians but I thought of expanding my horizons and asked for his dick pic. He instantly sent a pic and guess what he has a peanut sized dick. It was so small and his ego was way too big. It was so hard not to laugh. So i told him politely that i am not into it. I am not a size queen but atleast be as long as your smallest finger. Have you had a small dicked guy that wanted you to serve and his dick put you off completely? 

I’ve never served a Man with a “peanut-sized dick” before, but I do love peanuts … 
 
I have served Alphas with average-sized dicks, and some of them were the best fucks I’ve ever had. I don’t really know what you *should* do in this situation, but I must tell you that I feel a twinge of sadness that this Man was rejected because of something he cannot change or prevent. Maybe he was overshooting by pretending to be something he isn’t (the bodybuilding might be compensation, and the parroting of things he reads in places like this site suggest a false persona), but I still feel bad for the guy. 
 
Ultimately, though, you need to be honest (which you were) so that you aren’t serving out of obligation instead of joy. 

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After a nice chat on grindr with a top, i reached his place to serve him. He asked me to get on my knees after undressing myself. I stripped down to my underwear and he saw my bulge and immediately knelt down in front of me and started sniffing my crotch. He pulled the underwear down and saw my huge cock. Don’t know what happened to him but he immediately switched and started sucking. So basically all the things I expected to do were being done by him. I didn’t mind as I don’t mind a good head. What bothered me however was his urge to sit on my cock. He literally started begging and lost all his self respect. I had enough of it and had to leave. He sent me a message later saying he would leak my nudes. Not that i am scared as he openly admitted to doing it, i am more concerned about his skewed mentality. What is your opinion on this behaviour and have you encountered this in your life where you were blackmailed just for refusing to do something or be someone you’re not, sam?

You did the right thing in leaving this guy’s place. I cannot stand males who pretend to be something that are not simply for the thrill of it. This guy is a size-queen faggot masquerading as a Man. That’s insulting to both faggots and Men. 

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Hi, I fucked my first chance to be a faggot. I was in touch with a master nearly 15 years older than me. We were planning on meeting but the timings never worked out. One night I pinged him and asked him if i could serve his cock. His response was that he was in a group sex party and i would have to serve all his friends too and be their faggot. I got intimidated by the idea because i have no prior experience of being a faggot. I am all about alphas that nurture their fags and train them mentally and emotionally. This alpha wanted me to throw in a ring with other sexually charged men on the very first date. I chickened out and next morning he sent me a message saying I disappointed him and that his friends were anticipating me. I had nothing much to say. When i said that i want an alpha who would train me first, he asked me to fuck off and blocked me. As a guy in early 20s and someone starting it, i felt a little depressed by the attitude. The feeling lingered for some time until i decided to move on with my assignments. My question is why do people see alpha- faggot dynamic to be only driven by pleasure. Why is the instant gratification and pleasure so important when there is a larger scheme of things in place as you elucidate in your posts and book? Am i being unreasonable here to be wanting to learn from an alpha before i indulge in being used his friends? 

Well, I’m sorry you had that bad experience, brother. You’re not wrong to want that, but this Alpha isn’t the right kind of Man for you now in your journey. There are all different types of Alphas out there … some are just sexual beasts, while others are more intellectual and introspective. You probably need the latter right now. Don’t worry, though – there are plenty of Alphas like that who have the patience and interest to train up faggots like you. Just don’t give up. Work on yourself and keep your focus while continuing your search. You’ll find him.

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hey brother. I’m a 21 year old faggot who’s been servicing this awesome god of a man for over two months now. 3 days ago he dropped a bombshell on me that he is HIV positive! He’s fucked me multiple times (with protection thank god!) and came in my mouth many many times! I know risk of transmission is relatively low with oral sex but my god I’m freaking out over here! I’m so pissed he didn’t tell me from the get go! he told me many faggots rejected him when he was upfront about it and I felt bad for him. He really is a hot gay alpha he deserves better! I can tell he feels bad about it. Anyway I got tested today and I’m waiting for the results. My question is, should I continue to serve him? 

I’m HORRIFIED that this happened to you! Like you said, your risk of transmission was very low (and virtually nonexistent if he’s been taking meds), but you have the right to know the truth before serving him. And the answer is NO you should not serve him anymore. Not because he’s HIV+, but because he deceived you. 

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Hey man, I find your blog incredibly hot. Thanks for taking the time to keep it so nice. Throughout the years I’ve sometimes wandered to your blog as I was jerking off or watching porn. One of your posts read something along the lines of ”if you’re jerking off to this website, you’re a faggot”, putting the question in my head whether I actually am. A little bit about me. I’m a student in my early twenties. I’m tall, athletic, not anything to brag about but people have recently been noticing I’ve been working out. You wouldn’t notice I am gay and people are often surprised when they find out. I was captain of my high school sports team, I’m in a frat, etc. I have ambitions and I’m very competitive. Thing is, I like to be very submissive in bed. My type definitely falls along the typical Alpha Male lines. I have a boyfriend, who is very much an Alpha. He’s in his late twenties, director of a company, very dominant but super sweet :). When we have sex he always takes control, which I love. We have been discussing having threesomes. He’s more into younger or smaller guys he can throw around and use since he says it’s hard for him to fuck and use me like he doesn’t care about me, which he says is something he wants/needs from time to time. My type is obviously more like him, something that he has struggled with a little but has recently admitted he’s started to find quite hot. As we were talking about sex one night I showed him your site. He found it all quite hot and said he thinks you have it right when it comes to human hierarchy. I then asked him whether he thinks I am a faggot, to which he replied no. But still the question lingers in my head. What do you think? Thanks in advance for taking the time x

Hi brother! Thanks for writing! I think you are his faggot in reality, but I think he’s shying away from using that term with his boyfriend (due to the whole love thing) because he doesn’t know that it’s okay to call you a faggot. I bet you were hoping he would call you a faggot (or better yet, HIS faggot), which is why the question persists. 
 
I love the transformation in your Alpha boyfriend you describe. I’ve seen this a lot. Too many Alphas are stifled by rules of proper conduct, but eventually Nature wins out. They must express that true power surging within them. Please tell him I’m very proud of him for taking hold of his Alphahood.
 
As for you, I think it might be interesting if you submitted to him in deeper ways. Like greeting him at the door by kneeling and kissing his feet. By calling him “Sir” more often. See where it can go.  

In a previous question you answered …why fags are super excited about the alpha foot worship … because of male hormonal scents in feet and socks ….but I being a fag gets super sexual excitement as soon as I see a handsome man in cool sneakers …and I dream of licking clean the sneakers with my tongue and also the sole of sneakers and wish to enjoy the taste of dirt on them…but there is no smell on sneakers as such so why do I feel so devoted to sneakers …and sexually exited about dirt on those worshipable shoes

Foot scent is just one of the reasons why faggots are drawn to feet or an Alpha’s shoes. Another reason is macrophilia, which is the desire to feel small or an attraction to feel tiny in comparison to giants. Still another is the feeling of worthlessness that comes from being a filthy faggot used to lick shoes clean. The faggot addiction to feet is very deep and profound and comes from a variety of places.

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Hello all, fellow fags and all Alphas. I just read the saga of Frat Fag, and the way Duke handled the end really upset me. Not sure if anyone knows this, but our brains aren’t fully developed until 25, and that is when we are adults. That’s why the target audience 18-24 cuts off at 24. The reason being, we are still kids until 25. The emotions we all experience during college and right up to 25 are intensely felt, and that age group has the highest suicide rate. I read with concern what FratFag expressed and his hurt. I hope he is oK now that it is 2021; and I wish I could tell him that Duke’s reaction and handling of the situation have NOTHING to do with FratFag, and everything to do with Duke’s issues, and clearly, Duke still has self work to do bc he was irresponsible in handling the aftercare (none at all). I keep reading in this site that fags are not men; inferior and just objects to serve alphas and that mindset is damaging to young fags who are experiencing self-doubt, confusion, and shame/guilt over this stereotype bc they aren’t old enough yet to understand that they provide HUGE value to our alphas. Nobody can respect or care about another if that person doesn’t respect or love himself. FratFag did what he felt was his wiring and also pleased those alphas who disregarded his self worth. I am a masc, natural leader in all I do, except for TRUE alphas, where I know I am theirs to use, and I serve them, but I don’t tell myself I’m worthless or not a man. FratFag is HOT and I hope he realizes he is valuable and lovable and he’s not weak or lesser as a male; he is secondary to all true alphas; we all are. We need to love ourselves for being that way, and be strong at being the best fags for your alphas. I’d give Frat Fag a huge hug and let him know he’s loved. Hopefully he chose to walk away from engaging with Duke; we don’t need to play victim. He should be proud he had to the balls to be sissified (HOT!), drink from the tap, and detach himself emotionally from the abusive alpha from HS and just give him his ass and mouth and enjoy it. You’re an inspiration to us, Ry/FratFag. You’re loved. Us older (over 25) fags need to look out for our younger brethren. I hope he is doing well. Hello to all Alphas and Sirs out there; I always laugh at the fake ones who claim they are yet us fags know they aren’t because they don’t trigger us at all. You real ones do; it hits like a tidal wave out of the blue one day, and it’s confusing yet we know we must submit fully….thanks for being the minority out there that I’ve been lucky enough to find more than. once.

I sent Frat Fag an email a month or so ago and didn’t receive a response. I miss him terribly. I do hope he’s okay. His bravery and skill inspired me immensely, especially given the overwhelming power of Duke. 
 
I thank you for writing me about him. I’m going to send him a link to this. Hopefully it will move him to reach out to his fans around the world who have thrilled to his exploits and example. 

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Hi Sam Just wanted to say that your website has inspired me to somewhat accept that I’m a faggot – I bought my first cock cage today … I’d been thinking about it for ages and today idk I think I just accepted its something I want to try and I won’t be able to get it out of my head until I try it  I haven’t got an alpha yet to hold the key (if that’s something I think i’m able for) but I was wondering if you had any advice on how to go about doing that ? Cheers!

A keyholder is nice, but not necessary. Since you’re new to chastity, it might not be a bad idea to train yourself incrementally until you find an Owner who can place you in it permanently and hold the key. Don’t let not having a keyholder stop you from reaching out for this goal, brother.

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my faggot is a melodramatic bitch. he thinks he’s my entire world like i should be thankful to get to fuck him when it should be the other way around. how do i handle this bitch? will cock denial work? 

Thank you so much for writing, Master! I’m sorry you’re dealing with this issue, which should NEVER be an issue if all faggots accepted their true place.
 
Faggots are difficult to properly punish, however, because they get off on so many varieties of pain and torture. Using these methods only exacerbates the problem, as it causes the faggot to disobey on purpose so that it can be punished again.
 
Fortunately, I have the perfect solution for the problem, Master, but it just depends on how far you’re willing to go to make your point with this faggot. I call it “The Nuclear Option.” It’s designed to play on a faggot’s darkest fears and force it to accept reality.
 
It goes like this: tie the faggot down into a chair and put a ball gag in its mouth. Make it think you’re going to do something kinky with it. Once it’s secured, bring over another faggot and use that second faggot right in front of the current faggot. Do whatever you need to do to be satisfied, then dismiss the second faggot. Then go to your current faggot, spit in its face, and remind it that it can be replaced in a heartbeat. Underscore that it will obey without question or it will be dismissed and replaced. Then untie it and dismiss it.
 
I had a straight Alpha do a version of this with me when I fell in love with him and was out of control, and it was crushing. A faggot never forgets a lesson like this. If nothing else, using the Nuclear Option will reassert your Alphahood, something this faggot is attempting to usurp with its disobedience. 
 
I hope this helps, Master! Let me know how it goes!

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Hi, 
So over 10 years ago at the age of 16, I lost my virginity to an Alpha who was 18 at the time and much more experienced. I had already known that I was born to be submissive, but after having sex with him I had no doubts. His dominant and aggressive masculinity brought out my highest form of femininity and made me feel so at home with myself. So about two weeks later we met up again and because I was still so young and inexperienced, there was a lot that I didn’t know about sex. I trusted him the first time and it went well so naturally I just expected for the second time to be the same. Well, he didn’t have lube and I was still very tight. So he just went inside of me and I started feeling very sharp pains. They grew increasingly painful with every stroke until I finally had to tell him to stop. He wouldn’t stop. He kept going and the more he went, the more excruciating it felt. I started screaming and he wouldn’t stop. In fact, I could tell there was a part of him that enjoyed my fight. After so long I just laid there quietly staring into space, accepting the fact that I was basically being raped. I was bleeding and had a hemorrhoid afterwards. But I was never angry at him. Until this day I feel like my body belongs to an Alpha man. I was made to serve. I feel like he as an Alpha male had the right to take what he wanted. And it makes me feel so feminine just thinking about the fact that a man had his way with me against my will. I don’t believe he should’ve stopped. I was already serving him. Had he stopped he wouldn’t have been pleased & I would’ve felt worthless. Am I wrong for the way I feel?

Brother, thank you for writing! First of all, just know this – you are not alone in feeling the way you do. I feel the same way about my rape these days, as do many other rape victims. It’s all part of a natural way we reason through our traumatic experiences. You are not wrong to feel the way you do about your violation. You are simply assimilating it into the rest of your existence.
 
Faggots are largely left out of field studies of rape victims because faggots aren’t recognized by current psychologists as a clinical subgroup. I do think faggots represent a unique challenge to accepted views on rape primarily because, as you mention, we are born with a need to be used by Men in ways similar to rape. In fact, the line between rough use and rape is so blurred between Men and faggots that they are virtually indistinguishable.
 
You seem like a thoughtful and intelligent faggot, my brother. I’m sure you’ve come away from your rape the same way I did, with a deeper respect for the power of Men and an inner strength forged in the fire of violent tribulation. You’re going to be alright, I think. Just know that you are not alone and you are definitely not wrong in feeling the things you do.    

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Sam, I messed up! I was mad and made a very bad decision. Sir was not giving me any attention lately, basically locked my clit in a silicone cage and left for 4 weeks with little communication, I was very unhappy and feeling lonely. When we finally met again he was being very rude to me and disrespectful, I was not in a good place mentally from his shitty treatment. He was fucking me I wanted to make him mad, idk why i wanted to make him mad but i did, maybe just looking to get a rise out of him? Anyways, I was able to maneuver the cage where my clit came out and I masturbated while he was fucking my pussy and not paying attention to me. I completely stopped focusing on my pussy while his eyes were shut and blew my load like a boy does. His eyes opened right when I came and he was instantly full of rage, I could see how disgusted he was that I was hard. It felt good in the moment to see him upset, but now he isn’t speaking to me and I’m scared I messed up! He is straight and he said he never wanted to see my dick hard, it was always a caged clit. I knew it would make him angry, but I never imagined this fallout. What can I do? Is it too late? 

Here’s my advice to all faggots who are serving straight Alphas: DO NOT DISOBEY THEM. You need to understand that a straight Alpha can go fuck a chick at any moment. You are not only in competition with other faggots, but also all of the women on the planet, too!
 
Here’s another piece of advice for faggots: your asshole isn’t some magic wonderland full of Skittles and unicorn kisses and lamp genies granting endless wishes, okay? It’s a hole in your butt that Men use to get off and out of which you occasionally shit. SO KEEP PERSPECTIVE, HUMBLE YOURSELF, AND SERVE!
 
To answer your question, yes he’s probably gone. Lesson (hopefully) learned.

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hey sam, I’m the one who was raped by the three men. thanks for your response, it comforts me to know other people share similar emotions about their experiences. So I haven’t heard from my alpha since it happened but last night he called me saying he was sorry about what happened and wants me to continue to serve him. should I? I was ready to move on and serve other men in the future. I really didn’t expect to hear from him ever again but his attitude is so laid back like he didn’t do anything worth feeling bad about. I swear alpha males have totally different brains, they just think different. 

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION about a faggot who was raped by three Alphas.
 
Why do you think he feels like he did nothing wrong if he apologized to you about what happened? That makes no sense on your part, brother. Clearly he’s sorry about it.
 
Whether you go back into service for him is your own decision. I can think of reasons both “pro” and “con” on the issue. Your main concern, however, needs to be about your own safety. 

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Hey there!
I’ve recently discovered your blog and I’m already a big fan! Loads of material and resources that make me realise I’m not “alone” with my way of thinking… you could even call your blog the faggot bible haha!
So I am wondering in what category of the hierarchy I would fit in.
I’ve recently became single, after a relationship for 4 years. My ex wasn’t into anal sex, so I’m quite discovering what I like and don’t like. I had a few anal experiences before we started a relationship so I’m not a virgin at all.
I’ve always though I was a bottom, as I figured myself being a but submissive. After the break up, I bought some anal toys and went exploring on myself. I liked it when I was performing in myself, so I tried to bottom a few times on a hookup even though I was super tight. I loved it when I was really dominated, but I really did not enjoy it when it was all vanilla…
Fast forward a few months. I met some cute little twinks. And damn did I love dominating them and really manhandle those boys. I’ve started working out as well after the break up so I’m quite a muscular boy. That combines with some chest hair makes the twins to go in awe and really worship me – I liked this waaaay more than being dominated myself, so I think I’m more towards an alpha than sub? As long as there’s authority play involved..
I don’t like giving head at all. I’m very thick down below as well (medium size length) so the bottoms are struggling taking me (or I’m struggling to top) but once I’m in, I love to go to town and pound and choke… yet I do want them to feel comfortable. I recently bred a regular twink for the first time and god it felt like heaven!! Although rape is a major kink, I don’t think I would have it in me to really destroy a fag like that (even though I really want to – reservations in the mindset?). I do wanna get bigger so I can manhandle those boys even better. I don’t know in what category I would fall – I’m all exploring myself so any thoughts would be much appreciated!
Best wishes BShredz95

Sir, thank you for writing! 
 
I have documented many cases like yours featuring Alphas who only discovered their Alphahood after thinking they were supposed to be submissive or a bottom. Many times they felt that way due to early childhood trauma (like abuse) or other conflicting information. 
 
Through a sort of “process of elimination” they were able to discover that they are, in actuality, an Alpha. When discovered, their path typically follows one of two possibilities: 

1. They reject the idea of Alphahood as a title they are not worthy of carrying
2. They have an “a-ha” moment of clarity and embrace their Alphahood with focused enthusiasm.

It sounds like you are on the cusp of possibility #2, Sir, and I’m excited for you. If you accept this commission, a lifetime of worship and service awaits you!

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I’m obsessed with big manly stinking burps from an alpha. I love when they are loud proud and cocky about, I even enjoy the stink. I’m I the only one? 

You’re definitely not the only one, but I don’t happen to be part of that crowd.

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Hey Sam, After a while of reading and following your blog, I have begun to chat with an Alpha in my town. Ive got all sorts of emotions and excitement. Your blog has really helped me! What would you tell a first time fag to get over their fears and embrace the service? 

Congratulations on this new service opportunity! Exciting!
 
One of the best tricks I’ve ever learned to overcome fear when submitting to a new Alpha is to truly surrender to him. Essentially, when you meet him the first time, kneel and kiss his feet and essentially supplicate him for mercy (in a sense). Truly become a weaker vessel for his use and control. This act has the effect of touching the Alpha’s heart and helping him understand that you look to him for guidance rather than relying on your own knowledge. I hope I’m explaining this adequately.
 
The foot kiss greeting is one of my go-to tricks that almost never fails. Alphas love that because it shows instant honor and respect, and the act is so submissive that it immediately triggers their dominant instinct. It will also relax you as it causes you to feel comfortable in your proper role in his presence. I liken it to being a musician going out in front of a live audience … they’re nervous until they start playing the first notes of a song, and then the nerves disappear. 
 
Just don’t fret too much, brother. This is what you were born to do. Your brain and body will respond accordingly if you allow yourself the chance to experience it! GO FOR IT!

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I’m 70, married, now retired. I’ve sucked cocks off and on for 40 years.  I even serviced, one fellow, on demand for 7 years, until be died.  Now that he is gone (3 years ago) I find my self more interested in sucking cocks than ever, but not just anyone.  I’ve come to realized that I want that “relationship” gig like I had before.  One on one, with him controlling.  Clearly my prior feeder turned me into his personal  faggot and I didn’t realize it or did I choose to be a faggot.. Can i choose to be a faggot and still have some control over who and what I do?  How do I find that alpha? 

It’s great to meet you, brother! I love older cocksuckers who have used their lives (and throats) in service to Men! I’m proud of you for keeping your focus on your life’s purpose even now! 
 
Yes, your previous Alpha definitely viewed you as his personal faggot cocksucker. The fact that you have this hunger to return to that type of situation speaks to the fundamental truth of that situation, and how it fulfills something within true faggots. It’s our true purpose, after all!
 
I would get on apps like Grindr or Tinder and advertise yourself as an on-call cocksucker. Being retired helps you advertise yourself as a mouth that can be available whenever there is a need. True Alphas don’t see age when it comes to cocksuckers, they only want service and worship. You can be useful again!

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I am also straight and totally agree with what that dude said about fucking or raping a faggot. It’s so primal that feels natural to take an inferior piece of shit by force. It makes you feel so much of a real Man that it can’t be false. I totally embrace my dark side and enjoy being worshipped. Because let’s face it. You faggots love to be taken by force and when we return, you are already on your knees ready to worship every aspect of our superior masculinity.

Thank you for writing, Sir. Yes, I believe you are right about rape and faggots. It’s a very complex issue, and those special circumstances push it outside the realm of the average definition of rape. 

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how dose it taste to have an alpha piss in your mouth, and force you to swallow it

Well, piss varies in taste from guy to guy and even hour by hour depending on a variety of factors. Sometimes it can be very strong (like in the mornings), but most of the time a well-hydrated Man’s piss has little taste to it. The more important issue is swallowing fast enough to get all of it down as he pours it into your mouth. That’s a trick!

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Hi Sir….
my whole life I have felt that something is missing….I feel I was born to be owned as a possession by a man. 
I want to disappear from my life and serve a man in and out of bed …cook ..clean…collared …caged…
is this unhealthy to want to disappear from everyone I know? Is this even something I can find ? I am sure I am not the only person to feel this way…
thanks so much, boy in Vallarta 

Hello boy in Vallarta! Yes, this is very much a situation you can find. There are plenty of faggots living as owned possessions of Men (examples on this site include Masters Nick, Matt, and Jin owning live-in faggots) and also faggots serving as actual slaves to Men (look at the example of slave Tim on this site). The key to success is to become a faggot a Man would want to own. Develop your body and your mind for service. Hone your skills. Be very submissive and polite. Men will want to own you for sure.

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Sam, I’m a small boy and most men have labeled me a faggot without giving me a chance. I have a small body frame, 5 foot 4 inches and 135 lbs with no body hair to speak of and 19 years old. I have a small dick, about 4 inches hard, and I’m almost always forced to be a bottom when I have sex. Nobody ever lets me top and I feel like I’m being trained to be a faggot. I don’t mind bottoming, but my dick stays soft the entire time and when I cum from rubbing it, it feels strange as my p-spot is touched by a dick. A guy asked to watch me fuck and I demonstrated my ability with another guy in front of him, but he laughed at me because I have a very weak cum stream, I just dribble clear juice and twitch. This doesn’t define me does it? Why does nobody take me serious to be an alpha top? I don’t want to be a faggot! He mentioned caging my dick, but that’s never going to happen!

Okay, here’s a hard dose of reality: you are not an Alpha Top. And I’m not defining you by your physical attributes (which scream “faggot”), but by your acceptance of the grooming by these Alphas. You’ve repeatedly submitted to them. No true Alpha would accept that. 
 
And you claim that nobody will give you a chance to prove yourself, but in fact you were allowed to perform as a Top, and you failed. Doesn’t that tell you something? 
 
Look, I have a lot of dreams in my life, and most of them will never come true because I wasn’t born with the looks of a fashion model or the voice of Shawn Mendes or the circumstances of a Kardashian. There are people born without legs who would love to run or people born deaf who would love to hear music, but Nature didn’t allow that future for them. 
 
Bitterly fighting against the will of Nature causes us to live unhappy and frustrated lives. 
 
Now, I’m not saying you’re a faggot. Maybe you’re just a bottom. There’s nothing wrong with either of those eventualities. But what IS wrong is your fight to be something you’re clearly not. You need to accept reality and embrace what Nature intended for you, I think. 

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I’m straight, I have a girlfriend for 5 years now, but I have to admit that I have an urge to rape fags and take what I want by force. There’s nothing better than the feeling of power and superiority that grows inside of me when I fuck a faggot against his will, when I make him bow down to me as an inferior piece of shit, when my grunts in deep voice diminishes his masculinity, when my manhood impregnates his mangina. Knowing that, do you think I need to tell my girl I have those feelings for fags or maybe break-up with her in order to protect her from this dark side of me?

Thank you for this, Sir. I appreciate your honesty!
 
Men don’t like to admit that they have these powerful urges within them, especially not “woke” Men with PC sensibilities who wag their fingers disapprovingly at the mere suggestion.
 
FACT: Most (if not all) dominant Men have urges to rape. It is perfectly natural.
 
ANOTHER FACT: In Hierarchical terms, rape is an effective tool that Men use to enforce Hierarchical status between them. 
 
Is it a clean, healthy expression of Male power? Probably not. It’s destructive, sometimes permanently harmful, and wrong in a traditional, polite-society sense. I’m purposely omitting the legal ramifications of rape because I don’t believe faggot rape should fall under the same legal definition.
 
In your case (and many other Men) faggot rape is relieving certain primal urges in you. It’s putting you in touch with the animal part of yourself, the part that drives you to hunt, conquer, and breed relentlessly. However, you seem to have a perspective on it that I haven’t heard before, Sir. You have an honest assessment of your needs and a desire to find harmony between your feelings. I admire that, Sir.
 
To answer you directly, no, I don’t think you should tell your girlfriend about your love of raping faggots. The BEST you can hope for in that scenario is that she breaks up with you and disappears. 
 
Break up with her and then hunt and breed at will without any of the fear of being discovered by a significant other, Sir. I honestly feel that Alphas should be free of committed relationships if possible for this reason. 
 
I hope this answers your question effectively, Sir! 

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As you have (for a while now) explained the psychological changes a fag goes through when he/she/it is serving an alpha, I’ve finally come to a proper question to ask:
Can a faggot truly become a femboy when he/she/it embraces hierarchical position and concedes to his alpha the little amount of masculinity they have left? 

It just seems that way to me. As fags, bodies begin to change in particular ways: Ass becomes a perfectly shaped boypussy. Hips get bigger. Emotions flourish right after sex as well as affective needs. Nips get hard as women tits. Thirst and hunger become a desire to choke and drool with cocks. Lastly, our sexual organs change appearance (penis gets irrelevant and it’s more accurate described as a clit, balls become boy ovaries and boypussies become way more sensitive). 

It reminds me a fags place in the hierarchy. But beyond that, it resembles true natural order. Adaptation represents itself in acceptance, not only psychological but involuntary anatomical acceptance.
How accurate are these thoughts? Definitely erotic enough to keep spreading the word. 

Faggots absolutely change emotionally and physically through use by Alphas. There’s no question about that. As you correctly state, Nature learns to adapt to circumstances in order to better suit them. 

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hello brother. i understand you are a rape survivor. I’m a 29 year old faggot who enjoys one on one service. i usually meet alphas and straights some one night stands some regularly but always one on one never in groups. so last week i decided to have my first service session since the pandemic hit. i was to meet this 30 something fit guy who is clearly an alpha male. when i got to his place he immediately asked me to suck his dick which I gladly did then two of his buddies showed up who took turns fucking me (they didn’t like talk to me or anything they just went for it) i really wasn’t planning on getting fucked that day let alone by two guys but they were so dominant i just froze i was really confused they just took charge. after they were done they zipped up and left then the original guy the one I had an arrangement with and sucked his dick earlier now he wants to fuck me too I said no I’m too tired and my hole is sore and that i wasn’t planning on serving more than one guy then he got all aggressive and verbally abusive he literally fucked me on the floor and my god it really felt like rape but for some odd reason i just froze i didn’t know how to process this. anyway after he was done he told me to leave so i left. i stayed in my car for like an house so confused about what happened trying to process all of this. here’s the problem, when it happened and immediately after it happened, i was certain it was rape. a couple of nights later I’m jerking off to the experience. my god i really hated myself for thinking what happened was hot. i guess the whole thing left me conflicted. i didn’t plan this. i didn’t have a say in this and now it’s a hot memory? what the fuck is wrong with me? i’d appreciate some advice brother. I’m deep in self loathing right now 

You do NOT need to feel badly about being turned on by the experience you had with those three Alphas. Your reaction is VERY common and seemingly quite natural. I have had similar reactions to my rape, and many other faggots and females experience it as well. It’s part of a larger umbrella of side effects from rape called Rape Trauma Syndrome. 
 
So I guess you can see where I’m going with this. Yes, brother, they raped you. All three raped you, but the responsibility for the rape falls on the Alpha who invited you over. 
 
But here’s something most doctors and clinical psychologists will not admit – there is a difference between the way a faggot processes a rape than the way a female does. For women, rape is a violation that scars them and destroys their self-esteem. But for a faggot, the experience can become fulfilling and even exciting.
 
Unlike females, faggots generally don’t have self-esteem. We are born with an instinct to be cum holes for Men, to serve the needs of Men, and to find purpose in that service. The act of rape becomes a collision between action and purpose in a faggot’s life, and it can cause all sorts of collateral emotional damage. 
 
But underneath that there is a nagging fulfillment of purpose that excites us. Being taken roughly and aggressively by Men is something of a goal for any true faggot, so rape isn’t as much of a stretch for us. That’s why I’ve written multiple articles attempting to decode my own post-rape feelings. It’s also why I’ve stated that the raping of faggots is, on some Hierarchical level, a necessary tool in the subjugation and ownership of faggots. And yes, I know how bad that sounds … but it’s the truth, no matter how ugly it might be.
 
I’m very proud of the way you are handling this, brother. You are much further in the process than I was at the same stage. If I can survive it (and come out stronger, I might add), then you can, too!   

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Dear Sam,
I have been reading your blog for some time now and have found it to be something of an inspiration!  Many Thanks!
I have however a question; a slave of mine recently said to me that he had fallen in love and would like to make the relationship more than servicd.  I made it clear to him at the beginning that I was not looking for a relationship, but he has continued to drop hints.  It seems cruel to continue to use him as a slave, which he is happy to do so, in the situation.  Do you have any suggestions?  I don’t want to get rid of him.  He is a good slave.

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me!
 
I guess there is an inevitability to this situation. I warn faggots not to fall in love with their Alphas, but controlling the human heart is not an easy thing. After all, you breed the faggot, and your cum makes the faggot yearn for you. Really, everything about you as a Man is designed to intoxicate and hypnotize submissives – your cum, your scent, your power, your voice …. all of it is overwhelming and can break through any defenses the faggot might try to build around itself to keep from falling in love with you. 
 
So the faggot is in love with you – can it continue to serve while understanding that this is purely a service relationship? If so, then honestly you have nothing else to consider, Sir. You deserve to have it your way and you deserve to get what you want from it. So as long as the faggot can control its expectations and pine for you in silence, then I wouldn’t worry about it. 
 
But I will say this – if the faggot gets out of line or stalkery, you need to cut it off immediately. Once that starts happening there is no good ending. You have too many other faggots you could use to put up with behavior like that, Sir.
 
I hope that helps! Thanks again, Sir!

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I dominated my ex-alpha Tim together with my master Joe. I was hooded and Tim couldn’t see that i was degrading him with Master Joe. It was a satisfying experience because Tim never told me that he was also a faggot. I devoted a serious part of my life submitting to him while he was worshipping my master Joe . I never felt so humiliated in my life. To degrade him, see him beg for dicks and pissing all over his so called alpha face made me feel so much better. Sam, you’re right about muscled submissive bottoms disguised as alpha for some. They simple ruin it for actual faggots. What’s your take?

My take is I’m glad you were able to have this measure of “revenge” on a game-playing faggot. I really get disgusted by faggots who (I guess) feel jealous of the power of Alphas and fake their own Alphahood in order to experience that power themselves. Actions like this disrespect and insult Hierarchy.
 
My message to everyone is simple: JUST BE YOURSELF. Express your true nature and become what Nature intended for you. 
 
Your situation is one of the reasons why I’m so dismissive of the idea of “switches” in the Hierarchical structure. The honesty of people like you is taken advantage of in a sense by selfish people like this faggot. Switches are nothing more than indecisive liars to a degree, and I can’t stomach it beyond an experimental stage.
 
So again, I’m very glad you got a chance to strike back against this charlatan!  

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